losing my mind

**ampx** · 03-21-2009, 08:41 PM

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**jnewton86** · 03-21-2009, 08:47 PM

think about things before you act. actions have consequences.

i can only imagine how you feel

**QuieTSToRM33** · 03-21-2009, 08:47 PM

wow ... that's some shit

**J-Dogg** · 03-21-2009, 08:49 PM

That's ruff bro, I feel for you.

Use your head though, think with logic and not emotion. As hard as it is, try to remain humble.

For now, I say do nothing. I know if I were in your position, I would not be able to make a good choice.

I hope everything works out for you.

**Jenseno9** · 03-21-2009, 08:50 PM

Just remember to leave her in your wake. She's the one that really hurt you. Not those f-bags that had fun with your girl while you were gone. But I'd probably loose it on them as well. But like newton said actions have consequences so unless your ready to deal with the consequences I would really think twice about what you do. JMO

**J-Dogg** · 03-21-2009, 08:52 PM

Originally Posted by Jenseno9

Just remember to leave her in your wake. She's the one that really hurt you. Not those f-bags that had fun with your girl while you were gone. But I'd probably loose it on them as well. But like newton said actions have consequences so unless your ready to deal with the consequences I would really think twice about what you do. JMO

I was not sure if it was done while they were together, or he just found out about it.

Can't even imagine the feeling though, it's easy to give advice, but I would explode.

**IM708** · 03-21-2009, 08:53 PM

Originally Posted by ampx

So i found out that the girl of 5 years and two kids had a train ran on her. then when i was at work one night had one of the guys over. I feel like leaving bodys in my wake. I found out yesterday, took care of him lastnight. Got him coming out of his house. I losing it. dont know what to do.

I'm having a hard time understanding this. I'm either retarded and/or incredibly tired.

**T_Own** · 03-21-2009, 09:00 PM

Originally Posted by ironmaiden708

I'm having a hard time understanding this. I'm either retarded and/or incredibly tired.

probably both. think old school opening scenes

"who are you?"
"i'm here for the gangbang"

**moregunsthanroses** · 03-21-2009, 09:01 PM

When you run a train on a girl it's refering to her getting ****ed by multiple guys usually at once.

I'm sorry to hear bro, that would be a real tough position to be in. Assuming this all happend when you've been together not beforehand. The blame lies pretty much squarely on her shoulders the guys are douches for going along with it but guys naturally try to get with women its the girls job to turn them down.

Try to think rationally that there was a purpose for this when I know it must be driving you crazy.

Take care.

***RAGE*** · 03-21-2009, 09:01 PM

Originally Posted by ampx

So i found out that the girl of 5 years and two kids had a train ran on her. then when i was at work one night had one of the guys over. I feel like leaving bodys in my wake. I found out yesterday, took care of him lastnight. Got him coming out of his house. I losing it. dont know what to do.

Leave the fuvking whore, she is not worth it but if those kids are yours, get a court order and take them with you.. they dont need to be with a whore like that...

dude I dont know you but I am sorry for your pain..

**IM708** · 03-21-2009, 09:05 PM

Ahhhheeeeeekkk, got to agree with prone on this one.... Don't do anything dumb, take the higher ground.

**MMArmour** · 03-23-2009, 11:10 AM

double post

**MMArmour** · 03-23-2009, 11:15 AM

Drop that girl. Get your shit together and run out on that guy if you havent already. Hit um up at night. After work. Whatever. Ski mask it. Baseball bat. Quick and easy, in and out. Cowards way but it keeps you out of jail. Wrap the top of the bat in seran wrap. no blood will get on the bat.

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 03-23-2009, 11:18 AM

Just leave the whore.
Don't do anything stupid.

**Matt** · 03-23-2009, 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by ampx

So i found out that the girl of 5 years and two kids had a train ran on her. then when i was at work one night had one of the guys over. I feel like leaving bodys in my wake. I found out yesterday, took care of him lastnight. Got him coming out of his house. I losing it. dont know what to do.

Listen my friend, take sometime to think this over. Do do anything stupid, this can all be resolved, im going to church right now so i shall be back later and we can sort this out. While im there i shall pray for you..

**QuieTSToRM33** · 03-23-2009, 11:42 AM

Originally Posted by MMArmour

Drop that girl. Great Advice

Get your shit together and run out on that guy if you havent already. Hit um up at night. After work. Whatever. Ski mask it. Baseball bat. Quick and easy, in and out. Cowards way but it keeps you out of jail. Wrap the top of the bat in seran wrap. no blood will get on the bat. Dumb advice

See bold.

**BritishColumbian** · 03-23-2009, 11:51 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Listen my friend, take sometime to think this over. Do do anything stupid, this can all be resolved, im going to church right now so i shall be back later and we can sort this out. While im there i shall pray for you..

Mad Matt, are you drunk?

