Picking up chicks at the gym?

**Surreal** · 03-24-2009, 06:18 AM

I workout at my university's gym, where there are always plenty of chicks huffing and puffing away on the treadmills and elliptical machines, but relatively few girls in the weight rooms. The weight room chicks are either with a boyfriend that can't even bench his own bodyweight, doing ab work in pairs, or in a pack looking for (and receiving plenty of) male attention.

While I've had a few girls in the weight room smile at me or initiate eye contact, I've never bothered to hit on or chat up any. As much as I like girls, there are better places for meeting chicks - places where they aren't already drowning in male attention (despite being a 6.5) and outnumbered 1 to 5.

Normally I prefer sticking to my weights, and refrain from excessive chit chat. However, let's say there's a cutie in the mix, and you just can't help yourself . . . how would you approach her given that she's already drowning in the male attention that she craves?

**Matt** · 03-24-2009, 06:23 AM

Oh good god i need to stay away from this thread, to many flaming thoughts going on in my head..

**ufcfighter4** · 03-24-2009, 06:26 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Oh good god i need to stay away from this thread, to many flaming thoughts going on in my head..

Doe's this mean you are a flaming homo?

Who the hell is madmatt anyway

**Matt** · 03-24-2009, 06:29 AM

Originally Posted by ufcfighter4

Doe's this mean you are a flaming homo?

Who the hell is madmatt anyway

Nice try, i will tell you who mad matt is in 6 days...

**ufcfighter4** · 03-24-2009, 06:33 AM

Wtf, why is all this about you????

**Matt** · 03-24-2009, 06:46 AM

Originally Posted by ufcfighter4

Wtf, why is all this about you????

Seriously my friend ask me in just 6 days, however you may not post again for another two years..

**Surreal** · 03-24-2009, 06:46 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Oh good god i need to stay away from this thread, to many flaming thoughts going on in my head..

Picked up a few psycho bîtches (or maybe "tgirls") at your local gym, I presume?

**ufcfighter4** · 03-24-2009, 06:49 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Seriously my friend ask me in just 6 days, however you may not post again for another two years..

I don't want to wait six day ass munch, I want you to tell me now. I am not trying to make you a flamer but I want to no....

**Matt** · 03-24-2009, 06:49 AM

Originally Posted by Surreal

Picked up a few psycho bîtches (or maybe "tgirls") at your local gym, I presume?

I havnt lol, although i am a little interested now to what people will advise cus i have been in a similar position at my gym, dukki will chime in anytime now, he's good when it comes to this stuff...

**Matt** · 03-24-2009, 06:51 AM

Originally Posted by ufcfighter4

I don't want to wait six day ass munch, I want you to tell me now. I am not trying to make you a flamer but I want to no....

You dont have to make me a flamer, im the master at that but ive promised i wont flame anyone for a whole week, this is day two...

**ufcfighter4** · 03-24-2009, 06:53 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

You dont have to make me a flamer, im the master at that but ive promised i wont flame anyone for a whole week, this is day two...

Why would you promise that?

**Matt** · 03-24-2009, 06:56 AM

Originally Posted by ufcfighter4

Why would you promise that?

Because i was flaming everyone that asked any questions, i guess it may have put some people off asking anything.. Im trying to prove that im a nice guy really..

**ufcfighter4** · 03-24-2009, 06:59 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Because i was flaming everyone that asked any questions, i guess it may have put some people off asking anything.. Im trying to prove that im a nice guy really..

But your picture says you are a smart ass, but you act more like a dumb ass.

**Dukkit** · 03-24-2009, 07:03 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

I havnt lol, although i am a little interested now to what people will advise cus i have been in a similar position at my gym, dukki will chime in anytime now, he's good when it comes to this stuff...

well i dont hit on chicks in the gym. the gym is my escape away from the rest of life.

and there are plenty of threads on this topic already. with lots of good advice....

check em out

how to pick up a chick at the gym.

Who has had luck picking up girls in the gym? ...not me...

**Surreal** · 03-24-2009, 07:10 AM

Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw

well i dont hit on chicks in the gym. the gym is my escape away from the rest of life.

and there are plenty of threads on this topic already. with lots of good advice....

check em out

how to pick up a chick at the gym.

Who has had luck picking up girls in the gym? ...not me...

After madmatt's comment, I was looking forward to some individualized guidance from you. LOL.

