A blog i just wrote about HATE. Thought i should share.

**Bojangles69** · 02-17-2007, 11:57 PM

ADD warning: THis is EXTREMELY long. Just posted it on myspace and thought it may be valuable to some if not ALL people.

"Death, so called, is a thing we weep: and yet a third of Life is passed in sleep"
~Lord Byron

Why do we HATE?
and when we hate, are we really asleep? (maybe in this case Byron would say we spend MORE than a third of our life asleep =/ ?? ) Do we close our eyes to the masquerades of truth, dancing only to a reflection of ourselves? Isn't that what hate really is? When we close our eyes to truth. Can we hate something about somebody that is not native to ourself? Because, afterall, that which is not a part of us couldn't possibly bear infliction upon ourselves, because if we dont know IT exists in us, we cant identify IT in others, and we cant hate *IT. Is hate just the ~EASY~ way out? Does confusion conflict us into a state of furry and chaos, so we scurry to understand something or someone so profusely that the struggle alone allows us to see nothing more than a bright red neon light flashing the words *HATE* anytime the thought of their existence crosses our mind?

W/e the case. Hate is EVERYWHERE and it makes me ****ing sick.
They say humans use to live in groups back in the day, hierarchies of no more than 50 members. And when these groups would clash with other groups their first instinct was to kill each other. You see this tendency now in days on the road probably everyday. Its our number one instinct in hypermode, just overcompensating, the instinct to survive that is. And this instinct on high throttle may just be the reason the human race dominates all other species. Who knows? And frankly, I could give 2 ****s.

We also see it present day in unevolved species. Packs of gorillas meet and their first instinct is to mame and mutilate each other, to thrash their fangs violently into the necks of the unknown.. just a *presumed threat to their own survival now lying in a pool of their own blood, sad. Shit happens.

I believe hate is a byproduct of immaturity and nothing more. The inability to see the world as a whole is what feeds hate. Because many people cant see past the child molester, or the girlfriend who cheated on them. The "pedophile" and the "whore". Labels we think aid to complete our understanding of such emotionally saturated circumstances. But I'm sorry to inform you, all labels do is offer what I call "faux propriety". You figure it out.

We don't see our ex-gf's childhood. Or the way their parents divorce instilled in them this fear of intimacy so great that their subconscious sought only one way to preserve their fragile ego's from any further turmoil. Solution? Infidelity.. betrayal to that of whom they were suppose to love and initially protect from pain now the target of it. Talk about a paradox.

We don't SEE the millions of circumstances that have affected our enemy's lives. All we see is what is there, or what they did. Than the following eruption of hate blinds us to their virtues much like love will blind us to a lover faults. Well, what we see isn't who they really are. You could be married to someone for 40 years and still never really KNOW who they are. And I hate to break it to you, you NEVER *REALLY* still know anyone.

What about the snitch who got you 7 years in prison? Can anyone other than you imagine how pleasurable the site of their blood would be just for a second. How GREAT it would feel to just feel the PAIN of your knuckles crushing into their skull, the blood of their misdoings now trickling down your chin. The satisfaction! "You wanna rat on me mother****er?!"

We don't see the immense and paralyzing fear of imprisonment that they felt. How could we, we're too lazy. We couldn't possibly empathize with their situation because they've now shifted their doomed futures onto us (or so we assume – karma is a m/fkr =] ) Nor do we see the role we played either. All we see is hate. The only word we hear is "rat" or "snitch" and all we want is REVENGE, a faulty outlet for true hate.

We don't see the pedophiles upbringing. We ARE NOT geniuses. We assume we know a lot about biological predisposition, but.. WE. ARE. NOT. GENIUSES. We really can only *assume reason and logic at this point. Nor do we see the events or images clicked into the mind of a rapist through his life. We don't *FEEL* their fears, we don't *FEEL* their pain, but we sure as hell feel *OUR HATE* for them. We feel the hate after they do wrong to us. Does this justify crime? No. But does this justify the penalty for crime (prison)? NO. But this isn't about justice.

I've dealt with a lot of hate in my life. A lot of hate towards myself initially after early life experiences sent me into a frenzy of chaotic pleasure seeking behavior (drugs). Pleasure I suppose I thought would eradicate the pain. It never happened. And hate became my life. I was starting to sense that hate was a virus and I was infected with it. And eventually I was surrounded by others who suffered from the "hate virus". ( when I found myself in prison) But when you get to truly know a lot of angry, hateful people. You become familiar with the certain patterns.

Hate is a drug. Hate is cloud. Hate is misinterpretation. Hate is a trap. Hate is our attempt to simplify. Hate is an extension of ourselves. Hate is = to NOT LIVING. Hate is how the weak deal with fear. Hate lives on a lack of worldly insight. Hate is baggage, like the boy from American History X said, smart little ****.

