Dating Q... NEED ALL HELP POSSIBLE :(

[taiboxa]

since i know jack shit bout dating.. other than sex sex sex... i would like some input on the ettiquite.

ok goes like this... really- help me out lol.

we decide to hang out at her place for first date since we both suck at dating, i told her im dieting so no real place to go out to eat (she is in the fitness field she understands lol), she suggests renting a movie and just b.s.ing at my place or hers- either/or.. then we decide hers because she has to get up super early (she personal trainer on the side had like a 6:00am aptmnt) so it would be eaiser on her for me to come over to her house to play.

anyways (first date mind u and she has only been w/ a handfull of people) the movie totally suckd, YES i know i should never be allowed to pick movies out by myself... but oh well. Atleast it gave us alot of time to chit chat and joke (i really am funny damit). And of course i had to make first move... whole making out and unfortunatly ONLY making out (but i would probably question her alot more if i was able to go further on first date), BUT there was a boat load of chemistry.

she even, like later on that night, did the grab onto my arm and kiss my shoulder during the movie... the whole "All affection, no sexing" move.

OK w/ all that stupid background info stated heres the REAL Q:
she is going on a DINNER DATE w/ a guy this friday... she already had it set up before i came along...should i be worried in anyway that ima get replaced?
if so.. should i go off the guy now, or wait and pay someone to do it?

i made a joke bout gettin replaced by thursday and she said dont worry i hardly ever make out on the first date.. and gave me a lil grin, but w/ my luck.. i just dont know anymore.

[x_moe]

i dont think you have a chance with her, lets see her pic

[PEWN]

no worries man... there are plenty of girls out there... and if she likes you better she will come back... and if she does drill him would you really want her .. ?

[PEWN]

i dont think you have a chance with her, lets see her pic

and dont show us a picture of your hand mister...

[Lexed]

tai u should right a book

[x_moe]

i have an e-book my friend sent me to my email, its called 'double your dating', did anyone hear of it

[Big]

I'd be cautious, even if her date with him was already set up, she could easily call him and say "look, I'm sorry, but I met someone, I'm going to have to cancel our date".

[x_moe]

i havent read it yet, as im in no need to read it lol

[taiboxa]

I KNOW she isnt gunna hump him that night good grief.. i was just askin if i shud be worried fux u all i hate u! ALL OF YOU!

[10nispro]

Being positive will bring about positive endings. If you felt like she was in to you...take it slow and see where the cards fall. You are your worst enemy sometimes. I don't know you personnally but I have or tried to keep up with some of your love life posts....and damn....you do have bad luck....but it sounds like its about to change.

[x_moe]

I KNOW she isnt gunna hump him that night good grief.. i was just askin if i shud be worried fux u all i hate u! ALL OF YOU!

Harrr

[taiboxa]

I'd be cautious, even if her date with him was already set up, she could easily call him and say "look, I'm sorry, but I met someone, I'm going to have to cancel our date".

yeah i was thinkin that too.. beats me though i know jack shit bout the "dating community"

[Lexed]

jesus tai where the hell do you find these girls

[taiboxa]

jesus tai where the hell do you find these girls

u know..just walk around town pickin up who ever...

[10nispro]

kinda like a fly trap.....j/k

[SMAN12b]

OK, I didn't even bother to read anyone else's response but here is my 2 cents

1. You should NOT have made out with her on the FIRST date. Don't even KISS on the first date. Make her at least THINK you have SOME morals, values, and class. She will think...hmmmm this guy isn't just after sex like all the other guys...(even though you are)

2. It does NOT matter what she does on her other date. If the two of you REALLY had chemistry, and hit it off, then great, if not , then great, just another date for TAI.

3. QUIT making every girl you date a do or die situation!!!! STOP IT NOW !!!
Play it COOL.....don't make her think you are controlling or possessive. She is NOT YOURS.....at least not yet so who cares if she fvcks this guy or not. She didn't let YOU screw her, so chances are she won't let him.

4. It's NOT the other guy's fault she said she would go out with him, so leave him alone!! If she wants to be WITH YOU, she will be thinking of YOU during her date with him and NOTHING will happen.......Unless she is A) NOT really into you, or B) a tramp....in either case then she is NOT worth your effort and you should not be stressing about it now

5. RELAX already and just let things happen and QUIT trying to force them. If you play COY she will be more interested in you than if you are on top of her 24/7

Hope this helps, but I feel you are gonna do what you always do and then wonder why it doesn't work out

[Big]

Hope this helps, but I feel you are gonna do what you always do and then wonder why it doesn't work out

damn sman, that's cold

[PEWN]

cold in deed..

[Doc.Sust]

dont get nervous, wait and see how it turns out, that is all you can do, BUT at the same time, start looking for more options, that is only fair, if she can go on other dates, so should you. stay on the prowl

[Booz]

sorry fatty but if she thought anything of you she wouldnt be going out on the other date she wodda fvcked him off asap.............
personally i wouldnt bother.......................

[PEWN]

sorry fatty but if she thought anything of you she wouldnt be going out on the other date she wodda fvcked him off asap.............
personally i wouldnt bother.......................

good point ...

[abstrack]

jezzus christos. Here we go again. You do need help

[RBD85]

OK, I didn't even bother to read anyone else's response but here is my 2 cents

1. You should NOT have made out with her on the FIRST date. Don't even KISS on the first date. Make her at least THINK you have SOME morals, values, and class. She will think...hmmmm this guy isn't just after sex like all the other guys...(even though you are)

2. It does NOT matter what she does on her other date. If the two of you REALLY had chemistry, and hit it off, then great, if not , then great, just another date for TAI.

