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    Merry Flipping Christmas. Girlfriend just dumped me!

    Who the hell waits till Christmas to dump someone? Atleast I still have my dog to keep me company tonight!

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    Sweet. Now you can return that expensive gift you got her. I guess you feel crapped on, though.

    I've almost dumped a girl on Xmas... I decided that was too messed up, and then she dumped me days later on New Years! Like 15 minutes before the ball dropped no less!

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    Thats the crappy part. She took the gifts I bought her with her!

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    That's messed up bro.

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    I guess I could have probably just started a guess whos not getting laid tonight thread!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zipper View Post
    Thats the crappy part. She took the gifts I bought her with her!
    Ask for them back!!! That's fcuked!

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    I dont really care about the gifts. Im just hoping i get the engagement ring i gave her this summer back!

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    Oh crap! She was your fianceť and dumped you for Xmas?! Wow man, that's so messed up... if that says anything about this, it's probably that you're better off without her! Sorry bro... at least she left the dog...

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    Im beginning to think so!

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    Ha looks like you aint the only one. My cousin, her kids and husband are staying with me and they just got into it and they split up too. Woot Merry F***ing Christmas... But atleast I got a new Olympic Weight Bench hehe.

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    OUCH!!! Thats completely Fuked. What kinda person would do that? Engaged and everrything. Thats harsh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zipper View Post
    Thats the crappy part. She took the gifts I bought her with her!
    I'd ask for it back.
    Its not like she decided to dump you right that second.
    She planned it bro.

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    Yep! Better off without someone who could do this. I wouldnt doubt she is seeing someone else. Time to get back on the horse and find a new one. She lived with me for over 2 and a half years and never once offered to help with rent. Times are tough because i work construction and work has been slow. so i ask her to pony up and she blows a gasket. WTF? I guess thats my fault i let the leech suck me dry!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zipper View Post
    Yep! Better off without someone who could do this. I wouldnt doubt she is seeing someone else. Time to get back on the horse and find a new one. She lived with me for over 2 and a half years and never once offered to help with rent. Times are tough because i work construction and work has been slow. so i ask her to pony up and she blows a gasket. WTF? I guess thats my fault i let the leech suck me dry!
    I feel you brother.
    New year in closing up, go and have fun bro, don't find another one man, you didn't learn yet?!!
    Find many of them, in other words, DO NOT COMMIT. Untill you are sure she is trust worthy enough to be a GF.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zipper View Post
    Thats the crappy part. She took the gifts I bought her with her!
    Can't believe that!!!!!! What sort of women was you dating.....

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    at least you found out now, rather than getting married - then you'd be really screwed.

    im alone on xmas also. it's not so bad.....im used to it now.

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    Yeah it doesn't seem like she was really in it for love, but because you supported her. A good woman would have realized that when times are tough she would need to be there for you since you have been providing for her anyway. I'm sorry this happened on Christmas though, that's never a good thing but it could always be worse. Keep your head up.

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    Mate there is a bright side, I have a few girlfriends, i tell them at the start that i will not commit, i will not just see them and i will probally get bored with them after 2 weeks and it will be over,,, i leave it at that...(just being honest)
    I'm 44 now and having a great life, i don't need anyone all the time..... been on my own almost all my life and i would not change it, i can stay immature that way....lmao

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    Quote Originally Posted by Older lifter View Post
    Mate there is a bright side, I have a few girlfriends, i tell them at the start that i will not commit, i will not just see them and i will probally get bored with them after 2 weeks and it will be over,,, i leave it at that...(just being honest)
    I'm 44 now and having a great life, i don't need anyone all the time..... been on my own almost all my life and i would not change it, i can stay immature that way....lmao
    eghhh.... I don't really think that is what he is looking for, he seems like a nice hard working guy who just needs a woman that will appreciate him and not take advantage. Some people aren't happy with temporary relationship...like myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatsMeow View Post
    Yeah it doesn't seem like she was really in it for love, but because you supported her. A good woman would have realized that when times are tough she would need to be there for you since you have been providing for her anyway. I'm sorry this happened on Christmas though, that's never a good thing but it could always be worse. Keep your head up.
    Thank you Katsmeow.I really am starting to believe that you are right. And you hit the nail on the head. I really don't like being alone. Thats why I am probably in this mess to begin with!
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    Anyhow,, we all learn in different ways,,, I do hope that it does not spoil your christmas too much,,, still think it sucks that she took the presents..

    Life can be hard, but learn and live, be as happy as you can and good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by xlxBigSexyxlx View Post
    lmao

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    Quote Originally Posted by Older lifter View Post
    Anyhow,, we all learn in different ways,,, I do hope that it does not spoil your christmas too much,,, still think it sucks that she took the presents..

    Life can be hard, but learn and live, be as happy as you can and good luck
    Thanks bro. I will be fine. I have my ten year old son tomorrow so i am looking forward to Christmas Day,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zipper View Post
    Thank you Katsmeow.I really am starting to believe that you are right. And you hit the nail on the head. I really don't like being alone. Thats why I am probably in this mess to begin with!
    It's never easy losing someone you love and care about. It's hard, and it's going to take a little time to get over it, but now you know what you need and want, be picky this time, you know what you deserve and you have to be the one to keep those standards up.

    I hate being alone too...I absolutely hate every minute of it. But you just have to make sure that your time is with the right person.

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    Hey Kat! Would you like to be my future ex-wife? lol

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    no thanks, thats not one of my goals in life to be someones ex wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zipper View Post
    Thanks bro. I will be fine. I have my ten year old son tomorrow so i am looking forward to Christmas Day,
    No worries mate,, Have a real great day with your kid tomorrow.... luck bro

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatsMeow View Post
    no thanks, thats not one of my goals in life to be someones ex wife.
    It was a joke. jeeez

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    Sorry about your luck and timing, bro. I agree that you should be more selective about who you settle down with and learn to be okay by yourself in the mean time.