**CHAP** · 03-23-2009, 11:57 AM

drop that girl man . This is not the first time she went out on you if she got the train . I'd have to stay away from the violence if I did something I'd kill somebody and would't realize til it was over. Take some time to regroup . This is your way to start a new and better chapter in your life . Hey I know that your pissed so don't get mad but take your kids to the hospital (don't tell her) and make sure there yours . Good luck . STay strong

**MMArmour** · 03-23-2009, 12:00 PM

Originally Posted by QuieTSToRM33

See bold.

I got the impression he was after revenge. Thats how I'd do it. I mean... you can fist fight him. But i got a feeling you want to do more than black his eye.

**scerpico22** · 03-23-2009, 12:09 PM

wow, this is a tough one man. first, i feel for you dude...that shit sucks to have to hear.
if this all happened while you guys were a couple, leave that skank in the dust. take your two kids and leave that bitch behind.

as for the two guys...its simply not there fault. guys are guys...and if she offered the houch all they did was say yes.

sorry dude, as much as it sucks it has nothing to do with them. this is your ladies doing...she is the one that needs to be dealt with and not physically.

just leave her ass in the rear view mirror.

**Matt** · 03-23-2009, 12:26 PM

Originally Posted by BritishColumbian

Mad Matt, are you drunk?

No bro, im just trying to be nice to people for one whole week. Its going to be hard but i know i can do it even though already today theres about five threads where i want to flame the op's to death. But im going to be strong...

**J-Dogg** · 03-23-2009, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

No bro, im just trying to be nice to people for one whole week. Its going to be hard but i know i can do it even though already today theres about five threads where i want to flame the op's to death. But im going to be strong...

I bet 5, 10ml bottles of test he don't make it!

**QuieTSToRM33** · 03-23-2009, 12:31 PM

Originally Posted by MMArmour

I got the impression he was after revenge. Thats how I'd do it. I mean... you can fist fight him. But i got a feeling you want to do more than black his eye.

I never understand why people feel the need to go after the guy. He's not the one who cheated on you (generalizing) ... it's the girl who should take the beating (not literally)

All he did was what any other guy would do ... take the pvssy that was thrown at him.

**J-Dogg** · 03-23-2009, 12:38 PM

Originally Posted by QuieTSToRM33

I never understand why people feel the need to go after the guy. He's not the one who cheated on you (generalizing) ... it's the girl who should take the beating (not literally)

All he did was what any other guy would do ... take the pvssy that was thrown at him.

How can you NOT understand?

I mean if this happens, you are not thinking clearly one. Even though, it was the girls fault....that guy...in a way....is causing you pain at an emotional level. I think it's natural to want to rip his head off.

I don't think it's the right thing to do, or it is his fault. He might have inadvertently caused you this pain, but non the less....he caused it too.

If someone ran over my dog on accident, I would not drag them out of their car and beat them....but the thought would be going through my head. Along with.....if they were never born, or died yesterday, I'd still have my dog.

Logically thinking, you can't blame him. He never betrayed your trust, he never had it, just another guy. But under the circumstance.....I can defiantly understand why it would be hard not to want to cause him physical pain as a way to relive some of your emotional pain.

**QuieTSToRM33** · 03-23-2009, 12:49 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

Logically thinking, you can't blame him. He never betrayed your trust, he never had it, just another guy.

This.

**scerpico22** · 03-23-2009, 12:50 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

How can you NOT understand?

I mean if this happens, you are not thinking clearly one. Even though, it was the girls fault....that guy...in a way....is causing you pain at an emotional level. I think it's natural to want to rip his head off.

I don't think it's the right thing to do, or it is his fault. He might have inadvertently caused you this pain, but non the less....he caused it too.

If someone ran over my dog on accident, I would not drag them out of their car and beat them....but the thought would be going through my head. Along with.....if they were never born, or died yesterday, I'd still have my dog.

Logically thinking, you can't blame him. He never betrayed your trust, he never had it, just another guy. But under the circumstance.....I can defiantly understand why it would be hard not to want to cause him physical pain as a way to relive some of your emotional pain.

nope...have to disagree with you here. THIS has NOTHING to do with the guy or guys for that matter. SHE offered the cat and all they did was oblige to her opening her legs!

SHE is on the line for this one, not the guys. all they did was what you, me or any other guy would have done if some chick allowed a train to be ran on her.

**higherdesire** · 03-23-2009, 12:59 PM

Scerpico is dead on. She is the one witht the obligation to the OP. The dudes may be devoid of tact but not doing anything to him, they are just getting some free *****. Dude wreck her life by moving on to better things. I assure you that the lifetime of having to pay you child support and drive both ways to see the kids in a supervised areana will be long standing torture for her. Never even mention it to her again, just move on it and keep her on her ****ing knees the rest of her life.

Don't be a casualty bro. We have enough idiots locked up. Machismo is good for somethings, but getting oyu taken out where she gets the kids, or some releative gets them is a losing proposition for everyone. You having a life after her with your kids and another appreciative women will forever be a reminder of her sins against you bro.

