Is anyone truly happily married? I know a lot of unhappily married guys and guys going through divorces. Moreso than happily married ones.
Here is my situation. I am 34, my girl is 21, gorgeous (she's half Ethiopian half Portuguese and they go very well together) and in her 3rd year of college. She wants to elope on New Years. Im crazy about her and all for it but dont want it to ruin the relationship. Also I know girls seem to have overnight changes of heart when they are young even though right now she seems 1000% in to us right now. She is pretty much guaranteed a very lucrative job at the UN when she graduates because her dad is involved with some shit building hospitals in Africa and is politically juiced. So if we stayed together our future is fairly secure moreso thanks to her. She supports all my crazy dreams like being a professional poker player. She is the best I ever had in bed and most of the girls I've dated in the last 5 years been strippers with the exception of her. She smokes them all in bed hands down. She's almost too good to be true.
I just seen my dad, and many friends go through ugly divorces and would rather stay single and play the field the rest of my life than go through that. Like I said if today was a true barometer of forever then we would have a great marriage until death did us part, but does stuff change once you say I do?