pregnant by a deadbeat, want to kill him.

[carguy_z28]

Ok, so Im just going to get to the point, My little sister, who is 20 yr old, just got pregnant from a low life drug dealer, now, He has gotten her in trouble in the past by tellin the pigs that it was her coke and all that shit, its a long story, but he has put a lot of stress on my family because being military, Im not alowed to lay a hand on this kid. He is 22 yrs old, only a year younger than me, and I want to slit his throught. Im not trying to sound like a tough guy, but Now, he wants to leave her, and not pay anything, and she is not made of money. She has no heart to kill the kid, abortion or what ever you want to call it, and she is to irresponsible to look after herself let alone a child. Now lucky for him, he lives 12 hours away from me, or else Id have my rifle loaded already. And Id be in jail. I almost dont care if I go to jail for doing in this usless peice of afterbirth, as far as Im conserned, Id be doing the world a favor. Id like to know if anyone here has gone through anything similar and has some advice on how to let it go. Because I do understand that its her life and all that, but being family, its hard for me to do that and let it go. My fire team partner, wants to go take care of him right now, and Im having a hard time saying no. Cause I just want this guy out of my life and my sisters. Thanks guys for any advice once again. Youve all come through for me before, and I apreciate all your advice. And please, no fvcking joking on this matter,

[Doc.Sust]

good beating may do this punk some good

[Fordfan01]

damn right doc thats ur sis man i know if that happened to my sis there would be a smack down coming that dudes way

[cj1capp]

well get the crazy talk over and done with! Your sister needs you! Don't get your bodies and your self in-trouble over this. Ok here is the ****ed up part your sister picked this guy and she is over 18 years old so she bares a big part of the responsibility .
Ok now with that said if you are a good big brother be there for your sister she is scared and feels totally alone. Be sure she understand her options and if she picks to keep the child well help here. If she is not able to work and you and the family have limited resources start looking into what programs are out there for a single unwed mother. and as for the sperm donor get him to sign the birth certificate and if he wont, get a court to establish that he is the farther. By doing so he will be on the hook for at least 18 years and will loose his drive licsens if he fails to meet the order of child support.
Continue to be there for our sister help her make better choices in life. I understand if you cant be there in person but a letter or a phone call mean just as much.
I understand how you feel i went through this with my sister almost 19 years ago now. Today she, my little sister is a realtor and her daughter is in her first year of college. I wish you and your sister the best as i felt just like you but in time many wondrous things may come just be there and be a good brother.

[Pooks]

Yah try n make her see that abortion is a good thing..
leave abortion literature aroudn n stuff , maybe she'll pick it up n read it or someting and grow fond of the idea

[carguy_z28]

Weve talked about the abortion thing, and it is out of the question. I know that some good may come out of this, But I doubt it sincerely. I just really want to beat the little punk and mame him for life, that way every day he looks in the mirror, he thinks about what he has done. I love my sister, and wish her the best, and this is not the best for her. Shawn needs to die. Sad to say, but thats what I do for a living, and its engraved in my mind that he needs to go. I just dont want to spend the rest of my life in jail over this guy who is as usful as a one legged man in an ass kicking contest. Its hard to curb my attitude torwards him, my carrer is based on protecting people, my mentality is set on destroying the enemy, and thats how I see this, guy. ****, maybe I need some anger managment. Or stop my cycle, That cant help my temper.

[Pooks]

well shawn dying aside..

Atleast she has a supportive family around her, so she will be ok, when she has the kid.
+ the kid does bring lots of benefits too.. tax relief, all sorts of welfare programs, like free education at state colleges for mommy things like that you know. well in massachusetts atelast.

[ThePump]

hey bro... first off... i grew up without a father and my mother and my sister raised me all my life. a very similar situation happened to my sister as well. she is 5 years older then me and i'm more or less the little BIG brother as everybody says. i adore my family and would do anything for them. i told this little bitch of a so called "man" that if he was going to be in my nephews life then so be it, and if he wasn't then for him to stay the **** away for good, as if he were dead. now i'm telling u this man because i felt the same way u do for a long time. Reilly is now 2 1/2 years old and i love him to death, i make sure that i'm his male rolemodel and i make sure i will be the one to teach him how to play sports and check the girls out and well ya know... the guy stuff that my non exsistent father was unable to do.
i don't know what i myself would be doing with my life if it wasn't for Reilly being born in all honesty... i have changed my life around and started making good decisions just because i want to be there for him when he has questions. i want to be his best friend right along with my sister. you will have the same oppurunity to do this with ur neice or nephew and if u choose to, then nothing else will matter. all the child needs is love... they don't need money, or anything else for that matter. all they want is ur love. so do ur best and just be there for ur sister and her child. u'll be amazed by how close it will bring ur family together. rage is normal my friend... but if u do something about it then u will be loving ur sisters child through cell bars. and what good will that do for him or her?? or for the rest of ur family even??

