Should I risk asking this girl out?

[jay94]

Please don't laugh, I know this is silly... I've known this girl for about a year now. We're in the same university program and we have all our classes together, so we obviously spend a lot of time together. She's totally my type: reasonably fit, smart, pretty (by my own standards), very down to earth...

I want to ask her out, but I'm scared. Not because I lack the confidence to do so, but because I feel like it's risky. If she says no or it ends up not working out, I feel like I could not only lose her friendship, but the next 3 years would also be extremely awkward and uncomfortable since, like I said, we see each other everyday and it's also a small program with not that many students.

Would you guys risk it?

[yettibecsuse]

Ofcourse I would? if dhe values your friendship she won't care if you ssk her, she'll just say can we be friends, no loss.

[Honkey_Kong]

Post a picture of her so we can better decide.

[GirlyGymRat]

post a picture of her so we can better decide.

lol!

[GirlyGymRat]

Are u getting any vibe? I would risk it just be prepared for the friend zone.......

[lovbyts]

She may be your type but are you her type? If you know her very well then she should have made it clear by now what kind of guy she is interested in.

It doesnt hurt to ask and wont ruin a friendship if you dont come across as a dog in heat and you are friends. Well... I dont think it should but I cant think of a girl I have asked out who ever said no. lol I was friends with one girl for probably 20 years before we hooked up, by her request. I had to call it off though after about 3 months, it was just to much like sleeping with your sister. lol We are still friends.

[uhit]

Okay, my little input.

If you ask a girl out put yourself in her shoes for a second and ask yourself whats so special about me or why does he like me

If you can answer that then go for it, if you can't then just... nah don't ask her out coz he'll give you 'i like you as a friend' type response.
A relationship is a two way deal so anything you do make sure you think of it from HER perceptive and not just your own.

How do I know this shit? I asked a close friend of mine (girl) about why guys get put into the friendzone and literally she gave me a 30 minute long speech about boys, friendzone, asking girls out and mixed signals.

But this is all just advice.. do whatever the **** you wanna do [sound familiar?]

[jay94]

Ok, to keep you guys up to date, I have no balls, so I'm just never gonna ask her out and move on. The weights are all I need anyway... Call me names, it's fine, I really don't care that much.

[Hoggage_54]

Get drunk with her, whip it out, and see what happens. Or just whip it out in class one day.

[lovbyts]

Ok, to keep you guys up to date, I have no balls, so I'm just never gonna ask her out and move on. The weights are all I need anyway... Call me names, it's fine, I really don't care that much.

Thats why Rohypnol was invented. You dont have to worry about her saying no. If you cant get Rohypnol Ambien works also.

[PistolPete33]

High risk = high reward.... Life is always a gamble. If she says no just say you wanted to talk about the class. Not a big deal. At the very least she will be flattered.

[Times Roman]

Please don't laugh, I know this is silly... I've known this girl for about a year now. We're in the same university program and we have all our classes together, so we obviously spend a lot of time together. She's totally my type: reasonably fit, smart, pretty (by my own standards), very down to earth...

I want to ask her out, but I'm scared. Not because I lack the confidence to do so, but because I feel like it's risky. If she says no or it ends up not working out, I feel like I could not only lose her friendship, but the next 3 years would also be extremely awkward and uncomfortable since, like I said, we see each other everyday and it's also a small program with not that many students.

Would you guys risk it?

hellz ya!

reminds me of this girl I was attracted to in college. cute, but in a down to earth way, funny, smart, and she was digging on me, as I always came to class early and she would find me and sit next to me. This goes on for a couple of quarters. Finally, I man-up and ask if she wanted to do something after class, like a date. Her jaw dropped open , said she got really depressed the other day, and signed up for the marines , leaving at the end of the quarter (in about ten days or so). Then she asked me why I didn't ask her out months ago?

Moral of the story is, you only live once. Be bold. Man up and ask her out, my friend.

[< <Samson> >]

Another virgin thread? ! - Hmmmmmmm


Ask a girl out - I remember those days - Geez, I'm old

[uhit]

Give her something that only you can give her.

The D

That mentality = success. In some cases.

[jeep187]

Just have confidence in yourself. If you don't try you will never know. To me that's worse then her saying no. Good luck!