3. QUIT making every girl you date a do or die situation!!!! STOP IT NOW !!!
Play it COOL.....don't make her think you are controlling or possessive. She is NOT YOURS.....at least not yet so who cares if she ****s this guy or not. She didn't let YOU screw her, so chances are she won't let him.

4. It's NOT the other guy's fault she said she would go out with him, so leave him alone!! If she wants to be WITH YOU, she will be thinking of YOU during her date with him and NOTHING will happen.......Unless she is A) NOT really into you, or B) a tramp....in either case then she is NOT worth your effort and you should not be stressing about it now

5. RELAX already and just let things happen and QUIT trying to force them. If you play COY she will be more interested in you than if you are on top of her 24/7

Hope this helps, but I feel you are gonna do what you always do and then wonder why it doesn't work out

that was insightful... im touched

[Titleist]

Just act like you don't care man.

She says, "I already planned this date, etc... I don't usually kiss on the first date.*wink*". Yeah, she's joking, but your response(or mine rather) would be, "It's cool, I've got girls lined up around the corner waiting for a date with me." or "It doesn't matter to me, I'm a better kisser than him anyway." - You get the idea.

The way to do it is be part nice guy, part ass. The whole "Always a gentleman" routine doesn't work with most girls.

-Don't be clingy, try to get her to call you most of the time.
-Be suave, arrogant, all that good stuff.
-Balance. Be both the nice guy and the semi-rude, non-caring guy.
-Always be confident. If you embarass yourself, play if off. If you don't know what you're doing, act like you do.

I'm rambling, but there's the starter pack.

[x_moe]

i dont trust girls. me and this girl used to like each other, we were supposed to start dating but she got a job in mexico for 8months, she told me she was gonna be a good girl while shes there and that i dont have to worry because it takes her months to know a guy before she starts dating him, so she went to mexico and 4 wks later we get in contact and she tells me that shes dating 2 amigos. lots of girls just say shit, but they do wutever they want to do.

[taiboxa]

OK, I didn't even bother to read anyone else's response but here is my 2 cents

1. You should NOT have made out with her on the FIRST date. Don't even KISS on the first date. Make her at least THINK you have SOME morals, values, and class. She will think...hmmmm this guy isn't just after sex like all the other guys...(even though you are)

2. It does NOT matter what she does on her other date. If the two of you REALLY had chemistry, and hit it off, then great, if not , then great, just another date for TAI.

3. QUIT making every girl you date a do or die situation!!!! STOP IT NOW !!!
Play it COOL.....don't make her think you are controlling or possessive. She is NOT YOURS.....at least not yet so who cares if she fvcks this guy or not. She didn't let YOU screw her, so chances are she won't let him.

4. It's NOT the other guy's fault she said she would go out with him, so leave him alone!! If she wants to be WITH YOU, she will be thinking of YOU during her date with him and NOTHING will happen.......Unless she is A) NOT really into you, or B) a tramp....in either case then she is NOT worth your effort and you should not be stressing about it now

5. RELAX already and just let things happen and QUIT trying to force them. If you play COY she will be more interested in you than if you are on top of her 24/7

Hope this helps, but I feel you are gonna do what you always do and then wonder why it doesn't work out

yeah well i fvckd up most of this w/ the call last night and the ambien.. but I DONT REMEMBER ANY OF IT yet she claims i calld her like 3 times though it only looks like once if that man drugs are bad ><

[RBD85]

damn tai... always gettin into shit

[bpm1]

put down the ambien tai! and bro u gotta be more easy going in the begining, u'll scare her away

[taiboxa]

put down the ambien tai! and bro u gotta be more easy going in the begining, u'll scare her away

lol, all the begging is on HERE, i been giving her as little attention as possible and havin her call me..

[RBD85]

now your gettin it!

[taiboxa]

now your gettin it!

i know how to do it lol.. i just pick the WRONG ONES >< the CRAZY ONES... this one said she has attachment issues.. so thats not as bad as bipolar.. or schizo/clepto or as the i wanna hump you but im not attracted to you psychologist.. so yeah she still seems a better choice than those past 3

[bpm1]

alright, alright, damn u really had me scared there, i thought u was talkin to her like u was talkin to us , u alright then

[bpm1]

i know how to do it lol.. i just pick the WRONG ONES >< the CRAZY ONES... this one said she has attachment issues.. so thats not as bad as bipolar.. or schizo/clepto or as the i wanna hump you but im not attracted to you psychologist.. so yeah she still seems a better choice than those past 3

i think u like the drama, thats why u r always attracted to THOSE kinda women, hhhmmmm?

[PEWN]

thats a stinger... zing...

[taiboxa]

i think u like the drama, thats why u r always attracted to THOSE kinda women, hhhmmmm?

kant help it.. slim pickins here in oklahoma.. ><

[RBD85]

oklahoma huh? that just sounds like breeding grounds for fugly fat chicks!

[taiboxa]

oklahoma huh? that just sounds like breeding grounds for fugly fat chicks!

nah we got tons of hotties.. all prego by 14-15 so .. yeah it blows

[PEWN]

hahaha...

[PEWN]

for every good man... theres a women rolling her eyes..

[RBD85]

stay away from them tai... its just not worth it lol