Do you ever feel sorry for young single moms with kids?

[calgarian]

really? i didnt need that mental picture

call DSM......

[Matt]

naughty naughty

Hey, everyones at it now....

Btw theres nothing wrong with sheep...

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

really? i didnt need that mental picture

hahaha dammit!

[ampx]

hell no what about young dads that now have child support and baby mama drama. stuck with that nuty girl. no girl whats to deal with that crap.

[Matt]

I love to call DSM he licks my balls......

Hmmm, whatever turns you on...

[CptAmericaX]

well im glad a girl hasnt posted on this, But as for my opinion, the 3 f's man Find F8ck Forget its simple really, youll bang her guts out be like its just not working and leave. Worst thing that can happen is if you continuely see this single mother and you are around her kid, and you get attachet thats when sh*t gets dangerouse remeber F F F or youll end up married like me

[novastepp]

So what about this...

How about a single dad that has a kid? Same situation, except for the actual birth. But what do you GUYS think about a single dad trying to be in a relationship? I know some of you will say you aren't looking for a single dad (obviously), but does that change things? A female perspective would be better suited, but is it that big of a deal really? I think it speaks a lot of the character of an individual who handles another human life. So do you see a single dad as trashy and mistake prone? or is he responsible?

[zimmy]

I am engaged to one and have been for 2 years and some change. We are totally happy ... 2 kids....2 dogs (3 now again) 12 cats (f*cking kittens)... all that being said... It's wonderful. There are slight issues like they will always look at you like you can walk away because they usually have baggage thinking men can't be as good of a parent or won't be as good as a woman. But they do have love to give and they don't play HALF as many games as most young single people.

[CptAmericaX]

it works better for a guy IMO because some women want kids just not of there own, and are more apt to adopt and create a natural bond then a male is, like the 3 year old who fell in the gorilla cage at the zoo and the momma gorilla no shit took the kid and protected it from the other gorillas

[IronReload04]

I can never understand that, but then i don't sport fcuk either, and back in the day i didn't do women with kids..

By using her this way you are mind raping her, and the kid that didn't ask to be in this situation, best thing you can do as a decent human being is be a friend..

Suggestion to you, help others and make their life a little better before you get a nut and satisfy your own.. You already feel "guilty" so take action with that feeling..

proud ya..

very impressive post. Certain things just need to be balanced out I guess right. YOu cant screw with her head. She may need sexual satisfaction and nothing more or she may think you are more serious than you are. Ultimately, one needs to weigh these things, and then make a judgement. And live with that judgement. Whatever decision you make, hopefully that does not compromise what you think of yourself as a human being morally.

[fit4ever]

Truth is, those who are making irresponsible comments within this thread are probably the ones getting these women pregnant. Because if you can't be responsible with your words, then it's highly unlikely that you're responsible with your actions.

[Matt]

Truth is, those who are making irresponsible comments within this thread are probably the ones getting these women pregnant. Because if you can't be responsible with your words, then it's highly unlikely that you're responsible with your actions.

Yep, i love getting chicks pregnant....

[fit4ever]

Yep, i love getting chicks pregnant....

Keep this in mind for the future. If your daughter (or your future daughter if you don't currently have one) gets pregnant one day and the baby's daddy says to you, "I love getting chicks pregnant", then high five him. Because he's just adhering to your way of life.

[IM708]

He will never have a future daughter, he'll abort the fetus himself by eating it.

[Matt]

He will never have a future daughter, he'll abort the fetus himself by eating it.

Is it normal that this turns me on???

[novastepp]

Is it normal that this turns me on???

for you, yes.

[Matt]

for you, yes.

Ahh nova, it must have a high protein content?

[IM708]

high fat and cholesterol content

[RuhlFreak55]

Seriously, if I'm talking to a girl and hitting things off, shes smart, cute, funny and the whole 9, then she tells me she has a kid, it literally feels to me like shes showing me pictures of her cock before she got the sex change operation.

Like thats the degree that I lose interest in her.
A complete and total mindrape.

I'll look at her afterwards and still want to bang her (usually a bit less then I originally wanted) but then I tell myself "as soon as you fvck her vanish like david blaine"
And it just perpetuates the cycle that originally put the woman into that position. Man fvcks, man leaves.
So I DO GENUINELY feel bad about it, but I feel more sorry for her that even though shes prob a great person, I wanna put her on my dick like a used condom.

