Originally Posted by
topnotch
mine said the exact same crap...we weren't on the best of terms at the time, and i just told her look i'm gonna be honest with you about it which should count for something, and i'm not asking you to agree w/ it, but just to be ok w/ it...it was a huge fight at first, and i just said look if you dont care enough to support me on something i've done all this research on and help me to reach the goals i have set for myself, then you'll just have to find someone else...ended up she started being more and more cool about things the more time past...she doens't like to discuss it too much, but we'll still talk bout it some and she'll ask me how it's goin and stuff...a lotta times the girl just wants to control ya on that, and if you'll lay your foot down and say the honesty should mean something, then i think things would be fine...that's just my opinion b/c it worked out fine for me...there's no point in hiding it then you'll just have to start lying, and lies start adding up