Is something wrong with me?

[DCB83]

I have this issue where as soon as I hit the 5-6th month of a relationsip I completely lose interest in my girlfriend. I don't look forward to having sex with her anymore. If she doesn't initiate it, we probably wouldn't do it at all.And she's very good looking (avi). Ive been having dreams of banging other girls and knowing in my dream that i'm cheating on her. I don't want to hurt her cuz her ex cheated on her. She's even noticing a difference in my behavior. I keep telling her, no nothings wrong don't worry about it.
She's probaby not the one. And its annoying cuz at first it always feels right.

[J-Dogg]

It's a pain in the ass bro, but you should not be with her from the sounds of it.
I've been there, you like the girl, she is pretty, she is what you are looking for...but you don't feel it.
You just suck it up and stick it out with her because you don't want to hurt her, she did nothing wrong.
You are not doing her any favors though sticking around waiting. You probably cannot explain it to her so she understands either. She is going to hate you for awhile, her friends are going to think you are a pig. Few people will know that you did the right thing.

Sounds like fun right?

[DCB83]

It's a pain in the ass bro, but you should not be with her from the sounds of it.
I've been there, you like the girl, she is pretty, she is what you are looking for...but you don't feel it.
You just suck it up and stick it out with her because you don't want to hurt her, she did nothing wrong.
You are not doing her any favors though sticking around waiting. You probably cannot explain it to her so she understands either. She is going to hate you for awhile, her friends are going to think you are a pig. Few people will know that you did the right thing.

Sounds like fun right?

exactly...
and whats bothering me the most is that we have a vacation in the dominican planned in about a month, she wants to move in with me, the other night she said she wants to have my babies lol. she'll be devastated.
im fVcked!

[J-Dogg]

Jesus, no easy way out of this one bro.
Let me guess, you have come to know her family pretty well? You like them, they adore you. You don't want them to think of you as a pig. Your family likes her, they won't say anything but probably would be a little disappointed.

[J-Dogg]

btw, if that is her in your avatar, I might be able to help you out!

[Timm1704]

its only been 6 months right? no big deal. she may be hurt, but not for long. I have been in similar situations, and always worry about hurting her. She will get hurt eventually either way, if i dont want to be in a relationship, then i get out of it. She looks young right? it would be different if she was 45 years old and you had wasted her time i guess, but whilst young, what does it matter. seriously mate, dont waste her time, as that will make you more of a bastard than dumping her.

If this doesnt sound good for you, then get on some test. You wont want to stop fvcking her then. 1000mg a week works for me!

[DCB83]

Jesus, no easy way out of this one bro.
Let me guess, you have come to know her family pretty well? You like them, they adore you. You don't want them to think of you as a pig. Your family likes her, they won't say anything but probably would be a little disappointed.

yes to all that.
thats her in the avatar.
I think ill stay with her this winter, since it kinda sucks to be alone in the winter even though sometimes i wish i was alone.
now my question:
is there a way to make her totally turned off by me leading to her breaking up with me?
lol

[Timm1704]

yes to all that.
thats her in the avatar.
I think ill stay with her this winter, since it kinda sucks to be alone in the winter even though sometimes i wish i was alone.
now my question:
is there a way to make her totally turned off by me leading to her breaking up with me?
lol

drop your dick in her mother. sorted

[LawMan018]

I have this issue where as soon as I hit the 5-6th month of a relationsip I completely lose interest in my girlfriend. I don't look forward to having sex with her anymore. If she doesn't initiate it, we probably wouldn't do it at all.And she's very good looking (avi). Ive been having dreams of banging other girls and knowing in my dream that i'm cheating on her. I don't want to hurt her cuz her ex cheated on her. She's even noticing a difference in my behavior. I keep telling her, no nothings wrong don't worry about it.
She's probaby not the one. And its annoying cuz at first it always feels right.

