New Girlfriend, maybe... But..???

**solid-d** · 02-06-2008, 09:59 PM

Here the thing. My brother is 30, one of his best friends is 30 too. This friend has become one of my best friends(im 28) since my brother got marrie 2 years ago. The friend just bought a new house with his 21 year old sister(turning 22 this weekend). Now I just met her. We both like each other and my friend at first said no way, but now he will let me date his sister.

In theroy it makes sence but first off I havent had a girlfriend in 2 years due to working alot and working weekends. Only hooked up with one girl(an old ex) in those 2 years. Now, about a year ago, my buddy said to me that some dude gave her sister the herps, but I really dont think its true and my buddy talks sh#t when he drinks. So, Im worried I might have performance anxitiy. And the more I think about it, the more I worry. One from not really doing it that much lately and the whole herps thing. I know I will ask her and trust she will tell the truth. But Im still worried about the anxity if I get it.

Now she is really cute. Like I can see myself with her for a long time and she is a good girl. I can see myself falling for her. But now here is the other thing I worry about. She lives with my best friend, if she does something 'bad', my best friend may tell me, or I if do something 'bad' he may tell her sister. I mean I go into town with him and 'play', talk to chicks all night and get #s. He still wants me to 'play'. Im also woried about her telling him things about me and he tells my brother, ect.. And I may be worried I tell my friend things and it gets back to her. I normally like to date girls that arent so close to my friend circle.

I also worry about, if I do date her(and it would be serious) and if we break up, I may not want to go over my best friends house anymore cause he will live with her. I almost see it as a catch 22. But she is soo cute and adorable and like I said, could be the best thing in my life...

The last thing that i worry about is that she is just turning 22. I mean, i dont even want to say the things I did from 22-25.. And all her friends like to hang out with her. I dont want to break her up from her friends, buts its very hard to trust 22 year olds. And its not so much what she will do, its more of what her friends will do and what guys her and her friends run into will do. I mean she is pretty hot. On the plus side, her guy friends know her brother will kick anyones ass who F with her, and I will too. The 2 of us can be intimiating, esp to 22 year olds.

Maybe Im worring too much? I mean we hung out last weekend and I have butterflys since. She is amazing but I dont want anything so positive to end up negitive. I need some advise bros. I layed it all out on the line. I mean it is her Bday and then Feb14.. Also she wants to go skiing for her Bday. I never been and hate the snow. Not sure if I should just go, i mean i was offered many times before and never wanted to go....

**taiboxa** · 02-06-2008, 10:17 PM

apparently like 70% of the population has herpies.. either down there or cold sores..
luckily i dont have them and i think im immune.. because 2 of my ex's were prone to cold sores and i never got coldsores from em.. and i dont have herpies on my wee wee so.. maybe ur like me and are immune to herpies? i say go for it and see if you get em!

oh and if u do ask her lol she is gonna say NO, and she will only hump you when she isnt breaking out w/ em. but atleast when she does break out im sure she will give non stop head as a COVER so u never know.

hell if your lucky u can be on one of those herpie commercials

**solid-d** · 02-06-2008, 10:37 PM

Thanks but main purpose of the thread was not about the herps...

**956Vette** · 02-06-2008, 11:01 PM

Sounds like this could be some much needed dating experience. Go on and get your feet wet. You are absolutely worrying too much too soon

**qualityclrk1** · 02-07-2008, 05:24 AM

Originally Posted by 956Vette

Sounds like this could be some much needed dating experience. Go on and get your feet wet. You are absolutely worrying too much too soon

agreed.....and the herpes thing isn't a big deal.....it sounds terrible and all but its really not..i get cold sores probably once every two years on my face, but if i throw $20 worth of abreva on there quickly enough it doesn't even break out....never had them on my penis (thought i did but it turned out to be folliculitis)....i'd still at least give her a chance and not let that be the deciding factor...lets think of it this way man, shes a human and shit happens...someone gave it to her, shes not dirty because of it, it just happened...i'm sure shes not real fond of it, and just think if u were the one with it, and how u'd hope people wouldn't judge you about it....i know cuz i thought i had it! i was scared shitless for about a week... i thought i'd never get laid again lol ...obviously if you see her in an outbreak don't hit it lol, do u really think she'd do that anyway though? the risk is still there to contract even if u wear a condom because it comes from contact...ur gonna get "her" all over ur pelvic region....not going to avoid it...

shes 22 so u don't trust her?...i've dated girls at that age and yes, they ran around on me, but then again, i know plenty of people in that age range who still have their morals...don't shove her in a stereotype...get to know her better, take things slow..... and remember "jealousy isn't attractive" - one of the best quotes i've heard from DSM

and go skiing bro....she'll be impressed, especially if she knows how u hate snow, and how u've never been.... she'll know ur going just cuz u wanna hang out with her....

if u go out and joke with ur friend and get numbers that just shows that ur not serious about her....don't do that....

**firmechicano831** · 02-07-2008, 02:58 PM

Post a picture of her and I will tell you to go or back off?

**gixxerboy1** · 02-07-2008, 03:36 PM

Originally Posted by 956Vette

Sounds like this could be some much needed dating experience. Go on and get your feet wet. You are absolutely worrying too much too soon

i agree. Your looking to far down the road.

**solid-d** · 02-07-2008, 03:39 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

i agree. Your looking to far down the road.

Yea, thats what Im doing... I just looking for opinions on things that may come up or be a problem down the road. Thats all

**firmechicano831** · 02-07-2008, 04:12 PM

If she's good looking and treats you right go head. Or else If you're too afraid give her my info and I can hook up with her. jk

**J-Dogg** · 02-07-2008, 09:36 PM

Don't pass up a good girl just because she has some bumps!

**Dobie-BOY** · 02-07-2008, 09:40 PM

Originally Posted by solid-d

Thanks but main purpose of the thread was not about the herps...

Really??? Once I read about the herpes issue I scrolled right to the replies. HAHA I couldnt wait anymore.

**solid-d** · 02-08-2008, 01:18 PM

Since we are back on the herpes issue, though I believe that isnt an issue with this girl, but now I have a question... Does one (a mean for guys) gets or has herpies, does it break on just on the penise. Does it or can it go to the ball sack. Can it go to the stomach or even the thighs? Can it go to the but hole. How the hell can someone walk, damn, I dont ever want that shiettt