How would you respond to a guy outside a bar.

**jdog55** · 04-25-2009, 08:33 AM

Adults only please.

How would you respond if you and a girl were dating and walking out of a bar to your car. A guy you are passing looks at the girl and says " You're going to have fun tonight huh? Then looks at you and says "I KNOW you're going to have fun tonight.

Seems kinda rude to the girl, what would you do?

**Matt** · 04-25-2009, 08:38 AM

Would not be bothered at all, i would have smiled and said "yes i am"...

***D7M*** · 04-25-2009, 08:40 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Would not be bothered at all, i would have smiled and said "yes i am"...

ditto.

just laugh it off.

doesn't sound like he was trying to start anything

**vpchill** · 04-25-2009, 08:41 AM

Depends in the tone it was said in. Being a smart ass, Then id just tell him Kick Rocks. If it was just small joke in passing id nod and wave it off.
Nothing to really get mad about, Reguardless your lady leaving with you.

**Ernst** · 04-25-2009, 08:42 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Would not be bothered at all, i would have smiled and said "yes i am"...

Exactly. This is outside of a bar after all.

**jdog55** · 04-25-2009, 08:44 AM

Ok then i was right. I did get chewed out by her though. She said " why didn't you say anything, he was calling me a hoe".

**RuhlFreak55** · 04-25-2009, 08:44 AM

for one i would never go to a bar with a gf......ugh...nasty places full of filth.

**Flagg** · 04-25-2009, 08:45 AM

It might have come across as rude, but I think the guy in his own forthright way was complimenting you. Best you can do is nod or shrug it off.

***D7M*** · 04-25-2009, 08:45 AM

Originally Posted by jdog55

Ok then i was right. I did get chewed out by her though. She said " why didn't you say anything, he was calling me a hoe".

to which you should have replied,

"because you are"

**higherdesire** · 04-25-2009, 08:46 AM

I would try to guage her reaction as much as possible. I don;t like it but it isn't worth going to jail over it. Worst case scenario I might have said something like " thanks for the compliment buddy but I am straight. Enjoy your evening!" With a big friendly smile like I meant it!

**Matt** · 04-25-2009, 08:46 AM

Originally Posted by jdog55

Ok then i was right. I did get chewed out by her though. She said " why didn't you say anything, he was calling me a hoe".

If thats all the guy said then it doesnt sound like he was calling anyone a hoe...

**vpchill** · 04-25-2009, 08:46 AM

Hahaha

**DSM4Life** · 04-25-2009, 08:46 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Would not be bothered at all, i would have smiled and said "yes i am"...

People have said that to Madd and I walking out of the bar Woodys and we just laughed it off.

**ni4ni** · 04-25-2009, 08:47 AM

x2 agree- say nothing.
"I KNOW you're going to have fun tonight"->say sorry its looks like your not

**Matt** · 04-25-2009, 08:47 AM

Originally Posted by Flagg

It might have come across as rude, but I think the guy in his own forthright way was complimenting you. Best you can do is nod or shrug it off.

Three words, "hammer", "nail", "head"...

**Flagg** · 04-25-2009, 08:47 AM

Girls are something else.

You say nothing and they bawl you out afterwards, if you had said something she'd have asked why you didn't just ignore him.

**Matt** · 04-25-2009, 08:49 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

People have said that to Madd and I walking out of the bar Woodys and we just laughed it off.

**vpchill** · 04-25-2009, 08:49 AM

put it like this, You protect her Honor (If she means somthing to you) But you dont fight over nonsense. Dude may not have realized it was rude.

**J-Dogg** · 04-25-2009, 08:52 AM

I don't think that's too offensive, smile, and say "that's the plan, take it easy"

IMO, if you respond to a simple comment like that, aggressively, you are probably just looking for a fight anyway.

And how is he calling her a hoe? Cause she is leaving the bar with her BOYFRIEND? Maybe she should have said something to him.

**Immortal Soldier** · 04-25-2009, 09:27 AM

For some reason people are aggressive towards me, just because I am "muscular", It feels like I have the words "Pick a fight with me" tattoo on my forehead. Even in my daily routine guys walking past me stand up straighter or stare at me, like I have a halo around me or something.

I have never actually gotten into a fight in my life (believe it or not) there have been confrontations, but nothing ever happened. Generally I am a friendly guy and don't try to fight people over dumb ****

**vpchill** · 04-25-2009, 09:35 AM

Originally Posted by Immortal Soldier

For some reason people are aggressive towards me, just because I am "muscular", It feels like I have the words "Pick a fight with me" tattoo on my forehead. Even in my daily routine guys walking past me stand up straighter or stare at me, like I have a halo around me or something.

I have never actually gotten into a fight in my life (believe it or not) there have been confrontations, but nothing ever happened. Generally I am a friendly guy and don't try to fight people over dumb ****

Thats weird, Most people put their head down when I walk by. Then again I leak confidence out my pores and my head is always up. But usually most dudes dare not look twice. I used to fite, but after a few times behind bars kind of humbles you i guess, I may be the nicest guy in the world now

**Immortal Soldier** · 04-25-2009, 09:46 AM

Originally Posted by vpchill

Thats weird, Most people put their head down when I walk by. Then again I leak confidence out my pores and my head is always up. But usually most dudes dare not look twice. I used to fite, but after a few times behind bars kind of humbles you i guess, I may be the nicest guy in the world now

Yeah I have those people, but also I am in college so some of guys see and stare at me (not stare me down but just look at me) and a few times I have caught then saying something to their friend, probably calling me a roid head or something. Jealously is a bitch bro, then again when I see guys bigger than me I look at them and get kind of pissed. I hate seeing people bigger than me....self-confidence issues.

