My GF dumped me This is so WEIRD.

[taiboxa]

i have known this chick for long time finally we hook up. she is an amazing person- the whole package- smart, sexy, fun, thoughtful, kind, caring, and very honest plus she is really good in bed.

we hit it off for quite some time, and she falls in love w/ me real fast (been like a year or longer since she has been/dated/done anything w/ anyone). the whole time im askin her r u sure its not infatuation/lust and not love? after asking this like 10 times and getting the same response "No, i know what i feel and its neither of those" im like hey this could work out great.

things are going great, but in last 2 weeks she has distance her self from me... we talk less about anything and everything and she doesnt want to be touched as much... like i always had my hand on her leg when we were together driving and what ever.. but now its like "can u move ur hand im too hot." just lots of lil things like that.

yesterday i get the call
she says (all sad and crying like) that she Loves me but isnt INLOVE w/ me and she isnt attracted to me. she goes on to say that "it makes me even more sad to know that im not attracted to you when u are the most amazing person i have ever been with" (this made me go wtf?)
so basically she said there is no chemistry and calld it off, but i felt chemistry the whole time so now im so perplexed by this ordeal, i know not what to think of it. she said that im very attractive but my size is very offputting, and she has never been with anyone who is thoughtful or loving towards her and that was weird too (how the **** is that weird). i guess its true i need to be an ass to keep em ><

so my question is: why are women weird?

[WEBB]

women arent weird man, they are fuc*in down right nutty...

[tommik]

i guess its true i need to be an ass to keep em

yep, more sun of a bitch you are better chances to keep the chick... just move on, find another one man.

[spywizard]

is this the chick that flew in this past weekend??

damn bro, she was looking for closure, and or you were just too much for her, or she didn't feel that she deserved anyone as good as you.. or her last boyfriend cheated and you are lots better and you will too..

yada yada yada..

you are better off, at least it only cost you 1 yr..

life is a journey.. not a destination..

keep up the good fight..

[dece870717]

Dude, women are crazy as hell and don't make any sense. Like my cousin's girlfriend, they have broken up "FOR GOOD" over 5 times already, like just recently she told me that again and then I end up seeing her at his house 2 days later. I don't think anyone can understand why women do or say all these things. Ya but sorry about your loss man, if she really was that great and all of a sudden this happen I would try to talk to her a little more and try to figure it out better, cause the answer she gave you seems a bit strange, especially if you guys have been going out for that long.

[taiboxa]

Dude, women are crazy as hell and don't make any sense. Like my cousin's girlfriend, they have broken up "FOR GOOD" over 5 times already, like just recently she told me that again and then I end up seeing her at his house 2 days later. I don't think anyone can understand why women do or say all these things. Ya but sorry about your loss man, if she really was that great and all of a sudden this happen I would try to talk to her a little more and try to figure it out better, cause the answer she gave you seems a bit strange, especially if you guys have been going out for that long.

she says she wants to stay in touch and talk as much as we still can or wat ever kuz she is like
"hopefully things will change and it will work out" but meh not a fan of sitting on the sidelines. ><

[dece870717]

she says she wants to stay in touch and talk as much as we still can or wat ever kuz she is like
"hopefully things will change and it will work out" but meh not a fan of sitting on the sidelines. ><

Ya I got real little patience with women.

[taiboxa]

is this the chick that flew in this past weekend??

damn bro, she was looking for closure, and or you were just too much for her, or she didn't feel that she deserved anyone as good as you.. or her last boyfriend cheated and you are lots better and you will too..

yada yada yada..

you are better off, at least it only cost you 1 yr..

life is a journey.. not a destination..

keep up the good fight..

yeah it was that one, she was looking for long term stuff which is fine though i like to take it one step at a time.
it woulda been a lil easier break up if shit didnt seem so perfect lol, i thought things were great but apparently my view of great is skewed ><

[Lexed]

fck that tai dont keep talking to her. Jesus she wasted a year of your life cause of a fling. Go to a club tonight and get some action will be over by tomorrow

[WEBB]

i dont think it was your view as much as hers changed in a hurry for some reason...

