I need your advice

[Nismo]

So I met this chick and we said we were going to keep in touch after she left. We sent each other a couple a e-mails, mostly cause of my effort. Long story short, she didn't reply to my last e-mail and that was about a week ago.

My question is, should I send her another e-mail to say "hello" or should I wait till she sends one???

What do you gents say?

[WEBB]

walk away man....sorry but it just seems like shes just not into you and at the start the distance thing was gonna be ok and you could keep intouch, but now its to much work and shes movin on....just my opinion...

[shifty_git]

Walk away.... if a girl is mega keen you will know, as it will seem more like ya got no breathing space.

[Nismo]

I dunno guys, I wan't to keep in touch with her cause the sex was f@cken awsome, and she was a real kick ass person too and really hot.

I don't even know why I got so into her though.

[paulzane]

I dunno guys, I wan't to keep in touch with her cause the sex was f@cken awsome, and she was a real kick ass person too and really hot.

I don't even know why I got so into her though.

I think you answered your question in your first sentence!!

[StoneGRMI]

You're ultimately going to do whatever you want to do so any advice any of us will give you is pointless.

[Nismo]

You guys are right. Damn it!

I guess just break the wrist and walk away huh. Man F#ck! Everytime we had sex I seriously felt like I was in a damn porno, she would moan like no other.

Damn it!!!!!!

[TJM7275]

Walk dude... They love it when you don't care

[Nismo]

Haha thats what I thought too bro, I guess I should give it another week. If I don't hear from her then I guess she was just playing me. I feel so used too, while we were together she would show me off to all her friends and co-workers like I was some sort of flippin trophy.

[calgarian]

So I met this chick and we said we were going to keep in touch after she left. We sent each other a couple a e-mails, mostly cause of my effort. Long story short, she didn't reply to my last e-mail and that was about a week ago.

My question is, should I send her another e-mail to say "hello" or should I wait till she sends one???

What do you gents say?

Look man ...I do not know how old are you or what is your experience with the ladies but let me tell you and I am saying it because of experience especially in Anal( you guys had to know it is coming), walk away. There are lot of women out that that will make you feel a porn star, especially Cougers.

If you keep in contact with her you are not achieving anything cause she is away and no sex to begin with. Walk away and if she thinks that you were good in bed she will contact you if not well it was good while it lasted.

[Nismo]

Look man ...I do not know how old are you or what is your experience with the ladies but let me tell you and I am saying it because of experience especially in Anal( you guys had to know it is coming), walk away. There are lot of women out that that will make you feel a porn star, especially Cougers.

If you keep in contact with her you are not achieving anything cause she is away and no sex to begin with. Walk away and if she thinks that you were good in bed she will contact you if not well it was good while it lasted.

That's what I needed to hear. Oddly enough she was older... Well only 4 years older but still older. Your right brotha, I guess I thought I had a connection with this chick and it also didn't help that all my buds where drooling over her. Thanks for the pep talk Calgarian and to everyone else too.

[calgarian]

That's what I needed to hear. Oddly enough she was older... Well only 4 years older but still older. Your right brotha, I guess I thought I had a connection with this chick and it also didn't help that all my buds where drooling over her. Thanks for the pep talk Calgarian and to everyone else too.

Any time Man Keep looking for the piece of Arse and u will find it

[Papi93]

So I met this chick and we said we were going to keep in touch after she left. We sent each other a couple a e-mails, mostly cause of my effort. Long story short, she didn't reply to my last e-mail and that was about a week ago.

My question is, should I send her another e-mail to say "hello" or should I wait till she sends one???

What do you gents say?

You separated from woman you were with a few years ago?

[Nismo]

You separated from woman you were with a few years ago?

Yeah man, we decided to go our own ways. How bout you? You still with your seniorita?

[Bojangles69]

So I met this chick and we said we were going to keep in touch after she left. We sent each other a couple a e-mails, mostly cause of my effort. Long story short, she didn't reply to my last e-mail and that was about a week ago.

My question is, should I send her another e-mail to say "hello" or should I wait till she sends one???

What do you gents say?

My integrity drops (no offense) in the respect that man to man, anyone (including myself) even needs to tell what to do in a situation like that.

An evasion trap is not something YOU step into.
Because its not her job to be evasive (95%) of the time, unless shes NOT interested.
Its your job as a man, to set the traps, own the frame, and pull her into it, NOT PUSH. The more you contact her the LESS she will respect you as a man, and not contacting her in this situation will afford you no benefit either.