Maybe they think I am a football player

**vpchill** · 04-25-2009, 09:55 AM

Cool. With me when I see guys Bigger it makes me strive to work Harder. Funny thing is the dudes in my Gym who use already thout I did too.
Im not well defined but I mainly strive to Be Big and Strong. I understand where you coming from tho

**xo3et** · 04-25-2009, 10:30 AM

I have a friend who says sill remarks like this, he is one of them people who doesn't think before they talk, he doesnt mean anything by it.

Id not worry about dude, too many people in life to start clobbering for sill remarks.

Your know when a remark or threat deserves you to bite back

**vpchill** · 04-25-2009, 10:53 AM

^^ Agreed

**SnaX** · 04-25-2009, 02:05 PM

Originally Posted by jdog55

Adults only please.

How would you respond if you and a girl were dating and walking out of a bar to your car. A guy you are passing looks at the girl and says " You're going to have fun tonight huh? Then looks at you and says "I KNOW you're going to have fun tonight.

Seems kinda rude to the girl, what would you do?

Originally Posted by jdog55

Ok then i was right. I did get chewed out by her though. She said " why didn't you say anything, he was calling me a hoe".

Looks like he called you a ho too!

It's a bar. It's not meant to harbor intelligent life. This is why you had that encounter. End of story.
But I hope you did have fun!

**Jfew44** · 04-25-2009, 02:07 PM

I hate when guys in cars say shit then drive off. Pathetic.

**bigol'legs** · 04-25-2009, 02:14 PM

did you ask him to join you?

**sweet-jayne** · 04-25-2009, 02:16 PM

Your girl is too sensitive.

First off, the guy has no idea if this was your first date or your first year anniversary, so he couldn't have been implying that she's a hoe. Maybe you guys were just exuding sexual chemistry. She's probably hotter than any chick he'll ever get, so by saying that "I know YOU'RE going to have fun tonight" he is showing his envy of you.

If I was her, I would have said "Damn Rights". But that's just me!!!

**bushido3374** · 04-25-2009, 02:19 PM

Sounds kind of immature on her behalf for goading you into reacting and potentially causing a confrontation outside of a bar.

**Immortal Soldier** · 04-25-2009, 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by Jfew44

I hate when guys in cars say shit then drive off. Pathetic.

Or "drive-by" insults, thats a new one. What kind of coward yells out of a passenger window when the car moving down the road?

**WOLFCRAFT** · 04-25-2009, 02:46 PM

If he said it in a friendly manner I would have let it go and kept walking.
Now if he said it being an asshole then I'd probably get pissed and something like "and who the **** are you?" would come out of my mouth before I asked him to apologize or die.

**vpchill** · 04-25-2009, 02:59 PM

Lmaoooo

Apologize or Die Mothaf*@** !!!!!!

**jdog55** · 04-25-2009, 03:06 PM

Your right. I do not think he meant it in a bad way. Her exact words were " why didn't you say something to him, you just didn't say anything. He was behind us in the bar all night staring at us. ....so on and so on.

She is very sensative and needs me to tell her how pretty she is a few times a day. She fishes for the compliments to...like pauses mid conversation until I realize that she wants the compliment. lol

But you know what??? She is a hot latina chick and i love it.

**Immortal Soldier** · 04-25-2009, 03:22 PM

Originally Posted by jdog55

Your right. I do not think he meant it in a bad way. Her exact words were " why didn't you say something to him, you just didn't say anything. He was behind us in the bar all night staring at us. ....so on and so on.

She is very sensative and needs me to tell her how pretty she is a few times a day. She fishes for the compliments to...like pauses mid conversation until I realize that she wants the compliment. lol

But you know what??? She is a hot latina chick and i love it.

WTF!!?!

**WARMachine** · 04-25-2009, 03:30 PM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Would not be bothered at all, i would have smiled and said "yes i am"...

Perfect response! Shows confidence...

**Immortal Soldier** · 04-25-2009, 03:33 PM

Originally Posted by WARMachine

Perfect response! Shows confidence...

Or you could have made it hella akward and be like "Dude your disgusting thats my sister"

**CSAR** · 04-25-2009, 03:35 PM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

Would not be bothered at all, i would have smiled and said "yes i am"...

There ya go. Nuff said.

But the way you handled it was good too.

**CSAR** · 04-25-2009, 03:36 PM

Originally Posted by Immortal Soldier

Or you could have made it hella akward and be like "Dude your disgusting thats my sister"

**Lightsout2184** · 04-25-2009, 04:26 PM

i usually always get crazy when im out drinking and love to fight but in this situation i would have just shrugged it off also. just sucks ur chick felt that way but then again like most women she probably would have said u over reacted if u did something about it