[Mp859]

Please don't laugh, I know this is silly... I've known this girl for about a year now. We're in the same university program and we have all our classes together, so we obviously spend a lot of time together. She's totally my type: reasonably fit, smart, pretty (by my own standards), very down to earth... I want to ask her out, but I'm scared. Not because I lack the confidence to do so, but because I feel like it's risky. If she says no or it ends up not working out, I feel like I could not only lose her friendship, but the next 3 years would also be extremely awkward and uncomfortable since, like I said, we see each other everyday and it's also a small program with not that many students. Would you guys risk it?

If you have been around this girl for a year and you are just now wondering if you can ask her out. I would say she isn't in to you. If she was there would have been signs by now. Welcome to the friend zone brother!

[Juced_porkchop]

Ok, to keep you guys up to date, I have no balls, so I'm just never gonna ask her out and move on. The weights are all I need anyway... Call me names, it's fine, I really don't care that much.

And if she was interested you will never know... I say slowly look into it.. if just friends then just friends.

[Buster Brown]

Ask her out for coffee and see where it goes. If you guys click when you are both out of your comfort zone (school) then ask her to grab a pizza........ Many layers to the onion! Don't make it into a do or die situation..... Just a more comfortable one

[GirlyGymRat]

Did you ask her out....cuz I really like the coffee idea

[Hoggage_54]

Did you ask her out....cuz I really like the coffee idea

What do you think of my idea? I think it's a sure thing.

[jay94]

Honestly, why should I even care about having a girlfriend? I already look better than 80% of the guys who do have one, and when I drop to 12% body fat, it will be 95%.

[davidtheman100]

Fck her right in the pvssy

[GirlyGymRat]

Fck her right in the pvssy

Don't listen to ^^^

[Hoggage_54]

Fck her right in the pvssy

Well said.

[GirlyGymRat]

Well said.

Don't listen to this one neither IMHO. LoL.


Part of me wants to ask the obvious question.....but I am holding back from starting a fire storm....

[Times Roman]

Did you ask her out....cuz I really like the coffee idea

you like the coffee idea because you like what comes next even more! =)

[GirlyGymRat]

you like the coffee idea because you like what comes next even more! =)

Cunnilingus???? Yayyyyyy!!!!! Rotflmao!!!

[Times Roman]

Cunnilingus???? Yayyyyyy!!!!! Rotflmao!!!

and I'm a bargain too!

I'm thinking you pay the coffee and we'll call it quits.

[GirlyGymRat]

and I'm a bargain too! I'm thinking you pay the coffee and we'll call it quits.

No Cunnilingus???? Booooooo!!!!!

[Times Roman]

No Cunnilingus???? Booooooo!!!!!

no............

"call it quits" = "call it even" = "paid in full"

the coffee is my fee. Told ya I'm a bargain!

[Times Roman]

.........not that I'd ever whore myself out for a cup of coffee.................

[Hazard]

[Hoggage_54]

[< <Samson> >]

Fck her right in the pvssy

No way

Slip her the magic thumb - see how she reacts. Then proceed from thur

[Honkey_Kong]

POW right in the pvssy.

[RaginCajun]

Honestly, why should I even care about having a girlfriend? I already look better than 80% of the guys who do have one, and when I drop to 12% body fat, it will be 95%.

Throw up some pics Mr. 80%

[David LoPan]

Poindexter dont "ask her out" just take her out. Your guys are friends, right. Its easy to go do something with her, just say he lets you and me go do this....then like the song says, "So don't just stand there bust a move" You either get out of the friends zone or you stay friends.....but remember if you start do date a girl then she will know you have a thing for her and then she will cut that girl, thats just a friend, out of you life....take a risk.....Take a test shot if you need too get bust that move!!!

[jay94]

Throw up some pics Mr. 80%

Let me hit that 12% first, then you shall see.

[thegame1431]

yes you should ask her out, without any question. Worst case scenario, you make another friend, best case scenario you end up marrying her and finding a best friend for life that you get to have sex with once a week

[Times Roman]

yes you should ask her out, without any question. Worst case scenario, you make another friend, best case scenario you end up marrying her and finding a best friend for life that you get to have sex with once a week

once a week?

............that often, huh?