Your fvcked either way so forget it. Its never about fixing the next step, its about fixing the steps before, which logically you can't do now. So since you already broke the first steps, you have no ground to stand on, and no center of attraction to pull her towards.

Unless you get more specific than I get more specific as well, because you're vague description introduces too muched biased speculation on my part, but based on experience, reformat the part of your brain that has this girls name in it.

[D-Unit 39]

reformat the part of your brain that has this girls name in it.

Well put!

[Johnny_Rotten]

I feel your man pain, comrade.

They're evil creatures, man..& we're all slaves to our penis.

I always try to argue with him but the bastard always wins in the end, he always wins..

[Papi93]

Yeah man, we decided to go our own ways. How bout you? You still with your seniorita?

We've been married for over a year now. How is your kid doing?

[Nismo]

Unless you get more specific than I get more specific as well, because you're vague description introduces too muched biased speculation on my part, but based on experience, reformat the part of your brain that has this girls name in it.

Well I'm overseas right now and so was she (captain obvious) but it was time for her to return to the states.

At first it (in my mind) it was supposed to be strictly sex but the more I got to know her the more I found out we had a lot in common, maybe a lil too much in common. I seriously fell head over heels for this chick and before she was leaving we were talking about staying in touch (nothing serious) so when it was my time to go home she would either come and see me or I would go and see her. I should have known better.

Even when she was at the airport about to leave she called me and was talking to me on the phone up until it was time for her to board the plane.

Few days past after she left and I sent her an e-mail saying hello and she was telling me about how a member of her family is ill and only has a few weeks left. I wished her my best and that was the last e-mail I sent to her. She never replied, she hasn't sent an e-mail saying "Hi" or nothing.

I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt that because of her ill family member she hasn't had time to write (but we all know thats BS).

Whats your take on that? I'm thinking I just got played or used only for the sex and to show me off to her friends. She out-ranks me and was introducing me to her female commander and all her other female friends on a first name basis (While in uniform) which I thought was odd.

What's your take on that? Was I just being used? Man, I feel like such a f#cken chick right now

[Nismo]

We've been married for over a year now. How is your kid doing?

Congrats bro!!! I'm happy for you, I really am! Como esta tu espanol?

My daughter is doing good man, I got to go home for her 2nd birthday which was awsome. Hahaha I still remember when my ex-wife and I were talking to you and your lady, at that time Suzie and I were still prego. Time really does fly.

How bout your brosif? Any little Papis' anytime soon?

[Nismo]

I feel your man pain, comrade.

They're evil creatures, man..& we're all slaves to our penis.

I always try to argue with him but the bastard always wins in the end, he always wins..

Thanks brotha!

Hell yeah man, females are very very evil but yet so so hot... Well some of them anyway.

[Kratos]

She realized it wasn't going to work cause of distance. It's over most likely trust me, went through this myself in November. Only, I was dating the girl for quite awhile, she moved to Boston (only 2 hours away by car). She told me she loved me till the day we stopped talking. I went to visit her in the city on the weekend, she wouldn't stop kissing me when I left, even through my motorcycle helmet. We talked on Monday, everything was cool. On Tuesday we talked on the phone but she was clearly upset, but was talking about being mad at a girlfriend so I thought that was it. Then we never spoke again. I got her to call me finally and tell me what happened like two weeks after we stopped talking, she said "I just can't be in a distance relationship right now, it's not what I need." We said we would stay friends, I sent her an email or two long after we broke up to let her know I ment it. We haven't spoken since. Fvcked my head up for girls for quite awhile.

[Nismo]

Damn, I feel for you bro. Luckily I only knew this chick for a few weeks.

I know that we weren't gonna make this into anything serious ya know. I guess in the back of my mind I guess I really did want for more to come out of it.

All my friends out here are like, "Man, forget about her when we go home there will be major ass waiting there". But I don't want major ass, I just want that ass but that fvcken ass won't e-mail me. Guess its for the best

[firmechicano831]

let her run with the wind.

[calgarian]

She realized it wasn't going to work cause of distance. It's over most likely trust me, went through this myself in November. Only, I was dating the girl for quite awhile, she moved to Boston (only 2 hours away by car). She told me she loved me till the day we stopped talking. I went to visit her in the city on the weekend, she wouldn't stop kissing me when I left, even through my motorcycle helmet. We talked on Monday, everything was cool. On Tuesday we talked on the phone but she was clearly upset, but was talking about being mad at a girlfriend so I thought that was it. Then we never spoke again. I got her to call me finally and tell me what happened like two weeks after we stopped talking, she said "I just can't be in a distance relationship right now, it's not what I need." We said we would stay friends, I sent her an email or two long after we broke up to let her know I ment it. We haven't spoken since. Fvcked my head up for girls for quite awhile.

