Please analyze my behavior

**taiboxa** · 02-22-2008, 10:27 PM

Ok here it is.. why is it every time i get into a tiff w/ the girlfriend about anything.. something stupid or something that she has done in past and brought up to make me jealous... why do i immediatly respond w/ 500mgTrenE and get super strict on lifting/diet for about a week.

oddddd

**wilson9d** · 02-22-2008, 10:41 PM

are you sure you want and answer? Its really not a big deal.

**rodgerj** · 02-22-2008, 11:28 PM

Insecurity. Your trying to make yourself more of a man. Or at least what you subconsiously think she wants. There's more to it then that of course. Don't take that the wrong way, I'm not being an ass. You did ask. In order to verify that though I would have to know what was said/happened during the argument(s). I am not literally asking what happened, just making an obvious statement. I get the impression that somewhere along the line cheating or something similar has been an issue. If your serious about her, get some counselling. Nothing wrong with that man.

**wilson9d** · 02-22-2008, 11:45 PM

Its not necessarily insecurity, people use the word insecurity to mask behavior in a relationship. If someone gets a, little jealous and questions suspicious behavior the other person can say your just insecure. This make the other party question themselves and less likely to trust their instincts. It’s a mind play. I have read quite a bit on behavior. Your reactions are not abnormal, and are a healthy release of stress except for the aas part. Under stress in a relationship People tend to withdraw and focus on themselves. There are several reasons for this. 1) It is a self preservation reflex you can’t trust the other person to take care of you needs so you fulfill your needs with methods you know will make you feel better. I.e. Stronger, healthier, better looking. 2) You are working on your body witch improves your self image it makes you feel as though you will be ok on your own if you do break up. You will have a higher self-worth therefore you feel as though other future mates will value you. 3) A slight, physiological addiction to the chemicals you are using.

**Beefkake31** · 02-23-2008, 02:52 AM

The simple answer is, it keeps your mind focused and off of other B.S.

**kihop** · 02-23-2008, 04:24 AM

because you touch yourself at night

**taiboxa** · 02-23-2008, 10:40 AM

Originally Posted by kihop

because you touch yourself at night

thats the one i was going with but wasnt sure.
btw this thread was brought to you on behalf of ambien

**PEWN** · 02-23-2008, 10:51 AM

your on ambien again ... uh oh ....

**Prada** · 02-23-2008, 10:57 AM

Since I lack the professional credentials, I strongly urge you to seek help from a psychiatrist.

**Pooks** · 02-23-2008, 11:04 AM

I think it is cause it numbs your brain, after having to listen for her for hours babblin about her ex boyfriends...

A lot of people turn to alcohol... but U know better.. TREN +AMBIEN cocktail mix!

**Johny-too-small** · 02-23-2008, 11:09 AM

I would up it to 600 mg.

**PEWN** · 02-23-2008, 11:17 AM

1000mg/day or nothing tai .... you know that ...

**Pooks** · 02-23-2008, 11:23 AM

Originally Posted by PEWN

1000mg/day or nothing tai .... you know that ...

yah than u can really put a hurtin on that ass

**novastepp** · 02-23-2008, 11:26 AM

because you are looking for something familiar, something that won't let you down. 300lbs is always 300lbs, and the iron never lies.

**RuhlFreak55** · 02-23-2008, 11:39 AM

*goes fishin*

**Z-Ro** · 02-23-2008, 02:13 PM

Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55

*goes fishin*

**taiboxa** · 02-23-2008, 03:11 PM

Originally Posted by PEWN

your on ambien again ... uh oh ....

i always on ambien LOL
i just learned to GOTO bed instead of trying to STAY up on AR..
"Its better to let people THINK you are a fool than to take some ambien post some stupid shit and prove to them you are a flippin RETARD"

**Amorphic** · 02-23-2008, 03:34 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

i always on ambien LOL
i just learned to GOTO bed instead of trying to STAY up on AR..
"Its better to let people THINK you are a fool than to take some ambien post some stupid shit and prove to them you are a flippin RETARD"

lol, some of your other ambien threads were pretty good.

**J*U*icEd** · 02-23-2008, 03:41 PM

lol... kill urself...

J/K

**dedic8ed1** · 02-23-2008, 03:45 PM

The discipline of diet and training keeps me focused on the things that matter in life and helps block out the negativity of the world and the melancholy state of mind I'm often in due to not being able forgive myself for my conduct as a young punk.When I'm in the gym there's nothing else on my mind but my next set,next meal,next cycle and future goals.Sometimes the bullshit in relationships,aggrevation,doubt, just isn't worth having a warm bed at night.I need to be in a positive state of mind to be the most effective individual I can be,and when dealing with the most insecure animal on the planet "the woman" this proves to be pretty difficult,but it sounds like your insecurity that's causing the problem.Don't let her know she can get under your skin woman love that power so turn it around on her.

Lay off the ambien Tai,highly addictive sleep aid.