[SMAN12b]

she says she wants to stay in touch and talk as much as we still can or wat ever kuz she is like
"hopefully things will change and it will work out" but meh not a fan of sitting on the sidelines. ><

Tell her SURE, we can still talk as much as she wants, but DO NOT sit around waiting!!! Keep busy, and don't be as available to her....she will realize she is losing you and want to work things out.....if not, then hunt her down and stick a shiv in her side!!! J/K

[fenceguy]

yeah it was that one, she was looking for long term stuff which is fine though i like to take it one step at a time.
it woulda been a lil easier break up if shit didnt seem so perfect lol, i thought things were great but apparently my view of great is skewed ><

hey Bro, your view of great isn't skewed. Women all have snakes in their head. They want something right up until they have it. then they want something else. Hang in there, and don't change your view.

[kroshamwindsong]

Been there...heard that same speech before....more than once.

That Love vs. In Love thing is a load or crap they try to sell you.

The "you are too good for me" line is also a load of crap. I mean if you gave them the choice of a free Toyota Corolla or a Fancy BMW they are going to take the Toyota because the BMW is too "good" for them? Huh? Who does that?

Women don't really seem to know what they want. They think love should be like in the movies. All magic...no effort or compromises required. If the chemistry is "right" the passion will sustain itself without any work from either of you? The grass is always greener on the other side. When they get over to the other side..they find out that although its a different color its still just grass.

I've just got some regular old crackers!

http://youtube.com/watch?v=B0x_dFMnZVI

You can't wait around forever on the sidelines for her to figure this out.

Don't be surprised if in a while you don't get a knock on the door from her. It will be up to you to decide if you will open the door though. Maybe she will have figured out what you two had....maybe not.

Does not make it any easier though does it? GL.

[CoreyTampa09]

This is my theory on why woman are nutty.

It all dates way back when since men have overall had more power than woman. Its almost like a matriarchy way of life for them to offset relationship so they can ultimately be in control.

Its a feminest power trip they love and have and its the reason why they find dickheads for boyfriends for the sheer factor if it does successfully work they can say to everyone "My boyfriend was different, I CHANGED HIM". It gives them a sense of power, a forever boost of morale, etc.

Well anyway thats my theory.

[RA]

Your size huh...whats wrong tai, you too skinny now? Roid going to have to beef you up?

[SMAN12b]

Tai, we will NEVER understand women, lets just face it. I was in the same boat as you. She fell for me hard, said that no other man in her life ever showed her as much love as I had, then I got an EMAIL breakup.....and never heard another word from her again....that was a year ago, and now I met a wonderful woman, who ....in time ....will probably do the same damn thing to me......LOLOL

Just enjoy them while they are around, and then move on when they turn nutso....!!!!!

[thegodfather]

All I heard out of that was "BLAH BLAH BLAH IM A DIRTY HOR"...

Seriously...when girls start trying to explain away their feelings to me I tune them out and insert the above line into it... You can translate any "I just wanna be friends"...."things are moving too fast"..ETC ETC ETC into what I just said above... **** trying to understand what is in the mind of bitches..There all pretty much the same as far as how ****ed up in the brain they are... The girl sounds like a bullshit liar to me...

(Im having a premonition and I predict a post from Bojangles69 at some point)...

[maxex]

Been there...heard that same speach before....more than once.

That Love vs. In Love thing is a load or crap they try to sell you.

The "you are too good for me" line is also a load of crap. I mean if you gave them the choice of a free Toyota Corolla or a Fancy BMW they are going to take the Toyota because the BMW is too "good" for them? Huh? Who does that?

Women don't really seem to know what they want. They think love should be like in the movies. All magic...no effort or compromises required. If the chemistry is "right" the passion will sustain itself without any work from either of you? The grass is always greener on the other side. When they get over to the other side..they find out that although its a different color its still just grass.

I've just got some regular old crackers!

http://youtube.com/watch?v=B0x_dFMnZVI

You can't wait around forever on the sidelines for her to figure this out.

