Fathers - Good relationship or not?

**DSM4Life** · 10-24-2007, 04:16 AM

Originally Posted by rana173

Shit you are lucky I was not the first guy you say, you would so be in love with me! LOL

**Expat** · 10-24-2007, 12:08 PM

Originally Posted by Lexed

for business?

he is 75 years old...we have been freinds for 10 years...he is estranged from his family...he is afraid to be alone at this stage in his life...He offered that to marry him I would have great insurance basically free (256.00yearly) and his officer's full 100% disabled military pension upon his death/my retirement......I am to ensure he is "ok"... taken care of in his twightlight years...both of his parents have Alzhiemers...his mom is pushing 100 and is in another world..his dad was bedridden for the last 20 years of his life...sooo..he has longevity in his genes..the only effing thing that went haywire on this deal is that as soon as the papers were signed he changed...and thinks he owns me..We discussed this prior to gettiing married in depth and it was agreed that "nothing would change..we would continue to live our lives as before(this is why I vowed to NEVER get married)..and he figgers that if he can't have me (in a biblical manner) niether can anyone else...I knew getting married was not for me....

**scaramouche** · 10-24-2007, 02:58 PM

^^^was this guy a bf or just a friend,sorry to be nosey but thats some story im curious now lol

**ironaddict69** · 10-24-2007, 03:19 PM

Originally Posted by Expat

he is 75 years old...we have been freinds for 10 years...he is estranged from his family...he is afraid to be alone at this stage in his life...He offered that to marry him I would have great insurance basically free (256.00yearly) and his officer's full 100% disabled military pension upon his death/my retirement......I am to ensure he is "ok"... taken care of in his twightlight years...both of his parents have Alzhiemers...his mom is pushing 100 and is in another world..his dad was bedridden for the last 20 years of his life...sooo..he has longevity in his genes..the only effing thing that went haywire on this deal is that as soon as the papers were signed he changed...and thinks he owns me..We discussed this prior to gettiing married in depth and it was agreed that "nothing would change..we would continue to live our lives as before(this is why I vowed to NEVER get married)..and he figgers that if he can't have me (in a biblical manner) niether can anyone else...I knew getting married was not for me....

well if you need any special attention to cheer you up, you know where to find me

**Amorphic** · 10-24-2007, 04:20 PM

Originally Posted by ironaddict69

well if you need any special attention to cheer you up, you know where to find me

x2....

**RANA** · 10-24-2007, 04:46 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

I am too shy, plus with my supermodeling career going as great as it is I think it would be best if I don't reveal myself.

**crazycrab** · 10-24-2007, 05:10 PM

I have a great relationship with my father. We even been working together for 17 years and we are best freinds.

**Expat** · 10-24-2007, 05:50 PM

Originally Posted by scaramouche

^^^was this guy a bf or just a friend,sorry to be nosey but thats some story im curious now lol

I considered him one of my best/closest/loyal friends...

**Expat** · 10-24-2007, 05:57 PM

Originally Posted by Amorphic

x2....

well if you need any special attention to cheer you up, you know where to find me

ya'll rock!! whadja have in mind

...uh....oh..no hijacking of threads

**Amorphic** · 10-24-2007, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by Expat

well if you need any special attention to cheer you up, you know where to find me

ya'll rock!! whadja have in mind ...uh....oh..no hijacking of threads

Don't be teasin me honey

**Expat** · 10-24-2007, 06:02 PM

Originally Posted by Amorphic

Don't be teasin me honey

me thinks it me gettin teased...

**ironaddict69** · 10-24-2007, 06:03 PM

Originally Posted by Amorphic

Don't be teasin me honey

Oh amorphic Ill admit I was teasing you. But I wasnt teasing Expat.

**Expat** · 10-24-2007, 06:14 PM

[QUOTE=ironaddict69]Oh amorphic Ill admit I was teasing you. But I wasnt teasing Expat.

[/QUOTE

rut...row!!!

