
Originally Posted by
Bojangles69
Thats a tough question.
If you dont get back with her soon eventually you'll be classified as the "steroid juicer bf who cared more about the way he looked than he did about me"
So you need to understand time is a real important factor.
Once a grudge is established and grounded into her head (saying you decide to finish your cycle) Theres a chance she will never take you back.
I would have used some psychology on her and accused her of thinking you were an idiot and sat her down and told her the REAL facts about steroid use and how many different steroids there are and that doctors safely prescribe what your on right now. Basically an effort to minimize the affect of what her brother told her.
But the fact is this and ultimately this. You never mentioned how long you've been with her and although you mention she's important you've resorted to a forum of fellow juicers for advice on YOUR relationship.
So lets understand NOBODY here really knows whats right for you, they can only offer thier advice according to how they perceive your situation.
If it was me personally I would have turned the table around and plotted a guilt trip on her. Because the fact is she ALREADY KNEW.
But a brief conversation with her brother has turned her in the other direction.
So this is MY advice on the situation.
If a girl is truley attracted to you and has genuine feelings for you, NOTHING her mother says, NOTHING her brother says, and NOTHING her friends say can turn down the knob inside her head the draws her towards you.
I think she was holding reservations about other aspects of the relationship either conciously or subconsciously and that involuntary inseperable true attraction never existed to begin (or maybe in the begining but has died away)
At this point, its a choice between a girl you love and you life aspirations.
Its not an easy choice. But I personally would never let a girl get in the way of what makes me feel free, or complete or like I'm truley accomplishing something in life.
And if she can't understand that, shes not ready for a guy like you, and you need to leave her be.
Im not sure what the current communication situation is, but if your still talking to her let her know that *she left. That she undermined your intelligence about the decisions YOU make in YOUR life. That SHE knew before hand and that SHE is the one who needs to sort things out. NOT you.
And lastly, to plant a nice little seed in her head, that if she really loved you she'd accept you for who and what you are, and NOTHING would get in between that, so now you truely understand where you really stood in her life, and if she doesnt want to be with you, thats her choice. You can tell her you love her or w/e. But I personally drop a little ball of insight into her world and let her know how shit really is.
Thats all I can really say bro. G-luck!!