Don't be surprised if in a while you don't get a knock on the door from her. It will be up to you to decide if you will open the door though. Maybe she will have figured out what you two had....maybe not.

Does not make it any easier though does it? GL.

This sounds pretty accurate, I think she is full of sh1t and playing head games. Ive heard this one many times. WHen women say something like that just shrug and say, ok c-ya. And walk away. Then sit back and watch how fast they come running back.

[gixxerboy1]

she says she wants to stay in touch and talk as much as we still can or wat ever kuz she is like
"hopefully things will change and it will work out" but meh not a fan of sitting on the sidelines. ><

So if you liek her still talk to her. What do you have to loose? But dont sit on the side lines waiting.

[audis4]

many more fish in the sea tai

[RA]

So if you liek her still talk to her. What do you have to loose? But dont sit on the side lines waiting.

No way I would talk to her. Not out of spite or anything...she broke up with him. He keeps calling/writing shes going to think pathetic. Just move on.

[taiboxa]

i dont think it was your view as much as hers changed in a hurry for some reason...

she movin to cali for good to get her phd as she got accepted last year.
i think she is super freaked out bout the whole LONG distance relationship.
seemed like the closer it got for her to start her gradschool the more.. distance she put between us

[Gear]

Mate you never know what goes on in females heads. They are not human to me. Sorry to hear the bad news but move on mate, you have no choice.

-Gear

[shredzs]

man..... sounds kinda fishy to me....... sounds like she might be tryin out somethin else, meanwhile tryin to keep you on hold incase things dont work out.
dunno, just my guess??

[gixxerboy1]

Maybe she found your ninja pajamas in the clothes basket

[gixxerboy1]

No way I would talk to her. Not out of spite or anything...she broke up with him. He keeps calling/writing shes going to think pathetic. Just move on.

I agree. They all say we should be friends to be nice. But if she calls and does try and stay friends i would too.

[Gear]

man..... sounds kinda fishy to me....... sounds like she might be tryin out somethin else, meanwhile tryin to keep you on hold incase things dont work out.
dunno, just my guess??

Man don't put stupid things in his head. Anyone in his position doesn't want to hear that.

-Gear

[taiboxa]

a funny lil side note is..
since i been dieting for this show . she was gone for like 2 weeks when i did some drastic body compisition changes w/ the pgcl and diet tweaks and everyone COULD see HUGE changes in me... like people i see every day at the gym were like WTF DOOD ur getting HELLA TIGHTER and harder...

i was LOOKING SUPER SEXUAL BEASTIFIED... and it seemed like she was more into my body when i was pudgy and cute, instead of now that im veiny and hard...

[Panzerfaust]

Damn, it seems you can't win Tai.

[taiboxa]

Man don't put stupid things in his head. Anyone in his position doesn't want to hear that.

-Gear

ha thanks but i trust her she has always been super str8 up w/ me and if there was someone else i know she would tell me right off the bat because that IS the person she is so i honestly think she just felt out of her "domain" since im a completely different type of character than the usual that she is with.

[spywizard]

a funny lil side note is..
since i been dieting for this show . she was gone for like 2 weeks when i did some drastic body compisition changes w/ the pgcl and diet tweaks and everyone COULD see HUGE changes in me... like people i see every day at the gym were like WTF DOOD ur getting HELLA TIGHTER and harder...

i was LOOKING SUPER SEXUAL BEASTIFIED... and it seemed like she was more into my body when i was pudgy and cute, instead of now that im veiny and hard...

bet i called it.. she's afraid with you being so hot.. many women will throw themselves at you, and she doesn't want to or doesn't feel she deserves to be with you..

[Prada]

...smart, sexy, fun, thoughtful, kind, caring, and very honest plus she is really good in bed.

Wow, all this AND good in bed? That is really a precious female. I usually meet all of the above but sucks in bed or the complete opposite.