[dhriscerr]

Dude, Id be irrate as you if it was me, I don't even want to begin to know how you feel right now. I know if one of my boys from my platoon had this situation though, me and some of the otherg uys would take care of it. And I know they would do the same for me. Once your in the military brother hood is often thicker than true blood relatives. Im not saying its right, or it wont get you introuble, but If it has to be done, You got friends, friends that will be life long. Just remember though if you went as far as to kill him, I know he might be a piece of sh!t, but how you going to tell your neice or nephew that you killed there dad??? Best of luck, but no matter what happens, keep it quiet.

[Ufa]

You got to cool down and stop the kill thinking. You may end up in jail and that won't help any one. My girl friends daughter got knocked up
by a crack head about 5 years ago. It's all part of life; don't mess up
your life by doing something stupid. Remember it was your sister that
did not use birth control. She will grow up real fast now. It's better she
is away from him. With your good help she will most likely have a loving
family. So be around for her in a good way.

[DecimaMAS]

Ok, so Im just going to get to the point, My little sister, who is 20 yr old, just got pregnant from a low life drug dealer, now, He has gotten her in trouble in the past by tellin the pigs that it was her coke and all that shit, its a long story, but he has put a lot of stress on my family because being military, Im not alowed to lay a hand on this kid. He is 22 yrs old, only a year younger than me, and I want to slit his throught. Im not trying to sound like a tough guy, but Now, he wants to leave her, and not pay anything, and she is not made of money. She has no heart to kill the kid, abortion or what ever you want to call it, and she is to irresponsible to look after herself let alone a child. Now lucky for him, he lives 12 hours away from me, or else Id have my rifle loaded already. And Id be in jail. I almost dont care if I go to jail for doing in this usless peice of afterbirth, as far as Im conserned, Id be doing the world a favor. Id like to know if anyone here has gone through anything similar and has some advice on how to let it go. Because I do understand that its her life and all that, but being family, its hard for me to do that and let it go. My fire team partner, wants to go take care of him right now, and Im having a hard time saying no. Cause I just want this guy out of my life and my sisters. Thanks guys for any advice once again. Youve all come through for me before, and I apreciate all your advice. And please, no fvcking joking on this matter,

If you go through life without a moral upbringing, lacking values and strong character with good role-models, then this becomes your fate. Your sister is lost and her pattern of thinking will never change. She's been programmed by the media and society to appreciate the "bad boy" image and breed with other races, drug dealers, etc. This is the majority of modern women and it's much too popular for you to risk something stupid like going to prison to correct it. The fact is, your sister cannot be corrected, no matter how much that hurts to hear.

But you can help your children by making sure you get involved in some positive programs, whatever they may be. Become what your parents never were and be a strong model for your sons/daughters to come. Make sure your sons become "men," and not the wimpy, metrosexual-types who can't stand up in a fight or speak their minds on what they believe to be right. Make sure your daughters don't become sluts or prone to fashionable ideas; teach them to be individuals and not part of a group.

I am sorry for your sister's situation.

[ThePump]

If you go through life without a moral upbringing, of values and strong character with good role-models, this is your fate. Your sister is lost as her pattern of thinking will never change. She's been programmed by the media and society to appreciate the "bad boy" image and breed with other races, drug dealers, etc.

But you can help your children by making sure you get involved in some positive programs, whatever they may be. Become what your parents never were and be a strong model for your sons/daughters to come.

did he say anything about his own parents?? sounds as if ur blaiming the parents for this?? and breeding with other races?? wtf is that?? maybe it's the word breeding that makes you sound ignorant, or it's your close minded views on people who fall in love with somebody who makes them happy, treats them well, and happens to be of a different nationality. or are u trying to say that other races and drug dealers go hand and hand??

i'm not trying to start an argument, but, seems to be phrased a bit twisted.

[DecimaMAS]

did he say anything about his own parents?? sounds as if ur blaiming the parents for this?? and breeding with other races?? wtf is that?? maybe it's the word breeding that makes you sound ignorant, or it's your close minded views on people who fall in love with somebody who makes them happy, treats them well, and happens to be of a different nationality. or are u trying to say that other races and drug dealers go hand and hand??

i'm not trying to start an argument, but, seems to be phrased a bit twisted.