I've been in a similar situation as yours. Basically, well, it was about after 9 months to a year that I started "not feeling" the magic anymore, however, we stayed together. After awhile I could tell she wasn't feeling it either and she eventually left me. But as soon as she broke it off, I suddenly wanted her back and couldn't stop thinking about it. The fire had been revived in me but not her, and that's where I was left at. I'd suggest maybe after this winter break just taking a break and see how that works out. It sounds like you still care about her but are just "tired" of her. Good girls are far and few between so be sure that what you end up doing doesn't come back to bite you in the ass.

[J-Dogg]

yes to all that.
thats her in the avatar.
I think ill stay with her this winter, since it kinda sucks to be alone in the winter even though sometimes i wish i was alone.
now my question:
is there a way to make her totally turned off by me leading to her breaking up with me?
lol

You could try to fart, burp and just be an ass, but I doubt it will work.

I could explain my situation, but I don't want to hijack because mine is like yours +1!

[DCB83]

You could try to fart, burp and just be an ass, but I doubt it will work.

I could explain my situation, but I don't want to hijack because mine is like yours +1!

dude, the more i burp, fart and be an ass, the more she loves me.
go ahead, whats your situation?

[J-Dogg]

ummmm same situation as you...and um I've been with her a little longer. Instead of her being perfect...she is so pretty, nice, good with kids but she cheated on me. I've never been able to get over it really, but have tried. It's past the "i hate you because you cheated on me" because it was so long ago. Now I think about all the little things she does, and it makes me hate her and love her at the same time.

Same situaiton with the familys and everything too. It's really a pain in the ass.

P.S. I'm on PCT so forgive me if I cry and watch Sex In the City for a few nights!

[J-Dogg]

I've been in a similar situation as yours. Basically, well, it was about after 9 months to a year that I started "not feeling" the magic anymore, however, we stayed together. After awhile I could tell she wasn't feeling it either and she eventually left me. But as soon as she broke it off, I suddenly wanted her back and couldn't stop thinking about it. The fire had been revived in me but not her, and that's where I was left at. I'd suggest maybe after this winter break just taking a break and see how that works out. It sounds like you still care about her but are just "tired" of her. Good girls are far and few between so be sure that what you end up doing doesn't come back to bite you in the ass.

My man brings up a good point,

"good girls are far and few between". Be careful or you could end up like me!

[DCB83]

ummmm same situation as you...and um I've been with her a little longer. Instead of her being perfect...she is so pretty, nice, good with kids but she cheated on me. I've never been able to get over it really, but have tried. It's past the "i hate you because you cheated on me" because it was so long ago. Now I think about all the little things she does, and it makes me hate her and love her at the same time.

Same situaiton with the familys and everything too. It's really a pain in the ass.

P.S. I'm on PCT so forgive me if I cry and watch Sex In the City for a few nights!

yeah, at first all the those little things she did were cute, now its like "ok enough already".
I told her that im planning a cycle this winter. she said that if i become agressive and a total prick cuz of the juice, that she'll leave me. she probably won't but that could be a way out.

[Amorphic]

how old are you? it just may be a matter of fact that you arent ready for a long term relationship until you are older.

[J-Dogg]

yeah, at first all the those little things she did were cute, now its like "ok enough already".
I told her that im planning a cycle this winter. she said that if i become agressive and a total prick cuz of the juice, that she'll leave me. she probably won't but that could be a way out.

lol, if you are a prick to her during a cycle she is going to love you even more or want to be with you even more.

[DCB83]

how old are you? it just may be a matter of fact that you arent ready for a long term relationship until you are older.

turning 25 in january.

[DCB83]

lol, if you are a prick to her during a cycle she is going to love you even more or want to be with you even more.

shhh!
theres still hope lol

[5ifthCitizen]

man up dude. if u dont wanna be with her just tell her u want some time off. im sure she'll be just fine man. look at her. i mean come on, u cant feel bad for a girl that hot.

[Amorphic]

if you dump her and shes starts banging other guys i guarantee you'll want her back.

[DCB83]

man up dude. if u dont wanna be with her just tell her u want some time off. im sure she'll be just fine man. look at her. i mean come on, u cant feel bad for a girl that hot.