**Amorphic** · 10-24-2007, 06:18 PM

Originally Posted by ironaddict69

Oh amorphic Ill admit I was teasing you. But I wasnt teasing Expat.

shame on you sir!

**moush** · 10-24-2007, 06:23 PM

my father and I are really cool...we are like best friends. There are times though when he is stressed from work and its an all out war!! As far as goin through my stuff...nah neither of my rents do that they respect my space.

**ironaddict69** · 10-24-2007, 06:34 PM

Originally Posted by Amorphic

shame on you sir!

lol, gettin ready for ur first cycle yet? keep me posted.
just so i dont get flamed:
No i dont have a good relationship with my father. hes an assh0le, he was abusive towards my mother and verbally towards me. fvck the prick.

**Tock** · 10-24-2007, 06:59 PM

Some people are not cut out to be parents, and tragically, they don't realize that in time to be spayed or neutered.
Both of my parents fall into that category.

**Expat** · 10-24-2007, 07:29 PM

Originally Posted by Tock

Some people are not cut out to be parents, and tragically, they don't realize that in time to be spayed or neutered.
Both of my parents fall into that category.

sorry to hear that bro....that sucks...I hope w/time they come around for u...

I knew I would not be a good parent...that is why I never went there

**Expat** · 10-24-2007, 07:31 PM

Originally Posted by Tock

Some people are not cut out to be parents, and tragically, they don't realize that in time to be spayed or neutered.
Both of my parents fall into that category.

I was asked once "don't u miss having a mother"...I replied.."How can u miss something u never had"

**DSM4Life** · 10-25-2007, 04:23 AM

Originally Posted by rana173

I am too shy, plus with my supermodeling career going as great as it is I think it would be best if I don't reveal myself.

Shy guys are cute

**Expat** · 10-25-2007, 04:27 AM

[QUOTE=DSM4Life]Shy guys are cute

[/QUOTE

ur so funny...u are almost as bad as I am...always on the prowl...

**fenceguy** · 10-25-2007, 06:29 AM

haven't seen either of my parents for 7 years. They hate my F#$$@#ing Guts. We saw differently on how my life was to be run. In other words they wanted me to kiss their ass and do what they wanted otherwise I could hit the road and they would give my inheritance to my brother. I told em to kiss my ass.

**scottish** · 10-25-2007, 06:55 AM

My dad died when I was 1 in Viet Nam. never knew him. Mom raised 4 of us..

Thats why I do everything I possible can with and for my kids.

Expat. Just mount him and keep pounding away till he taps out. At that rate, he wont last long..

**Expat** · 10-25-2007, 05:33 PM

Originally Posted by scottish

My dad died when I was 1 in Viet Nam. never knew him. Mom raised 4 of us..

Thats why I do everything I possible can with and for my kids.

Expat. Just mount him and keep pounding away till he taps out. At that rate, he wont last long..

rut...row!!!:1'm confused who was I supposed to mount? what kinda poundin?...like an a$$ whippin poundin?

**Expat** · 10-25-2007, 05:37 PM

Originally Posted by scottish

My dad died when I was 1 in Viet Nam. never knew him. Mom raised 4 of us..

Thats why I do everything I possible can with and for my kids.

Expat. Just mount him and keep pounding away till he taps out. At that rate, he wont last long..

btw..Scottish...I salute your Dad

**Red Ketchup** · 10-25-2007, 06:17 PM

I have a great relationship with both my parents, and they helped me thru many tough times in my adult life.

I still enjoy hunting with my old man a lot, and though he lives 2 hours away I'll drop everything and go give him a hand at the drop of a hat. The house he is living in was built by him and I in my early 20's, and that was quite a bonding experience.

It saddens me to see so many bros here who have a rough time with family

Red

**scottish** · 10-25-2007, 08:04 PM

thanks Expat.

I was talking about giving the ole guy a good once over. If its good enough he wont be around much longer..

**lpicken** · 10-25-2007, 10:50 PM

WOW-interesting thread. I have great relationship with my Dad. He is an upstanding citizen and a pillar of the community.

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