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03-16-2007, 07:54 PM #1Junior Member
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My girlfriend left me over roids today!!!
Ok heres the deal . shes a very family oriented girl . loves her parents and her brothers to death and tells them everything.. Her big brother(35) came to town yesterday , he used to do alot of shooting up back in the day when he played football and started telling little sis that its not good for you to be around me because that stuff has a lot of side effects , screws your heart up along with other organs, possible child defects and mood swings from me .and ill get fat n sloppy 5 years down the road, so she freaked out...
now between us we all know hes an idiot and he was probably munching on d-bol/winny tabs for like 8 months straight and didnt have a pct to top it but either way hes her big bro and she stands by him and doesnt care what research i show her or anything just because she believes that since its illegal its wrong.
i really like this girl just because shes family oriented , shes gorgeous ,great personality and has morals plus i get along with her family too. but im 5 weeks into a test e cycle and the shits just kikin in ,,im really not your definition of a juicer but ive been training for 7 years ,got up to a lean 240 at 6'4 and hit a plateau and thats why im experimenting,,im actually satisfied with my physique now but i know i can take it to a whole new level if i continue . but i can say im pretty happy with my stats as of now but i really wanted those last 7 weeks of the test because thats where its at.........
lemme here what you guys gotta say ,, by the way i dont know if i can lie and keep juicin
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03-16-2007, 08:02 PM #2
this is lounge material.
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03-16-2007, 08:04 PM #3
one thing I do know is.... finish your cycle, that would be the biggest waste of test. You basically just shut down your testes and that's it. At least finish the 7 more weeks and get the most out of it. 7 weeks isn't a long time and after that if you aren't getting into professional bodybuilding and you are 240 at 6'4 before the cycle is over still, I would say after this you don't need to do any more cycles.
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03-16-2007, 08:07 PM #4
My wife doesn't agree with it also an my reply is always "What's the difference beteween women getting Botox, Breast implants, Liposuction and other invasive surgeries that are socially acceptable but carry very high risks with them also....and me putting a natural occuring hormone (albiet above natural limits) in my body."
BTW, she has no porblems with all the above mentioned procedures on the female body.
They all have risks involved. I have already told her I will not give it up and she will either eccept it or we will move on.
Dizz
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03-16-2007, 08:14 PM #5
can't help you......sounds like maybe you were honest with her about it? that right....if so you've done all you can.....
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03-16-2007, 08:16 PM #6Originally Posted by Dizz28
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Get back with her and give me the rest of your juice!
But really, pick 1 or the other. If she really means that much to you, then you will stop. But if you don't feel like shes the one, then **** it....juice it up baby! Then go beat her! lol, no, not really..
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03-16-2007, 08:36 PM #8
Keep juicing and lie to her u've stopped. But make sure u see her oftenly (every second day) so that she doesn't notice u r gaining weight.
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03-16-2007, 08:44 PM #9Originally Posted by chaznad
Thats a tough question.
If you dont get back with her soon eventually you'll be classified as the "steroid juicer bf who cared more about the way he looked than he did about me"
So you need to understand time is a real important factor.
Once a grudge is established and grounded into her head (saying you decide to finish your cycle) Theres a chance she will never take you back.
I would have used some psychology on her and accused her of thinking you were an idiot and sat her down and told her the REAL facts about steroid use and how many different steroids there are and that doctors safely prescribe what your on right now. Basically an effort to minimize the affect of what her brother told her.
But the fact is this and ultimately this. You never mentioned how long you've been with her and although you mention she's important you've resorted to a forum of fellow juicers for advice on YOUR relationship.
So lets understand NOBODY here really knows whats right for you, they can only offer thier advice according to how they perceive your situation.
If it was me personally I would have turned the table around and plotted a guilt trip on her. Because the fact is she ALREADY KNEW.
But a brief conversation with her brother has turned her in the other direction.
So this is MY advice on the situation.
If a girl is truley attracted to you and has genuine feelings for you, NOTHING her mother says, NOTHING her brother says, and NOTHING her friends say can turn down the knob inside her head the draws her towards you.
I think she was holding reservations about other aspects of the relationship either conciously or subconsciously and that involuntary inseperable true attraction never existed to begin (or maybe in the begining but has died away)
At this point, its a choice between a girl you love and you life aspirations.
Its not an easy choice. But I personally would never let a girl get in the way of what makes me feel free, or complete or like I'm truley accomplishing something in life.
And if she can't understand that, shes not ready for a guy like you, and you need to leave her be.
Im not sure what the current communication situation is, but if your still talking to her let her know that *she left. That she undermined your intelligence about the decisions YOU make in YOUR life. That SHE knew before hand and that SHE is the one who needs to sort things out. NOT you.
And lastly, to plant a nice little seed in her head, that if she really loved you she'd accept you for who and what you are, and NOTHING would get in between that, so now you truely understand where you really stood in her life, and if she doesnt want to be with you, thats her choice. You can tell her you love her or w/e. But I personally drop a little ball of insight into her world and let her know how shit really is.
Thats all I can really say bro. G-luck!!
