Met a girl...need advice!

[UberSteroids]

Got the advice I needed.

[DSM4Life]

Get the hint.


You call her once leave a VM and wait. If she doesn't call you back go to the store, buy a 6 pack, some baby oil, and go watch your fav porno.

[customworksking]

1 girl out of how many ??? 1000,0000 as DSM said 4get her if u see her u do if not cool ..Numbers dude the more u talk to the better ur odds...good luck

[StoneGRMI]

Sounds like she's either busy or just playing childish games. Just wait or drop her another quick text.

[Bojangles69]

So here is the story mates.

One of my best buddies started going out with this one girl. Soon after he met her close cousin that she always hangs out with. My buddy asked the other girl if she was by a chance single and she said yes. So my buddy, thinking of me, asked her if she maybe would be interested in meeting someone. She was really excited about this and said yes. So we all met up for a double date. We had a really good times, no awkward moments, we spent about 4 hours in this one fancy place. Making jokes, talking, laughing etc. It was a really good time. Although I didn't ask her for a phone number as I never do the first time in situation like this. So two days later I talked to my buddy and his girl and she asked me what do I think about her cousin? I said well, she is a nice person and I would sure like to get to know her more. She said, well I already talked to her and she is up for a date with you. I said, well GREAT. So, I was hoping that we can set something up over the weekend so I can talk to her more and ask her for the phone number. That didn't happen as we all got busy. So my bud said, write her an e-mail which I did. Sent her one, nothing stupid, just polite and cool about it. Well, did not answer back and after two days I change my mailbox so I deleted the old one. Then I talked to my buddy and said that his girl told him about her cousin sending me a reply mail but I never responded. Well because I did not have the box anymore. I told him that. He called me back alter and said the girl wants my number so she is gonna give it to her cousin. After about 3 days, she txt me on my phone. We texted back for a little bit then I said I gotta go to bed soon and I would like to call her tomorrow if that's ok with her. She said, that's fine.
So I did call her next day, and of course she did not answer. I left the message saying " Hi, this is me. You are probably busy with something but give me a call whenever your gonna get a chance."
That was last friday. She didn't call me back yet...
I know for a fact that she had some family party going on Saturday as my buddy told me.
So now, what I was thinking... do not call again until she calls me since i called once already and left a message.

What do you guys think?

I need advice. I really don't like playing damn games and I am not good at it. Seems as she is interested, I am too...but then... weird situation.

Help mate over here! Thanks guys!

.. "games" lol.
I love what people think they know about games.

You've ALREADY turned it into a game, and you're playing it.
You're looking for strategies and tips on what you should or shouldn't do.

THAT'S A GAME.

I love when people think someone else is playing a game because they act indifferent or uninterested in them (not saying you are but just look at the situation).
Everyone plays some sort of game, even the people who say they don't. They just call it something else or deny it, its still the same difference.

First mistake - "I'm the kind of guy who doesn't ask for a number the first time".

Talk about ruining a situation that hasn't even started yet.

Girls WANT guys to have balls, and not be hung up about something SO SMALL as asking for a number. If you can't do that, I wonder what else she's assuming you can't do.

Second mistake - NEVER communicate with a woman through other people. It was ok in highschool during the bloom of cross socialization between genders. Girls out of highschool however (at least in my experience) expect you to be socialized enough to talk to them directly. If you're not, theres a reason why.

You never interacted enough with women to begin. And thats scary for a girl.
Why?
Think of lions. When a lion doesn't get food for a while than sees a little baby zebra one day, he is desperate and that state will fvck up his natural hunting ability.
He wants to slaughter the little zebra (in your case girl) but theres now an even better chance that he's not aware of that he'll fvck things up.

He'll approach, pounce out of desperateness, than a pack of mommy and daddy zebra will jump from behind a bush and ambush him eating him whole. =]

If the lion was getting a baby zebra everyday (in your case *****/female interaction), he wouldn't take unneccessary, overcalculated, fatal and flat out stupid risks now when a baby zebra comes trolling around.

