I love girl code!

SVTMuscle* · 03-30-2007, 06:20 PM

"I dont want anything serious"
aka
"I'm a whore and just want to have sex"

This is how the chain of messages went

Her - I dont want anything serious
Me- Ok... I dont necessarly either
Her- You make it seem that way
Me- Sorry for being nice
Her- Well it sounded like that, you were drunk and said you did want a gf
Me- I prob did mean it at the time..but if you dont want anything serious, we can just stick to drunken sex

fackin whores

**chest6** · 03-30-2007, 06:21 PM

you douche. You wanted a gf. No cuddlers allowed

SVTMuscle* · 03-30-2007, 06:23 PM

Yeah so Skullsmasher is gone

SVTMuscle* · 03-30-2007, 06:28 PM

LOL
"Wow just because I don't want a bf dosn't mean im a slut"

I'm not even gonna respond to that because I know it'll drive her more crazy

I dont even remember saying I wanted her as a gf

Haro3 knows why too! I have proof I didnt talk bitch to her lol

**soccer#3** · 03-30-2007, 06:33 PM

dude ur in a privileged position to just have sex wit a girl and not have to deal wit all of that gf bf bullshyt.. take advatange man, u gonna regret it one day. finally, like u said, fuccin hoes!!

SVTMuscle* · 03-30-2007, 06:38 PM

Nah even better

Chest6: **** her best friend
SVT: Thats...whats on the agenda

**chest6** · 03-30-2007, 06:47 PM

lol u know it

**monkeyboy1215** · 03-30-2007, 07:01 PM

SVT. You always got a good thread on how your hooking it up. I love it.

**Bojangles69** · 03-30-2007, 09:15 PM

Originally Posted by SVTMuscle

"I dont want anything serious"

She said this because you telegraphed too much interest, whether it was what you said verbally or nervous/squirrly b/language something you did made her throw that wall up immediately for a REASON.

DO you think shed give that same line of BS to Brad Pitt?

Originally Posted by SVTMuscle

aka
"I'm a whore and just want to have sex"

In reality shes just a normal sexually healthy female who wants discretion and someone who knows how to **** her right w/out judging her or telling all his friends about it.
Since I hate the word "whore" understand what a girl SAYS means NOTHING. If you had enough value in her eyes, youd cease to be a little boy toy booty prospect who is worth maybe a discrete **** but anything else she may see as a threat to her status in her social group, like dating you. The truth is a m/fkr, but you dont know how many times girls have said this shit than they wind up calling like 94 times a day and start getting jealous that your out with other chicks. So shes NOT a whore. A "WHORE" is just all she feels your worth her being. (if you didnt catch that reread that last sentence)

Originally Posted by SVTMuscle

This is how the chain of messages went

Her - I dont want anything serious
Me- Ok... I dont necessarly either

She sets the frame, you comply.
Shes already dominating the situation.
I would have reframed the fvck outta her and said "what gave you the idea your worth anything serious?"
Sounds cold, but if you had her in attraction she would have just punched you in the shoulder and you laughed but immediately reversed the dynamics.

Originally Posted by SVTMuscle

Her- You make it seem that way
Me- Sorry for being nice

NEVER say "sorry" AT ALL when speaking to chicks. Cardinal rule one. And even worse "nice" to her = easy to control and play games with. Sorry if Im coming down hard on you but you called her a whore lol.

Originally Posted by SVTMuscle

Her- Well it sounded like that, you were drunk and said you did want a gf
Me- I prob did mean it at the time..but if you dont want anything serious, we can just stick to drunken sex

fackin whores

You respond "I was drunk, I think at one point I was trying to climb a wall because I thought I was spider man that night (or w/e bs)"

Again you reverse the frame. But instead you basically say "well if you dont want X than I have no choice but to comply with X" X being her just being a f/buddy.

All and all, I think you really are a nice guy SVT, and your too compliant to REALLY be attractive to girls lol. (not saying your not fvcking them)
Start taking control, dont comply with them, make them comply with you, girls are always trying to test your frame/boundaries and the second they see they can walk right through and control you, they lose attraction.

Im NOT trying to offend you in any sort of way, I think your inner pimp is dying to come out. Just try what I said in the future and let me know how it works out for you.

peace ~ Bo

SVTMuscle* · 03-30-2007, 09:36 PM

damn.

