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  1. 12-13-2006, 01:31 PM #1
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    Still Having Troubles With GF...

    Well, Ionno what's going to happen... I'm really scared because I love her so much and we've been together for a long time... Basically this is what I get out of her explanation. She loves me, she's in love with me, and she always will love me. She sees her friend moving away to go to school, and thinks, "Wow, that's pretty cool, I wish I could get away."
    She's going to school at night (which she hates), she's working a lot for not a lot of money (which she also hates) and doesn't have a lot of free time. She says she doesn't have a lot of time for a relationship, but loves me to death and doesn't know what to do.
    She basically said she wished if she could put me on pause. She says she hates the way she feels and hopes it will pass as well. She also says she sees marrying me in the future and doesn't want to see other people at all.
    She's just really confused and so am I. I thought we were so perfect together and everything... ugh... What a great birthday present eh? What do you guys think?
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    Come on guys, I'm depressed and I need some replies!
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    Oh and another thing, we plan on going to the mountains for four days with my family in a couple weeks and she's excited and still wants to "do it" when we are up there. Which adds even more to the confusion...
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    Well it sounds like her mind is pretty much made up, she wants to still have sex with you, but also take a "break". That will be really hard for you especially if you don't want to take a break and want to stay in a committed relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by prncezzml
    Well it sounds like her mind is pretty much made up, she wants to still have sex with you, but also take a "break". That will be really hard for you especially if you don't want to take a break and want to stay in a committed relationship.
    agree...but since its hard to asses a relationship with such lil info, if she really is confused and wants to do the college scene then its best u let her do it...cant hold her down cause it will only end in bs drama..
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    Dude, do you have any idea how hard it is to work and go to school and have a relationship? It aint easy I tell you that. Just give her some space, but at the same time let her know you are there for her.
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    She pretty much knows it over. But she doesnt want to hurt either one of you. Your better off just ending whats over then dragging it out. It only makes it harder.
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    Well, if it does end, remind me to please slit my wrists and hang myself because I am one depressed bastard...
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    Quote Originally Posted by LawMan018
    Well, if it does end, remind me to please slit my wrists and hang myself because I am one depressed bastard...
    Damn dude,

    If you feel that strongly about her, just swap her birth control with sugar pills, and get her knocked up. From what you describe she doesn't want to leave you anymore than you want to leave her. Maybe you should do something out of the ordinary, send her some flowers to her job or something, let her know you still love her. Drop the emo crap, and reach down and grab a hold. Your a man, be strong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LawMan018
    Well, if it does end, remind me to please slit my wrists and hang myself because I am one depressed bastard...
    Trust me bro no girl is worth it. I know its hard. I just broke up with my fiance. I was marring her. I thought i never find anyone as good or pretty. It took less then 2 months and i found a hot really cool girl. Your young trust me you will go through this many times
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    god damn...everytime i read a thread like this i get nervous of when my relationship is goin to end...everything is perfect but it will come to an end sometime...
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    Quote Originally Posted by lucabratzi
    god damn...everytime i read a thread like this i get nervous of when my relationship is goin to end...everything is perfect but it will come to an end sometime...
    Not if you kidnap her and lock her up in the basement
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1
    Not if you kidnap her and lock her up in the basement
    yeah thats true...then u can finally trust her to not cheat..
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    I'm not really going to kill myself, it's a stupid selfish thing to do, I'm just saying I'd probably feel like it if she ever did leave me. Send her flowers at work, that's a good idea, but ionno if her work will let that happen... Hm...
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    So... give her space. Act like u dont care.. but u do at the same time. and be confident in yourself!!! u sound like a puss bag. go out with some buddies and chill. u dont need to think girl girl girl alll the time. do some activities to make YOU happy.

    Or grow some nuts tell her how u feel. if she doesnt agree throw her to the curb.
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    Lol, I'm not a puss bag, I'm irish, we are very emotional ... My emotions are just very powerful and I'm not afraid to cry, or anything... I have told her how I felt and we've cried talking about it together, lol. I just hope it's a phase she's going through because I know we love and care for each other very much...
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    Quote Originally Posted by LawMan018
    Lol, I'm not a puss bag, I'm irish, we are very emotional ... My emotions are just very powerful and I'm not afraid to cry, or anything... I have told her how I felt and we've cried talking about it together, lol. I just hope it's a phase she's going through because I know we love and care for each other very much...
    Good to hear from a guy for once!
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