What to do come monday?

**J-Dogg** · 11-23-2008, 01:20 AM

I was just out and my Ex went lezzy.

we kind of sitll have a thing, and we talk. We have talked about working things out but she has not talked to her girl friend too much about it.

Her girl friend has never liked me, because my ex still loves me.

Here is the catch though.

I own a company that buys all my products through another company, that my ex's gril works for. She takes almost all my orders.

Today I went out, with another girl. It was my ex's girl friends b-day, I said "hi" to their party, offered to buy her a drink. She was rude with me.

She actually punched the girl I was with in the bathroom.

I own the biggest account where she works, and I write very large checks to her every month. The owner of the company comes all the way across state a few times a year just to take me to dinner, or to the casino.

how am I suppose to go in and be happy to see her on Monday? Am I suppose to say somthing? I realize the bar is not a professinal setting, but she was way out of line.

Not to mention she should be happy I'm with another girl, and not stealing her girl friend who is still in love with me.

Do I call the owner? Say somthing to her? Let it pass buy?

**calgarian** · 11-23-2008, 01:55 AM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

I was just out and my Ex went lezzy.

we kind of sitll have a thing, and we talk. We have talked about working things out but she has not talked to her girl friend too much about it.

Her girl friend has never liked me, because my ex still loves me.

Here is the catch though.

I own a company that buys all my products through another company, that my ex's gril works for. She takes almost all my orders.

Today I went out, with another girl. It was my ex's girl friends b-day, I said "hi" to their party, offered to buy her a drink. She was rude with me.

She actually punched the girl I was with in the bathroom.

I own the biggest account where she works, and I write very large checks to her every month. The owner of the company comes all the way across state a few times a year just to take me to dinner, or to the casino.

how am I suppose to go in and be happy to see her on Monday? Am I suppose to say somthing? I realize the bar is not a professinal setting, but she was way out of line.

Not to mention she should be happy I'm with another girl, and not stealing her girl friend who is still in love with me.

Do I call the owner? Say somthing to her? Let it pass buy?

I would casually mention it to the owner of the company and just say...man you a cat women working for you or something like this.

Here is my take on it..she doesnt like you so no matter what you do she wont like you.

I would double check to see if ur ex and this "cat women" in a lesbo relationship

if they are ...make a movie and put it up on u tube and make sure to post the link here.

**J-Dogg** · 11-23-2008, 02:05 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

I would casually mention it to the owner of the company and just say...man you a cat women working for you or something like this.

Here is my take on it..she doesnt like you so no matter what you do she wont like you.

I would double check to see if ur ex and this "cat women" in a lesbo relationship

if they are ...make a movie and put it up on u tube and make sure to post the link here.

I was kind of thinking of just talking with "cat woman" first.

In maybe a not so nice tone, but still prof... way if possible?

I live in a very small town, population is just over 10k. And I'm writting checks to this company every month in the amounts that people can buy a house.

I don't want to feel "un-liked" when I walk in. I expect to be appricated, it makes it kind of hard if she is punching my dates in the local pub.

**Older lifter** · 11-23-2008, 02:18 AM

I'm a little confused, is your ex having a relationship with her friend?

Anyhow i would just wait and see what Monday brings, chances are she is feeling a lot worse about it than you are feeling hurt and insulted.

However if nothing happens from her side on Monday then i would have a talk about what is just not exceptable and see how it goes

**calgarian** · 11-23-2008, 02:18 AM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

I was kind of thinking of just talking with "cat woman" first.

In maybe a not so nice tone, but still prof... way if possible?

I live in a very small town, population is just over 10k. And I'm writting checks to this company every month in the amounts that people can buy a house.

I don't want to feel "un-liked" when I walk in. I expect to be appricated, it makes it kind of hard if she is punching my dates in the local pub.

You can do that too....but "cat women" dont like you to begin with. Do you still feel the "liked" when you walk in? you can give it a try .....if doesnt go well make sure yu get her fired.....hey what a worse can heppen...she already doesnt like you.

Curious to know why the hell she punched your date?

**J-Dogg** · 11-23-2008, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

You can do that too....but "cat women" dont like you to begin with. Do you still feel the "liked" when you walk in? you can give it a try .....if doesnt go well make sure yu get her fired.....hey what a worse can heppen...she already doesnt like you.

Curious to know why the hell she punched your date?

I have no idea why she punched her. You would think she'd be happy that I have a date, it should make her feel secure about being with my Ex.

It does bother me, and I guess even if she is nice, come monday, I still know how she feels and wants to treat me. That makes it hard for me to talk to her with a smile.

**scibble** · 11-23-2008, 11:30 AM

I would talk to the owner and request someone else to handle your orders because she physically attacked your girl. Seems pretty reasonable and the owner still wants your business.

**lcstriker07** · 11-23-2008, 12:03 PM

^^^ best answer yet. handle it in the most professional manor and tell her boss you don't appreciate her actions towads you and you'd rather not have to deal with her if at all possible.

If that doesn't work hook up with your x and video tape it for the other girl.

