What should i do

[Ajc330]

hi guys im in a dilemma and i think im letting my ego get the best of me, but whats the most logical thing to do? ive been seeing my girlfriend for 7 amazing months, ive hit rock bottom and she took me in and fed me, her mother got me a job and her father gives me yard work for cash, they have been there for me at my worst and never looked at me funny. the past few days i felt she dont love me like she used to, and she even agrees. i feel as though it just died in her, she can completely agree with me in seein why i think that because she notices the behavior change, but she swares she loves me and only wants to be with me, and she doesnt know why shes been acting funny, she says she even feels guilty bc iv been trying so hard to keep her happy nd she hasnt been trying anymore, one side of me wants to close up, shut her out of my life forever, i called her earlier today and told her lets split up etc, she says shes been crying ever since and i even found a note ion my car she dropped off saying shes not gonna stop tryin to convince me she loves me etc, she was at her bestfriends house sleeping over, we were on the phone for the past hour or so and we decided to meet up in person, so i grab her and proceed to the gas station for a cigar, thats when we see all the cops bc her bestfriends ex bf was found dead on the floor, a drug OD, so i brought her back to her friends house so she could comfort her.. i am now home and confused as fvck if i should shut her out or stay with her, do you guys think she doesnt love me anymore and its over? or she was just being a little moody

[BritishColumbian]

Just remember that the ladies love it when you treat them like shit. Maybe your being to nice? IDK, JMO

[jbm]

I agree with British bro! just give it another try for the both of you, it might work out good again!

[Ajc330]

i dont think it was bc i was too nice, shes realer than that and we were realer than that, it wasnt about mind games, our relationship strived off each others love, not who had the upper advantage on the other person, maybe im buggin i obviously have insecurity issues but shutting her out of my life is the defense thatll make me feel the most secure

[WOLFCRAFT]

Ride it out bro... Chicks are weird and complicated. So complicated that they don't even understand themselves half the time. I say give it three months. If nothing changes then move on. Don't take the risk of throwing something great away just because you've hit a rough spot.
It may be as simple as the excitement of the newness wearing off.

[Ajc330]

Ride it out bro... Chicks are weird and complicated. So complicated that they don't even understand themselves half the time. I say give it three months. If nothing changes then move on. Don't take the risk of throwing something great away just because you've hit a rough spot.
It may be as simple as the excitement of the newness wearing off.

thanks man

[C-MaN]

agreed. She has gotten used to you being there all the time. And now you all are moving on to the long term relationship phase. keep it interesting. Surprise her with new things about yourself that she doesn't know yet. It will all work out. Your just over reacting IMO bro.

[*RAGE*]

fuvk that bitch, if your are the guy in your avatar you should be able to get something else and fuvk it all bro, it is one fuvking women in a world of plenty....get off your ass and find a new one.....

ps

if you have to start a thread about a bitch you need a fuvking life.....it is a bitch, love comes one ***** at a time, fuvk them all

[Brown Ninja]

wise words my friend

[jbm]

Best advice yet! lol!

[Matt]

I say grow up you twat, are you a fvking man or a girl....

[T-MOS]

fuvk that bitch, if your are the guy in your avatar you should be able to get something else and fuvk it all bro, it is one fuvking women in a world of plenty....get off your ass and find a new one.....

ps

if you have to start a thread about a bitch you need a fuvking life.....it is a bitch, love comes one ***** at a time, fuvk them all

Please keep in mind that he is drunk right now and fighting with his "bitch" so take this with a grain of salt !!!

come home Prone.....LOLOL

RELATIONSHIPS SUCK !!! PERIOD !!!!

[PittBoy]

i dont think it was bc i was too nice, shes realer than that and we were realer than that, it wasnt about mind games, our relationship strived off each others love, not who had the upper advantage on the other person, maybe im buggin i obviously have insecurity issues but shutting her out of my life is the defense thatll make me feel the most secure

Well....when people fall in love everything is peachy and you get all those warm fuzzy feelings and all is well. The brain releases all kinds of chemicals and it makes you feel wonderful everytime you see eachother.

Eventually that wears off....no matter who you are and you have to work at the love. So maybe have her take a love language test(google it). Find out what she needs from you......you are showing her love but maybe it's not the way she needs to be shown it. If you find out the way she needs to be shown love and do those things in the way she needs she should respond in a positive way.

If she doesn't.........bury her out back...we have the technology J/K

[higherdesire]

I gotta agree with prone bro. Little harsh but damn man reread your thread. If she or any other broad ain't diggin it no mo, then get on before you get shvt on. Believ me it will be just fien for both of you. She has you sounding like a bvtch behind this crap.

[DSM4Life]

Does she have a brother ....

