First Date Tonight

[D-Unit 39]

Got a first date with a SMOKIN hot chick in about 3 and a half hours and I'm totally nervous about it.

I feel like such a douche because I never get nervous about dates with chicks, but usually I just want to get them in the sack. This girl is beatiful, perfect body, smart, everything I could ask for in a chick. Totally out of my league, haha.

I'm taking her to dinner at a nice restaurant, and then we're going to go out afterwards probably to a bar or club or something nearby for the rest of the night.

I just know there's gonna be like 45 akward silences during the meal and stuff and I'm gonna be nervous as hell the whole time. Im trying to come up with converstaion topics ahead of time and stuff so I have something to bring up to talk about if the conversation dies.

Any advice from anyone for a good first date? (And yeah, I already know... , haha)

[BITTAPART2]

your already defeated. Dont count yourself out b4 the fight bro. in fact look at everything in life like you are a warrior. I like challenge myself everywhere all the time so every new experience is just another mission to accomplish. She NEEDS you to be confidant and not have any doubt about yourself or it wont ever truely work. You cant defeat yourself before the game starts bro. No expectations other than yo are going to be a MAN yiu are going to do what a man does, that is be strong/confidant and chivilrous to an extent. Exude confidance bro, that is the most important thing you can do for yourself, she needs you to be confidant, especially if shes as perfect as you describe, but dont kiss ass and let her rule this experiance, you need to call the shots tonite, you tell her where your eating, you tell her where your going to chill after etc. your the man bro

[kaberle_15]

your already defeated. Dont count yourself out b4 the fight bro. in fact look at everything in life like you are a warrior. I like challenge myself everywhere all the time so every new experience is just another mission to accomplish. She NEEDS you to be confidant and not have any doubt about yourself or it wont ever truely work. You cant defeat yourself before the game starts bro. No expectations other than yo are going to be a MAN yiu are going to do what a man does, that is be strong/confidant and chivilrous to an extent. Exude confidance bro, that is the most important thing you can do for yourself, she needs you to be confidant, especially if shes as perfect as you describe, but dont kiss ass and let her rule this experiance, you need to call the shots tonite, you tell her where your eating, you tell her where your going to chill after etc. your the man bro

Agreed, if you go in with a losing attitude you will lose.

[D-Unit 39]

your already defeated. Dont count yourself out b4 the fight bro. in fact look at everything in life like you are a warrior. I like challenge myself everywhere all the time so every new experience is just another mission to accomplish. She NEEDS you to be confidant and not have any doubt about yourself or it wont ever truely work. You cant defeat yourself before the game starts bro. No expectations other than yo are going to be a MAN yiu are going to do what a man does, that is be strong/confidant and chivilrous to an extent. Exude confidance bro, that is the most important thing you can do for yourself, she needs you to be confidant, especially if shes as perfect as you describe, but dont kiss ass and let her rule this experiance, you need to call the shots tonite, you tell her where your eating, you tell her where your going to chill after etc. your the man bro

Good advice...

[MuscleScience]

Whatever you do Don't go out with a loaded gun!!!!!!!

[WEBB]

confidence is something you cant fake, and if you are nervous and know you wont have shit to talk about and feel its gonna be akward you are screwed...have topics ready, get your confidence up, no girl and i mean no girl shoudl be or is outta your league bro....

[Chitown Raider]

no girl and i mean no girl shoudl be or is outta your league bro....

[jchopper1]

just talk about yourself alot

[Hoggage_54]

just talk about yourself alot

good idea, and let her pay too

[DSM4Life]

The key to dating is to just not care. Just go in with no expectations at all and just be yourself.

[Amorphic]

confidence is something you cant fake, and if you are nervous and know you wont have shit to talk about and feel its gonna be akward you are screwed...have topics ready, get your confidence up, no girl and i mean no girl shoudl be or is outta your league bro....

exactly, every girl out there is ripe for the picking, its all about confidence, girls eat it up.

you're going to go out and be the man, you have no other options.

[jchopper1]

The key to dating is to just not care. Just go in with no expectations at all and just be yourself.

..+2

[jchopper1]

first tell her you want to make liquid explosion inside of her.

[D-Unit 39]

first tell her you want to make liquid explosion inside of her.

Thats the first thing I'll say when I pick her up.


Ok I'm out.... I'll let y'all know tomorrow how it went.

[goose]

confidence is something you cant fake, and if you are nervous and know you wont have shit to talk about and feel its gonna be akward you are screwed...have topics ready, get your confidence up, no girl and i mean no girl shoudl be or is outta your league bro....

Dear sir, (webb)

do you use a condom first time with a girl???

[DSM4Life]

Thats the first thing I'll say when I pick her up.


Ok I'm out.... I'll let y'all know tomorrow how it went.

Did you clean out the pipes ? Never go out with a loaded weapon.

[jchopper1]

good luck bro

[Kale]

[WEBB]

Dear sir, (webb)

do you use a condom first time with a girl???

Dear madame, (goose)

no i do not unless they tell me i have to, and in that case i usually just get em worked up with other methods that the only thing they think about is having sex and condoms are no longer in there vocabulary...honestly i have probably used one maybe 5% of the time and i have been with > 150 girls....

i know i know its bad, but i am clean and i get checked regualrily....

[gixxerboy1]

Dear madame, (goose)

no i do not unless they tell me i have to, and in that case i usually just get em worked up with other methods that the only thing they think about is having sex and condoms are no longer in there vocabulary...honestly i have probably used one maybe 5% of the time and i have been with > 150 girls....

i know i know its bad, but i am clean and i get checked regualrily....

