If yes, then do you use it and which category would it fall?
Voice #1:
-Quit picking on me
-You don't love me
-You want me to leave
-Nobody likes (loves) me
-I hate you
-You are ugly
-You make me sick
-It's your fault
-Don't blame me
-She, he, ... did it
-You make me mad
Voice #2:
-You shouldn't (should) do that
-It's is wrong (right) to do...
-That's stupid, immature, out of line, ridiculus
-Life's not fair, get busy
-You are good, bad, worthless, beautiful,...
-You do as I say
-If you weren't so ..., this wouldn't happen to you
-Why can't you be like...?
Voice #3:
-In what ways could this be resolved
-What factors will be used to determine the effectiveness, quality of...
-I would like to recommend...
-What are choices in this situation
-I am comfortable (uncomfortable) with...
-Options that could be considered are...
-For me to be comfortable, I need the following things to occur..
-These are the consequences of that choice/action...
-We agree to disagree
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