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    Female advice!!

    ok so i was seein this girl for a little bit from december to february, and we broke off and had about a two week silence stage and now we keep in touch as friends and what not, i still have feelings for her and i have a hunch that she may still have something for me (i'm probably wrong though because i can't read signs for shit) anyway we broke off because we went through a lot of drama early on and it was bullshit and it shouldn't have happened, anyway her friend says that she said she doesn't know if she would want to see me again because she doesn't know if she wants to do the "rollercoaster" thing again, should i just let it go totally or maybe give it one more shot, ask her to come out with me for one more night and see what the deal is?

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    Move on. It seems to me that your bound to get hurt. Ur young, there is PLENTY more where that comes from, just a littl effort and youll have a new girl. Enjoy life, ur young.But dont do stupid things.

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    id move on fella... it would have lasted a lot longer than 3 months (even with the drama) if it was meant to work.

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    Ask yourself this question.... "do you want to have what if's in your life?"

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    see her once more and decide on things between you once and for all. You will think about nothing else until you've got closure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MastaAce View Post
    see her once more and decide on things between you once and for all. You will think about nothing else until you've got closure.
    Dont listen to Masta. He is from the "dark side"

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    good advice from both sides, but i figure if she wanted to see me she would make a little effort, i should probably just let it go

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    She might be holding her feelings back because she doesn't know if you feel the same. Picture yourself years down the line. If you can picture yourself with another girl, stay away. If you can honestly see yourself married to her for the rest of your life then you gotta tell her how you feel. No regrets!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jfew44 View Post
    She might be holding her feelings back because she doesn't know if you feel the same. Picture yourself years down the line. If you can picture yourself with another girl, stay away. If you can honestly see yourself married to her for the rest of your life then you gotta tell her how you feel. No regrets!
    Good points

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    Move on, relationships rarely work out after a break up. You not going to marry this girl your way too young.

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    There are a lot more fish in the sea . . .

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    through it out there what do you have to loose. better chance of yall getting married than ever being close friends

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