girls are out to cheat on me

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[Matt]

every time i start seeing a new girl i get all worried and feel that they are out to cheat on me. when they decide to stay at home for the night i have a feeling that they are having other guys over or anyother time im not with them are spending it with another dude, and its driving me crazy.

am i just worrying too much or does anyone else feel like this?

If that is you in your avatar, then with such a fvcking stupid hair cut im not supprised...

[kalspic]

eh, no its not. and i was waiting for you to chime in. i know how much you love threads like these.

[DSM4Life]

every time i start seeing a new girl i get all worried and feel that they are out to cheat on me. when they decide to stay at home for the night i have a feeling that they are having other guys over or anyother time im not with them are spending it with another dude, and its driving me crazy.

am i just worrying too much or does anyone else feel like this?

Sounds like you have cheated on women in the past. Karma is a mother f@#$@

[bushido3374]

eh, no its not. and i was waiting for you to chime in. i know how much you love threads like these.

LMAO!!

Mad Matt isn't huge on interpersonal issues, but he adds some flavor to the board.

[romo6]

I struggle with slight depression and low self esteem.

[kalspic]

LMAO!!

Mad Matt isn't huge on interpersonal issues, but he adds some flavor to the board.

indeed he does. I always look forward to his posts, and everyone elses. the list is too long to put names but you know who im talking about.

[amcon]

every time i start seeing a new girl i get all worried and feel that they are out to cheat on me. when they decide to stay at home for the night i have a feeling that they are having other guys over or anyother time im not with them are spending it with another dude, and its driving me crazy.

am i just worrying too much or does anyone else feel like this?

here is what you do:

story - have a friend that saved up enough money to buy this truck he always wanted. he paid cash - a dream truck, 501 motor, z-71 off road package, every opption!!! thing was he was never driving it cause he was so afraid to get it scrached or a ding in the door at the mall or grocery store... we all busted his balls about it. so one day he just started to drive it every where - we were stunned - as we pinned him down on what made the change he showed us a small scratch in the drivers door (not bad at all, very very small) HE SCRACHED HIS OWN TRUCK!!!!

he did that cause i stopped his worrying -

so, here is my advise - take you girl out (dressed soo hott) find a guy and let her do him infront of you (hold the camera for them) when he is done then make him leave and do her...

now you have nothing to worry about you saw it happen, it is done with and she is still with ya and loves ya.

or ... just tell her something is bothering you and ask her to make you feel more secure in you relationship

lol - truck story is try though

[vpchill]

No matter what anyone says we all have insecurities. Some more than others. You just have to learn how to deal with emotion. Dont wear your heart on your sleeve. If she home she home. Grab a beer or go to a bar and meet a girl. Give your lady time to miss you. A woman will always leave if she feels smothered or if she thinks her man is needy.
jmo

[Voland]

ALL women cheat. Those who say "i don't do that!" "i will never do that" do it even more they just lie. I guarantee you the process is the following they cheat, they lie to themselves "nothing has happened, nothing has happened...." until they belive their own lie. Those who don't ist just because they haven't had the opportunity...yet.

That being said. YOU should cheat as much as you can. Its fair game. So go enjoy life. Have your official gf and as much lovers as you can and get at much as you can from them. The sole fact of having a gf wil provide you with more girls. What ever it takes, its fair game. The irony? the more she suspects you cheat the less likely she will cheat. She'll be too busy trying to get your attention.
Its about building your own empire, one that you enjoy. Prepare to be a king and rule.

[Flagg]

Men cheat, women cheat, that's life im afraid.

You know what you should do? Not put all your eggs into one basket. Have a few potential prospects lined up, try and get a few girls numbers. See how that works out. Once you've decided which one you'd rather see on a regular basis then it doesn't really matter what the others do. And then IF you do get cheated on by that person, simply....move on.

[lovbyts]

Who cares? She is you GF or someone you are dating, not your wife or Fiancee, right? What makes her YOURS? Have you talked about being monogamous?

As long as you are having a good time, getting laid regularly have fun, go out, do some other dating yourself.