**C_Bino** · 02-23-2008, 05:49 PM

I believe your fears are manifesting themselves in the form of a physical addiction to self beautification...

I just read that in cosmo bitch...Gimme my margarita.

**Booz** · 02-23-2008, 06:00 PM

coz you are nothing but a fvckin madd bitch.........................

**taiboxa** · 02-23-2008, 07:28 PM

Originally Posted by Booz

coz you are nothing but a fvckin madd bitch.........................

my ex said im a addicted to argueing and starting fights LOL ><

**Oki-Des** · 02-23-2008, 07:49 PM

We all have security blankets man! Also, it is hard to feel vulnerable when you can crush rocks with your bare hands. Nothing helps me crush rocks like tren too!

**Chitown Raider** · 02-23-2008, 10:50 PM

Originally Posted by Beefkake31

The simple answer is, it keeps your mind focused and off of other B.S.

Ain't that the truth.

***Doc.Sust*** · 02-24-2008, 09:56 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

my ex said im a addicted to argueing and starting fights LOL ><

hey, that is one of my best traits! all kidding aside, never listen to what an x has to say. listen to yourself. do you believe you like to start fights on purpose? i doubt it. so dont believe her.

**Sir Lifts-a-lot** · 02-24-2008, 10:48 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

Ok here it is.. why is it every time i get into a tiff w/ the girlfriend about anything.. something stupid or something that she has done in past and brought up to make me jealous... why do i immediatly respond w/ 500mgTrenE and get super strict on lifting/diet for about a week.

oddddd

You feel insecure. You think that the only reason this girl is with you is because you are in good shape, are muscular, etc. You don't realize that she probably likes you for no other reason maybe then you're a good guy.

You think the only way to keep her around is to be in even better shape. Remember those guys are PAST boyfriends. Past for a reason. They obviously weren't what she wanted. You are what she is interested in and possibly have been looking for all this time.

Sorry for sounding like a vagina, but Tai is a good guy and I wanted to be serious so don't flame me.... too bad.

**Bojangles69** · 02-24-2008, 10:54 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

i always on ambien LOL
i just learned to GOTO bed instead of trying to STAY up on AR..
"Its better to let people THINK you are a fool than to take some ambien post some stupid shit and prove to them you are a flippin RETARD"

My analysis is that you're obviously not taking enough Ambien. Increase dose by 10mg because when you're "on" the right dose you're often not awake to post that you're "on" in the first place.

**Bojangles69** · 02-24-2008, 10:59 PM

And people can call it insecure or they can call it coping. Since noone knows you chances are they'll hit you with the insecure shpeal because people always favor to think the next mans worse off than them than the other way around. It makes the advice giver feel more secure about themself assuming another guys insecure, go figure.

**dedic8ed1** · 02-25-2008, 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

And people can call it insecure or they can call it coping. Since noone knows you chances are they'll hit you with the insecure shpeal because people always favor to think the next mans worse off than them than the other way around. It makes the advice giver feel more secure about themself assuming another guys insecure, go figure.

Dropping some knowledge there buddy,hit that one on the head.Hey aren't you the guy who was all jammed up in,well you were a little jammed up to say the least?Sorry for the highjack.But if so how's life?

**PEWN** · 02-25-2008, 11:51 AM

**Tock** · 02-25-2008, 11:49 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

Ok here it is.. why is it every time i get into a tiff w/ the girlfriend about anything.. something stupid or something that she has done in past and brought up to make me jealous... why do i immediatly respond w/ 500mgTrenE and get super strict on lifting/diet for about a week.

oddddd

Not knowing much about your situation, I'll guess it's all about control . . .

She brings up old history because she knows it'll provoke a certain reaction from you. It's how she tries to control you.
You respond by retreating into something familar, something that you know will make you feel a certain way, something that gives you a feeling of safety.

Interesting questions would be, 'Why does she want to provoke this reaction from you?' And, 'If her actions bring you distress, why do you put up with it?'

**DSM4Life** · 02-26-2008, 05:30 AM

Did you just say when you get into a "tiff!"

I had a boyfriend that use to say that all the time

**Bigen12** · 02-26-2008, 06:06 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Did you just say when you get into a "tiff!"

I had a boyfriend that use to say that all the time

I think you're on to something here.....

I bet Tai has an old boyfriend that use to say that as well....

**paulzane** · 02-26-2008, 10:19 AM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

Ok here it is.. why is it every time i get into a tiff w/ the girlfriend about anything.. something stupid or something that she has done in past and brought up to make me jealous... why do i immediatly respond w/ 500mgTrenE and get super strict on lifting/diet for about a week.

oddddd

Because you are FAT!!!

***El Diablo*** · 02-28-2008, 03:18 AM

Me and Tai are in the same boat.... And we are insecure jealous Mo-Fo's.Point! Even if we are Alpha males, do we still feel insecure when u hear about your G-friends past etc.