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So drop the shit. Its for your own good.
If your sitting at home or whereever you are thinking about this girl and what to do, and you've been on ONE "date" with her, that alone is reason enough to keep your distance and stop waiting for some zebra to come trolling around.

My advice: Don't call her/email/text or even try to engage her if she does call. Be evasive, go out, find some new baby zebra, that way when once accidentally winds up in your territory you won't kill yourself trying to get it.

-Bo

[DSM4Life]

[StoneGRMI]

[Bojangles69]

Omfglmao!!!

[customworksking]

.. "games" lol.
I love what people think they know about games.

You've ALREADY turned it into a game, and you're playing it.
You're looking for strategies and tips on what you should or shouldn't do.

THAT'S A GAME.

I love when people think someone else is playing a game because they act indifferent or uninterested in them (not saying you are but just look at the situation).
Everyone plays some sort of game, even the people who say they don't. They just call it something else or deny it, its still the same difference.

First mistake - "I'm the kind of guy who doesn't ask for a number the first time".

Talk about ruining a situation that hasn't even started yet.

Girls WANT guys to have balls, and not be hung up about something SO SMALL as asking for a number. If you can't do that, I wonder what else she's assuming you can't do.

Second mistake - NEVER communicate with a woman through other people. It was ok in highschool during the bloom of cross socialization between genders. Girls out of highschool however (at least in my experience) expect you to be socialized enough to talk to them directly. If you're not, theres a reason why.

You never interacted enough with women to begin. And thats scary for a girl.
Why?
Think of lions. When a lion doesn't get food for a while than sees a little baby zebra one day, he is desperate and that state will fvck up his natural hunting ability.
He wants to slaughter the little zebra (in your case girl) but theres now an even better chance that he's not aware of that he'll fvck things up.

He'll approach, pounce out of desperateness, than a pack of mommy and daddy zebra will jump from behind a bush and ambush him eating him whole. =]

If the lion was getting a baby zebra everyday (in your case *****/female interaction), he wouldn't take unneccessary, overcalculated, fatal and flat out stupid risks now when a baby zebra comes trolling around.

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So drop the shit. Its for your own good.
If your sitting at home or whereever you are thinking about this girl and what to do, and you've been on ONE "date" with her, that alone is reason enough to keep your distance and stop waiting for some zebra to come trolling around.

My advice: Don't call her/email/text or even try to engage her if she does call. Be evasive, go out, find some new baby zebra, that way when once accidentally winds up in your territory you won't kill yourself trying to get it.

-Bo

agree..

[UberSteroids]

Hey Bojangles.

I really like the post man. I totally agree and understand what you are saying.

I do have a set of ballz.

About the game playing thing, I didn't say I wasn't playing it, I just don't like when situations like this happen.

I do go out with girls, but this one is different.

Anyways, F*** it.

As you said, ruined the situation.

Well, if she calls, great..if not .. nothing I can do. That's what I was always thinking.

Thanks a lot man, really makes me think about stuff. Always something new to learn.

Now, gonna go eat some more zebras and do some workout.

I got the advice I needed, no need for more.

Take care fellas!

[Bojangles69]

Hey Bojangles.

I really like the post man. I totally agree and understand what you are saying.

I do have a set of ballz.

About the game playing thing, I didn't say I wasn't playing it, I just don't like when situations like this happen.

I do go out with girls, but this one is different.

Anyways, F*** it.

As you said, ruined the situation.

Whatever, if she calls, cool..if not .. nothing I can do. That's what I was always thinking.

Thanks a lot man, really makes me think about stuff. Always something new to learn.

Now, gonna go eat some more zebras and do some workout.

I got the advice I needed, no need for more.

Take care fellas!

No problem, I just find if I'm thinking about a girl more than I should, theres usually something not right going on, and often with myself.

Women are great, but they're still just women. G/luck with w/e actually does happen!

[rock75]

Have balls and call her again, just don't leave a message.

[bd50]

HOLY SHIT LMFAO!!!!!!!!!

GIGGITY GIGGITY STONE!!