I like
'what a whore' better

For 99% of the girls i meet, I generally treat them the way you suggest, don't let them test you and stuff... but every now and then, I try go to the 'nice guy route' and stuff. i mean im not heat broken or anything over this broad... its just funny how it played out

**DSM4Life** · 03-30-2007, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by SVTMuscle

"I dont want anything serious"
aka
"I'm a whore and just want to have sex"

This is how the chain of messages went

Him- I dont want anything serious
Me- Ok... I dont necessarly either
Him- You make it seem that way
Me- Sorry for being nice
Him- Well it sounded like that, you were drunk and said you did want a bf
Me- I prob did mean it at the time..but if you dont want anything serious, we can just stick to drunken sex

fackin whores

i fixed your typos

**Bojangles69** · 03-30-2007, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by SVTMuscle

damn.

I like
'what a whore' better

For 99% of the girls i meet, I generally treat them the way you suggest, don't let them test you and stuff... but every now and then, I try go to the 'nice guy route' and stuff. i mean im not heat broken or anything over this broad... its just funny how it played out

Ok than you are officially a pimp lol.

Sometimes you have to throw in some "false vulnerabilities" if the girl is real savy and knows your just trying to smash it, like being nice and overly gullible with her.

BUt you did say you were "looking for a gf" so this *might leach into your gaming chicks as it appears to have done above.

And only as advice - whether you accept it or not. NEVER have the state of mind where your "looking for a gf". And NEVER tell a girl when she asks. I always say "Im not sure what I'm looking for but I'll let you know when I find out".
Its totally COOL to want a gf, but just realize if you want it too badly you'll either a) wind up settling for someone who your completely uncompatable with or b) word will spread and the longer girls know your looking for a gf and the longer they see your w/out one the MORE likely you become classified as just another needy loser who cant pull and keep a piece of ass because hes sexually imcompetent or w/e thier brains tell them is the reason why.

Girls DO talk, ESPECIALLY at college where word spreads like wildfire about what guys are "hot". And a lot of what makes a guy "hot" in a girls eyes is a guy whos preselected by other women.

Thats why if you take a girl and 2 of the SAME guys and into one conversation the guy says he has a gf and in the other he doesnt, THAT GIRL is 100 times more likely to flirt with the guy who has a gf. Again this isnt theory, this is REAL shit.

I know some dude who use to put *perfume on before he went out at night and when girls would ask him "what are you wearing" (because they knew it was perfume) he would just smile and say "oh yeah.. (and pause with a grin) Im not wearing anything. (the implication being he was just with a girl)

Its AMAZING how girls would be all over him soon after (but he did have game too lol). Women are competetive as fvck, and will deny they act certain ways but they're all the same ime.

And i've once again veered into a useless rant on how to seduce women, haha.. well its only useless if you dont try it.

**QuieTSToRM33** · 03-30-2007, 10:27 PM

Where's Snrf when you need him ?

**Bojangles69** · 03-31-2007, 12:09 AM

Originally Posted by QuieTSToRM33

Where's Snrf when you need him ?

Hes with his "mummy"

**QuieTSToRM33** · 03-31-2007, 12:13 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Hes with his "mummy"

Nice location !!!

**Bojangles69** · 03-31-2007, 01:22 AM

Originally Posted by QuieTSToRM33

Nice location !!!

lmao!! your right, i 4got shes right here.. so he cant be with her lol.

jk smerf, i know you love me.

**STYLE74** · 03-31-2007, 03:10 AM

Originally Posted by monkeyboy1215

SVT.

You always got a good thread on how your hooking it up.

I love it.

I guess you missed the thread where he couldn't close the deal then...

J/K SVT

***G-1000*** · 03-31-2007, 05:45 AM

send her my way. I like little whores

SVTMuscle* · 03-31-2007, 07:25 AM

Originally Posted by Gsxxr

send her my way. I like little whores

She probably has an STD grab bag sitting in here by now. I found out she's been talking to her ex dirty-puerto rican boyfriend

**JC.1987** · 03-31-2007, 10:55 AM

see.....what your doing is basically puttin the pu**y on a petastle.
also....dont get involed with dirty puerto ricans.... there nuts!

**QuieTSToRM33** · 03-31-2007, 11:32 AM

Originally Posted by JC.1987

also....dont get involed with dirty puerto ricans.... there nuts!

**JC.1987** · 03-31-2007, 12:00 PM

Originally Posted by QuieTSToRM33

haha i thnk people may take wat i said the wrong way, he said that girl is talking with her dirty puerto rican boyfriend...so i said dont get involved with dirty puerto ricans....and their nuts as in they will hurt you lol...it has happened to a few friends.
i wasnt saying puerto ricans are dirty. but dont get involved with dirty anything!