[briancb1]

every time i start seeing a new girl i get all worried and feel that they are out to cheat on me. when they decide to stay at home for the night i have a feeling that they are having other guys over or anyother time im not with them are spending it with another dude, and its driving me crazy.

am i just worrying too much or does anyone else feel like this?

you and my girlfriend should join a stupid club or something. She annoys the s h i t outta me with that exact same philosophy. Its called, "I like time to myself to"

I personally have the opposite mentality. If shes out there screwing other dudes or maybe something more awesome like getting with other chicks, then she really doesn't like you. unless you're married and have kids and a house payment and crap, people wont screw around and stick around.

What im saying is, if she is cheating, she isn't the one and she'll leave you. Wasn't meant to be so dont worry about it.

[briancb1]

A woman will always leave if she feels smothered or if she thinks her man is needy.
jmo

This is true. Hence why if you treat them like trash they stick around. The process of them "changing you" isn't complete, they feel they still have work to do.

[vpchill]

In the end its ultimately up to you, If you let a woman cheat on you while you hold ya pillow tight and cry for hours then she will continue to use you as a doormat.
Men should not have the same emotions as women. Go get drunk and fondle some dudes girl at the bar, get into a barfight and have the hot waitress put alcohol on your wounds.

[kalspic]

after receiving all the replies i've had peace in mind and havnt really been worring or thinking about it too much. an vp i might have to try that idea too^^^

[RA]

Kill the lying whore. Dont worry, theres plenty more. No one will miss her.

[RA]

Ok, Ill be serious for a minute.

Dont give these chics that much power. Youll waste too much time and energy on it.

[Chitown Raider]

This is true. Hence why if you treat them like trash they stick around. The process of them "changing you" isn't complete, they feel they still have work to do.

This is a very interesting concept. I asked my ex before why women want to change us men. If you think about it, women fall in love with who we are and now it's about turning us into someone else. After a year she gave up on trying to change me and left.

[BigMatt]

I shoulnt Post that....

But whathever In the Past Ive Been that guy you hate... I hoooked up with ALOT of Girls that were in Relationship....

One Girl i remember was going out for 2 YEARS!!! with the guy....

But you know what?

To those guys that did Find out their Girlfriends cheat with me, I made them a Service To Wake the **** up and Rule your own life, a Women is something you enjoy in life, Its not you! Or its not YOUR LIFE.

I even told a guy that her girlfriend cheated with me,the thing that is sad is that he didnt even React, He was like all emotional and stuff, i said wake up dude.

REMEMBER ITS NOT THE GUY FAULT if she cheat with the guy, ITS THE 2 PERSON ITS 50% - 50% , She aggreed to Sleep with him REMEMBER THAT.

She has her own life, even her own ****ed up life.

You need to have a goal as a Man whether it be Your career or Working out, Whathever and do your thing, Women Come and go, But when your on your path you Wont care if you have a girlfriend or what not...


And When your on your PATH, Trust me she will follow like a little puppy dog wherever your going she WILL GO.

Its just something you enjoy and remember theres plenty of fish in the sea...

[eatrainrest]

i was like that with my past relationship.... but it was ME doing all the cheating.. muahhahaha

[warchild]

women cheat men cheat...just life

[eatrainrest]

women cheat men cheat...just life

i guess??? all i know is relationships suck when your young.. or at least in my case.. becuz i just wnna fcuk every time i see them.. and when i dont i get frustrated

[_CrossroadS_]

Self-fulfilling prophecy...if you sweat her, she'll pick up on it (she probably already has) and treat you accordingly. This isn't healthy, find a new girl. or three.

[eatrainrest]

Self-fulfilling prophecy...if you sweat her, she'll pick up on it (she probably already has) and treat you accordingly. This isn't healthy, find a new girl. or three.

never sweat a girl otherwise they hop in the driver seat.. always have them being skeptical "does he really love me" and theyll love you 100x more because they have to earn something in their heads.. once you give in and become mushy.. they dont want that..only sometimes

[eatrainrest]

[wanabeMASSIVE!]

Do what i do, cheat on them first! Does wonders fo insecurity!

[scerpico22]

you could call this douche bag!

[Hazard]

David Deangelo talks about this, its because right now in the relationship SHE has more VALUE than you. What that means is that YOU want her more than SHE wants you.

You think that if you aren't always at her place or with her she is banging a guy or participating in a gang bang. That shows a multiple amount of things, first of all it shows your insecuirty you dont think your good enough, second it shows you arent the dominant one in the relationship (not dominant in the manly sense, but dominant in VAULE).