**sizerp** · 11-23-2008, 03:30 PM

She just needs a cock in her is all.

**Anabody** · 11-23-2008, 06:23 PM

^^^^^^^ Ha!

**J-Dogg** · 11-23-2008, 08:17 PM

You guys carry less spite than me, lol.

I'm actually pretty upset, because the girl I was with was just a friend. She's not someone I was intrested in, the rest of our group went home early, so we went to another bar.

A girl that does not like me for some reason, punches her after I offer to buy the cat woman a drink and wish her a happy B-day. I've never done anything to the girl, I've always been very nice to her. I smile, and joke with her while she is at work.

I know it stems from my ex, she still loves me, but that's not my fault. I kind of want to just walk in and punch her on Monday.

**scibble** · 11-23-2008, 08:23 PM

yeah, well it's easy to be tame because it didn't happen to me!

the beauty of objectivity....

**natureboy** · 11-23-2008, 10:19 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

You guys carry less spite than me, lol.

I'm actually pretty upset, because the girl I was with was just a friend. She's not someone I was intrested in, the rest of our group went home early, so we went to another bar.

A girl that does not like me for some reason, punches her after I offer to buy the cat woman a drink and wish her a happy B-day. I've never done anything to the girl, I've always been very nice to her. I smile, and joke with her while she is at work.

I know it stems from my ex, she still loves me, but that's not my fault. I kind of want to just walk in and punch her on Monday.

What does this cat woman look like? Is she a butch les, or is she fem? If she is fem you should try to.....if you know what I mean!
If she is butch you should beat her like the man she wants to be!

**Tigershark** · 11-23-2008, 11:52 PM

If you have the biggest account and write them the checks then you should already have the respect.

On Monday you tell cat woman if she ever gets out of line again either at work or in public her actions reflect upon the company you buy from. And you will just tell her boss if she is the type of employee to represent their company then maybe your business would be appreciated else where.

But it sounds like she is just a spiteful bitch and no matter what you do she is going to hate you. I would just go to her boss and tell him what I wrote earlier and let the boss deal with it.

**DSM4Life** · 11-24-2008, 06:13 AM

its mondayyyyy

**DCI** · 11-24-2008, 06:37 AM

The thing you did wrong there was going to her bday. Never ever put yourself in a situation like that. And another point women are insane.

**Tigershark** · 11-24-2008, 12:20 PM

Originally Posted by Damien_C

The thing you did wrong there was going to her bday. Never ever put yourself in a situation like that. And another point women are insane.

Amen brother.

**calgarian** · 11-24-2008, 03:25 PM

Originally Posted by Damien_C

The thing you did wrong there was going to her bday. Never ever put yourself in a situation like that. And another point women are insane.

I like the way you think,

**lcstriker07** · 11-24-2008, 06:08 PM

So what happened man? Give us the update.

**DCI** · 11-24-2008, 06:16 PM

Originally Posted by Tigershark

Amen brother.

Originally Posted by calgarian

I like the way you think,

Cheers.

I feel bad for you bud, your too nice of a guy saying yes to go to a womens bday. The managers are women in work and if I was invited to anything that they had on I would never ever go all women and just a few men is madness. And lezzy women are clinically insane should be locked up

**Deltasaurus** · 11-24-2008, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

I was just out and my Ex went lezzy.

we kind of sitll have a thing, and we talk. We have talked about working things out but she has not talked to her girl friend too much about it.

Her girl friend has never liked me, because my ex still loves me.

Here is the catch though.

I own a company that buys all my products through another company, that my ex's gril works for. She takes almost all my orders.

Today I went out, with another girl. It was my ex's girl friends b-day, I said "hi" to their party, offered to buy her a drink. She was rude with me.

She actually punched the girl I was with in the bathroom.

I own the biggest account where she works, and I write very large checks to her every month. The owner of the company comes all the way across state a few times a year just to take me to dinner, or to the casino.

how am I suppose to go in and be happy to see her on Monday? Am I suppose to say somthing? I realize the bar is not a professinal setting, but she was way out of line.

Not to mention she should be happy I'm with another girl, and not stealing her girl friend who is still in love with me.

Do I call the owner? Say somthing to her? Let it pass buy?

play it by ear, if she's not screwing up your business or messing up your work then i'd say deal with, the girl you dated is different,then the one that is just a work associate,even though they are the same girl

i say what happens on a personal level after work is between you two, now if it crosses into work thats between you and her boss not the girl taking you orders. Hope that helps, Just my .02 cents

**J-Dogg** · 11-24-2008, 08:21 PM

I did not have to go in today, but have too first thing in the morning tomorrow.

I'm thinking I'll just walk in, punch her square in the face, and tell her I'm still sleeping with her girl friend?

I'll probably just be nice though. If she makes me feel wierd or anything though, I'll just call the owner and explain it to him. I was going to talk to the manager first, just to make sure there are no problems. I'd almost like to test the waters first.....then if she's a bitch, just go to the owner.

She'll probably try to avoid me, but I don't care, I'm going to say "hi, how are you doing tday? Cold out ay?".