anyone here still dealing wit there hischool honeys?

**dirtball_619** · 05-28-2007, 06:48 PM

guys ive just about had it. ive been with this chick off and on more times than i can count for. met her and lost our virginitys together sophmore year and here i am graduated for 2 years and we have been trying to get together and then either one of us ends up ****in up.we have tried so many times and the past 3 time its been her leaving me for another guy but before it was me leaving her the passed 4-8 times before that(not sure) . so now shes out with her new guy texting me that she can do better and that she doesnt need me. but this time i really tried to make it work... sent her flowers, took her to eat, talked to her all night etc.

this time its just hitting me so hard i think this love is over but i dont want it to be. i just keep trying to patch up this relationship and it never works.

now im just a chump wit a lump in my throat.

question is.... any of you guys still dealing with there old highschool sweet hearts? and if so does it ever work? me and this chick always seem to be dragged back together after a month or two its wierd

**dirtball_619** · 05-28-2007, 06:54 PM

bump

**taiboxa** · 05-28-2007, 06:57 PM

so ur still in high school?
wtf

**dirtball_619** · 05-28-2007, 07:19 PM

ive been graduated for 2 yrs lol

**thetank** · 05-28-2007, 07:27 PM

i think for most of the guys on here, if they were still dealing with 'highschool honeys' they would be in jail.

**dirtball_619** · 05-28-2007, 07:47 PM

no no no... like that one girl from highschool that had your heart... nevermind guys ill just find a way to deal with it

**skank** · 05-28-2007, 08:01 PM

Sure, I graduated high school 30 years ago. Got back with my high school honey many times in the couple of years after graduation. Finally had to let her go cuz it was killin me. Now I am married to a different woman but I still talk with the ex honey now and then. But we have just become great friends and we are happy with that. My advice is to move on. Otherwise she will drive you crazy.

**dirtball_619** · 05-28-2007, 08:10 PM

thats exactly wat she does! drives me crazy. all my mood swings are in some way related to her. best to get rid of her before i cycle

**thegodfather** · 05-28-2007, 08:13 PM

answer yes...

i met her when i was in 8th grade....i guess you could say im a junior in college, although ive switched majors so I dont know where the hell that puts me...anyway ive been with her on and off A LOT...

**Saunacrank** · 05-29-2007, 12:50 AM

dude just got over this same situation a few weeks ago. Had the gf all through hs, on and off for 4 years, graduated 2 years ago. This time I dunno what it was, but I had this feeling it was just time to move past it. I've been happier then I've ever been now that I made the decision to move on and forget her. Too much bad history....sounds like the same shit you're going through. IT's just not worth it, there's always another girl, so why be unhappy with her?

**spywizard** · 05-29-2007, 12:51 AM

change is good man..

you are fearing the unknown.. let me tell ya.. it's good.. move on..

**slob** · 05-29-2007, 01:17 AM

someone get bojangles, i couldnt be bothered typing a response to this...
cut a long story short...
stop being nice to her, get another chick.

**Serotonin** · 05-29-2007, 08:20 AM

I'm engaged to mine. We met when we were 15 and shit started to get bumpy before I went into the Navy. So, we split for about 3 years and got back together my last year in since we still really missed each other and never really lost our strong feelings toward one another.

Been together 7 years so far and in the 3 years I man whored like a champion in the Navy I didn't meet one woman that came even close to her. She is the ONLY person I can even imagine having children with.

**LawMan018** · 05-29-2007, 05:21 PM

I was with my highschool hunny for quite a few months out of highschool, we were together for a year and a half... It sucked cuz I had never felt that way about someone before (and neither did she for quite some time) and she just up and left me for another guy a week before Christmas and a trip she was going to go on with my family and I... What you gotta look at is... You're young, and your minds are still growing. People around our age fall in and out of love like no other, I was lucky to be with someone I loved for a year and a half at this age cause most don't last past several months... It's been half a year since she left me and I'm fine now... Just let her go, and if she does come back, sweet! If not, you're gonna find yourself a better woman.

**Beefkake31** · 05-29-2007, 08:39 PM

Best advice I can give is.......

If you guys tried to make it work this many times over this many years then it truly is not meant to be and you both can find someone better. The person you marry or live with for the rest of your life shouldn't be someone you argue with everyday and become miserable and hate each other. The people that I have met that are happily married are the ones that can count the number of times on one hand that they have really argued over the years, let alone every day. Just my .02 cents.