Ok Guys here is the thing. First these got us addicted by having out of the world sex and when they realize that u r getting addicted to sex thats when mind game starts and believe me they can make u crazy. Wait till u guys get married my fav. quote is " i dont need to tell u...u should know" frick I am a mind reader.

Some women or men will call me sexist but I tell women I see all my intentions up in front. I want to have sex with you whenever u feel like it and thats that.
So I am happy and married.

[Nismo]

Did the married route man, I was really happy but then after a while my ex-wife started getting on my flippin' nerves. Besides we got married young so I guess we were meant to get divorced young aswell.

[calgarian]

Did the married route man, I was really happy but then after a while my ex-wife started getting on my flippin' nerves. Besides we got married young so I guess we were meant to get divorced young aswell.

Man .....after being divorced u still fell for that chick? Whats wrong with u....my motto is use them and loose them ...as long as u were clear in the beginning.
call me an ass but thats my way

[Nismo]

Nah bro, I know what you mean. Maybe my dumbass has issues.

I told myself that it was going to be just sex, but her and I never went out and just said it. I dunno man, I'm just stupid and I should lose some cool points for this.

[Kratos]

You are gonna think about her until you have sex again with a different girl. From what I can tell it's a defense mechanism in the male brain gone wrong, that is always trying to make sure you have something to hump. I call it the never get laid again blues. You're brain is like, "I was having sex, where did it go?..."better chase after her and have more sex." The defense mechanism doesn't realize in today's day and age when they go far away, they don't come back so you waste time chasing. Evoloution didn't take into account trains planes and automobiles. Relax, it happens to everyone, get back on the horse and move on.

[Kratos]

If she still wants your dick, she'll e-mail you, but don't count on it.

[calgarian]

Nah bro, I know what you mean. Maybe my dumbass has issues.

I told myself that it was going to be just sex, but her and I never went out and just said it. I dunno man, I'm just stupid and I should lose some cool points for this.

Just remember whenever u start falling for a girl u r thinking with your D I C K.
Just remember that next time

[Nismo]

You are gonna think about her until you have sex again with a different girl. From what I can tell it's a defense mechanism in the male brain gone wrong, that is always trying to make sure you have something to hump. I call it the never get laid again blues. You're brain is like, "I was having sex, where did it go?..."better chase after her and have more sex." The defense mechanism doesn't realize in today's day and age when they go far away, they don't come back so you waste time chasing. Evoloution didn't take into account trains planes and automobiles. Relax, it happens to everyone, get back on the horse and move on.

True-er words never spoken. You should write a freakin book man.

Thanks for the info

[Nismo]

Just remember whenever u start falling for a girl u r thinking with your D I C K.
Just remember that next time

Will do Cal, will do.

Thanks everyone for the info, if the chick ever e-mails I'll let you gents know.

[Dobie-BOY]

An evasion trap is not something YOU step into.
Because its not her job to be evasive (95%) of the time, unless shes NOT interested.
Its your job as a man, to set the traps, own the frame, and pull her into it, NOT PUSH. The more you contact her the LESS she will respect you as a man, and not contacting her in this situation will afford you no benefit either.

Your fvcked either way so forget it. Its never about fixing the next step, its about fixing the steps before, which logically you can't do now. So since you already broke the first steps, you have no ground to stand on, and no center of attraction to pull her towards.

Yep yep, what he said. ^ This is EXACTLY RIGHT! No offense bro, but the reason you "feel like a chick" is because you put yourself in the womans position. The prey instead of the predator. Thing is, most of us men have done it before. All you can do is not do it again.

[SaSqUaDgE]

send her a virus threw email lol then never talk to her again ha

[Nismo]

Update fellas!

I had a missed call from her on my cell.

Checked my e-mail later that night and she sent me an e-mail telling me to give her a call on her cell phone or at her house.

Should I call her back or leave it be? It's been about 3 days since I got this sh!t.

[paulzane]

Call her for fcuk's sake!

[StoneGRMI]

Call her for fcuk's sake!

Tell her

[notus]

call her

[Dobie-BOY]

How long ago did she leave the message? You just dont want to seem too anxious. Dont always be available. When you do call her make sure to end the conversation before she does, preferably because you got something fun you have to get ready for. Yes, this is playin games. Thing is, if you play the game and she ISNT playin games, you still win. If you dont play the game and she IS playin games, you lose.