**Dukkit** · 03-24-2009, 07:17 AM

Originally Posted by Surreal

After madmatt's comment, I was looking forward to some individualized guidance from you. LOL.

i havent had my coffee yet.

i dont feel like thinking that hard

lol

**Dukkit** · 03-24-2009, 07:20 AM

im taking this from NOVA cuz its almost exactly what i would say

what u guys really need to do is create a way you approach women every single time. practice it. it should work in every single instance, and it should be your go to move. it's important to have one so you don't EVER pass on an opportunity to grab a number or email. i see WUSSY guys all the time strike up a conversation without finishing. at the gym, the POLICY REMAINS UNCHANGED; be a man, and a gentleman. approach her when she isn't training, if she trains then leaves you have to make an effort to meet her at the door, comment about the weather or whatever, but don't interrupt her. and if you don't go to the gym at the same time everyday, you may have to make an extra effort to go in at the time she's there.

me, i don't try and hit on girls in the gym. that doesnt mean if a situation presents itself i pass it up. ive talked to girls in the gym before, and its totally platonic and i enjoy those relationships.

another thing. too many guys see "picking up girls" as a one time thing. it isn't and in my experience it works best in time. say hi. next time, ask her a question (or better yet her opinion on something), next time ask what her goals are, why she's in the gym, show genuine interest in her self-improvement. and then next time say something like this, "you're pretty interesting to talk to in here, i wonder if youre this interesting outside the gym." take your time and let the correct time present itself to you. if it happens sooner, great, if not, it will.

**J-Dogg** · 03-24-2009, 07:37 AM

Get on some high dose of test, take some cials, wear sweats and no underware to the gym. She'll notice you that way. If she likes it, she'll smile....if not, she'll look away.

Dukkit hit's it pretty good though. Most girls want guys to talk to them. The best part about a gym girl, you are going to see her again. You don't have to close that day.

The best thing about girls now days, is texting. It's made hooking up with girls so much easier. They are far more comfortable texting than talking to you.

Chat her up, some gym talk. Think of a reason to get her number.

**J-Dogg** · 03-24-2009, 07:41 AM

When she is doing laying hamstring curls....walk by and ask "Can I get on that next?"

**ufcfighter4** · 03-24-2009, 07:44 AM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

When she is doing laying hamstring curls....walk by and ask "Can I get on that next?"

Why don't you just say "girl you must be tired because you have been working out in my mind all day long"

**Voland** · 03-24-2009, 07:59 AM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

Get on some high dose of test, take some cials, wear sweats and no underware to the gym. She'll notice you that way. If she likes it, she'll smile....if not, she'll look away.

Dukkit hit's it pretty good though. Most girls want guys to talk to them. The best part about a gym girl, you are going to see her again. You don't have to close that day.

The best thing about girls now days, is texting. It's made hooking up with girls so much easier. They are far more comfortable texting than talking to you.

Chat her up, some gym talk. Think of a reason to get her number.

dammit! i'm old school. Not that i love talking to stragers, but i have to to accomplish my goals, but i HATE texting and anything related to cell phones LOL

**Surreal** · 03-24-2009, 08:27 AM

Originally Posted by J-Dogg

When she is doing laying hamstring curls....walk by and ask "Can I get on that next?"

I have never seen a girl do hamstring curls at my gym. LOL. They're usually crunching away on the ab machine or doing oblique work thinking that it will flatten their waistlines. Keep in mind that I goto a gym where few dead or squat, and even fewer squat parallel or lower. With that said, while I'm pretty weak by the standards of this forum, I'm stronger than 97%+ of the guys at my gym. However, I'm not sure if that works to my benefit or against me. I've gotten some weird stares for doing weighted dips with 90lbs.

Now if only I could refocus that attention into positive interest from chicks there!?

**BigLittleTim** · 03-24-2009, 12:42 PM

"Don't hang out... WORK OUT!"

(Wow, I should put that on a t-shirt...)

**Dukkit** · 03-24-2009, 12:43 PM

Originally Posted by BigLittleTim

"Don't hang out... WORK OUT!"

(Wow, I should put that on a t-shirt...)

id buy it

and wear it at the gym

**Phate** · 03-24-2009, 12:45 PM

Originally Posted by BigLittleTim

"Don't hang out... WORK OUT!"

(Wow, I should put that on a t-shirt...)

Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw

id buy it

and wear it at the gym

i'd wear it at the gym, while picking up chicks

**Schmidty** · 03-24-2009, 01:00 PM

Chicks seem to be on defence mode when ther at the gym, i only know a few ppl that have gotn laid from a cardio bunny that he met at the gym. But it NEVER fails for me that if i take a sum cat to the gym with me im gona get sum tang(not the tasty drink)

**Phate** · 03-24-2009, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by Schmidty

Chicks seem to be on defence mode when ther at the gym, i only know a few ppl that have gotn laid from a cardio bunny that he met at the gym. But it NEVER fails for me that if i take a sum cat to the gym with me im gona get sum tang(not the tasty drink)

studies prove that vigorous exercise is a very potent aphrodisiac for humans

**BritishColumbian** · 03-24-2009, 01:30 PM

There are cougars at my gym that eye ball me, I find it very distracting!
Bitches should 'get in the kitchen and make me some PIE'
The grocery store is the place to pick up the ladies! when they are out buying ingredients to make PIE.

**Quod Sum Eris** · 03-25-2009, 02:34 AM

Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw

im taking this from NOVA cuz its almost exactly what i would say

what u guys really need to do is create a way you approach women every single time. practice it. it should work in every single instance, and it should be your go to move. it's important to have one so you don't EVER pass on an opportunity to grab a number or email. i see WUSSY guys all the time strike up a conversation without finishing. at the gym, the POLICY REMAINS UNCHANGED; be a man, and a gentleman. approach her when she isn't training, if she trains then leaves you have to make an effort to meet her at the door, comment about the weather or whatever, but don't interrupt her. and if you don't go to the gym at the same time everyday, you may have to make an extra effort to go in at the time she's there.

me, i don't try and hit on girls in the gym. that doesnt mean if a situation presents itself i pass it up. ive talked to girls in the gym before, and its totally platonic and i enjoy those relationships.

another thing. too many guys see "picking up girls" as a one time thing. it isn't and in my experience it works best in time. say hi. next time, ask her a question (or better yet her opinion on something), next time ask what her goals are, why she's in the gym, show genuine interest in her self-improvement. and then next time say something like this, "you're pretty interesting to talk to in here, i wonder if youre this interesting outside the gym." take your time and let the correct time present itself to you. if it happens sooner, great, if not, it will.

awesome i just sit n stare

at the hot girls

**chicmagnet** · 03-25-2009, 04:53 AM

I ignore them, it makes them want me more. If you don't give a fvk, they start hitting on you because they need the attention.

**DSM4Life** · 03-25-2009, 05:03 AM

You at the gym to workout not socialize.

**subaruwrx04** · 03-25-2009, 06:59 AM

LOL... For one girls have there gaurd up at the gym. For two your there for yourself. So get your eyes of the girls and focus on yourself.

**Surreal** · 03-25-2009, 09:36 AM

Originally Posted by Schmidty

Chicks seem to be on defence mode when ther at the gym, i only know a few ppl that have gotn laid from a cardio bunny that he met at the gym.

Exactly, and besides, just how is one supposed to start a conversation with a girl that's huffing and puffing away on a treadmill?

**gixxerboy1** · 03-25-2009, 08:04 PM

Originally Posted by Surreal

Exactly, and besides, just how is one supposed to start a conversation with a girl that's huffing and puffing away on a treadmill?

you don't start a conversation at first. When she is walking by just say hi. And keep working little by little each time you see her. Eventually you will be having conversations

**jbm** · 03-25-2009, 08:08 PM

I ignore these hot chicks! coz they ignore me too... lolol!

**Bojangles69** · 03-25-2009, 10:10 PM

Originally Posted by ufcfighter4

But your picture says you are a smart ass, but you act more like a dumb ass.

The funniest post in this thread lmao.

What is even funnier is that he hasn't responded.. guess hes really making an effort

**PIGPEN8181** · 03-26-2009, 05:50 PM

Originally Posted by Surreal

I workout at my university's gym, where there are always plenty of chicks huffing and puffing away on the treadmills and elliptical machines, but relatively few girls in the weight rooms. The weight room chicks are either with a boyfriend that can't even bench his own bodyweight, doing ab work in pairs, or in a pack looking for (and receiving plenty of) male attention.

While I've had a few girls in the weight room smile at me or initiate eye contact, I've never bothered to hit on or chat up any. As much as I like girls, there are better places for meeting chicks - places where they aren't already drowning in male attention (despite being a 6.5) and outnumbered 1 to 5.

Normally I prefer sticking to my weights, and refrain from excessive chit chat. However, let's say there's a cutie in the mix, and you just can't help yourself . . . how would you approach her given that she's already drowning in the male attention that she craves?

I had a bad experience 1 time, was at Gold's some years back, met a much older woman 6'1 and a MILF. After that she became obsessed and wouldn't leave me alone when I wanted to workout. No matter what she was doing when I walked in she came flyin over. After about a week of the same thing, I had to change gyms and swore that i would never pickup another woman in the gym again. The gym is for weights, clubs are for partying, etc. The choice is yours.