Amazingly, this problem wasn't as prevalent in the 19th century. Can you imagine why? It had little to do with "Christian values," or the morality of politics. Take a look at what's changed in racial values, the differences between men and women, etc. and notice just who these problems tend to plague.

Women who seldom involve themselves in race-mixing, promiscuity and objectifying themselves in front of other people like strippers or porn actresses rarely have to deal with STDs, deadbeat dads or any of the problems you describe.

None of my friends or any of their families have divorces, or the ones that do have very few. Take a look at what you're railing against; they're symptoms of a bigger problem.

[spywizard]

got a mask and a taser don't ya???

easy sneezy.... one of the problems i see today, is kids don't get their butts beat when they are young..

it can be a good thing..

[Ufa]

Decima you hijacked this thread. It was started by carguy with a family
problem. Hope you can focus on something positive to add.

[DecimaMAS]

hey bro... first off... i grew up without a father and my mother and my sister raised me all my life. a very similar situation happened to my sister as well. she is 5 years older then me and i'm more or less the little BIG brother as everybody says. i adore my family and would do anything for them. i told this little bitch of a so called "man" that if he was going to be in my nephews life then so be it, and if he wasn't then for him to stay the **** away for good, as if he were dead. now i'm telling u this man because i felt the same way u do for a long time. Reilly is now 2 1/2 years old and i love him to death, i make sure that i'm his male rolemodel and i make sure i will be the one to teach him how to play sports and check the girls out and well ya know... the guy stuff that my non exsistent father was unable to do.
i don't know what i myself would be doing with my life if it wasn't for Reilly being born in all honesty... i have changed my life around and started making good decisions just because i want to be there for him when he has questions. i want to be his best friend right along with my sister. you will have the same oppurunity to do this with ur neice or nephew and if u choose to, then nothing else will matter. all the child needs is love... they don't need money, or anything else for that matter. all they want is ur love. so do ur best and just be there for ur sister and her child. u'll be amazed by how close it will bring ur family together. rage is normal my friend... but if u do something about it then u will be loving ur sisters child through cell bars. and what good will that do for him or her?? or for the rest of ur family even??

What surprises me most is that you are the type you are praising: one who finds no differences between others, is fair with all races and cultures, etc. and yet your values have failed you. Your sister has gone through a "similar situation" despite you and your family being the politically correct people you are.

What's your explanation for that?

Before you think that I am "full of hate" or some other excuse for my preaching of racial pride, I do not HATE anyone. Pride in one's race, be they white, black, indian or what have you is a positive thing. It's a great and moral motivator to improve one's self on the basis that you are a legacy for people to come.

Once you lose that sense of community, all manners of ills are open to you and you're prone to do what is good for the self, rather than for greater prosperity. You forget that there are more eyes watching your actions than the two in your head.

If more people remembered this, there would be less of an issue.

[Pro_built7]

Amazingly, this problem wasn't as prevalent in the 19th century. Can you imagine why? It had little to do with "Christian values," or the morality of politics. Take a look at what's changed in racial values, the differences between men and women, etc. and notice just who these problems tend to plague.

Women who seldom involve themselves in race-mixing, promiscuity and objectifying themselves in front of other people like strippers or porn actresses rarely have to deal with STDs, deadbeat dads or any of the problems you describe.

None of my friends or any of their families have divorces, or the ones that do have very few. Take a look at what you're railing against; they're symptoms of a bigger problem.

I can see completely where you are coming from with this, take a typical 1950's era family and upbringing vs. a 2000 era. moral, ethical, and religous values are very different and very sqeuwed if you ask me.

[ThePump]

What surprises me most is that you are the type you are praising: one who finds no differences between others, is fair with all races and cultures, etc. and yet your values have failed you. Your sister has gone through a "similar situation" despite you and your family being the politically correct people you are.

What's your explanation for that?

Before you think that I am "full of hate" or some other excuse for my preaching of racial pride, I do not HATE anyone. Pride in one's race, be they white, black, indian or what have you is a positive thing. It's a great and moral motivator to improve one's self on the basis that you are a legacy for people to come.

Once you lose that sense of community, all manners of ills are open to you and you're prone to do what is good for the self, rather than for all. You forget that there are more eyes watching your actions than the two in your head.