Here's the problem with this if you let it get to you she will leave you. Let me explain why:

Girls don't like pussies they don't like guys who get all jealous and throw a hissy fit (dont confuse this with the fact that a certain times they dont want there guy to stake their claim) but someone who is needy and at her beck and call turns girls off.

For example, if you are in a bar and you go to the bathroom and come back and see two dudes hitting on your girlfriend and she is giggly like a schoolgirl what would most guys do?

They would get all self-denfensive, some would be aggressive and tell the guys to back off others will be rather quiet and nervous around her which shows her you are threatened by them and you think they could win her off. This is a big turn off to woman they think you are a wussy and it makes them like you EVEN LESS.

So what do you? You play it cool, you go up and just joke around and poke fun at how she cant guys away, if you show you are not threatened that shows to her you are in control and confident.

Also you have to build VALUE, make her be the one who wants to spend every minute with you and get jealous. Make her WANT you more than you want her, aka make her chase you, girls love the chase. Once they know they "got" the guy and have them wrapped around their finger they get bored rather quickly (this especially applies to 9's and 10's) so you always have to keep the game going unless you want marriage.

Solid advice IS...... He needs to display Higher value to her......

How close are you with her.... how long have you been seeing her? When i first meet someone i make the conversation interesting but try to keep it short and then tell her i have to go. This is showing her that i have something more important than her to do right now...... then i hold my phone at her heart level and hand it to her and say "Put your number in my phone and i'll give you a call" - you don't ever give her the option to say no..... you put it close to her heart which subconsciously signals to her that your OK to talk to..... then don't give her the option to say no to giving you her number.

Now your obviously past that point.... but you still need toact "dominant" like that. Don't call her..... let her call YOU. If she asks why you havn't calle din 2 or 3 days...... tell her a story that displays high value. Maybe something like this "Oh i've been sooo busy with work..... we just started this new project and they can't start without me. I've been working hard for the past few days getting this thing off the ground..... etc" - it doesn't have to that EXACTLY but tailor it to fit YOU!

Next...... let her ask you out instead of you calling her and asking her to go out to a bar or a movie or dinner.... w/e. When she asks "hey, do you wanna go out to dinner saturday night?" - tell her NO! Don't be an ass..... just tell her you'dlike to but you have to decline because your busy that night - then change the subject. Let her chew on that all night..... then the next day call her and say "hey..... i know im busy saturday night but how bout we get together on sunday?"


I suggest you buy a pick-up artist book..... it's not JUST for picking up women...... but it will help get you the upper hand..... make you the desirable man that you WANT and SHOULD be. Remember..... YOU ARE the prize....... she needs to know that.

~Haz~

[wanabeMASSIVE!]

you could call this douche bag!

loll.. i fvking hate that guy!

[gixxerboy1]

Solid advice IS...... He needs to display Higher value to her......

How close are you with her.... how long have you been seeing her? When i first meet someone i make the conversation interesting but try to keep it short and then tell her i have to go. This is showing her that i have something more important than her to do right now...... then i hold my phone at her heart level and hand it to her and say "Put your number in my phone and i'll give you a call" - you don't ever give her the option to say no..... you put it close to her heart which subconsciously signals to her that your OK to talk to..... then don't give her the option to say no to giving you her number.

Now your obviously past that point.... but you still need toact "dominant" like that. Don't call her..... let her call YOU. If she asks why you havn't calle din 2 or 3 days...... tell her a story that displays high value. Maybe something like this "Oh i've been sooo busy with work..... we just started this new project and they can't start without me. I've been working hard for the past few days getting this thing off the ground..... etc" - it doesn't have to that EXACTLY but tailor it to fit YOU!

Next...... let her ask you out instead of you calling her and asking her to go out to a bar or a movie or dinner.... w/e. When she asks "hey, do you wanna go out to dinner saturday night?" - tell her NO! Don't be an ass..... just tell her you'dlike to but you have to decline because your busy that night - then change the subject. Let her chew on that all night..... then the next day call her and say "hey..... i know im busy saturday night but how bout we get together on sunday?"


I suggest you buy a pick-up artist book..... it's not JUST for picking up women...... but it will help get you the upper hand..... make you the desirable man that you WANT and SHOULD be. Remember..... YOU ARE the prize....... she needs to know that.

~Haz~

I dont know if you are but i noticed most guys that follow that crap imo are mostly single

[chuckt12345]

i been worried about same shite all my life,, just gotta work on insecurity issues but girls these days are really hard to trust.

