Oh goodness......someone calm me down.. pathetic I know

**needmorestrength** · 02-14-2007, 11:18 PM

Ok, so been about 4 months since me n the ex... I am going on my first date, or as shwith a girl I actually like... I met her at a bar near school before christmas, and have been talking online since then, hung out last weekend, and tomorrow we're doing dinner........ Honestly I have no game... I am nervous as crap, even when we're talkin on msn, I kinda get nervous... wtf is wrong with me?

**RuhlFreak55** · 02-14-2007, 11:19 PM

hmmmm....i'm gonna have to say you're like me.......and as such i can't help.....

**needmorestrength** · 02-14-2007, 11:53 PM

Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55

hmmmm....i'm gonna have to say you're like me.......and as such i can't help.....

LOL well... thanks I guess lol

**mavsluva** · 02-14-2007, 11:55 PM

You're more worried about meeting her expectations than you are about being yourself.

**needmorestrength** · 02-14-2007, 11:56 PM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

You're more worried about meeting her expectations than you are about being yourself.

Yea your prob right... shes just soo different.. upfront, honest, never know how to take her... shes the female version of me... and sexy lol

**KAEW44** · 02-14-2007, 11:58 PM

Eat about 3 platefulls of broccoli a few hours before and drink a litre bottle of coke and as soon as you see her let a massive one rip right there infront of her, if she laughs then there is nothing more embarassing that what you just did so everything else will be easy and relaxed for you.

However if she gets grossed out and leaves....then it was never meant to be!

**mavsluva** · 02-15-2007, 12:00 AM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

Yea your prob right... shes just soo different.. upfront, honest, never know how to take her... shes the female version of me... and sexy lol

Remember this at all times: Bad girls will find your weaknesses and exploit them, where good girls will find your weaknesses and love you for them.

Good luck!

**notorious_mem** · 02-15-2007, 12:01 AM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

Remember this at all times: Bad girls will find your weaknesses and exploit them, where good girls will find your weaknesses and love you for them.

Good luck!

nicely said

**needmorestrength** · 02-15-2007, 12:10 AM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

Remember this at all times: Bad girls will find your weaknesses and exploit them, where good girls will find your weaknesses and love you for them.

Good luck!

wow... that was so profound..... honestly... you rock bro!!!!!!

**T3/T4 GSR** · 02-15-2007, 12:11 AM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

Remember this at all times: Bad girls will find your weaknesses and exploit them, where good girls will find your weaknesses and love you for them.

Good luck!

Gotta agree with this one

**x_moe** · 02-15-2007, 12:40 AM

just try not to be nervous around her or she might think your not confident enough about yourself and girls dont like that

**odix** · 02-15-2007, 02:36 AM

so your going to be banging the female version of yourself ? lol..call me immature, i know.

**odix** · 02-15-2007, 02:40 AM

You really like her thats why your nervous...so what ? When your talking to her act like you have already had sex with her, but don't be a dick/asshole and cocky. Confident and calm.

**chest6** · 02-15-2007, 02:40 AM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

Remember this at all times: Bad girls will find your weaknesses and exploit them, where good girls will find your weaknesses and love you for them.

Good luck!

wow. That is so...awesome.

You're such a great asset to this board.

That is so true. I have had many "bad girl" girlfriends and one or two "good girl" girlfriends. Stupid me stuck with the bad one got rid of the good ones. I always look bad and kick myself for that.

**Mizfit** · 02-15-2007, 04:06 AM

face to face contact is different from over msn - bodyt language, facial movements, all your actions are more defined and put in the position of screwtiny(sp?)

Behind a monitor all this time you feel some sense of security.. maybe face to face you will be put in a postion where you are more vulnerable and get nervous about that.

Mavsluva point about bad and good girls was awesome - my boyfriend might not be wonderful to everyone, but in my eyes he is wonderful to me

. When you clic with someone u see past any faults that may be in existence - sometimes this takes time.

**needmorestrength** · 02-15-2007, 04:43 PM

Thanks everyone.... I figured out how to overcome my nervousness and get in my confident state.......
A few drinks before I go LOL

**spywizard** · 02-15-2007, 04:56 PM

"our baby is growing up"

jk

have fun man..

**needmorestrength** · 02-15-2007, 04:58 PM

Originally Posted by spywizard

"our baby is growing up"

jk

have fun man..

hahahah

lol....wanna text me some tips lol

**notorious_mem** · 02-15-2007, 05:08 PM

u can do it.

**K.Biz** · 02-15-2007, 05:49 PM

I say.... hurl. If you blow chunks and she comes back, she's yours. But if you spew and she bolts, then it was never meant to be.

**Schmidty** · 02-15-2007, 08:03 PM

Just get a few drinks in you to loosen you up before you see her

**dhriscerr** · 02-15-2007, 08:38 PM

Work up the confidence you need, like working it up in your head before you max out.

Mavsluva is a very pure person, Kind of makes me feel like I am a piece of crap when I read his postings, they are very good and thoughtful though.

**mavsluva** · 02-16-2007, 12:27 PM

Hey NMS: How about an update for the aduience?

**Pooks** · 02-16-2007, 12:32 PM

I think your nervousness is actually more "excitement" except u're reading it wrong..

U're excited and excited is good, cause excited means lots of energy, and energy is good for dates.

so drink a cup of coffee before your date, so u just yap away and are able to concetrate on what she is saying.,.

ALTERNATIVE1....take her to a movie maybe after dinner, so at the movie u can kinda chill down a bit n relax, than u drop her off at her home, and its a great first date..

ALTERNATIVE2.. get her wasted after the movie, take her home, n have sex hehe lol

**energizer bunny** · 02-16-2007, 01:46 PM

Originally Posted by mavsluva

Remember this at all times: Bad girls will find your weaknesses and exploit them, where good girls will find your weaknesses and love you for them.

Good luck!

thats good mate, i liked that!!!

**energizer bunny** · 02-16-2007, 01:49 PM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

Ok, so been about 4 months since me n the ex... I am going on my first date, or as shwith a girl I actually like... I met her at a bar near school before christmas, and have been talking online since then, hung out last weekend, and tomorrow we're doing dinner........ Honestly I have no game... I am nervous as crap, even when we're talkin on msn, I kinda get nervous... wtf is wrong with me?

im the same mate, even though i come across as confident im realy a big baby!

youl be fine let us no how it went, good luk.

**energizer bunny** · 02-16-2007, 01:50 PM

Originally Posted by notorious_mem

u can do it.

**boostedevo8** · 02-16-2007, 02:15 PM

make sure you jerk one right before the date....that always helps in relaxing...lol

and if things get going atleast you dont go in with a loaded gun!!!