I met her two weeks ago in downtown Chicago at a bar. We hit it off instantly and we have been talking every day between the phone calls and through instant messager around any where from 3-6 hours. We hooked up last sunday for the superbowl and some other activities. She is living with a ex boyfriend of 9 years, he sleeps on the couch and she gets the bedroom. They have had this arrangement for 3 years now without any hanky panky either. But, yet this guy still thinks they are together. She has half of her stuff packed and ready to move out but he still owes her thousands of dollars and plus she recently got laid off so she can't afford to move out. Anyways, when we were out last sunday he was calling every hour she must of had 6 missed calls. We were laying in bed and he called and was bitching at her asking when she is coming home and didn't think she was with her girlfriend. I took her phone and hung up on him, she told him she has a boyfriend now but he thinks she is joking around and probably doesn't want to hear the truth. I was driving home last night and she called me back and we got to talking and she mentioned that he was still her boyfriend. I got quiet, then told her fukk this I'm not got be strung along as one of your side projects. She started crying, and even her girlfriend had my back saying that she could understand how I was pissed.