Can anyone else date younger single mothers w/out being bothered by it at all?

i would never do it....i'm never taking care of a kid that's not my blood...period. So that right there ends the interest......it's her choice to keep the baby.....they have the right to choose....i only have ANY compassion at all if there's some story of being in love and her thinking she was gonna be with him forever.....but even then more oft than not i feel like she'd be lying just trying to justify her stupidity

[Ernst]

I have never dated a girl with a kid. If I find out she has one I just move along... She would have to be all that and a bag of chips for me to stick around at all past that revelation. Harsh, but true.

The only person in that equation I feel sorry for is the kid.

[RuhlFreak55]

I have never dated a girl with a kid. If I find out she has one I just move along... She would have to be all that and a bag of chips for me to stick around at all past that revelation. Harsh, but true.

The only person in that equation I feel sorry for is the kid.

I can't see any situation where i would consider it.....bottom line is she didn't get an abortion when she probably should have in my opinion and i feel very strongly about abortion.

[J-Dogg]

i would never do it....i'm never taking care of a kid that's not my blood...period. So that right there ends the interest......it's her choice to keep the baby.....they have the right to choose....i only have ANY compassion at all if there's some story of being in love and her thinking she was gonna be with him forever.....but even then more oft than not i feel like she'd be lying just trying to justify her stupidity

I kind of agree, I met a cute little girl 1/2 white 1/2 rican just a little ball of fire. Had a good job, worked for the government, benefits so she did not need help or anything.

She spoiled me too, would rub my back all the time, just wisper sweet things in my ear all the time.

She had a kid though, and it scared me off. I never met the kid, which means she is probably a great mother too.

I have a good friend who's with a girl with a kid, and I can tell he's a hair trigger away from slapping the kids head off 10 times a day.

But Ruhl......you better find a girl cause after the mid 20's it's hard to find one with out another guys kid.....

[calgarian]

I kind of agree, I met a cute little girl 1/2 white 1/2 rican just a little ball of fire. Had a good job, worked for the government, benefits so she did not need help or anything.

She spoiled me too, would rub my back all the time, just wisper sweet things in my ear all the time.

She had a kid though, and it scared me off. I never met the kid, which means she is probably a great mother too.

I have a good friend who's with a girl with a kid, and I can tell he's a hair trigger away from slapping the kids head off 10 times a day.

But Ruhl......you better find a girl cause after the mid 20's it's hard to find one with out another guys kid.....

oh he find the girls alright he just tells them that he uses butt plug

[RuhlFreak55]

I kind of agree, I met a cute little girl 1/2 white 1/2 rican just a little ball of fire. Had a good job, worked for the government, benefits so she did not need help or anything.

She spoiled me too, would rub my back all the time, just wisper sweet things in my ear all the time.

She had a kid though, and it scared me off. I never met the kid, which means she is probably a great mother too.

I have a good friend who's with a girl with a kid, and I can tell he's a hair trigger away from slapping the kids head off 10 times a day.

But Ruhl......you better find a girl cause after the mid 20's it's hard to find one with out another guys kid.....

lol i don't have any control over the situation....not my fault the girls are all retarded.....i can't worry about that right now....i got school and bodybuilding to do....if i end up alone so be it....i'll be all the richer

[J-Dogg]

lol i don't have any control over the situation....not my fault the girls are all retarded.....i can't worry about that right now....i got school and bodybuilding to do....if i end up alone so be it....i'll be all the richer

Actually, if you just meet one.....because you are so busy, they will probably end up stalking you.

Any time I date a girl and I don't have a lot of time, they blow my phone up all day and want to come over all the time.

Shower them with attention, and I guarantee they are texting their ex when you leave.

[hellapimpin]

I can date a women with a kid no problem....With my situation, i'd be a piece of work if i didn't consider it.

[moregunsthanroses]

Actually, if you just meet one.....because you are so busy, they will probably end up stalking you.

Any time I date a girl and I don't have a lot of time, they blow my phone up all day and want to come over all the time.

Shower them with attention, and I guarantee they are texting their ex when you leave.

very true.

I think I could date a girl with a kid but I havent so its just a guess.

But ya I wouldn't want to raise another mans kid, things would never get really serious. I guess I would be leading her on then..