So I guess my point here is, STOP finding reasons to hate people. When you first meet someone, instead of noticing their flaws, or lack of flaws, and using that as a justifiable reason to hate them.

Realize your only spreading a virus.

When you choose to hate someone you're choosing to NOT LOVE YOURSELF. Because the process of creating hatred relies solely on your higher self to thrive. That self that wants to love everything and everyone, and realizes our time here really IS short. And that we all feel pain and fear, and that hate is too easy a way to deal with these things.

Next time you want to hate somebody, thank them for something, and compliment them. You'll **** with your own head. You'll feel a lot more mature. And you'll feel like your journey and purpose in this so called: "life" is beginning to make sense.

The journey imo being to love as many people as possible before you die, and to make those people FEEL LOVED. Repress that desire, and hate is surely to replace it.

Because let me ask you one final question.

Name one thing in life, just ONE thing that feels better than feeling truely LOVED, APPRECIATED, or UNDERSTOOD. If you can, that's a sure sign your on the wrong path in life.

Ok,

Enough rambling.

pc bitches =]

**Kale** · 02-18-2007, 12:11 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

ADD warning: THis is EXTREMELY long. Just posted it on myspace and thought it may be valuable to some if not ALL people.

"Death, so called, is a thing we weep: and yet a third of Life is passed in sleep"
~Lord Byron

Why do we HATE?
and when we hate, are we really asleep? (maybe in this case Byron would say we spend MORE than a third of our life asleep =/ ?? ) Do we close our eyes to the masquerades of truth, dancing only to a reflection of ourselves? Isn't that what hate really is? When we close our eyes to truth. Can we hate something about somebody that is not native to ourself? Because, afterall, that which is not a part of us couldn't possibly bear infliction upon ourselves, because if we dont know IT exists in us, we cant identify IT in others, and we cant hate *IT. Is hate just the ~EASY~ way out? Does confusion conflict us into a state of furry and chaos, so we scurry to understand something or someone so profusely that the struggle alone allows us to see nothing more than a bright red neon light flashing the words *HATE* anytime the thought of their existence crosses our mind?

W/e the case. Hate is EVERYWHERE and it makes me ****ing sick.
They say humans use to live in groups back in the day, hierarchies of no more than 50 members. And when these groups would clash with other groups their first instinct was to kill each other. You see this tendency now in days on the road probably everyday. Its our number one instinct in hypermode, just overcompensating, the instinct to survive that is. And this instinct on high throttle may just be the reason the human race dominates all other species. Who knows? And frankly, I could give 2 ****s.

We also see it present day in unevolved species. Packs of gorillas meet and their first instinct is to mame and mutilate each other, to thrash their fangs violently into the necks of the unknown.. just a *presumed threat to their own survival now lying in a pool of their own blood, sad. Shit happens.

I believe hate is a byproduct of immaturity and nothing more. The inability to see the world as a whole is what feeds hate. Because many people cant see past the child molester, or the girlfriend who cheated on them. The "pedophile" and the "whore". Labels we think aid to complete our understanding of such emotionally saturated circumstances. But I'm sorry to inform you, all labels do is offer what I call "faux propriety". You figure it out.

We don't see our ex-gf's childhood. Or the way their parents divorce instilled in them this fear of intimacy so great that their subconscious sought only one way to preserve their fragile ego's from any further turmoil. Solution? Infidelity.. betrayal to that of whom they were suppose to love and initially protect from pain now the target of it. Talk about a paradox.

We don't SEE the millions of circumstances that have affected our enemy's lives. All we see is what is there, or what they did. Than the following eruption of hate blinds us to their virtues much like love will blind us to a lover faults. Well, what we see isn't who they really are. You could be married to someone for 40 years and still never really KNOW who they are. And I hate to break it to you, you NEVER *REALLY* still know anyone.

What about the snitch who got you 7 years in prison? Can anyone other than you imagine how pleasurable the site of their blood would be just for a second. How GREAT it would feel to just feel the PAIN of your knuckles crushing into their skull, the blood of their misdoings now trickling down your chin. The satisfaction! "You wanna rat on me mother****er?!"

We don't see the immense and paralyzing fear of imprisonment that they felt. How could we, we're too lazy. We couldn't possibly empathize with their situation because they've now shifted their doomed futures onto us (or so we assume – karma is a m/fkr =] ) Nor do we see the role we played either. All we see is hate. The only word we hear is "rat" or "snitch" and all we want is REVENGE, a faulty outlet for true hate.

We don't see the pedophiles upbringing. We ARE NOT geniuses. We assume we know a lot about biological predisposition, but.. WE. ARE. NOT. GENIUSES. We really can only *assume reason and logic at this point. Nor do we see the events or images clicked into the mind of a rapist through his life. We don't *FEEL* their fears, we don't *FEEL* their pain, but we sure as hell feel *OUR HATE* for them. We feel the hate after they do wrong to us. Does this justify crime? No. But does this justify the penalty for crime (prison)? NO. But this isn't about justice.