[Foskamink]

my x gf lost attraction to me too .. i had 'fashionable' shaved and spikes at the back short at front.. the whole european spanish style.. but then i cut it to 0.8 mm and a few weeks later we hit that pass.. i was like **** it. my hair.. she always would say she hated my hair and wanted me to change it back but i said no and no and no. surely this isnt the full reason but it sure helpd.. badluck mate

[Stock]

Does she have any hot friends you could hook up with. Not necessarily bang them, but I believe that if she sees you getting out with other women, she'll either come back or wont, but either way you are out dating and doing your thing. Get your groove on, if it was meant to be, it will. If not, at least she knows you arent sitting at home waiting...

[IronReload04]

this is why I think males are the superior being.....We have more fortitude....Women are so unsure of themselves and fail to understand logic......Their brains cant comprehend logic

[FranKieC]

Tai maybe it's all the shitting from the Pcgl? jk

I feel ya though bro, girls are whacky! Especially in NY lol

[unclemoney]

Yeah women are weird... a little too weird... that's why right now I'm staying single, number1 it's all too easy to find a girl out here, and number2 they all pretty much end up cheating on me or breaking up with me for no apparent reason... Like my last ex... She fell in love with me soo quick... Only to turn around and say she's not ready for a realtionship but she still wants to be friends, whatever... etc...

So I'm at drill with my unit and she gives me a call... wants me to come by her place after I get off... I do and we hook up, and for about 2 weeks were basicly friends with benefits and doing the same crap as if we were in a relationship but we weren't... Then she's always saying how I'm the best guy she's ever met, blah blah blah yatta yatta yatta all this good crap about me and then all of a sudden turns around and outa the blue starts dating some other guy... So I go on to call her out on her ways call her a bitch, liar, faker, fronter, etc, etc and then she's surprised that I said that and didn't want to be friends anymore... Now is that weird or what???

Anyways... yeah women are very strange... plus they take up too much of your time. That's why I'm choosing to stay single so I can focus on my goals and do whatever I want. I feel when in a relationship you always have to make time to do stuff with them and say if work or something else that pops up gets in the way of your plans you kinda feel bad (at least I do) but it's not like that with any1 else just with gf's... So call me selfish but I prefer to do whatever I want whenever I want.

[ru-ga-ru]

women arent weird man, they are fuc*in down right nutty...

100% right

[kroshamwindsong]

One time I had a GF cheat on me with another guy. When I confronted her about it and asked her why she cheated I got "I was attracted to him because he reminded me of you".

That made me feel much better.

Most women don't know what they want. Thats all I can say.

[Mike Dura]

Definately speaking in contradictions and you gotta question the sincerity. In such an instance, I'd take the "two tears in a bucket....mutha ****it" attitude. No need to feel confused. If it doesn't wash, I turn off like a switch and take refuge into "my own thing."

i have known this chick for long time finally we hook up. she is an amazing person- the whole package- smart, sexy, fun, thoughtful, kind, caring, and very honest plus she is really good in bed.

we hit it off for quite some time, and she falls in love w/ me real fast (been like a year or longer since she has been/dated/done anything w/ anyone). the whole time im askin her r u sure its not infatuation/lust and not love? after asking this like 10 times and getting the same response "No, i know what i feel and its neither of those" im like hey this could work out great.

things are going great, but in last 2 weeks she has distance her self from me... we talk less about anything and everything and she doesnt want to be touched as much... like i always had my hand on her leg when we were together driving and what ever.. but now its like "can u move ur hand im too hot." just lots of lil things like that.

yesterday i get the call
she says (all sad and crying like) that she Loves me but isnt INLOVE w/ me and she isnt attracted to me. she goes on to say that "it makes me even more sad to know that im not attracted to you when u are the most amazing person i have ever been with" (this made me go wtf?)
so basically she said there is no chemistry and calld it off, but i felt chemistry the whole time so now im so perplexed by this ordeal, i know not what to think of it. she said that im very attractive but my size is very offputting, and she has never been with anyone who is thoughtful or loving towards her and that was weird too (how the **** is that weird). i guess its true i need to be an ass to keep em ><

so my question is: why are women weird?