So my friend has this MILF........

[AnabolicBoy1981]

...and hes been with this stupid girl for like FIVE YEARS. When he first got the milf it was like "Wow, cool dude, YER the man!" ...and then when he taped them having sex i was lik "YER MY HERO!" But this "thing" they have has been dragging on for 5 freakin years almost and its retarded. The have tried breakin up but cuz they work together they get right back together. Shes 38 now and hes 24. Everyonce in awhile I say "So what the heck are you still doin with her?" or "so whens the wedding?", and he gives me this look like "wtf u think u can have an opinion on my life for", i know hes thinkin that. and tells me to that "hes happy right now". So i only bring it up once in a while, but its about time to bring it up again and im gonna ****in set him straight. I have let this go way to long and i have decided i dont care if this causes a confliction between him and me, heres gonna hear it from me. He is 24, he should be runnin around with a different young girl every month, with and occasional milf in between. This is crazy.
yer thoughts?

[Superhuman]

I think that he should do what HE feels is right. If they want to be together, then let them be together. This whole idea of ****in around and sleeping with as many girls as you can is relatively new within the last quarter century as this world is going to hell. Monogamy is a good thing

[armbar83]

dude honestly, if hes happy let him be. he's probably having better sex than you will until you sleep with a 35 year old woman. your not his mom man, let him be. if its something that is going to cause him physical harm or something i think interjecting is cool, but bitching at him for who he has sex with is kind of weird...

[gixxerboy1]

if he is happy who cares about the age difference

[Vegas1973]

five years seems a long time, maybe they are both misserably happy?

[KeyMastur]

let them be, and show me the video

[Kale]

If I was him I would be telling you to mind your own freaking business. What right do you have to tell him who he should be seeing... oh let me think..... NONE !!!!!

[kuad]

can we see the video?

[anaBROLIC]

you are just being jealous. you dont want him with her because you want him to hang out more with you and your friends.. it happends.. let him be happy.

[JAYROD]

he's gonna do what he wants and it's not worth bringing conflict in your friendship for that reason. i prefer older women myself and nobody would be able to change what i'm attracted to by giving me shit about it.

[SMAN12b]

[Kale]

he's gonna do what he wants and it's not worth bringing conflict in your friendship for that reason. i prefer older women myself and nobody would be able to change what i'm attracted to by giving me shit about it.

I am almost 52 and I am definitely NOT attracted to older women My Avi is 26, thats more my style now

[numbat]

Damn i wish i had a MILF....

[Xtralarg]

Everyone loves a MILF!!

[QuieTSToRM33]

did someone say MILF ?

[JC.1987]

can we see the video?

agreed.
i dont think we cant give proper advice because our judgement is clouded because we have not seen the video. ..

[chest6]

I'll give you advice...

but only after you show me the video

[AnabolicBoy1981]

bros, i am not jealous and got NOTHIN against MILFS. MILFS are great and a wonderful, fun experinace for a younger guy. But What girl is worth spending 5 years with if you know you aint gettin married? Im not jealous of her takin up his time, she really doesnt take up that much. I am concerned that if he hasnt broken up with her in 5 years, he wont be in another 5. And then he'll be bumbed cuz he used up a decade of his younger years with a chick he cant possibly marry, and breakin off a 10 year thing will hurt worse than a 5 year thing. Hes settin himself up for emotional upset later.
And i didnt mean rreally a different girl every month. But a different chick every 3-6 months is acceptable i think for a young guy. But if you know you aint gettin married to a chick, why spend 5 years. Shes gonna get hurt bad too. And he might wanna think about lettin her find a real life partner b4 she hits 40 and starts losing her looks.
Im not way off base here guys.

[anabolics4life]

ya that is gonna suck when he is 36 and she is gonna be like 50

[numbat]

I just think he is comfy wit the situation and he prolly actually has more guy time and personal goal time than if he was dating a girl his age...Oh yeah and the sex lol...

[dhriscerr]

I know what you mean, but its his life and his mistakes to make dude, thats really the only way HE is going to learn. I got married at 19 guess what I learned from my mistake, and its a FOREVER mistake.

[hateme]

bros, i am not jealous and got NOTHIN against MILFS. MILFS are great and a wonderful, fun experinace for a younger guy. But What girl is worth spending 5 years with if you know you aint gettin married? Im not jealous of her takin up his time, she really doesnt take up that much. I am concerned that if he hasnt broken up with her in 5 years, he wont be in another 5. And then he'll be bumbed cuz he used up a decade of his younger years with a chick he cant possibly marry, and breakin off a 10 year thing will hurt worse than a 5 year thing. Hes settin himself up for emotional upset later.
And i didnt mean rreally a different girl every month. But a different chick every 3-6 months is acceptable i think for a young guy. But if you know you aint gettin married to a chick, why spend 5 years. Shes gonna get hurt bad too. And he might wanna think about lettin her find a real life partner b4 she hits 40 and starts losing her looks.
Im not way off base here guys.

