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    Bro's...this sounds girly but need answer

    How the hell do you get over a girl you had fallen deep for.

    It was only 3 months long and i know ill be over it in a week or two but damn i just wanna skip all the bullshit.

    i would tell you the story of what happened but too many details.

    what are some good mind tricks to help pull yourself out. she left with no final word. just GONE and i keep dwelling on this shit, just the question of why keeps coming up no matter how hard i try to take my mind off it

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    Sleep with her mom or sister or mom and sister at the same time.

    There isn't anything you can do it will just take time.

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    I always think of dumb crap the girl did, which gets me pissed at her which makes me not wanna be with her anyway.

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    Time heals all wounds.

    Plus it doesnt hurt to get some new tang.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleScience View Post
    Time heals all wounds.

    Plus it doesnt hurt to get some new tang.

    Word. That's why I live my life like The Quag.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fm0h3qU9-cA

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    Realise you were enjoying life b4 you met her, she was a great experience and cherish the feelings and memories, but use that to be a better man in what ever future you make your self.

    You can't change it, but you got ya own future fella.

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    i know it sucks i just went throught that shit just got to keep busy and let time do its thing

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    Quote Originally Posted by StoneGRMI View Post
    Word. That's why I live my life like The Quag.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fm0h3qU9-cA
    "fat chicks need lovin to, but they got to pay,"

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    Go out get drunk and nail a hot girl, works every time

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    thanks for all the replies guys.

    i was doin pretty good until i met her. i never saw it until now but she drove all my friends away from me. literally. now all my old acquantinces dont like me because A: they wanted her too or B:all my time was pretty much tied into her.

    ill just remember shit like her whiney ass voice, her multiple personality disorder that i diagnosed her with, how she looked when we would wake up the next morning after a hard night of drinking etc...

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtball_619 View Post
    thanks for all the replies guys.

    i was doin pretty good until i met her. i never saw it until now but she drove all my friends away from me. literally. now all my old acquantinces dont like me because A: they wanted her too or B:all my time was pretty much tied into her.

    ill just remember shit like her whiney ass voice, her multiple personality disorder that i diagnosed her with, how she looked when we would wake up the next morning after a hard night of drinking etc...


    is that the one that was pregnant for your friend?

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    The only thing is to wait it out. Yeah it sucks, but that's about it. Time heals everything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtball_619 View Post
    thanks for all the replies guys.

    i was doin pretty good until i met her. i never saw it until now but she drove all my friends away from me. literally. now all my old acquantinces dont like me because A: they wanted her too or B:all my time was pretty much tied into her.

    ill just remember shit like her whiney ass voice, her multiple personality disorder that i diagnosed her with, how she looked when we would wake up the next morning after a hard night of drinking etc...
    Holy shit sounds like my ex. You're better off without her dude.

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    I know this sucks but I am an older guy and been through quite a bit. From my experience the reason the shorter relationships hurt the most is because you did not spend enough time together to learn all of the things that would make you dislike her. You are forced to think she may have been the one, when in reality it was just easy for her to play the game knowing she did not have to continue the BS. The reason you probably really liked her is because she was hot, right? I know you liked all the other stuff, but she was hot. Since that is a major thing in a guys mind, that is easy for you to think she is perfect. Just be happy you had some fun with her and be happy you got to spend some time with her. Life is full of experiences and that is another one of yours. There is nothing that can get you over a girl like another girl. Hang in there, you have a few more stories in your book, I am sure. Good Luck.

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    ya but she lost the baby. somehow...

    funny how a girl can make you believe anything she sais when your in bed.



    anyways, oh and her mom always filling her head with bs relationship advice, her little brother always just showing up at my house to hang out without calling.

    turning shit around on me when i confront her about something wrong she did, then making me sound like the asshole.

    my god, it worked, its a miracle... she was indeed a little ****. shes lucky shes hot or she would go nowere in life


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    btw, id like to thank the whole crew for this one. this next week is gonna go alot better than planned.

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    Hmmm... Been two years for me, but I will let you know when I get over her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Lifts-a-lot View Post
    Hmmm... Been two years for me, but I will let you know when I get over her.
    not to get all wired but it has been 2+ for me too! still miss her, i just learn how to put it in the back of my mind. this chick still has me messed up, ive only been on a few dates (forced by friends). i guess it is ok to admit this on the computer b/c no one knows me lol.

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    ouch man i couldnt imagine. hope you get over that soon bro.