[chuckt12345]

true test: Girl you been seein for a year or so want to go to vegas for bacholerette party,, do you let her go?

[kalspic]

yea this generation is good at getting laid not really good in the relationship department.

[Hazard]

I dont know if you are but i noticed most guys that follow that crap imo are mostly single

Nope..... married LOL. I don't cheat - but when i was single i pulled so much ass LOL...... PUA tactics do work. I used to think that stuff was lame until i read up on it..... some people think it's wrong because your pretty much "manipulating" their mind. If your good at it..... it's almsot not fair. Going out to the bar and finding a women to bring home is like shooting fish in a barrel.....

~Haz~

[Flagg]

Solid advice IS...... He needs to display Higher value to her......

How close are you with her.... how long have you been seeing her? When i first meet someone i make the conversation interesting but try to keep it short and then tell her i have to go. This is showing her that i have something more important than her to do right now...... then i hold my phone at her heart level and hand it to her and say "Put your number in my phone and i'll give you a call" - you don't ever give her the option to say no..... you put it close to her heart which subconsciously signals to her that your OK to talk to..... then don't give her the option to say no to giving you her number.

Now your obviously past that point.... but you still need toact "dominant" like that. Don't call her..... let her call YOU. If she asks why you havn't calle din 2 or 3 days...... tell her a story that displays high value. Maybe something like this "Oh i've been sooo busy with work..... we just started this new project and they can't start without me. I've been working hard for the past few days getting this thing off the ground..... etc" - it doesn't have to that EXACTLY but tailor it to fit YOU!

Next...... let her ask you out instead of you calling her and asking her to go out to a bar or a movie or dinner.... w/e. When she asks "hey, do you wanna go out to dinner saturday night?" - tell her NO! Don't be an ass..... just tell her you'dlike to but you have to decline because your busy that night - then change the subject. Let her chew on that all night..... then the next day call her and say "hey..... i know im busy saturday night but how bout we get together on sunday?"


I suggest you buy a pick-up artist book..... it's not JUST for picking up women...... but it will help get you the upper hand..... make you the desirable man that you WANT and SHOULD be. Remember..... YOU ARE the prize....... she needs to know that.

~Haz~

Someones read Neil Strauss' The Game. Its a good book and there is stuff in there that works, the only problem I have with The Game is that a lot of it seems to be about conning, manipulation and a play of words. But there is stuff to be said for not making yourself available to her 24/7. Light negging is good, but there's a difference between light negging and being rude.

Confidence is the key to any girl. Be confident but not intimidating and just have fun. If she shoots you down, so be it. Its not the end of the world.

[warchild]

Solid advice IS...... He needs to display Higher value to her......

How close are you with her.... how long have you been seeing her? When i first meet someone i make the conversation interesting but try to keep it short and then tell her i have to go. This is showing her that i have something more important than her to do right now...... then i hold my phone at her heart level and hand it to her and say "Put your number in my phone and i'll give you a call" - you don't ever give her the option to say no..... you put it close to her heart which subconsciously signals to her that your OK to talk to..... then don't give her the option to say no to giving you her number.

Now your obviously past that point.... but you still need toact "dominant" like that. Don't call her..... let her call YOU. If she asks why you havn't calle din 2 or 3 days...... tell her a story that displays high value. Maybe something like this "Oh i've been sooo busy with work..... we just started this new project and they can't start without me. I've been working hard for the past few days getting this thing off the ground..... etc" - it doesn't have to that EXACTLY but tailor it to fit YOU!

Next...... let her ask you out instead of you calling her and asking her to go out to a bar or a movie or dinner.... w/e. When she asks "hey, do you wanna go out to dinner saturday night?" - tell her NO! Don't be an ass..... just tell her you'dlike to but you have to decline because your busy that night - then change the subject. Let her chew on that all night..... then the next day call her and say "hey..... i know im busy saturday night but how bout we get together on sunday?"


I suggest you buy a pick-up artist book..... it's not JUST for picking up women...... but it will help get you the upper hand..... make you the desirable man that you WANT and SHOULD be. Remember..... YOU ARE the prize....... she needs to know that.

~Haz~

a buddy of mine was all excited cus he read the pick-up artists book and meet some chick from hooters...now his dumbass got her pregno