You are right on the money bro. And, you are being a good friend by telling him that. He is not thinking clearly, because this is the first girl to give him great sex on a steady basis. It is very hard for anyone to walk away from that.

Tell him to always wear a condom. My friend went out with this chick in her mid 40's. When he decided it was time to break up. She ended up prego. (she stopped taking the pill) Now, he supports her semi retarded son, her 20yr old daughter, and her 4 yr. old granddaughter. (and the new kid) She just didn't want him to leave, so she got knocked up. This happened to a few of my friends. But, I was shocked a 45 yr old girl would do it.

[spywizard]

so how long have you been alone???

and birth control is always a good idea.. otherwise she will go old school on ya..

[IBdmfkr]

Do you have a thing for your friend? He's 24 and I'm pretty sure he can make decisions and mistakes on his own without having you nagging him and belittling him.

If he wants to "waste" his time with this old chick, let him. I'd worry more about your own life and relationships than his.

[Booz]

bros, i am not jealous and got NOTHIN against MILFS. MILFS are great and a wonderful, fun experinace for a younger guy. But What girl is worth spending 5 years with if you know you aint gettin married? Im not jealous of her takin up his time, she really doesnt take up that much. I am concerned that if he hasnt broken up with her in 5 years, he wont be in another 5. And then he'll be bumbed cuz he used up a decade of his younger years with a chick he cant possibly marry, and breakin off a 10 year thing will hurt worse than a 5 year thing. Hes settin himself up for emotional upset later.
And i didnt mean rreally a different girl every month. But a different chick every 3-6 months is acceptable i think for a young guy. But if you know you aint gettin married to a chick, why spend 5 years. Shes gonna get hurt bad too. And he might wanna think about lettin her find a real life partner b4 she hits 40 and starts losing her looks.
Im not way off base here guys.

sounds to me that you may have the hots for him yourself??????

[Booz]

Do you have a thing for your friend? He's 24 and I'm pretty sure he can make decisions and mistakes on his own without having you nagging him and belittling him.

If he wants to "waste" his time with this old chick, let him. I'd worry more about your own life and relationships than his.

bastich didnt see that youd already wrote that............................

[LAW]

My bf's son is hooking up with an 39 year old today and he is only 18. She is very hot for her age. Women like to go younger too. I think it's pretty funny. Then again I think it's only for sex and I couldn't imagine him being with her for 5 years. As long as everyone is happy I guess that's all that counts.

[gym lord]

really not good to get involved with bros romantic/personal issues ... steer clear, sumpin like dat can easily come back on ya, bite you in the ass ...

[ACE24]

Stay out of his business, unless of course the MILF is your mother!!!

Can you post a copy of the video?

[AnabolicBoy1981]

You are right on the money bro. And, you are being a good friend by telling him that. He is not thinking clearly, because this is the first girl to give him great sex on a steady basis. It is very hard for anyone to walk away from that.

Tell him to always wear a condom. My friend went out with this chick in her mid 40's. When he decided it was time to break up. She ended up prego. (she stopped taking the pill) Now, he supports her semi retarded son, her 20yr old daughter, and her 4 yr. old granddaughter. (and the new kid) She just didn't want him to leave, so she got knocked up. This happened to a few of my friends. But, I was shocked a 45 yr old girl would do it.

jesus, i was starting to think i was the only one thinkin logically around here.
Thank you.
Oh and yeah, of course my friend hates condoms, but that is cuz this chicks tubes have been tied up. Course, nuthin is 100%.
Ill have to find some data on the internet that shows women can still get knocked up on tied tubes to get him to change and strap up. Id hate to see him get her prego. One time he thought he got this other chick prego but it was false alarm. We were both so stressed! Youd think that would make him strap up!

What the heck is it with you guys keep tellin me to mind my own business? This isnt just some kid i know, this is one of my best friends. Hes like a brother to me..and yeah im gonna be concerned if he screws up his life. Think about it, wouldt you want yer best boy to watch out for you? I know i would if i was doin somethin stupid. Its not like i really decided to mention anything after a year or two(which is even too long IMO), im sayin this at the 5 year mark. A good friened wont watch the other self destruct. And if you do, ya aint no friend.

