Would you ever give your child up for adoption?…

[MIKE_XXL]

…under any circumstances, if you were very sick, very young, very poor etc…or would you keep him/her no matter what…

…just thought I would ask another hard question…XXL

[adaptations]

No, and NEVER would i do such a thing.
Id have an abortion before i gave my child up for adoption..That would NEVER be an answer to my problem for me!!

But thats just me

[Tapout]

no way
hes 4 and my best buddy i have more fun with him then i can explain and love him more than anything

[Cali]

Originally posted by Tapout
no way
hes 4 and my best buddy i have more fun with him then i can explain and love him more than anything

Wow...took the words out of my mouth. I have a 4 yr old son and feel the same.

[Buddha_Red]

Sadly, i gave up a son for adoption.

I was very young (16 years old) and just couldnt ignore the fact that life with me would have been a strugle at best and therefor not the best for the child.

It was very painful to do, but the best choice. He went to a family that was very well off and full of love, ive researched info about him over the years and he grew up very happy and healthy.

Id love to say i would change it, but i wouldnt. the path i was on and the age i was made being a good provider impossible at that time.

[David B.]

Originally posted by MIKE_XXL
…under any circumstances, if you were very sick, very young, very poor etc…or would you keep him/her no matter what…

Yes, if I thought it was in the best interest of the child. I think that this is a much better option than abortion.

--dnb

[jeffylyte]

hopefully none of us will ever have to make this choice.

[silverfox]

Speaking as someone who was adopted I am glad my birth mother picked that over abortion, not that i feel abortion is wrong either. Lucky for me I grew up in great home and was able to meet my birth mother about 6 years ago, and she lives in same city and I have 1/2 brother so best of both worlds. Remeber at one time un-wed mothers was just a big no/no not like today.

[EXCESS]

Nope. I'm prepared to accept the consequences of my actions. If I felt that bringing a child into this world was unfair to the child, I wouldn't put myself in that situation to begin with.

[The French Curler]

If you got yourself into that kind of problem, you must think about the kid's best interest by taking care of him/her and loving him/her. It would be your responsibility.