If more people remembered this, there would be less of an issue.

hmmm... well i'm going to comment just this once. the similarity that my sister and his sister share, are that they have been both abandoned by a man. my sister, for your information, graduated with her bachelors and graduated in the top 5% of her class. she double majored and double minored and still managed to pull off some impressive grades. my sister and her best friend, who neither of them were on drugs, delt with drugs, hung around people who were on drugs or delt with drugs. they were both raised in similar communities and both of white origin. they both agreed on having a child and to get married. once Reilly was born, he ran. sometimes it's not all about what u hear in the news or see on tv. the media has a way of showing u what they want to. having pride in ur nationality or race is one thing... down grading anothers nationality or race is another thing.
now i'm through ranting...

Carguy... i hope whatever u decide, you make the right decision. you never know... this child may end up making a huge impact in the world when it grows to be an adult, and it may be partly because of your help raising him or her. good luck man... keep a good head about the whole situation

[Pro_built7]

all aside man, you should be there for your sister and be morally supportive I'm pretty sure you going through the court system and likely ending up in prison on top of herself being pregnant isn't another thing your sister would like on her shoulders.

[DecimaMAS]

...they both agreed on having a child and to get married.

Why was she doing that in the first place? For such a smart woman, she certainly didn't think ahead to see if the father was committed enough to marrying her before having an illegitimate child.

But none of this has to do with the main topic of this forum, so I'll end it here. If you have any further things to say, PM me.

[BgMc31]

Went through the same thing with my sister. Unfortunately ain't shit you can do because she chose the dude and it's her that put herself in this situation. Beating the dude won't solve anything but cause you and your family more grief. The only thing you can do is be there and support whatever decision she decides to make. I'm the father figure in my nephews life as is our father. This can work but you cannot put yourself in a worse predicament by beating the idiot.

[carguy_z28]

A lot of what was said here has hit home a bit, I can understand what is being said by most, and can relate to it, as for the parent thing, my mother who she lives with, is a sick and twisted self sentered bitch. My father raised me by himself, while being a soldier, which made it hard for him as a father. He is a good role modle for me, yet I do get my anger from him. As far as Im concerned, I had a decent upbrining, and That is what has kept me out of jail thus far. But I also was taught to stand up and be a man, if you have a child, take care of it, and the woman. ETC... That is why I want to do what ever it takes to make this punk see that. I dont like the fact that he has knocked up my lil sister, but all the big brother shit aside, I mostly hate the fact that he is a drug dealer, and a loser to boot. He has stated he wants nothing to do with the kid, or my sister. Maybe killing the fag is a little far fetched, but smashing his face with my fist's and feet, or any unanimous object untill he has nothing left is still crossing my mind. Maybe Ill calm down a bit in the next few days, I only heard of this today, but I just want whats best for my sister. Thats whats important to me. I dont want her one of those losers that sit at home, doing nothing with there lifes, poping out kids every year to collect more welfare, wathing Jerry springer on tv feeling sorry for themselfs. She has more than that in her. And if he cant be a man and stand up for what hes done, then Ill do it for her. But I am eqully pissed at her for opening her legs for this usless punkass criminal. But that is somthing Ill have to leave alone for now. I dont want to stress her out and hurt the kid, so Ill have to wait to do whatever I decide to do untill after he/she is born. Thanks again guys. good to have some responsible people for support. All my friends and fellow soldiers, want to do this guy in good. You guys helpe d a lot.

[prncezzml]

Ok, so Im just going to get to the point, My little sister, who is 20 yr old, just got pregnant from a low life drug dealer, now, He has gotten her in trouble in the past by tellin the pigs that it was her coke and all that shit, its a long story, but he has put a lot of stress on my family because being military, Im not alowed to lay a hand on this kid. He is 22 yrs old, only a year younger than me, and I want to slit his throught. Im not trying to sound like a tough guy, but Now, he wants to leave her, and not pay anything, and she is not made of money. She has no heart to kill the kid, abortion or what ever you want to call it, and she is to irresponsible to look after herself let alone a child. Now lucky for him, he lives 12 hours away from me, or else Id have my rifle loaded already. And Id be in jail. I almost dont care if I go to jail for doing in this usless peice of afterbirth, as far as Im conserned, Id be doing the world a favor. Id like to know if anyone here has gone through anything similar and has some advice on how to let it go. Because I do understand that its her life and all that, but being family, its hard for me to do that and let it go. My fire team partner, wants to go take care of him right now, and Im having a hard time saying no. Cause I just want this guy out of my life and my sisters. Thanks guys for any advice once again. Youve all come through for me before, and I apreciate all your advice. And please, no fvcking joking on this matter,