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    dude want to hear so thing weird im friends with my exs dad and shes got my head all messed up and she lives with him and he keeps asking me to come by and drops by and talks about her all the time and tells me she still like me how fuked is that.

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    I broke up with my last GF 2 years ago and have been single since then, well, until 2 months ago I met a really cute girl who is really nice and as a guy who 'never' been 'in love' , I think I am in love with this new girl. But my last GF 2 years ago, I kinda cared for her but not like the new one now. And when we broke up I 2 years ago, i was almost lost and had the worst feeling in my stomach for like 3-4 weeks. And I can only imagine what I would feel like if this something doesnt go right with the new girl and I break up. So I can kinda see where your comming from man. It seems easy now telling you how you can ease your mind and not think of her but if I was in your shoes i dont think its possible. All I can say is keep active. Go to the gym longer, work more hours. Keep your mind off of her. But I feel for ya and I only dreed not to be in your situation with my new girl, cause it will suck hard core.... Hope I make sence man

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    Quote Originally Posted by AaronJM1984 View Post
    I always think of dumb crap the girl did, which gets me pissed at her which makes me not wanna be with her anyway.
    hahahahahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtball_619 View Post
    How the hell do you get over a girl you had fallen deep for.
    GET A HOTTER ONE. Don't chase a bitch, replace a bitch.

    /end thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by mike954 View Post
    dude want to hear so thing weird im friends with my exs dad and shes got my head all messed up and she lives with him and he keeps asking me to come by and drops by and talks about her all the time and tells me she still like me how fuked is that.
    i know what you mean, my exs dad and i are still big buds, except she doesnt live with him. we play softball together, go to the bars, he is helping me build my house i even went with him to his sisters house for like a week and me and his daughter have been broke up for over 2 yrs.

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    Bro, she is wacked in the head from the get-go. Chalk it up as a hotty u nailed and then find another hotty. Its easy bro, just need to find another and youll be better.

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    Bone as man chicks as possible.

    But she will always be in the back of your mind even though she was a lousy lay

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    Only time will heal your lost. Sleeping with other girls/boys won't make you forget her.

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    +1 sleep with best friend....

    Just stay mad at her instead of upset, and go get some new ass

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtball_619 View Post
    thanks for all the replies guys.

    i was doin pretty good until i met her. i never saw it until now but she drove all my friends away from me. literally. now all my old acquantinces dont like me because A: they wanted her too or B:all my time was pretty much tied into her.

    ill just remember shit like her whiney ass voice, her multiple personality disorder that i diagnosed her with, how she looked when we would wake up the next morning after a hard night of drinking etc...
    bull$hit. Its takes two.

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    wow... everyone si sayin sleep w/ her friend... i disagree, you dotn want anything to do w/ her... bascially start talkin to someone else... not linked w/her tho... cause then thats showing ur still thinkin bout her..... plus a bottle of JD helps :P
    j/K for all you on a cycle, alcohol is bad, but great healer of mental/social/emotional problems :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtball_619 View Post
    How the hell do you get over a girl you had fallen deep for.

    It was only 3 months long and i know ill be over it in a week or two but damn i just wanna skip all the bullshit.

    i would tell you the story of what happened but too many details.

    what are some good mind tricks to help pull yourself out. she left with no final word. just GONE and i keep dwelling on this shit, just the question of why keeps coming up no matter how hard i try to take my mind off it
    Man you are in phoenix, why the hell are you worried about this ho? I couldn't bang enough chics there, I have buddies out there and they act like it's the garden of eden

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    Quote Originally Posted by goodcents View Post
    Man you are in phoenix, why the hell are you worried about this ho? I couldn't bang enough chics there, I have buddies out there and they act like it's the garden of eden
    Thats an understatement.

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    nah, the garden of eden is the south, not southwest... like lousiana, and mississippi, and tennessee, the south midwest... damn! thats where they go to get the MRS degree!

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    Think that she went to jump on some other pole...

    She is a SLUT... forget about her, you are better than this!

    Here you go..

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    Whats the easiest: Go hit something at the bar

    Whats the right thing: Look for a good one that wont pull that shit.

    Second one takes more time but works out better in the end.

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    time bro.it took me 6 years to get over my first love. f'n skank

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    Quote Originally Posted by roidattack View Post
    Whats the easiest: Go hit something at the bar

    Whats the right thing: Look for a good one that wont pull that shit.

    Second one takes more time but works out better in the end.
    Just keep doing the first one all while trying to accomplish the 2nd...That was you don't have any downtime

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