Ohh another female situation

**Gaspari1255** · 01-14-2009, 05:14 PM

To make a long story short, we aren't "together", but things were going very well. Very close to official. All of a sudden, she has become very distant and short with me. She may have met another guy, she may have found out I use AAS, but something just isn't right. Is the best system to just ignore her and see her reactions? All advice appreciated.

***RAGE*** · 01-14-2009, 05:18 PM

I would either ignore her or just be up front but dont get mad because then she will not talk...play it off like it is no big deal and go from there...

**Kale** · 01-14-2009, 05:19 PM

Or you could try something really different and ask her " Why are you so distant and short with me" !!!!

**Gaspari1255** · 01-14-2009, 05:23 PM

lol, I have actually contemplated both recommendations exactly. Don't know which one to side with.

**RuhlFreak55** · 01-14-2009, 05:24 PM

just ask....communication is the best policy

**redz** · 01-14-2009, 05:33 PM

x2 if you want to see where it goes you cant just hope she makes all the moves the balls in your court.

**bodybuilder1107** · 01-14-2009, 05:38 PM

just ask who cares, you can find out now and either work it out or move on if she did, either way your better off than sitting there wondering and worrying about it

**xavier_888888** · 01-14-2009, 05:39 PM

yup thats the easiest bro. ASK! sometimes girls think we can read minds.

**J-Dogg** · 01-14-2009, 05:48 PM

Any time a girl has became distant with me, it was cause she was seeing someone else or lost intrest. If she was not seeing somenoe else, she was very soon after breaking things off.

Don't take advice from me, cause I suck at KEEPing a girl around.

There are 2 types if girls.

Ones that LIKE to be chased: Do you really want to chase one?

Ones that like TO chase: She'll come around when you ignore her.

**Bryan2** · 01-14-2009, 05:52 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

Any time a girl has became distant with me, it was cause she was seeing someone else or lost intrest. If she was not seeing somenoe else, she was very soon after breaking things off.

Don't take advice from me, cause I suck at KEEPing a girl around.

There are 2 types if girls.

Ones that LIKE to be chased: Do you really want to chase one?

Ones that like TO chase: She'll come around when you ignore her.

good advice above

if it hasnt been too long and your already having issues then take it as a hint.

But if you really have feelings for her communication is the key to making everything work!!! as soon as that starts to break down everything else is f#ucked

**Gaspari1255** · 01-14-2009, 06:14 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

Any time a girl has became distant with me, it was cause she was seeing someone else or lost intrest. If she was not seeing somenoe else, she was very soon after breaking things off.

Don't take advice from me, cause I suck at KEEPing a girl around.

There are 2 types if girls.

Ones that LIKE to be chased: Do you really want to chase one?

Ones that like TO chase: She'll come around when you ignore her.

you are right my friend. I'm just gonna ask her nicely and honestly. We'll see.