My Ex's best friends wants me.....

[ImACrazyJewDaddy]

Well, for the past couple months or so, ive been on and off with my ex girlfriend, and was PRETTY confident we were going to end up dating. It had been a week since she had called me after the last time we were together, and then I find out shes dating some DUDe who lives an hour away lol. Was pretty upset, pissed..Whatever..you know the feeling. She said It was my fault,so I released my anger out by sleeping with her best friend last night. She doesnt know about it, all she knows is that She blew her off to "chiil" with me. So she's mad. But the thing is this isnt the only time I had been with this girl, their have been a few times Ive been with her while me and my ex were talking. Not gonna lie, I only wanted my X because she was really hott, nice tits, ass.the whole thing(she's an 18 year old cheerleader). But her friend is the same way..except she's a tennis player, and is in cullinary school(coooking!) but I really like the fact she's not a Material girl, and doesnt care about going out(1 point) doesnt think nice cars, or dining at fancy restraunts is a turn on(2 points) (probably because she can cook) and she likes to chill and drink a few beers, and watch Hockey. Ok...this is my Perfect Girlfriend. She also works the exact same shifts as me. Thing is, should I take my chances dating her if she would sleep with me, behind her Best friends back???/ hmmm im so lost on what to do. But everytinhg is so good!

[bulldawg_28]

She sounds like a decent girl. I would definetly date her.

[ImACrazyJewDaddy]

Im going to her place now..we'll see how things go...Leave some helpfull thoughts guys. And girls as well..Id really like to her what your thoughts are.

[Mogamedogz]

... doesnt think nice cars, or dining at fancy restraunts is a turn on(2 points) (probably because she can cook)

10 more points for being able to cook...

Dirtch the Whoah who flaked on you for another chump, and keep shagging hthe (soon to be EX) Best friend. Yup.

[maxiimus]

go for it matey keep us posted on how ya go

[longhorn814]

ditch the money grubbing, materialist bitch and go for the best friend..who cares if the ex has nice ass and tits..i can find that anywher..besides you said this other girl has the same so Im not really seeing the problem here

[Bruce000]

Go for it!!! Your got my vote

[testisbest]

I can't believe you actually have to ask this question.

[UberSteroids]

What is there to ask?
If she is a cool girl, date her.

They'll probably talk about you cock size and how you perform anyways

[PROTEINSHAKE]

thats a no-brainer..... go with the chick thats easier to be with.. who needs to deal with an ex thats dating others & materialistic... the one u slept with last nite sounds good....why let it go?

[m8intl]

I think the question he posed is in regards to whether or not we (other board members) think this chick is shady for going behind her best friends back and sleeping with him.

Personally, I think it depends on the underlying circumstances. If this chick could reasonably ascertain that you and your ex were through, then what's the problem? As long as the girl with whom you slept didn't cheat on her boyfriend while sleeping with you, then I think the potential repercussion of similar behavior biting you in the ass in the future is negligible. My two cents.

[ImACrazyJewDaddy]

m8intl you hit the Nail on the head with that one. Thats exactly what I was asking. The other shit is obvious on why I would date her. And no, she was single at the time when we first hooked up...

[5ifthCitizen]

ive been in the exact same situation before man. before i started hanging out with the ex's best friend, the two of them were already having some friendship problems and were starting to grow apart anyways...so i just said fvck it and kept dating the ex's best friend anyways. just have fun with it and try not to get to involved with her at first if you're questioning her motives at all. it'll also help getting over the other cheating bitch. it was fun while it lasted for me lol

[StoneGRMI]

If she's shady enough to go behind her "best friends" back to date you she's shady enough to go behind your back. I give you the no go and move on to the next one at this time.

[Johny-too-small]

You have some good questions and you're seeing potentially red-flags, so just take it nice and slow. Have fun, keep your guard up, and see what happens. Good luck.

[m8intl]

If she's shady enough to go behind her "best friends" back to date you she's shady enough to go behind your back. I give you the no go and move on to the next one at this time.

I think that depends on what she does from this point forward. If she tries to date you behind your ex's back, then I agree with you StoneGRMI, she's bad news. But if she's open with your ex, I'd think with time, she and your ex will naturally grow apart and the circumstances of how you met might be moot.

I've dated girls whom I've met under similar circumstances. Sometimes it's worked out really well, other times it hasn't...but the ride was always fun. Let us know what you decide.

[SMAN12b]

[Deluge1]

Just keep nailing both of them...

Why would you want a girlfriend that would do that to her best friend? She'll prolly just end up nailing YOUR best friend.


You're already banging her, no need for a relationship.

[Superhuman]

If she's shady enough to go behind her "best friends" back to date you she's shady enough to go behind your back. I give you the no go and move on to the next one at this time.

Not necessarily... maybe they weren't really that close of friends? Or perhaps the ex's friend just happens to see some really special qualities in him so it was worth it to her.

[ImACrazyJewDaddy]

No, she was totally open about the situation to her about us hanging out...and she new she was going to get pissed.but it seems she didnt care too much, but was still upset about her bitching at her about it. She didnt tell her we've fooled around though..just went out a couple of times lol.

As for pics, I dont have a Digi camera anymore to take pics...or else I wouldve posted my SD cycle results a while ago. Ill see if I can use hers...but Id feel kinda bad posting, and it would look really gay me asking" Can I use your camera to take pictures of you???" That ain't me

[ImACrazyJewDaddy]

She's allready fooled with one of My bestfriend's but that was a while ago..and I dont give a shit about that lol

[notanormalgent]

Go out with the new girl. The ex is just that...an ex.

[ImACrazyJewDaddy]

I think thats what will happen. Im not worrying about the ex...and besides,I just found out she's one of the cooks at this place. Its ****ing slick!

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[rusty24]

i think if u are happy with the girl u are with it shoudnt matter as ur x said she was with someone else, y would she care if she didnt want to be with you. although u must remember the rule about not going with a mates ex. think the mate should think wisely on whats more important to her before u decide what u should do

[dedic8ed1]

She's got my vote son,and remember the way to a mans heart is thru his stomach,so if she can cook.likes to watch hockey and not go out all the time she's good to go for a test spin.By the way what's her #

[ImACrazyJewDaddy]

LOL the food is great though...