I love these uncomfortable discussions

**J-Dogg** · 03-08-2008, 07:58 AM

I’ll try to be brief!

So I’ve been hanging out with this girl to see if it develops into something more. She is really cute, and is a very sweet girl, very caring and not argumentive at all, so she’s not really my “type”, lol.

Anyway, the sex is great. I never have had a problem performing with her. In the past, when I would first hook up with a girl I would have problems…until I was more comfortable around them.

Last week she came over…unexpectedly that is. I just got done cleaning my own pipes not far prior to that. I was fine, but I could not get off and my “side kick” went to sleep.

So last night, she stayed the night, we were in bed and I’m pursuing the pink taco, she says, “why don’t we just wait until morning….remember what happened last time?”. Come on, 1 out of 20? and you are going to remember that and bring it up...and then expect me to roll over and go to bed?

Another thing that really bothered me is on the couch we are making out and starting the horizontal tango and she starts talking about her ex is an ass and he won’t give her the TV or something, or she'll start making jokes and lau***ng at them.

I’m pretty passionate, when I start my dance there are sounds and if there is talking, it’s dirty!

I probably have to mention something, but it’s just a hard thing to say out of no where!

**qualityclrk1** · 03-08-2008, 08:04 AM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

I’ll try to be brief!

So I’ve been hanging out with this girl to see if it develops into something more. She is really cute, and is a very sweet girl, very caring and not argumentive at all, so she’s not really my “type”, lol.

Anyway, the sex is great. I never have had a problem performing with her. In the past, when I would first hook up with a girl I would have problems…until I was more comfortable around them.

Last week she came over…unexpectedly that is. I just got done cleaning my own pipes not far prior to that. I was fine, but I could not get off and my “side kick” went to sleep.

So last night, she stayed the night, we were in bed and I’m pursuing the pink taco, she says, “why don’t we just wait until morning….remember what happened last time?”. Come on, 1 out of 20? and you are going to remember that and bring it up...and then expect me to roll over and go to bed?

Another thing that really bothered me is on the couch we are making out and starting the horizontal tango and she starts talking about her ex is an ass and he won’t give her the TV or something, or she'll start making jokes and lau***ng at them.

I’m pretty passionate, when I start my dance there are sounds and if there is talking, it’s dirty!

I probably have to mention something, but it’s just a hard thing to say out of no where!

lol i love all the terms u used....pink taco-horizontal tango....hahaha...anyway yeh that shit sucks, and her busting you out on not being able to perform that one time is a total killer to the ego/confidence lol....anyway man, shes getting to know you more and maybe shes starting to slow down on wanting to have sex all the time?.....- u've dated people and fvcked the shit out of them for the first two months, then after that its like it tails off and u gotta work a little harder for sex....maybe thats the problem? shes won you over and put out for you, now she wants you to "put out for her" (work harder for the sex, show that you care)....from what you've said it looks like its just the natural cycle of dating lol.....maybe show her how u aren't like the ex-boyfriend and maybe her bringing up the limp noodle was just a poorly placed joke lol..if it were me, i'd find a place to joke about it too......i'd simply say...well look i just got done beating it, i just got to thinkin about you and i went at it!... then u came over and it was too much for me at once....

**Prada** · 03-08-2008, 10:21 AM

Next time she says no, just say "ok no problem" and start jerking off. Thats a great way to piss them off

**Lexed** · 03-08-2008, 10:32 AM

Originally Posted by Prada

Next time she says no, just say "ok no problem" and start jerking off. Thats a great way to piss them off

lmao...

**J-Dogg** · 03-08-2008, 11:30 AM

Beating off next to her woud only make her giggle at me, "HUNNY WHAT ARE YOU DOING!?!?".

She is really inexperinced, she does not know how lucky she is. 19/20 times I hit that shit like a nuculear war head. I'm getting drunk tonight with her, so I know I'll say some smart ass comment about it.

I have a few options at this point:

1: The make her feel bad option....."I'm sorry I can't be superman every night"
2: The make her feel bad option....."You are not exactly a sex godess yourself"
3: The make her feel bad option....."You can go back and **** your ex if you want somthing better"

And if she thinks she has won me over already....LOL takes more than that.

Chances are after that comment I'm going to be second guessing myself for the next 3 months and not be able to get a hard on anyway.