[gixxerboy1]

jesus, i was starting to think i was the only one thinkin logically around here.
Thank you.
Oh and yeah, of course my friend hates condoms, but that is cuz this chicks tubes have been tied up. Course, nuthin is 100%.
Ill have to find some data on the internet that shows women can still get knocked up on tied tubes to get him to change and strap up. Id hate to see him get her prego. One time he thought he got this other chick prego but it was false alarm. We were both so stressed! Youd think that would make him strap up!

What the heck is it with you guys keep tellin me to mind my own business? This isnt just some kid i know, this is one of my best friends. Hes like a brother to me..and yeah im gonna be concerned if he screws up his life. Think about it, wouldt you want yer best boy to watch out for you? I know i would if i was doin somethin stupid. Its not like i really decided to mention anything after a year or two(which is even too long IMO), im sayin this at the 5 year mark. A good friened wont watch the other self destruct. And if you do, ya aint no friend.

Now i think you are really strange Your going to go do research on how a girl can still get prego is she has her tubes tied.

I'd laugh if a friend lectured me and had statistics tried to convince me to use a rubber.

[Snrf]

dude mind your own business

[dhriscerr]

jesus, i was starting to think i was the only one thinkin logically around here.
Thank you.
Oh and yeah, of course my friend hates condoms, but that is cuz this chicks tubes have been tied up. Course, nuthin is 100%.
Ill have to find some data on the internet that shows women can still get knocked up on tied tubes to get him to change and strap up. Id hate to see him get her prego. One time he thought he got this other chick prego but it was false alarm. We were both so stressed! Youd think that would make him strap up!

What the heck is it with you guys keep tellin me to mind my own business? This isnt just some kid i know, this is one of my best friends. Hes like a brother to me..and yeah im gonna be concerned if he screws up his life. Think about it, wouldt you want yer best boy to watch out for you? I know i would if i was doin somethin stupid. Its not like i really decided to mention anything after a year or two(which is even too long IMO), im sayin this at the 5 year mark. A good friened wont watch the other self destruct. And if you do, ya aint no friend.

It can be precieved both ways, but I don't think your wrong in doing it, when your looking out for your friend, but if there is a deeper reason for you doing it then that's messed up. Honestly If I were you id probably do the same thing. I tried to talk my wifes brother out of moving in with this chick he was dating and splitting an apartment and bills, but 7 months later, and over 600 in unpaid bills he said I was right. Then ofcourse its my wife's brother so we had to lend him the money, so now ive been waiting on $500 for over 4 months. And really he's looking at now and how he feels now, but not the future. Its hard for someone on the outside to change your preception on things though, so I think what your doing might be vaild but just so you know you will probably fail in your efforts.

[AnabolicBoy1981]

[QUOTE=gixxerboy1]Now i think you are really strange Your going to go do research on how a girl can still get prego is she has her tubes tied.QUOTE]

well, no, probably not. Im a bit too lazy to research stuff for other people...im busy doin research of my own. But then again diggin up medical research is what i do in my spare time so whats the diff i i take a few mins and do a search on success rates of medical procedures, or the the effect of nandrolone cholesterol levels or the effect of aromatase inhibition on collagen synthesis and inflammation? Time wise, none really. So it wouldnt be that weird would it.

Ill shut up about this, but just think about it like this: If you were on THE SAME CYCLE FOR 5 YEARS, wouldnt you want a good friend or a training partner to slap you upside the head and say "Jesus christ man! What the hell are you doin to your hypothalmic pituitary testicular axis!!!yer castrating yourself!!"
As we know its better to jump on one cycle for 2-3 months tops and then get off , take a break and get on a different one later. This is the healthy way to do things in life ppl, Whethor with roids or WOMEN. THEN, when your 40 if you wanna settle down with a nice dose of TRT and stay with that for the rest of your life, fine.
ITS BETTER TO CYCLE MOST THINGS IN LIFE. JMO
Peace

[dhriscerr]

Ha Ha cycle women like gear. Never thought of that, good analogy but I think thats going to get alot of critism as well.

[ChiTownTommy]

i'm a huge fan of older wemon the now what they want in the sac, the best sex i ever had was with a 34 mother of two

[Kärnfysikern]

I am 22 and my girlfriend is 34. We have been togheter for almost 2 years and we have been living togheter for 10 months.

There is no way I would trade this for "runnin around with a different young girl every month".

If your friend is happy you should be happy. Maby he has different priorities.

[IBdmfkr]

What does SUCK about that is that when you're 50 she's gonna need a walker. lol

[Kärnfysikern]

Well I tend not to plan 28 years ahead

[IBdmfkr]

Most ppl don't, then 28yrs later they have a mid-life crisis. lol