I've dealt with a lot of hate in my life. A lot of hate towards myself initially after early life experiences sent me into a frenzy of chaotic pleasure seeking behavior (drugs). Pleasure I suppose I thought would eradicate the pain. It never happened. And hate became my life. I was starting to sense that hate was a virus and I was infected with it. And eventually I was surrounded by others who suffered from the "hate virus". ( when I found myself in prison) But when you get to truly know a lot of angry, hateful people. You become familiar with the certain patterns.

Hate is a drug. Hate is cloud. Hate is misinterpretation. Hate is a trap. Hate is our attempt to simplify. Hate is an extension of ourselves. Hate is = to NOT LIVING. Hate is how the weak deal with fear. Hate lives on a lack of worldly insight. Hate is baggage, like the boy from American History X said, smart little ****.

So I guess my point here is, STOP finding reasons to hate people. When you first meet someone, instead of noticing their flaws, or lack of flaws, and using that as a justifiable reason to hate them.

Realize your only spreading a virus.

When you choose to hate someone you're choosing to NOT LOVE YOURSELF. Because the process of creating hatred relies solely on your higher self to thrive. That self that wants to love everything and everyone, and realizes our time here really IS short. And that we all feel pain and fear, and that hate is too easy a way to deal with these things.

Next time you want to hate somebody, thank them for something, and compliment them. You'll **** with your own head. You'll feel a lot more mature. And you'll feel like your journey and purpose in this so called: "life" is beginning to make sense.

The journey imo being to love as many people as possible before you die, and to make those people FEEL LOVED. Repress that desire, and hate is surely to replace it.

Because let me ask you one final question.

Name one thing in life, just ONE thing that feels better than feeling truely LOVED, APPRECIATED, or UNDERSTOOD. If you can, that's a sure sign your on the wrong path in life.

Ok,

Enough rambling.

pc bitches =]

An Orgasm !!!!!!!!

**Bojangles69** · 02-18-2007, 12:51 AM

Originally Posted by Kale

An Orgasm !!!!!!!!

your on the path of a whore

**Kale** · 02-18-2007, 12:53 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

your on the path of a whore

I know, and I like the path

**Hunter** · 02-18-2007, 12:54 AM

good post bo. There are few things in this world I hate but I can say I hate some people/things. I do not empathize with child molestors nor do I cheaters. People need to hold themselves to a higher moral level then that, but good post bo.

**Bojangles69** · 02-18-2007, 12:55 AM

/\ /\ thanx, just trying to bring some well needed love into this world.

**SMAN12b** · 02-18-2007, 12:56 AM

Originally Posted by Kale

I know, and I like the path

I knew there was a reason I loved you , you old horn dog you....LOLOL

**anabolics4life** · 02-18-2007, 01:15 AM

looks like that took you awhile

**Bojangles69** · 02-18-2007, 01:38 AM

Originally Posted by anabolics4life

looks like that took you awhile

bout a good hour of my Sat night lol.. im such a loser

**QuieTSToRM33** · 02-18-2007, 07:45 AM

Thank You Dr. Phil

j/k

well written ... good stuff

**prncezzml** · 02-18-2007, 10:18 AM

Cool post, are you a psychology major

You would make a good therapist or social worker, it takes a certain kind of person to look past defects like cheating and molesting. The truth is though, you're right, we don't know what's in their past that lead them to be that way. I share the same thought process.

**Bojangles69** · 02-19-2007, 12:01 AM

Originally Posted by prncezzml

Cool post, are you a psychology major

You would make a good therapist or social worker, it takes a certain kind of person to look past defects like cheating and molesting. The truth is though, you're right, we don't know what's in their past that lead them to be that way. I share the same thought process.

Yep you got it on the head, I LOVE psychology like nothing else. And I do plan on being exactly what you said, a therapist, or more specifically a psychotherapist. And I'm not saying this just because you agree with me, but I do believe only a certain type of mind can see the world in such a loving way and realize these simple truths. And if your anything like me Im sure you'll be better off than the large majority of people out there. Not *better than*, just *better off*.

**prncezzml** · 02-19-2007, 08:31 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Yep you got it on the head, I LOVE psychology like nothing else. And I do plan on being exactly what you said, a therapist, or more specifically a psychotherapist. And I'm not saying this just because you agree with me, but I do believe only a certain type of mind can see the world in such a loving way and realize these simple truths. And if your anything like me Im sure you'll be better off than the large majority of people out there. Not *better than*, just *better off*.

Yeah psychology is also my favorite, it gives you such a cool perspective on life. I'm also planning on therapy (probably addictions or family counseling). Good luck!