Friend Issue

[jnm]

Hey guys, i wanna see what kinda advice i can get on here, if any at all.. but last march this girl i was dating asked if we should take a trip to NY for a 4 day 3 night get away.. i told sure.. and that my best friend from high school lived there.. which is true..

i called my friend in march all three of us were excited.. we get down there in april and for 4 days my best friend from high school was nowhere to be found! i was soo embarased.. his excuse was that he was working up deals in the his real estate office!and said he was sorry.. i stopped talking to him since

anyways now he's down here in california calling me on my phone saying how hes down here and wants to see me?! what do you think guys what would you do? btw i dont talk to the girl anymore.. she was very disapointed with the trip.. as was i..

[5ifthCitizen]

i dont see what the problem with the ny trip was. so ur friend was busy or whatever... did u really plan a trip to ny with ur girl just to hang out with ur friend? u should have had other things to do there. there's a lot of stuff to do.

anyways i dont see y u shouldn't hang out with him.

[DSM4Life]

I would hold on to my friend. One thing you learn as you age (i am the big 2 7 tomorrow) is not to sweat the small stuff.