**rockinred** · 03-08-2008, 11:36 AM

bro, just drop it... if she said it once in a joking manner... your letting it get to you... if she says it again or has said it again and you didn't bring it up...I'd go with option 2 and if it escalated fro there go with option 3

**J-Dogg** · 03-08-2008, 11:41 AM

Originally Posted by rockinred

bro, just drop it... if she said it once in a joking manner... your letting it get to you... if she says it again or has said it again and you didn't bring it up...I'd go with option 2 and if it escalated fro there go with option 3

Understandable....thing is I have an ego. Also, things are just starting out so I have to make sure she is mindful of what she says right away, incase it does develop into somthing more....you know can't teach a old dog new tricks kind of thing....

Really though, the girl was not joking, she had a disappointed look on her face and in her voice.

**borntobeblue** · 03-08-2008, 12:05 PM

let it go mate, if you let it get to you then it will start to affect your performance

**gixxerboy1** · 03-08-2008, 12:18 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

Beating off next to her woud only make her giggle at me, "HUNNY WHAT ARE YOU DOING!?!?".

She is really inexperinced, she does not know how lucky she is. 19/20 times I hit that shit like a nuculear war head. I'm getting drunk tonight with her, so I know I'll say some smart ass comment about it.

I have a few options at this point:

1: The make her feel bad option....."I'm sorry I can't be superman every night"
2: The make her feel bad option....."You are not exactly a sex godess yourself"
3: The make her feel bad option....."You can go back and **** your ex if you want somthing better"

And if she thinks she has won me over already....LOL takes more than that.

Chances are after that comment I'm going to be second guessing myself for the next 3 months and not be able to get a hard on anyway.

I'm guessing after any of those 3 comments you wont have to worry about getting it up because you will be alone

**rockinred** · 03-08-2008, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

I'm guessing after any of those 3 comments you wont have to worry about getting it up because you will be alone

he won't be alone...just with someone who is happy with him... plenty of fish in the sea is how they say it right?

**rockinred** · 03-08-2008, 12:36 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

Understandable....thing is I have an ego. Also, things are just starting out so I have to make sure she is mindful of what she says right away, incase it does develop into somthing more....you know can't teach a old dog new tricks kind of thing....

Really though, the girl was not joking, she had a disappointed look on her face and in her voice.

All I have to say is,,, if she is unhappy with it more than once then tell her to hit the road... I wouldn't let anyone mess with my ego when it comes to that. My wife is happy no need to worry there... but if your girl wants a better or different deal... tell her it is a free world and I am sure there will be someone that can try to keep her happy in that area. why would someone be all unhappy for something like that anyways? that is a fact of life and happens to everyone and every girl....not like she wants to jump everytime you say jump on it... I don't get it?

**J-Dogg** · 03-09-2008, 09:17 AM

Oh, I thought of a better option:

Option 4...make her hurt: Get some Letro, drink a 5th and punish **** her.

**J-Dogg** · 03-09-2008, 02:04 PM

Update!
She noticed that I did not sleep "next to her" so asked what was wrong...I kind of felt bad and felt a little immature I guess?

So I stayed up last night and made her brownies! I'm such a nice guy.

**BabyGravy** · 03-09-2008, 02:25 PM

Hahaha..... watd she do after the brownies

***El Diablo*** · 03-10-2008, 01:49 AM

IMO shes got you right where she wants you!

***perfectbeast2001*** · 03-10-2008, 02:18 AM

I would not like it if a girl started talking crap and making jokes while we are ****ing. One girl did and man she was soooo hot (18 yrs old size 6, little cotton hot pants) but i could not see her any more as she used to ruin sex by talking rubbish. God those hot pants were nice though....

**J-Dogg** · 03-10-2008, 12:26 PM

Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001

I would not like it if a girl started talking crap and making jokes while we are ****ing. One girl did and man she was soooo hot (18 yrs old size 6, little cotton hot pants) but i could not see her any more as she used to ruin sex by talking rubbish. God those hot pants were nice though....

Dude, last time we did it I was hitting it from behind and she started chuckeling..."now I know why they call it doggy style". wtf, you just figured that out?

I'm going to start wearing head phones with porn music on, better for her to take offense to that than for me to listen to that!