How to get a girl to go to the gym NICELY?

**Gaspari1255** · 03-30-2009, 11:05 AM

Basically I've had a friend/hook up for the past few years. A few years ago, when she was about 19- this girl was a 10/10, absolutely gorgeous. Now being 21, after 3 years of excessive drinking in college, she blew up. She must have gained about 30-40lbs. She still has potential to be gorgoues once again though. Now the million dollar question, how do I persuade her to get back in the gym without sounding like an @sshole?

**Matt** · 03-30-2009, 11:26 AM

I would just be as nice as possible and say " look you fat fuvking cow, get your oversized ass to the fuvking gym and stop eating everything you fuvking see". She will like this approach because not only have you been as nice as possible but you've also talked alittle dirty to her, chicks love it when you talk dirty..

**Dukkit** · 03-30-2009, 11:32 AM

tell her you want her to have your babies and that she needs to get in shape for the pregnancies

works for me everytime

or... get a bunch of pics of her from when she was thinner and paste them all over her car and place. (dont let her know yuo did it though)

or tell her your takin her on a nice date... she gets all dressed up. gets in your car.. and you drive to the gym.... say here we are. now lets go workout!!!

or sit down with her nicely and say that your worried about her health and you would feel better if she started takin care of herself

or ask if she would like to go to the gym with you cuz you wanna do a "class" of somesort and its gonna be all girls and you wanna have a girl there you know so you feel more comfortable. then after she gets in there and does the class with you.. hopefully she gets hooked

**higherdesire** · 03-30-2009, 11:32 AM

Get her a feedbag with a splatter guard/shield and a gym membership. Show both of them to her and say hey babe your at a crossroads here, choose ye this day whom ye will serve.

if she chooses the feedbag, kick her in the stomach really hard, and say see if you went the other way and had built up some abs, that wouldn't have hurt so bad.

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 03-30-2009, 11:33 AM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

Get her a feedbag with a splatter guard/shield and a gym membership. Show both of them to her and say hey babe your at a crossroads here, choose ye this day whom ye will serve.

if she chooses the feedbag, kick her in the stomach really hard, and say see if you went the other way and had built up some abs, that wouldn't have hurt so bad.

**higherdesire** · 03-30-2009, 11:34 AM

oh stop!

**jamyjamjr** · 03-30-2009, 11:35 AM

open up a new membership for her at a gym and make it seem like "quality" time...

we all know your trying to save her ass from being left behind cuz you like her n all, so the approach has to be, "no, your not fat or anything, i just think it would be bad ass if we could work out together"

n if that doesn't work, fcuk her hot sister/cuz/relative... hahaha

**AnimalGear** · 03-30-2009, 11:41 AM

thats what i'm doin' with my girl...it's not that she's fat at all...she's absolutely beautiful, but if i'm gonna live my life around exercise, i'd like to rub off on her with that a bit, so i'm trying to get her to go workout with me lately(for that extra 10-15lbs she has)

god i hope she's not stalking me and reading this right now

**Nooomoto** · 03-30-2009, 11:42 AM

Tell her she's fat and needs to lose some weight. Don't be a bitch, dude. If you powderpuff it she won't get the message.

**scerpico22** · 03-30-2009, 11:47 AM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

Get her a feedbag with a splatter guard/shield and a gym membership. Show both of them to her and say hey babe your at a crossroads here, choose ye this day whom ye will serve.

if she chooses the feedbag, kick her in the stomach really hard, and say see if you went the other way and had built up some abs, that wouldn't have hurt so bad.

now thats some funny shit right there!!! LOL

**BritishColumbian** · 03-30-2009, 12:04 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

Get her a feedbag with a splatter guard/shield and a gym membership. Show both of them to her and say hey babe your at a crossroads here, choose ye this day whom ye will serve.

if she chooses the feedbag, kick her in the stomach really hard, and say see if you went the other way and had built up some abs, that wouldn't have hurt so bad.

thats the best reply I have ever heard. You should be a comedy writer.

