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  1. 06-17-2009, 02:48 PM #1
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    Is cheating ever deserved?

    Cheating isn't right, but neither is emotional abuse and neglect. The bottom line is: If you push someone enough, it shouldn't be any surprise when you push him into the arms of someone else.
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    IF you are pushed that far, then you should first realize the relationship is OVER and end it before you start something else.
    IF you are gonna stay, then you BOTH need to fix it or BOTH need to end it........

    Cheating is just a quick physical fix for a much bigger problem....
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    The bottom line is: you shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place. Quit playing games and be a man.
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    nope, break it off before you start something else.
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    is this a diet question? I had Arby's for lunch......am I okay, or not?
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    Quote Originally Posted by -Ender- View Post
    is this a diet question? I had Arby's for lunch......am I okay, or not?
    As long as Wendy's doesn't find out, you are fine!
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    Quote Originally Posted by -Ender- View Post
    is this a diet question? I had Arby's for lunch......am I okay, or not?
    im fkn sick and tired of my diet,, im seriously thnkn about papa johns tonight.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chuckt12345 View Post
    im fkn sick and tired of my diet,, im seriously thnkn about papa johns tonight.

    Don't do it. My diet was screwed first thing this morning and I didn't have anything to eat until I passed that Arby's at 2pm. I was hungry and still in a hurry. and I figured out of all the fast food crap out there: a huge serving of roast beef was the least evil.

    and I still feel bad about it.
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    and never cheat on your significant other. period.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Chode Logan View Post
    What if you don't get caught!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!!?
    do what you want until you get caught
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    End the current relationship before starting the new one.
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    I see a lot of nope, but I have and I felt like shit for it and will never do it again...my next wife will be bought over the internet.....
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    heres the deal man if you treat your girl like shit we will go to a guy that will treat her better or so she thinks. When i was younger i never turned down a chance to hook up with a chick. If that is going to be your strategy just remeber "lie till you die" and if she think she knows you cheated on her just tell her, "i dont want to be in a relationship with someone that doesnt trust me" lol works everytime. I got over that now maybe because i am a little older but i would say until our early 20s i think that is a good strat unless you are looking to get married.

    Imo, when i get married i dont want to be thinking "well i want to sleep with that asain chick becuase i have never slept with one or i wonder how it would be like" or i want to do this blonde this red head this brunettte. i have boned enough 4,5,6,7 to know that i am not missing out on anything being with the girl i am with rite now lol.
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    Chicks just love it when you cheat on them...
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    Done it once in a relationship that was going nowhere just to see what I'm capable of, what the fuss is about, how I would feel, etc.

    Felt like crap, sex wasn't even as good as with the GF, and realized I'm just fine never doing that again.

    I'm sure you could make an argument for just about anything in this world. Me personally, if I'm ready to go down that road, I'll just dump her. No drama, no sense in hurting her, and IF, by some chance you want to date her again, you can do so knowing you didn't do anything wrong while you were together.
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    If you care about the chick dont do it... Or at least dont get caught! lol


    Now if she cheats on you.... Its over!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Iron_Pig View Post
    Cheating isn't right, but neither is emotional abuse and neglect. The bottom line is: If you push someone enough, it shouldn't be any surprise when you push him into the arms of someone else.

    personal experience talking here.. you cannot justify your actions.. end it with her, even with kids..

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    Quote Originally Posted by xlxBigSexyxlx View Post
    wow! perfect evidence for a constructive conclusion. lol
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    CHeating is never about the spouse, it is always about the cheater. Integrity is from within grasshoppa....
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    can she convince you to cheat?

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    cheat with me... will you?

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    i dont cheat on either of my girlfriends lol...im an asshole.
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    yes it can push you to another person... but, it never solves the problem.

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    yes...But not like i think you meant when you made this thread. I think all cheaters deserve to be with other cheaters. So you can all f*ck each other over and leave the rest of us with souls and morals alone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by scottythebody View Post
    Two wrongs don't make a right
    No they do not. But they do make you feel better...lol

    Quote Originally Posted by higherdesire View Post
    CHeating is never about the spouse, it is always about the cheater. Integrity is from within grasshoppa....
    So true, so true


    If you do F around the relationship is pretty much over anyway... hell I dont know what to really say, why I found out my ex F around I kicked her out, then I let her know I was F around and send her pics.

    So its about getting even there are so many ways...

    If its about just sleeping around, I have no idea what to say... the maturity is not there for a relationship in the first place.

    Oh karma oh nasty little karma...
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