OK I have some experience with this. Well my boyfriend is wonderful that I got pregnant too, but I was still 19 at the time, and he was 26. I was a completely irresponsible person and not even I thought I could raise a child. Here I am almost 3 years later and it is the best thing that ever happened to me, it completely changed my life. As for having a child to a guy that doesn't want the child, I have several friends who this has happened too. Mainly, the grandparents end up raising the child, and the dad disappears and just gets child support automatically taken out of his paycheck. My one friend is nearly 30 and she still lives with her parents and the kid. NOT saying this is a bad thing, it's better than them both being in a dangerous environment. Best thing for you to do as her brother is support her and be there for her especially if she is totally against abortion. She is probably very scared. Oh and she can get papers for the father of the child to sign away his rights to the child, that will keep him away for good, and he will still have to pay child support.

[Snrf]

road trip, gun/knife, shovel, bag of lime.

you'll feel a lot better I promise

[novastepp]

i haven't read all responses, but what you do is if he doesn't want anything to do with the kid, then have him sign papers waving liability. thing is, he still has 18 years of child support to pay. you can nail him on many counts to pay for that baby, but if he waves those papers, no custody hearing, no visits, this guy basically just has to pay money to your sis.

[QuieTSToRM33]

Why don't you beat the shit out of your sister while you're at it ?

She's 20 years old. She should know what she's getting into/got herself into. She's never heard of a contraceptive ?

Not trying to sound like a dick ... but you putting all the blame on the guy is a load of shit.

If your sister stayed with this guy after knowing that he dealt drugs, then maybe your sister is the one who you need to have a sit down with.

If it was me ... I'd get the abortion.

[gixxerboy1]

Why don't you beat the shit out of your sister while you're at it ?

She's 20 years old. She should know what she's getting into/got herself into. She's never heard of a contraceptive ?

Not trying to sound like a dick ... but you putting all the blame on the guy is a load of shit.

If your sister stayed with this guy after knowing that he dealt drugs, then maybe your sister is the one who you need to have a sit down with.

If it was me ... I'd get the abortion.

I agree. They both made the decision. The only part is your sister is stuck with the consequences.

[DSM4Life]

Pay for your sisters abortion.

Go find this kid, beat the @$@#^ piss out of him. Drive him 10 hrs West and throw him out of the car naked.

Drive 10 hrs back home with a smile on your face .

[Mighty Joe]

Do it Italian style: Wait a year! Patience is a virtue. When everyone has all but forgotten this and then "SURPRISE"......whats my name!

[WEBB]

well all i can say is that i live in Airdrie and i can drive....road trip....nuff said...

[carguy_z28]

well all i can say is that i live in Airdrie and i can drive....road trip....nuff said...

Tempting!!!

[carguy_z28]

Why don't you beat the shit out of your sister while you're at it ?

She's 20 years old. She should know what she's getting into/got herself into. She's never heard of a contraceptive ?

Not trying to sound like a dick ... but you putting all the blame on the guy is a load of shit.

If your sister stayed with this guy after knowing that he dealt drugs, then maybe your sister is the one who you need to have a sit down with.

If it was me ... I'd get the abortion.

I have said that Im pissed that shed spread her legs for this guy, and I dont see it as a load of shit to blame him, after all, he said he doesnt want anything to do with her or the kid. On the flip side, if he stood up and wanted to be a man, Id stay out of it. But untill then, hes on my shit list.

[spywizard]

Do it Italian style: Wait a year! Patience is a virtue. When everyone has all but forgotten this and then "SURPRISE"......whats my name!

sssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[DecimaMAS]

OK I have some experience with this. Well my boyfriend is wonderful that I got pregnant too, but I was still 19 at the time, and he was 26. I was a completely irresponsible person and not even I thought I could raise a child. Here I am almost 3 years later and it is the best thing that ever happened to me, it completely changed my life. As for having a child to a guy that doesn't want the child, I have several friends who this has happened too. Mainly, the grandparents end up raising the child, and the dad disappears and just gets child support automatically taken out of his paycheck. My one friend is nearly 30 and she still lives with her parents and the kid. NOT saying this is a bad thing, it's better than them both being in a dangerous environment. Best thing for you to do as her brother is support her and be there for her especially if she is totally against abortion. She is probably very scared. Oh and she can get papers for the father of the child to sign away his rights to the child, that will keep him away for good, and he will still have to pay child support.