[MASTER]

I do sometimes feel sorry for them, but then I inject them with my flesh syringe and they forget all about their problems. Did I mention single mums are easy?

[KatsMeow]

well im glad a girl hasnt posted on this, But as for my opinion, the 3 f's man Find F8ck Forget its simple really, youll bang her guts out be like its just not working and leave. Worst thing that can happen is if you continuely see this single mother and you are around her kid, and you get attachet thats when sh*t gets dangerouse remeber F F F or youll end up married like me

apparently you can't see because i did post on it.

And I think Your theory is SCUM, you deserve to be in a shitty relationship.

[Dukkit]

kat is on the warpath!!

you go girl!

[Bojangles69]

So what about this...

How about a single dad that has a kid? Same situation, except for the actual birth. But what do you GUYS think about a single dad trying to be in a relationship? I know some of you will say you aren't looking for a single dad (obviously), but does that change things? A female perspective would be better suited, but is it that big of a deal really? I think it speaks a lot of the character of an individual who handles another human life. So do you see a single dad as trashy and mistake prone? or is he responsible?

Thats prob the single best point anyone has made in this thread.

And its a bit humbling the fact that I think a lot of people have more respect for a single dad then just your avg joe with no kids.
Really shows how fvcked up a lot of women have it in this world.

They're "sluts", they're "whores", they're "immature" or "made a mistake" by being a single mom and having a kid.
But single dads are looked up to and respected for "stepping up" when "stepping up" for a woman is more a genetic obligation that society forces onto them.
Like we expect them to do it, then when they do, we judge them negatively as single mothers (or are more prone to then with single dads)
So yeh, very interesting point.

[Bojangles69]

I can never understand that, but then i don't sport fcuk either, and back in the day i didn't do women with kids..

By using her this way you are mind raping her, and the kid that didn't ask to be in this situation, best thing you can do as a decent human being is be a friend..

Suggestion to you, help others and make their life a little better before you get a nut and satisfy your own.. You already feel "guilty" so take action with that feeling..

proud ya..

My only justification against this post is that maybe in this day and age, being 2009, that she just might want to "sport fvck" and have a more casual situation then something serious. (which is maybe something you found more of back in the day)

Or am I suppose to assume every single mother just wants a long term relationship and a daddy for her child?
So I don't think its using or mind raping unless I'm bringing her into a situation I know she doesnt want to be in, which isnt really the case here.

[Deltasaurus]

this is a good thread some of you have very good posts im not going to stroke your ego by using your names but you know who you are. And some of you really need to grow up, then again this is the internet lol.

-AJ

im in this situation often and i really dont know how to go about it, like im a Horn Dog and could Fvck the girls but i really dont wanna just be a dick guy who does that to women. i know one girl im talking to right now has a kid with a guy i dont really like but he's always nice to me to i return the gesture but im really undecided towards the situation. main thing is i can be with a girl who has fvcked a dude that i dislike or think is lame or nasty, which i guess is normal.
But most of the time i think its cool a girl takes the responsiblity to take care of the child

[intensityfreak]

i have the same problem dog, i could never date a girl with a child, i look at them diffrently for some reason, i feel like a horrible person but damn

[Nicotine]

it would be weird for me

cuz i date older guys

their kids would be my age :P

[BritishColumbian]

it would be weird for me

cuz i date older guys

their kids would be my age :P

Im starting to think that your iether a Woman or your gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

[Hunter]

i would never do it....i'm never taking care of a kid that's not my blood...period. So that right there ends the interest......it's her choice to keep the baby.....they have the right to choose....i only have ANY compassion at all if there's some story of being in love and her thinking she was gonna be with him forever.....but even then more oft than not i feel like she'd be lying just trying to justify her stupidity

Girls dont even wanna sleep with you I doubt anyone of them would ask you to help raise a child.

[countrybhoy]

apparently you can't see because i did post on it.

And i think your theory is scum, you deserve to be in a shitty relationship.

too true what about the woman whos husband walks out on them . Are they just tramps . No the husband is . Not every single mother is some slut . Some you people need a reality check

[ni4ni]

go country...Kats gonna whip ur a$$.

[RuhlFreak55]

Girls dont even wanna sleep with you I doubt anyone of them would ask you to help raise a child.

how do you know that asshole?