**AnimalGear** · 03-30-2009, 12:06 PM

**fit4ever** · 03-30-2009, 12:09 PM

Originally Posted by ******

Basically I've had a friend/hook up for the past few years. A few years ago, when she was about 19- this girl was a 10/10, absolutely gorgeous. Now being 21, after 3 years of excessive drinking in college, she blew up. She must have gained about 30-40lbs. She still has potential to be gorgoues once again though. Now the million dollar question, how do I persuade her to get back in the gym without sounding like an @sshole?

Keep this in mind. The gym may be your passion and your priority. She, on the other hand, may have another passion and priority in life that you're not too keen with. So you're going to have to spoon feed her with this idea. Because if you attempt to force change upon her, she'll eventually use it against you in the future. There's no longevity in being forced to change. You have to want to change yourself.

Be careful. Because what makes you feel good might destroy someone else.

**sweet-jayne** · 03-30-2009, 12:10 PM

all you have to do is make it seem like you want some quality time with her and go together

**sigman roid** · 03-30-2009, 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

I would just be as nice as possible and say " look you fat fuvking cow, get your oversized ass to the fuvking gym and stop eating everything you fuvking see". She will like this approach because not only have you been as nice as possible but you've also talked alittle dirty to her, chicks love it when you talk dirty..

***RAGE*** · 03-30-2009, 12:16 PM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

I would just be as nice as possible and say " look you fat fuvking cow, get your oversized ass to the fuvking gym and stop eating everything you fuvking see". She will like this approach because not only have you been as nice as possible but you've also talked alittle dirty to her, chicks love it when you talk dirty..

^^^ I love this guy

***RAGE*** · 03-30-2009, 12:18 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

Get her a feedbag with a splatter guard/shield and a gym membership. Show both of them to her and say hey babe your at a crossroads here, choose ye this day whom ye will serve.

if she chooses the feedbag, kick her in the stomach really hard, and say see if you went the other way and had built up some abs, that wouldn't have hurt so bad.

your on fire bro,

this thread has made my day..

**higherdesire** · 03-30-2009, 12:29 PM

I am simply a romantic bro. Nuthin speshul. Just duin what I do you know?

**JiGGaMaN** · 03-30-2009, 12:32 PM

Originally Posted by ******

Basically I've had a friend/hook up for the past few years. A few years ago, when she was about 19- this girl was a 10/10, absolutely gorgeous. Now being 21, after 3 years of excessive drinking in college, she blew up. She must have gained about 30-40lbs. She still has potential to be gorgoues once again though. Now the million dollar question, how do I persuade her to get back in the gym without sounding like an @sshole?

same thing happened to me. she lost the weight on her own. you cant make the decision to lose weight for her.

**Matt** · 03-30-2009, 12:42 PM

Originally Posted by sweet-jayne

all you have to do is make it seem like you want some quality time with her and go together

Jayne we need to spend some quality time together, fuvk the gym my bedroom is calling...

**skitz1** · 03-30-2009, 12:56 PM

Put a piece of cake on the floor and tie some string around it. When she reaches down to pick it up, keep yourself hidden from view and tug on the string so it only just gets away from her. Carrying on doing this until you've managed to lure her to a nearby gym, and just when she's outside the doors you finally let her catch it, the whole time keeping out of view. Now, while she's completely destroying this piece of cake, you sneak around behind her giving yourself a generous run up, and fly-kick her straight in the back so that the impact projects her straight through the doors (lets just hope they're automatic doors). Once she's in there you make sure one of those hardcore membership consultants that just won't let a sale go is waiting. It's foolproof.

**Shurik** · 03-30-2009, 01:20 PM

My girl keeps telling me she wants to go to the gym but when the day comes, she starts to make up bs excuse. I decided to say screw it. Gives me more time to talk to all the hotties at the gym. If she keeps gaining weight, Ill tell her to fuk off.
There is plenty of fish in the sea and should not be a problem for anybody to find one more.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-30-2009, 01:29 PM

lmao, some funny and also solid ideas. I should really put some before and after pictures up, its fvcking devestating, but that would be too cruel lol.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-30-2009, 01:32 PM

Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw

tell her you want her to have your babies and that she needs to get in shape for the pregnancies

works for me everytime

or... get a bunch of pics of her from when she was thinner and paste them all over her car and place. (dont let her know yuo did it though)

or tell her your takin her on a nice date... she gets all dressed up. gets in your car.. and you drive to the gym.... say here we are. now lets go workout!!!

or sit down with her nicely and say that your worried about her health and you would feel better if she started takin care of herself

or ask if she would like to go to the gym with you cuz you wanna do a "class" of somesort and its gonna be all girls and you wanna have a girl there you know so you feel more comfortable. then after she gets in there and does the class with you.. hopefully she gets hooked

I am seriously contemplating this, lol.

