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    Do you guys tell your woman?

    Just wondering how many of you guys out there tell your woman about using gear........

    I have dated some girls who were totally against it... and others who didnt mind....

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    Its on a need to know basis. Or if I think she'll be cool with it I will tell her. I really dont like being with someone who is not supportive of what I do, or that I have to hide things from all the time. Thats not a healthy relationship...Nitro

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    I have been with my g/f for years now. When she met me i was juicing, and i guess she just accepts it, and tells me to be careful. After all she is the one who sticks me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flex-Appeal View Post
    I have been with my g/f for years now. When she met me i was juicing, and i guess she just accepts it, and tells me to be careful. After all she is the one who sticks me.
    Same here, my wife loves to inject me

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    I think the best thing a woman can do is to learn about it before criticizing it. When my BF decided to use them I researched for months just to make sure I felt that everything he was doing was safe...but I guess being a nurse helps me in that sense.

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    noooo bad barbie has no idea

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    Quote Originally Posted by one8nine View Post
    noooo bad barbie has no idea
    LOL... you don't think

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    i've never told anyone i've dated, mostly cause i don't date at all, but when i told my dad (whos an M.D.) that i was using clen he was completely against it, fast forward 30min and he's asking me to get him some albuterol and HGH

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    I don't, she would flip out.

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    I've been married longer than most guys in here have been alive! lol My wife injects me, I'm a vag!1hahaha

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    The girlfriend knows but the wife has no idea. Gigity gigity!

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    If the relationship starts getting serious, yes. If it isn't, then it is none of her business.

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    depends on the girl

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    my last girl got worried when i told here the bloat was from creatine (really was dbol and test) she freaked about creatine she woulda lost it if she knew what it really was

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    Never tell your women, they live off of the fear and misinformation that the media spreads on all topics not just steroids .

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    my wife injects me. She's ok with it. She hates to see me get depressed post cycle.

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    Another point to think about is if you get busted and your women knows about your usage. They (LE) can use her as leverage to get you to incriminate yourself easier.

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    Yeah but if you dont tell her and they "hear" or God forbid find your gear, its probably over. It definitley depends on the chick though.

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    would depend on the girl really...i'm single so it don't matter...if they don't like it after i tell them...well too bad for them...i do what i want

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skully44420 View Post
    would depend on the girl really...i'm single so it don't matter...if they don't like it after i tell them...well too bad for them...i do what i want
    no wonder u r single....

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    no wonder u r single....
    yeah that could be part of it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skully44420 View Post
    yeah that could be part of it
    I know exactly how you feel. I have gotten very set in my ways and doing what I want, when I want, so long term relationships dont usually work out for me very well either. I cant even imagine being marrried, though I want to some day.

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    I talked to my gf about it last night and explained a lot about steroid use /abuse when over different compounds, and how lifting experience, age, weight all factor into using.

    She is ok with it and just wants me to be careful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audis4 View Post
    I talked to my gf about it last night and explained a lot about steroid use /abuse when over different compounds, and how lifting experience, age, weight all factor into using.

    She is ok with it and just wants me to be careful.
    I am in the same situation. I told my GF that I was taking testosterone to enhance my workouts. I got home yesterday and she was on my computer researching "propionate " and "Enanthate "...

    After conducting her research she concluded that it was okay as long as I did it safely and didn't abuse it.....I agreed. I even asked her if she wanted to administer my next shot of prop lol


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    damn i need to find me a girl like that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skully44420 View Post
    damn i need to find me a girl like that
    u need to find u a girl period

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    u need to find u a girl period
    damnit cal!!!

    you are right though

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skully44420 View Post
    damnit cal!!!

    you are right though
    I know........

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    Well I guess it depends on the girl. If she's a control freak, nuertotic freak, nervous freak, any kinda freak, then not telling her and her finding out later on will bring the whole "you lied to me from the start" shit, if you do tell this kinda girl from the start, every argument will be blamed on you having roid rage .

    Alternatively, if she is a cool chick, laid back or whatever, I think tell her from the start. She'll either not mind or she wont want to continue seeing you.

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    Girls have known I previously dabbled, but always kept the current cycles a secret. If the girl is intelligent and thinks for herself as well as educates herself, shouldn't be a problem. Especially if she respects you and knows that for you to do something you would have done the proper research.

    That being said, I have yet to encounter one like that. Sadly most (younger) girls these days base their entire thought process around what they see on TV or in mainstream media. So what the hell's the point of them knowing

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    If it is serious, then you have to. I was dating a girl for 4 years, went to the dark side and she found my gear. Then it became a trust issue. I told her I didnt think she'd understand and it eventually led to our breakup. If its serious you really have no reason to hide it. Just speaking from a sad experience.

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    I've never volunteered any info but inevitable they always ask, and i always say sometimes. My last girlfriend asked me about 6 months into the relationship if i was using, and i said yes. She then said, well you didn't tell me. Why not? Cause you didn't ask, and it's no big deal. She was cool with it, like all the others.

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    i did last time never again

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    never ever trust a guy, a woman can be very emotional my boy got busted when his girl showed the cops his gear after they had a fight. Now shes sorry and hes got two years probation... NEVER trust a woman unless your ready to spend the rest of your life with her.

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    every girl I have ever dated knows i use gear. If I can't tell them that, or be honest... Fvck them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatsMeow View Post
    I think the best thing a woman can do is to learn about it before criticizing it. When my BF decided to use them I researched for months just to make sure I felt that everything he was doing was safe...but I guess being a nurse helps me in that sense.
    Can U knock some sense in my woman please? She only see's the negative I tried to explain it but she ain't hearing it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KatsMeow View Post
    I think the best thing a woman can do is to learn about it before criticizing it. When my BF decided to use them I researched for months just to make sure I felt that everything he was doing was safe...but I guess being a nurse helps me in that sense.
    Will U marry me, I finally heard some sense from a female. Taken in moderation is ok.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwilliam View Post
    I am in the same situation. I told my GF that I was taking testosterone to enhance my workouts. I got home yesterday and she was on my computer researching "propionate " and "Enanthate "...

    After conducting her research she concluded that it was okay as long as I did it safely and didn't abuse it.....I agreed. I even asked her if she wanted to administer my next shot of prop lol

    thats what im talking about!

    I was afraid she was going to be totally against it but I explained quite a bit and she knows I know my stuff pretty well so she told me to just be careful

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    ive only told one. wont tell any others unless im in it for the long haul with them

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    I told my latest just because i might want to be with her and didn't want it to seem like i was hiding anything.

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