okay, where do i start , my wife after i asked her if we could engage in a menage trois, with a mutual friend(female) said yes! so great i thuoght,but the more i think about it the more nervous i get , could she have an alterior motive? am i just being a wuss? i mean i think i could handle it but, we havent really had the oppurtunity fir it to happen, and now all my wife talks about is the proposed event(menage). should i worry? or should i just go ahead and live out my fantasy and worry about all that other stuff later?![]()