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03-16-2007, 08:47 PM #10Junior Member
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The difference she sees between boobs/botox and roids is that ones legal and the others not.. keep in mind this girl has no gray area she thinks either black or white
what do you guys think about an 8 week cycle???? . i might be able to sneak in 3 more weeks,, im afraid if i take it out to 12 weeks therell be a big difference in my body because im only 5 weeks into it and my vascularity is crazy, body fat is dropping and muscle is feeling very hard even though im the same weight
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03-16-2007, 09:00 PM #11Junior Member
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Originally Posted by Bojangles69
thanks man,
i really wasnt coming in here for advise , i just wanted to know what you guys thought of the situation. we have already talked the situation over and i agreed to throw 2 bottles in the trash ( now keep in mind i have an empty bottel that i will be squeezing 3 weeks worth of test into so i can ride the cycle out to week 8).
as far as the psychology goes weve been through it once before . i educated her on the effects of steroids used incorrectly and correctly but unless you have a passion to learn about it , its really hard to embed in ones head.
but anyways i appreciate everyones input
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Originally Posted by chaznad
To me its an easy one but to each their own i guess.
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03-16-2007, 10:07 PM #13
Tell her she's right, and you're quitting..
but also let her know at some point, that these are long esters and for another 2 months u'll be getting bigger, and than after that it will be out of your system
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03-16-2007, 10:08 PM #14
WTF.....don't throw away the gear......gear before girls.....ALWAYS......find a girl that understands....
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03-16-2007, 10:42 PM #15Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55
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03-16-2007, 10:48 PM #16Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55
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03-16-2007, 11:36 PM #17
finish it
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03-17-2007, 03:31 AM #18
find flaws in her brother think of stuff hes said and done in the past that is obviously bs and expose him as a fraud maybe she will stop listening to him
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03-17-2007, 03:39 AM #19
...does she have a sister
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03-17-2007, 07:16 AM #20New Member
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2 bottels in the garbadge.are you nuts?
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03-17-2007, 07:29 AM #21Originally Posted by chaznad
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03-17-2007, 07:42 AM #22
if that is your girl in your avatar then the guy next to her is jeff goldblum you know," the fly "
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03-17-2007, 07:52 AM #23Associate Member
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Jesus man thats some bad sh*t all the same, if a girl ever told me she would leave me cos of gear and not even take the time out to educate herself bout it. does her bro have any beef with you beside the juice
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03-17-2007, 08:53 AM #24
Imo....its All About Support....she Should Support You In Your Endevors....right Or Wrong....not If You Wanted To Kill Someone Etc...you Know...but To Try To Make Yourself Better...she Should Support You....flip It If If If...she Was Fat...and Wanted To Take ...xenical Or Have Gas Bypass Surgery....would You Support Her?...theres My 2 Cents
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03-17-2007, 09:06 AM #25
Some of you guys need a big dose of reality. She isn't supporting your dream? Well sorry. But even if she did your not going to be a pro bodybuilder. What if your dream was to be an astronaut? would you leave her because she didn't support your dream of walking on the moon?
I can't believe some of you would chose some muscle over someone who cares about you. What do you think will happen when you reach 250lb or 270lbs? Nothing happens. Nothing magical your not a superhero now. In the real world it means absolutely nothing. But know what will mean something. That fact that your alone because you want to be in the gym 30hrs a week and you have to stick illegal drugs in your butt.
I hope you girl has the dream of being a stripper. Just just wants to one day swing from that big brass pole. I know being the good boyfriends you are you will support her dreams. I mean she isn't doing anything illegal like we are.
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03-17-2007, 09:28 AM #26
ROFL......wow i ****ed that up......this is what i get for not reading into the post carefully.......i actually think the exact opposite of that.....if someone doesn't support you in your dreams then they have no place in your life
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Originally Posted by gixxerboy1
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03-17-2007, 09:30 AM #28Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55
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03-17-2007, 09:32 AM #29~ Vet~ I like Thai Girls
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She is a fvcking air head. Dump her ass at your earliest convenience !!!!
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03-17-2007, 09:36 AM #30Originally Posted by Kale
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03-17-2007, 09:37 AM #31~ Vet~ I like Thai Girls
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Originally Posted by gixxerboy1
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03-17-2007, 09:57 AM #32Originally Posted by Kale
OK OK....Kale.....who are the new girls in the Avatar????
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03-17-2007, 10:05 AM #33Originally Posted by gixxerboy1
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03-17-2007, 10:20 AM #34Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55
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03-17-2007, 01:04 PM #35
this chick im seeing.. she hates em.. but just like all others before her.. in abuot 6-8 weeks she will be on var.. as they all do
so wat im saying is slip her some var.. as her boobs get perkiers, butt gets better and sex/sex drive increases .. SHE WILL BOW before aas
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03-17-2007, 01:46 PM #36
Tai is a living, breathing gateway drug....
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03-17-2007, 01:54 PM #37Originally Posted by MFT81
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03-17-2007, 02:15 PM #38Originally Posted by BITTAPART2
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03-17-2007, 02:16 PM #39
try to educate her, that is all you can do
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03-17-2007, 02:18 PM #40
bitches ain't shit but hoes n trix
kick her ass to the curb
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