CARGUY: I want you to re-read this woman's response. Read it carefully. This is the typical reply from an American woman I was talking about; passing the buck to other people. The solutions above are "supporting her no matter what," having the grandparents raise it, etc. Every answer under the sun to dodge the responsibility of the woman to make good decisions.

This fans out into all walks of life. Children, credit card debt, schooling, etc. American women are spoiled and all too often have a man there to pick up the pieces, whether it be through child support, alimony, daddy paying their tuition, a husband rectifying their disgusting credit card debt they racked up from all of the shoes and handbags they buy, etc.

The long and short of it is no sense of personal responsibility: someone else will clean up the mess!

[spywizard]

CARGUY: I want you to re-read this woman's response. Read it carefully. This is the typical reply from an American woman I was talking about; passing the buck to other people. The solutions above are "supporting her no matter what," having the grandparents raise it, etc. Every answer under the sun to dodge the responsibility of the woman to make good decisions.

This fans out into all walks of life. Children, credit card debt, schooling, etc. American women are spoiled and all too often have a man there to pick up the pieces, whether it be through child support, alimony, daddy paying their tuition, a husband rectifying their disgusting credit card debt they racked up from all of the shoes and handbags they buy, etc.

The long and short of it is no sense of personal responsibility: someone else will clean up the mess!

so, what you are saying is american women have been elevated above the menial task that other women must do everyday. That they are somehow less valued in a global environment due to the fact that they and their support system of males that surround them have made it possible for them to live a life that is somehow better, or rather filled with less menial labor as opposed to women of lessor countries??

[rubix6]

got a mask and a taser don't ya???

easy sneezy.... one of the problems i see today, is kids don't get their butts beat when they are young..

it can be a good thing..

i agree

[prncezzml]

CARGUY: I want you to re-read this woman's response. Read it carefully. This is the typical reply from an American woman I was talking about; passing the buck to other people. The solutions above are "supporting her no matter what," having the grandparents raise it, etc. Every answer under the sun to dodge the responsibility of the woman to make good decisions.

This fans out into all walks of life. Children, credit card debt, schooling, etc. American women are spoiled and all too often have a man there to pick up the pieces, whether it be through child support, alimony, daddy paying their tuition, a husband rectifying their disgusting credit card debt they racked up from all of the shoes and handbags they buy, etc.

The long and short of it is no sense of personal responsibility: someone else will clean up the mess!

Um, do you have some of your own personal issues you are projecting onto this situation? I was talking about people I know, and I never said it was the right way to handle any situation. People make bad choices, people are not perfect. There are PLENTY of men out there that run from responsibility, that is probably WHY grandparents are left raising a child. And my boyfriend's "daddy" paid for all his 6 years of college. So what? That makes women less responsible because their parent pays for their college? What does any of that have to do with his sister being pregnant to a loser? He SHOULD support his sister, because he loves her. It doesn't mean he's taking away her responsibility. She's made her choice, so what good would it do for him NOT to support her?

[DecimaMAS]

Um, do you have some of your own personal issues you are projecting onto this situation? I was talking about people I know, and I never said it was the right way to handle any situation. People make bad choices, people are not perfect. There are PLENTY of men out there that run from responsibility, that is probably WHY grandparents are left raising a child. And my boyfriend's "daddy" paid for all his 6 years of college. So what? That makes women less responsible because their parent pays for their college? What does any of that have to do with his sister being pregnant to a loser? He SHOULD support his sister, because he loves her. It doesn't mean he's taking away her responsibility. She's made her choice, so what good would it do for him NOT to support her?

Supporting mistakes makes it "ok" to make them. When someone screws up, you let them suffer the consequences, not pad the fall so that it's easier to make another one and expect others to clean up the mess.

[DecimaMAS]

so, what you are saying is american women have been elevated above the menial task that other women must do everyday. That they are somehow less valued in a global environment due to the fact that they and their support system of males that surround them have made it possible for them to live a life that is somehow better, or rather filled with less menial labor as opposed to women of lessor countries??

No. More that American girls don't know the value of a dollar as they're not expected to seriously have to work for any of it. If anything goes wrong, a man can be there to fix it in most cases, which is a bad mindset.

"Global environment?" There are dozens of countries who live as well if not better than the average American does. Ever been to Sweden, Germany, Belgium, Japan, Argentina, Italy or Croatia? Are you trying to tell me that since they live in a rich country they should be expected to act like princesses?

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

Rat his ass on the cops. set up a deal with him, and let the cops know, and bam....hes ****ed, litterally lol, for a hella long time..felony charges.