**scerpico22** · 03-23-2009, 01:02 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

Dude wreck her life by moving on to better things.

Never even mention it to her again, just move on it and keep her on her ****ing knees the rest of her life.

yup...keep her on her fvcking knees for the rest of her living days!

that would be the SWEETEST revenge!

**J-Dogg** · 03-23-2009, 01:02 PM

Originally Posted by scerpico22

nope...have to disagree with you here. THIS has NOTHING to do with the guy or guys for that matter. SHE offered the cat and all they did was oblige to her opening her legs!

SHE is on the line for this one, not the guys. all they did was what you, me or any other guy would have done if some chick allowed a train to be ran on her.

I 100% agree, but I hope you can understand what I mean is....it's natural to have the URGE to cause the guy pain too.

**Voice of Reason** · 03-23-2009, 01:05 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0TLA_...eature=related

**scerpico22** · 03-23-2009, 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

I 100% agree, but I hope you can understand what I mean is....it's natural to have the URGE to cause the guy pain too.

no,no...i do understand having the URGE to take both or all those mother F'ers out but you cant and the OP said he already took care of one of them.

its simply not their fault...the chick owes the OP her loyalty, not the two guys doing what guys do.

**PittBoy** · 03-23-2009, 01:14 PM

Tough tough spot to be in.

You have 2 choices. Leave her or try and fix what is broken.

It's easy to say...leave that chick man!!! But after 5 yrs and 2 kids I know

it would be a hard thing for you to do. If you do decide to stay you both need

some counseling here. As much as you wanna smash the guys it ain't worth it.

Punks press charges PERIOD. I've had a few guys try and move in on my terriory so I speak from experience here.

You don't want to go to jail on top of everything else that is going on. Plus you got 2 kids to worry about.

You don't want them visiting you in a prison visiting room right?

Maybe you need to seperate yourself from the situation for a day or 2.

Get your head on straight and then go from there. If you decide anything

while your emotions are going crazy make sure you wait 24 hours and then

decide if you still want to do what you have thought about doing.

I'll pray for you and your family. Good luck man!!

Keep your head up.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-23-2009, 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

I 100% agree, but I hope you can understand what I mean is....it's natural to have the URGE to cause the guy pain too.

It's just an incredibly shitty situation. I feel you on the fact that it's almost impossible not to wanna break their faces. Even though it is completely her fault, they should have something coming to them.

**higherdesire** · 03-23-2009, 01:16 PM

Dude I take it all back, **** her Mom and get over it! That video revolutionized my life!

**ampx** · 03-23-2009, 01:18 PM

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**J-Dogg** · 03-23-2009, 01:19 PM

Originally Posted by scerpico22

no,no...i do understand having the URGE to take both or all those mother F'ers out but you cant and the OP said he already took care of one of them.

its simply not their fault...the chick owes the OP her loyalty, not the two guys doing what guys do.

Yup, I'd never think it was appropriate to take it out on the guy. But If I walked in, and some dude is nailing my girl friend, I'd defiantly have the urge to beat them both.

I've busted a girl cheating on me before, she never knew I found out. I confronted the 2 of them, while they were bowling. Told her what I thought of her, told him to keep her, and no hard feelings.

The best part? I confronted/busted the 2 of them, while they were bowling with his entire intimidate family. DId not even know it until a few weeks later. Bet she felt good going to the next family dinner after that.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-23-2009, 01:20 PM

Originally Posted by ampx

No this cat and her date before me then he got with her sister for like a year. so he knew that we togther. Its done with now, walked up to him said u know who i am. you know why im here. i am giving u fair warning so u cant say i sucker punched you, in five seconds im bout whip ur ass. fight lasted like umm 3 mins. till some guy i dont even know drug me off him. got in the car left.

I respect your decison 100%. Every dog has his day.

***T-MOS*** · 03-23-2009, 01:21 PM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

No bro, im just trying to be nice to people for one whole week. Its going to be hard but i know i can do it even though already today theres about five threads where i want to flame the op's to death. But im going to be strong...

Say it isn't so ???? you cant go a whole week without flaming, what the heck will we do for entertainment then? Watch TV? YUK !!!

get your ass back out there and flame boy..... FLAME ON !!!!

**ampx** · 03-23-2009, 01:22 PM

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**J-Dogg** · 03-23-2009, 01:22 PM

Originally Posted by ampx

No this cat and her date before me then he got with her sister for like a year. so he knew that we togther. Its done with now, walked up to him said u know who i am. you know why im here. i am giving u fair warning so u cant say i sucker punched you, in five seconds im bout whip ur ass. fight lasted like umm 3 mins. till some guy i dont even know drug me off him. got in the car left.

Glad to hear it's done bro, it hurts but realize you deserve better than her. Hope you are feeling better, things can only get better after this.

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