You must be a liar like me. Because statistics show thats imposible

[moregunsthanroses]

there's some good advice in this thread as well as some good jokes.. like DSM said don't care girls can sense guys who are trying to impress them. Try busting on her about something in a funny way, such as her height if she's really tall.

Talking to a random hottie you can say " I didnt think I would meet a hot girl " pause for a moment as she replies then say "maybe I still will"

[Tesla]

Whatever you do Don't go out with a loaded gun!!!!!!!

Clean those pipes!!

[bruteman]

there's some good advice in this thread as well as some good jokes.. like DSM said don't care girls can sense guys who are trying to impress them. Try busting on her about something in a funny way, such as her height if she's really tall.

Talking to a random hottie you can say " I didnt think I would meet a hot girl " pause for a moment as she replies then say "maybe I still will"

haha that's not right.....i don't think she will stay around long if you tell her that

[bruteman]

The key to dating is to just not care. Just go in with no expectations at all and just be yourself.

very good advice. you have nothing to lose, so why worry. just be yourself. you have to find someone that likes you for who you are. talk about whatever comes to mind. think of a lot of possible things too. it's always better to have too much to talk about then not enough.

well i guess the date's already passed, so let us know how it went.

[D-Unit 39]

Ok here's the next-day update.

Like I said, I felt stupid for being nervous about it because I never get nervous about girls... I made the mistake of putting this girl on a different level in my mind and got myself all psyched out about it.

Classic 40-Year Old Virgin quote: "You just need to stop putting the pu$$y on a pedastal".


Anyway.... the date couldn't possibly have gone any better. Dinner was great, we made good conversation the whole time, got along great. It was pretty effortless too, not like I had to fight to keep it going or anything.

After dinner we picked up one of my friends and one of her friends and we all went out to this bar a couple of towns away that had a live band playing. That was good too, everyone got pretty good & loosened up and our two friends started to hit it off as well.

We ended up going back to the other girl's house (my date's friend) which is a huge lakefront house, and all of us slept there. Didn't have sex, but might as well have. She did clean my pipes up well for me though! My buddy nailed her friend too!


Anyway... just thought I'd let y'all know it went great and all my worrying was for nothing.

[Amorphic]

Ok here's the next-day update.

Like I said, I felt stupid for being nervous about it because I never get nervous about girls... I made the mistake of putting this girl on a different level in my mind and got myself all psyched out about it.

Classic 40-Year Old Virgin quote: "You just need to stop putting the pu$$y on a pedastal".


Anyway.... the date couldn't possibly have gone any better. Dinner was great, we made good conversation the whole time, got along great. It was pretty effortless too, not like I had to fight to keep it going or anything.

After dinner we picked up one of my friends and one of her friends and we all went out to this bar a couple of towns away that had a live band playing. That was good too, everyone got pretty good & loosened up and our two friends started to hit it off as well.

We ended up going back to the other girl's house (my date's friend) which is a huge lakefront house, and all of us slept there. Didn't have sex, but might as well have. She did clean my pipes up well for me though! My buddy nailed her friend too!


Anyway... just thought I'd let y'all know it went great and all my worrying was for nothing.

good job.

[SMCengineer]

Dude, you should've had her give you a blowjob when she finished cleaning your pipes.

[ChuckLee]

The key to dating is to just not care. Just go in with no expectations at all and just be yourself.

The best advice since now. Then whatever is gonna happen

[solid-d]

Ok here's the next-day update.

Like I said, I felt stupid for being nervous about it because I never get nervous about girls... I made the mistake of putting this girl on a different level in my mind and got myself all psyched out about it.

Classic 40-Year Old Virgin quote: "You just need to stop putting the pu$$y on a pedastal".


Anyway.... the date couldn't possibly have gone any better. Dinner was great, we made good conversation the whole time, got along great. It was pretty effortless too, not like I had to fight to keep it going or anything.

After dinner we picked up one of my friends and one of her friends and we all went out to this bar a couple of towns away that had a live band playing. That was good too, everyone got pretty good & loosened up and our two friends started to hit it off as well.

We ended up going back to the other girl's house (my date's friend) which is a huge lakefront house, and all of us slept there. Didn't have sex, but might as well have. She did clean my pipes up well for me though! My buddy nailed her friend too!


Anyway... just thought I'd let y'all know it went great and all my worrying was for nothing.

Thats almost PIMP status.. LOL.. good job bro.. easy as pie, right

[StoneGRMI]

Sounds like a classy girl.

[DSM4Life]

Sounds like a classy girl.

+2 sssssssss

[feanixco]

Originally Posted by StoneGRMI View Post
Sounds like a classy girl.

+2

+3
I wonder how many times that has happened?

[Lexed]

tell her ur a astronaut

[SmittyTheOX]

Good stuff mate.

Ive got a missus so from now on im living vicariously through you

[D-Unit 39]

Dude, you should've had her give you a blowjob when she finished cleaning your pipes.

HAHA funniest thing I've ever read!! That's true I should have!

Sounds like a classy girl.

Yeah... she didnt want to have sex because it was our first date and she didnt want me to think she was a whore. ..... LOL.

+3
I wonder how many times that has happened?

I'll just convince myself that I managed to charm the pants off of her with my stunning good looks and many shots I bought her beforehand, haha.

[Kale]

Sounds like a classy girl.

Just as classy as him

[Ajc330]

everyone is being sarcastic.. she put out that much on a first date huh??

either way good work man! ...i think

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

tell her ur a astronaut

hahahaha

[moregunsthanroses]

haha that's not right.....i don't think she will stay around long if you tell her that

LOL,not for some girl you know just some random hottie.. that you would meet in a bookstore or something( bad example I dont read books)

Good job man looks like things went well.. So it was a BJ then?

[feanixco]

tell her ur a astronaut

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