'Official Postwhore Thread'

[Voland]

Tanning is a 20 and 21st century trend. And now i want a fokin cake bc i'm pale! hahaha

[Voland]

Wooow Endstille's last album some good stuff. Pure darkness and hatred. Black metal rules so much.

[RuhlFreak55]

and she doesnt talk to you any more.

Its not healthy obsessing like this

i didn't say it was......doesn't mean i can stop, and she called me the other day......and i really really really wanna call her back because i was in class at the time and didn't get to answer but i'm scared that maybe it was an accident or something

hey ruhl.....go to the tanning place!!!

i'm not tanning till next contest season

Then you've been physically together once right?
Why can't that happen again?. I mean. Yes she's from canada and you are from us (yes?) is not that far away. Not an every day trip but why not every month or so and keep contact via web cams o phone or whatever?

yea we've been together before......and it is a LONG way...it's like in Europe where all ur countries are the size of my state........she's almost 900 miles away.....neither of us can afford to do even once a month trips like that

[Skully44420]

WTF ruhl...call her back...even if it was an accident, wouldn't you want to know if you really care about her that much?

[Voland]

How long has it been since you were together or had a long conversation?

[Voland]

Honestly, to me it sounds like a first girl platonic crush. That happens to romantic people. You want that feeling, that abstraction. And you think she is the only one that can provide that feeling to you. Find a girl "take your mind off the old one "

[RuhlFreak55]

WTF ruhl...call her back...even if it was an accident, wouldn't you want to know if you really care about her that much?

why do you think i keep thinking about it? and i dunno......if i get reminded for sure how much she cares for me back how will i ever get over her....i already can't.....it would just make it worse cuz we can't see a way to be together.

How long has it been since you were together or had a long conversation?

i dunno....6 months maybe

Honestly, to me it sounds like a first girl platonic crush. That happens to romantic people. You want that feeling, that abstraction. And you think she is the only one that can provide that feeling to you. Find a girl "take your mind off the old one "

thoughts of her wont let me......i think.....i don't want anyone but her. Or Katie, but she wont have me

[Amorphic]

man ruhl i dont know how you can keep obsessing over her. hell, ive had my problems with getting over girls but the amount of pain you're holding onto scares even me.

[RuhlFreak55]

man ruhl i dont know how you can keep obsessing over her. hell, ive had my problems with getting over girls but the amount of pain you're holding onto scares even me.

i dunno....i'm a masochist i guess

[Phate]

i dunno....i'm a masochist i guess

no, your a masochist that is very in tune with his feminine side, those two together are not a good combination

[Voland]

dude, that is some hardcore obsession.
Don't pay attention to what your brain says "she's the only one". Thats false.
She was one, in one time. Now is over. You move on and live the present or think about a future (a good one). If you're going to fool yourself at least fool yourself with nice and positive thing like next month i'll be kicking some serious ass, girls are gonna worship me and i'll have such a hard time picking just 3 a time. That doesn't hurt anyone, specially not yourself.

[Bojangles69]

Theres better more logical ways to hurt yourself.

At least try a new way..

[Amorphic]

dude, that is some hardcore obsession.
Don't pay attention to what your brain says "she's the only one". Thats false.
She was one, in one time. Now is over. You move on and live the present or think about a future (a good one). If you're going to fool yourself at least fool yourself with nice and positive thing like next month i'll be kicking some serious ass, girls are gonna worship me and i'll have such a hard time picking just 3 a time. That doesn't hurt anyone, specially not yourself.

yeah thats the best way to get through things, im still in the process of doing that as well

[Bojangles69]

ruhl needs to do some reading...

[Voland]

A blue sleeping pill has my name on it...
US open is never ending! Its almost 23:30 and those dudes are still playing. I want to see it but still in the 3rd set...fff

[Bojangles69]

edit: wrong read lol

[RuhlFreak55]

no, your a masochist that is very in tune with his feminine side, those two together are not a good combination

why?

dude, that is some hardcore obsession.
Don't pay attention to what your brain says "she's the only one". Thats false.
She was one, in one time. Now is over. You move on and live the present or think about a future (a good one). If you're going to fool yourself at least fool yourself with nice and positive thing like next month i'll be kicking some serious ass, girls are gonna worship me and i'll have such a hard time picking just 3 a time. That doesn't hurt anyone, specially not yourself.

well maybe i'll watch the secret tonight.....i was trying to be positive....thinking bout getting together with Katie (different girl than kate if anyone is still confused) but that i kinda lost hope in

Theres better more logical ways to hurt yourself.

At least try a new way..

well i used to pierce things for fun when i was little.....

[Bojangles69]

This would be a good read for ruhl:
http://www.fastseduction.com/phrases..._pua_018.shtml

Its better to read it than get to the lessons part. But the 3 lessons are this:

1) Don't talk about girls to your friends, because you'll mind**** yourself
into thinking that they're special (even if they are, you don't want to be
thinking that way until AFTER you laid her.. in this particular case I believe
I could, but that's not always the case).

2) Don't think about girls in your head.

3) Love is SELF-HYPNOSIS.

[Voland]

ruhl needs to do some reading...