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    Sorry to hear that bro. It is pretty shitty of her.

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    man up bro and forget the biatch,if she'd leave you on xmas day who knows what she would do,better sooner than later imo,enjoy your new year,i will

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    Thanks for all the support and Merry Christmas!

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    Honestly, I would rather get dumped on X-mas day than have a girl stay with me on X-mas out of pity. The soon she is gone, the sooner you can move on.

    You seem to be holding up pretty well, just keep your chin up.

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    Legally you are entitled to the engangement ring back if she breaks it off. Giving her a ring in marriage is a contract, accept this ring and we will later get married which she accept then she said "yes." By her breaking up with you she is breaking the contract (marriage) and you are entitiled to the ring back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post
    Legally you are entitled to the engangement ring back if she breaks it off. Giving her a ring in marriage is a contract, accept this ring and we will later get married which she accept then she said "yes." By her breaking up with you she is breaking the contract (marriage) and you are entitiled to the ring back.
    Thanks for the info. I'm pretty sure she will give it back.

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    bro I hope she does give the ring back and get any gift back if they were expensive, shes a cvnt! Im sorry to say this but what is it about some woman that only respect man that treat them like shit WTF. to be fair at least 50% of woman need man who play head games on them.

    here some funny shit from another bro who posted it yesterday


    How to treat a woman.



    1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "could be better" this will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.

    2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness (or if she grabs your hand squeeze hers really, really hard until she cries. This will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are.)

    3. Once a month sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs. They love to be roughed up.

    4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is say "you better be" , repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care.

    5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement.

    6. Recognize the small things, they usually mean the most. Then when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them. Because jewellery is for *****'s and Asian ladies.

    7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure she's looking. When she is, stare into her eyes mouth the words fcuk you and grab the other girls arse. Girls love competition.

    8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for miles so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear "...because I can."

    9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick". Women love those special nicknames.

    10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD.

    11. Warm her up when she's cold...and not by giving her your jacket... then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say "if you don't stop b*tching about the cold right now you're going to be b*tching about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear.

    12. Take her to a party. When you get there she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party's dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you at the party.

    13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny. Why shouldn't girls?

    14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes then JUMP UP AND SCREAM IN HER EAR! Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things. Like basketball.

    15. Spit often. I hear girls like guys that spit.

    16. If you care about her never ever tell her. This will only give her self confidence. Then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be.

    17. Every time you're in her house steal one of the following: shoes, earrings, or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way she'll go crazy.

    18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she's about to order interrupt and say "No she's not hungry". Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her.

    19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then clock her one. Girls love a spontaneous guy.

    20. Give her one of your t-shirts... and make sure it has your smell on it. But not a sexy cologne smell. A bad smell. You know what I'm talking about.

    22. If you're listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious.

    23. Remember her birth25. If she's mad at you for not calling her when youday but don't get her something. Teach her material objects aren't important. The only thing that's important is that she keeps you happy. And your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get.

    24. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then next time you know she's coming over on a trash day leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can. Girls actually don't like this one that much but I think it's funny.

    25. say you will, promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will make sure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call you're going to tell her a special surprise. NoThat's also quite funny.w she'll be really excited. Now don't call.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xlxBigSexyxlx View Post
    hell yeah...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Edgar View Post
    bro I hope she does give the ring back and get any gift back if they were expensive, shes a cvnt! Im sorry to say this but what is it about some woman that only respect man that treat them like shit WTF. to be fair at least 50% of woman need man who play head games on them.

    here some funny shit from another bro who posted it yesterday


    How to treat a woman.



    1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "could be better" this will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.

    2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness (or if she grabs your hand squeeze hers really, really hard until she cries. This will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are.)

    3. Once a month sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs. They love to be roughed up.

    4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is say "you better be" , repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care.

    5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement.

    6. Recognize the small things, they usually mean the most. Then when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them. Because jewellery is for *****'s and Asian ladies.

    7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure she's looking. When she is, stare into her eyes mouth the words fcuk you and grab the other girls arse. Girls love competition.

    8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for miles so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear "...because I can."

    9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick". Women love those special nicknames.

    10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD.

    11. Warm her up when she's cold...and not by giving her your jacket... then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say "if you don't stop b*tching about the cold right now you're going to be b*tching about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear.

    12. Take her to a party. When you get there she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party's dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you at the party.

    13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny. Why shouldn't girls?

    14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes then JUMP UP AND SCREAM IN HER EAR! Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things. Like basketball.

    15. Spit often. I hear girls like guys that spit.

    16. If you care about her never ever tell her. This will only give her self confidence. Then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be.

    17. Every time you're in her house steal one of the following: shoes, earrings, or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way she'll go crazy.

    18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she's about to order interrupt and say "No she's not hungry". Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her.

    19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then clock her one. Girls love a spontaneous guy.

    20. Give her one of your t-shirts... and make sure it has your smell on it. But not a sexy cologne smell. A bad smell. You know what I'm talking about.

    22. If you're listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious.

    23. Remember her birth25. If she's mad at you for not calling her when youday but don't get her something. Teach her material objects aren't important. The only thing that's important is that she keeps you happy. And your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get.

    24. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then next time you know she's coming over on a trash day leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can. Girls actually don't like this one that much but I think it's funny.

    25. say you will, promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will make sure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call you're going to tell her a special surprise. NoThat's also quite funny.w she'll be really excited. Now don't call.
    Thats some funny shvt!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Heya man sorry to hear that. I don't know to advise you other than saying that is ****ed up and that you get your ring back. Take her to Judge Judy if she don't

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