**Dukkit** · 03-30-2009, 01:35 PM

Originally Posted by ******

lmao, some funny and also solid ideas. I should really put some before and after pictures up, its fvcking devestating, but that would be too cruel lol.

email em to me

**Shurik** · 03-30-2009, 01:42 PM

Ya dude just post them up and paste out the face, I'm curious.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-30-2009, 02:00 PM

alright, alright...you convincced me...

First two are from 2007, last one is from 2009...heartbreaking

I think there is still potential, or is she at the point of no return??

**Matt** · 03-30-2009, 02:05 PM

No i think there is still chance to save her lol, but she must want to make those changes herself...

**scerpico22** · 03-30-2009, 02:08 PM

thats more than workable...

but truth is she is not gonna do it unless SHE wants to do it.

hey, maybe show her the pics...sometimes brutal honesty is the best way...

**Reed** · 03-30-2009, 02:09 PM

Tell her no one likes a fatty fatty no friends!!!

**Pocketbattleship2B** · 03-30-2009, 02:11 PM

Originally Posted by ******

alright, alright...you convincced me...

First two are from 2007, last one is from 2009...heartbreaking

I think there is still potential, or is she at the point of no return??

It sounds kind of like you love her if you still want her after so long and after her gaining weight.You realy only have two options I think.You can get her exercising by taking her for romantic walks and maybe get her back exercising like that,she can't drink while shes walking with you.Thats your choice if you realy like her.On the other hand if you just want a 10/10 girl just go and get another one for yourself.I know you want her to go back to being a 10 but you have to decide what you want more her,what ever her looks, or a hottie no mater who she is.

**Matt** · 03-30-2009, 02:12 PM

Show her pictures of me and tell her that if she gets into shape i may take her out...

**IM708** · 03-30-2009, 02:15 PM

Buy her supertight clothes, make her wear them so that she feels embarassed and self concious. Wear super tight clothes to and show how jacked looking you are.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-30-2009, 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by Pocketbattleship2B

It sounds kind of like you love her if you still want her after so long and after her gaining weight.You realy only have two options I think.You can get her exercising by taking her for romantic walks and maybe get her back exercising like that,she can't drink while shes walking with you.Thats your choice if you realy like her.On the other hand if you just want a 10/10 girl just go and get another one for yourself.I know you want her to go back to being a 10 but you have to decide what you want more her,what ever her looks, or a hottie no mater who she is.

Very good point my friend. As much as I wanna come out and be brutally honest and show her old photos, It's really tough. Chances are she'll feel like shit and start crying histerically, which may results in even further weight gain due to depression. I kind of like the romantic walk thing, and after a few weeks I could make comments like "hey you loook thinner". Maybe she will take the compliment to heart and strive real hard to get back in shape.

**sweet-jayne** · 03-30-2009, 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Jayne we need to spend some quality time together, fuvk the gym my bedroom is calling...

why don't we just fvck at the gym? kill two birds with one stone

**Gaspari1255** · 03-30-2009, 02:20 PM

^lmao

**Matt** · 03-30-2009, 02:20 PM

Originally Posted by sweet-jayne

why don't we just fvck at the gym? kill two birds with one stone

Im on my way baby

**Matt** · 03-30-2009, 02:21 PM

None of these lot can come though... There all pervs..

**WOLFCRAFT** · 03-30-2009, 02:24 PM

Give me her number or email and I'll make her feel so bad about herself she won't eat for a month.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-30-2009, 02:25 PM

Originally Posted by WOLFCRAFT

Give me her number or email and I'll make her feel so bad about herself she won't eat for a month.

You are going to be my last resort, lol.

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