[T-MOS]

Relationships go through peaks and valleys! You have to take the good times and get through the bad times. It can't be all Roses and Sunshine 24/7 So, if you love her then stay and work it out. If you can't see your life without her, then do things to get through this.

If you can see her out of your life, then walk away......

[RA]

Try to look at it objectively...if she is a person who has a lot of issues now shes going to have a lot of issues in 10-20 years and your going to be sick to death of it. Try to find the girl with the least amount of emotional baggage...trust me

[fit4ever]

If you truly love her, then you'll remain faithful and loving during this nasty season of your relationship. If you don't, then that'll show that your heart is elsewhere.

[FireGuy]

I think you killed her ex out of fear and jealousy she was going back to him and blamed it on a drug OD.

[Dukkit]

I think you killed her ex out of fear and jealousy she was going back to him and blamed it on a drug OD.

oh thats rough

lol

[Hunter]

I think you said it best in your first line which was I think am letting my ego get the best of me. She and her family helped you out a ton when you hit rock bottom and that can be very emotionally and physically draining she could be taking this time to recharge her own batteries and you may need to be there for her and help pick her up they way she did you. As T said nearly everything in this world goes through peaks and valleys relationships are no different. With this recent death tho I would put your emotions on the back burner and help her through this.

[T-MOS]

I think you said it best in your first line which was I think am letting my ego get the best of me. She and her family helped you out a ton when you hit rock bottom and that can be very emotionally and physically draining she could be taking this time to recharge her own batteries and you may need to be there for her and help pick her up they way she did you. As T said nearly everything in this world goes through peaks and valleys relationships are no different. With this recent death tho I would put your emotions on the back burner and help her through this.

^^^ WELL SAID !! How did you get so smart?.!!!

[sigman roid]

fuvk that bitch, if your are the guy in your avatar you should be able to get something else and fuvk it all bro, it is one fuvking women in a world of plenty....get off your ass and find a new one.....

ps

if you have to start a thread about a bitch you need a fuvking life.....it is a bitch, love comes one ***** at a time, fuvk them all

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[BritishColumbian]

I think you killed her ex out of fear and jealousy she was going back to him and blamed it on a drug OD.

wow, I bet thats exactly what happend.

[Nooomoto]

Yeah dude...just be a dick to her. Chicks love that shit.

[Gaspari1255]

Yeah dude...just be a dick to her. Chicks love that shit.

They certainly do, and I wish there was some type of explanation behind this. Any female I was ever a dickhead to loved me...Any female I ever loved was a dickhead to me...it's a vicious cycle..give her a taste of her own medicine, start becoming a little distant, see what happens.

[Matt]

fuvk that bitch, if your are the guy in your avatar you should be able to get something else and fuvk it all bro, it is one fuvking women in a world of plenty....get off your ass and find a new one.....

ps

if you have to start a thread about a bitch you need a fuvking life.....it is a bitch, love comes one ***** at a time, fuvk them all

I missed this bro but its by far the best advice here....

[Mooseman33]

there could be something else here man. her best friends bf died of a drug overdose correct? and she was there when it happened?
well, has she herself been using lately? is that part of her life, and if it is, has there been a change in her recreational drug of choice? or amount?

drugs will change people like something crazy....

[ni4ni]

no matter how good they look/act somebody, somewhere is tired of putting up w/ her shit...applies to just abt all female!!

[Skully44420]

if you love her that much and don't feel you can live without her, make it work.

If you can see yourself without her in the future and things seem like they will be ok...then leave her.

just do what you feel inside...

[Ajc330]

this is all good advice, after work we spent the remainder of the day and night together, it was good but it dont feel the same, im going to play this by ear and keep my distance

btw it wasnt her ex that died, it was her bestfriends ex, but we just got word he is stable, i shouldnt of announced he was dead in my first post but it didnt look good at all

[Ajc330]

fuvk that bitch, if your are the guy in your avatar you should be able to get something else and fuvk it all bro, it is one fuvking women in a world of plenty....get off your ass and find a new one.....

ps

if you have to start a thread about a bitch you need a fuvking life.....it is a bitch, love comes one ***** at a time, fuvk them all

i went out and lived that life and did all that $hit, means nothing to me, i know im capable of whatever i want, i just want a nice simple life now

[jamyjamjr]

give it a month, if it doesn't clear up, bounce....

[Dobie-BOY]

Just remember that the ladies love it when you treat them like shit. Maybe your being to nice? IDK, JMO

Agreed^^ and dude don't take it personal. Its a thing called human nature. She doesn't do it consciously. Its a sub conscious thing. As brutal and childish as it sounds, the columbian is right. Bottom line!