Hey guys. So yesterday it was my gf's birthday and when i went to pick her up she said she was in a pretty bad mood because her friends were giving her shit and were causing drama..just like in high school..stupid. Anyways, We were on our way out to dinner and I figured i would try and cheer her up. Well for the most part of the night she was very very grumpy and upset at dinner even though i was trying very hard to be sympathetic.

We were having a bit of like i guess a debate, i was just sort of going along iwth it. not an arugment just discussion and then she sorta started to get a little "tense"....

we were talking and what not and we somehow got onto the topic of what would the other person do if we asked one to not do something...wtf you are thinking right...anyways she started the conversation so i take no responsibility in that part...ummm up until this point we had a great relationship...so back to the story... and she said well what if i dont want you to go to the gym and i replied then i dont want you.( ok stupid, but by this point i was pretty frustartated) and then i followed that by

and i said if i cant go to the gym, i cant be happy and therefore it wouldn't be a good relationship..The gym is one of the largest parts of my life where i can really be free....well this blew up into me not appreciating her and putting the gym before her and me putting myself before her and how i am an asshole. and it just got to be disasterous. ..all this is at her birthday dinner...and when we got into the car she just started bawling... i actually feel really bad, it was 90% my fault although i was just being honest, probably not the best thing to do in that situation

I truly regret what i said now considering it was her birthday and "I can cry on my birthday if i want to" meaning i should have just taken all of her shit and said no problem baby.

anyways im assuming we are over, she is coming over to talk

Any fast advice as she will be here in about 30min to an hour????!!!