I know, the reason why its so hard is that she broke up with me once at the beginning of our relationship.she said she wasn't ready for a relationship cuz her ex ****ed her up etc... i told her to take her time and think about it and that i would never hurt her.

[J-Dogg]

Perfect, so if you break up with her not only are you a prick, you are a liar!
I'm starting to feel a little better about my situation, tell me more!

[DCB83]

Perfect, so if you break up with her not only are you a prick, you are a liar!
I'm starting to feel a little better about my situation, tell me more!

lol thats funny.... im so depressed

[goodcents]

Send her my way, I'll take care of her while you are out She'll even think I love her

[goodcents]

I'll get her pierced and add her to the others

[goodcents]

Just go cheat on her, you don't owe her shlt (yeah, flame away guys) have fun, you're not married (don't ever do that stupid shlt)

[goodcents]

Man don't break up w/ her, just fuk other girlsdamn youngsters

[Amorphic]

lol, terrible

[goodcents]

I like carving my name on the back of chics asses and backs that way the next guy is like " who is this **** guy" ( I've got problems but you would be surprised how many chics will let you do it)

[JSola]

wow, i got the exact opposite problem, i cant stand my girlfriend but i want to f#$k the snotr out of her! shes sooooo good in bed but shes a total b!*ch

[JSola]

oh and that never hurt them line.....ive used it honestly EVERY time, and i meant it, but i always hurt them. i feel you bro, like a bandaid just make it quick.

[Igifuno]

dunno bro - maybe you're overcoplicating it. like you said in the beginning, you just lose indterest?/

[nbkandrew13]

dude when you get bored see how far you can push them , example, anal, couple girls, you and a friend tag team, all the most crazy shit you want but the problem is sometimes you drive them crazy for real

[Amorphic]

dude when you get bored see how far you can push them , example, anal, couple girls, you and a friend tag team, all the most crazy shit you want but the problem is sometimes you drive them crazy for real

now that is some bad advice haha

[AandF6969]

Maybe youre gay? lol

[DCB83]

Maybe youre gay? lol

i don't know how anyone can be gay in montreal, chiks here are amazing.Its very distracting when your with someone.I want all of them!

[PEWN]

I've been in a similar situation as yours. Basically, well, it was about after 9 months to a year that I started "not feeling" the magic anymore, however, we stayed together. After awhile I could tell she wasn't feeling it either and she eventually left me. But as soon as she broke it off, I suddenly wanted her back and couldn't stop thinking about it. The fire had been revived in me but not her, and that's where I was left at. I'd suggest maybe after this winter break just taking a break and see how that works out. It sounds like you still care about her but are just "tired" of her. Good girls are far and few between so be sure that what you end up doing doesn't come back to bite you in the ass.

is it just me but every time this kid answers ... i laugh ... i can not take anything he says seriously...

[DSM4Life]

I've been in a similar situation as yours. Basically, well, it was about after 9 months to a year that I started "not feeling" the magic anymore, however, we stayed together. After awhile I could tell she wasn't feeling it either and she eventually left me. But as soon as she broke it off, I suddenly wanted her back and couldn't stop thinking about it. The fire had been revived in me but not her, and that's where I was left at. I'd suggest maybe after this winter break just taking a break and see how that works out. It sounds like you still care about her but are just "tired" of her. Good girls are far and few between so be sure that what you end up doing doesn't come back to bite you in the ass.

Did you and him ever get back together ?

[RA]

drop your dick in her mother. sorted

lol...seriously, I wouldnt stay with her because you "feel bad" about breaking it off. Get it done.

[paulzane]

yes to all that.
thats her in the avatar.
I think ill stay with her this winter, since it kinda sucks to be alone in the winter even though sometimes i wish i was alone.
now my question:
is there a way to make her totally turned off by me leading to her breaking up with me?
lol

Get at least 10 friends round for a bukakke party and video it. Post it on the net ...... PM me the link .... and she will hate you for ever (or love you more) .... and I will think you are great!