But not too much. Just enough. Stimulating stuff. Read the classics. We don't want books to be an imaginary refuge.
oh. and please, do yourself another favour. Don't read romantic stuff now, no Stendal, no Flaubert, no Goethe, no. Ofcourse no chick crap romance novels, its just bad literature, poor written, full of emptyness and they portray a reality thats not real.

[Voland]

This would be a good read for ruhl:
http://www.fastseduction.com/phrases..._pua_018.shtml

Its better to read it than get to the lessons part. But the 3 lessons are this:

1) Don't talk about girls to your friends, because you'll mind**** yourself
into thinking that they're special (even if they are, you don't want to be
thinking that way until AFTER you laid her.. in this particular case I believe
I could, but that's not always the case).

2) Don't think about girls in your head.

3) Love is SELF-HYPNOSIS.

Bo, thats the kind of stuff some guys get trapped with. They end up devouring all this how to, what to, when to...they end up with a ton of infomration on their hands and heads and never apply it.

If going for that stuff....per each 10 mins you read you practice in real life, not in book life or imagination, ONE hour.

[Voland]

Night all!

[Bojangles69]

I'd personally recommend "Sperm Wars", after I read that book a few years ago it literally changed the entire way I thought about sex, women & mating.

It actually would be real relevant too for the kate thing. Loaded with biological/*********ary facts and really cool book as well.

[Bojangles69]

Bo, thats the kind of stuff some guys get trapped with. They end up devouring all this how to, what to, when to...they end up with a ton of infomration on their hands and heads and never apply it.

If going for that stuff....per each 10 mins you read you practice in real life, not in book life or imagination, ONE hour.

Couldn't agree more.
For guys really interested in that "how to" stuff I actually tell them to read 3 different books (nothing from any online forums) than never read anything again untill they start producing real life results.

It does happen a lot, the kj trap. But in actuality ruhl would be better in the kj trap than the one hes in now, a *million times better.

[RuhlFreak55]

This would be a good read for ruhl:
http://www.fastseduction.com/phrases..._pua_018.shtml

Its better to read it than get to the lessons part. But the 3 lessons are this:

1) Don't talk about girls to your friends, because you'll mind**** yourself
into thinking that they're special (even if they are, you don't want to be
thinking that way until AFTER you laid her.. in this particular case I believe
I could, but that's not always the case).

2) Don't think about girls in your head.

3) Love is SELF-HYPNOSIS.

ummm i don't like that website

[RuhlFreak55]

But not too much. Just enough. Stimulating stuff. Read the classics. We don't want books to be an imaginary refuge.
oh. and please, do yourself another favour. Don't read romantic stuff now, no Stendal, no Flaubert, no Goethe, no. Ofcourse no chick crap romance novels, its just bad literature, poor written, full of emptyness and they portray a reality thats not real.

i only read sci-fi and fantasy....every thing else is boring

[Bojangles69]

ummm i don't like that website

Ok heres a much better one.
Just don't forget people come to this site, see the "looking for steroids banner" and prob think "I don't like that site".

When theres nuggets of gold all over this place.

I would suggest maybe you read one article in it entirity before you made any generalizations.
And this article you may like.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/f...le-truths.html

[RuhlFreak55]

LOL i've read through number three and they told me i wasn't a real man.......and i've never spent over 20 hours total with any girl cept kate and my mom and sister

[RuhlFreak55]

hmm so overall that wasn't a bad post on that other board......i dunno there was the parts in there where he called any man that doesn't want random sex pathetic but whatever

[oneshot]

whuddup fellow hoes

[RuhlFreak55]

whuddup fellow hoes

nothin.....wandering through life without purpose....thinking about kate and katie.....the usual

[RuhlFreak55]

only thing i've done of consequence all day is re discover how much i love devicebondage.com

[Reed]

only thing i've done of consequence all day is re discover how much i love devicebondage.com

You are a weird guy Ruhl, you need professional help

[RuhlFreak55]

You are a weird guy Ruhl, you need professional help

lol did you go look? i love that shit.....has a more fearful element than just ropes i think

[Reed]

Yep and after learning your obsession and stalker behavior with the females I would think it would be dangerous for any overall nice female to be dating you. Thats some messed up stuff.

[Reed]

You need therapy.

[RuhlFreak55]

whatever....it's all in good fun.....consensual.....very fun

[RuhlFreak55]

i still might need therapy but not for my sexual tastes

[Reed]

I don't know how causing fear in a love making act can be consensual

[RuhlFreak55]

I don't know how causing fear in a love making act can be consensual

derrrr one talks of it before hand......make a safe word.....and both parties have fun.....and get off

[Bojangles69]

hmm so overall that wasn't a bad post on that other board......i dunno there was the parts in there where he called any man that doesn't want random sex pathetic but whatever

I think love is just as healthy and natural as random sex.
I also think any healthy man or woman needs to go through absolute phases of each. Like a phase where you do nothing but go on romantic dates, and another phase where you do nothing but fvck random girls.

It just helps calibrate what feelings are coming from where, and what feelings should & shouldn't logically exist.
When I was in highschool I could screw a girl and than find myself thinking I might like her romantically the next day.
And it took me some time to realize there was absolutely no validation to feel that way for someone I just screwed.
It also taught me how to satisfy certain urges w/out feeling like I needed to commit to something with someone that I really didn't want to. And how to appreciate someone in a different way.
It just helps a lot with emotional self control.