so i have come to realize that i have gained a conscious over the years ... heres the problem i have no problem banging a girl and saying bye to her, but recently i have found myself in a predicament. i meet this girl and she thinks i am a player and wont sleep with me and i have wasted a little time on her so i tell her i am into her which i am totally not! so she said she wants to have sex tomorrow but all the sudden i feel bad that i am just going to leave her in the dark afterwards should i just man up and do it and break her heart?