He Man Women Haters Association

**higherdesire** · 07-31-2009, 08:32 PM

Fist things first, if you know what song that is you are a winner in my book, and I know how important that is to most of you...

Now for my question:

WTF is it with women that once you get into a committed relationship, they change to where they want you to do more and more of the things they used to do when you first got together, and it is never ever enough?

First its the dishes. Then its dinner and the dishes. then it is dinner the dishes, and tuck the kids in. then it is dinner , dishes, tuck the kids in, get the kids up. the it is all that plus get them to school. Oh and can you start picking them up because I am so ****ing busy? Really? Doing what?

Is it just me or is the relationship code between friend much different than it is between spouses? Please know I am quite serious about getting to the bottom of this!!

**higherdesire** · 07-31-2009, 08:37 PM

**Hoggage_54** · 07-31-2009, 08:59 PM

What's the deal with some girls calling French Fries, "chips"???

**spywizard** · 07-31-2009, 09:16 PM

what's up with her demanding you finish her with your mouth, but won't hardly touch your penis..

I mean, that's what i hear all the time..

Ya'll know my stance.. if she don't go.. I don't go.. and if she won't, someone else will.. someone younger, thinner and prettier..

**higherdesire** · 07-31-2009, 09:20 PM

5 and a half years and i have gotten 5 minutes tops of oral. I am dead serious. I on the other hand have been quite generous in that area. No anal. Don't get me wrong the sex is good, but I am just saying man, give a brother a break. Do something. I have a maid, the old lady doesn't cook. She does do the laundry. THAT IS IT! period.

**higherdesire** · 07-31-2009, 09:20 PM

Poppi is about to get his move on.

***T-MOS*** · 07-31-2009, 11:15 PM

**higherdesire** · 08-01-2009, 09:57 AM

winner winner chicken dinner, well almost, who put it in thier song? Superman?

**gigabitbucket** · 08-01-2009, 10:22 AM

Thats it let it all out on this thread, then go kiss your girl on the forehead.
Tell her that you LOVE her and remember;

In a divorce she will get 1/2 of everything and more!!
Child support , spousal support , could go on for years!!!!!!!!!!!

Have a nice day! I just got done paying my wife, took me 13 years to do it! YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I should have kissed her on the forehead,

**higherdesire** · 08-01-2009, 12:56 PM

I am only in a relationship not legally married. I have maintained seperate finances from the begining. However when I was married I took everything including my duaghter whoe I have full custody of and recieve child support for. It is BTW deposited directly into her college fund each month. A bitch can't have all the fun.

**zimmy** · 08-01-2009, 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

Fist things first, if you know what song that is you are a winner in my book, and I know how important that is to most of you...

Now for my question:

WTF is it with women that once you get into a committed relationship, they change to where they want you to do more and more of the things they used to do when you first got together, and it is never ever enough?

First its the dishes. Then its dinner and the dishes. then it is dinner the dishes, and tuck the kids in. then it is dinner , dishes, tuck the kids in, get the kids up. the it is all that plus get them to school. Oh and can you start picking them up because I am so ****ing busy? Really? Doing what?

Is it just me or is the relationship code between friend much different than it is between spouses? Please know I am quite serious about getting to the bottom of this!!

lol i guess i messed up cus i've been doing those thing ssince day 1 :P

and cleaning and laundry

but she does things for me sexually I could never have imagined :P

**Dancer** · 08-01-2009, 03:03 PM

Wasnt there a Chris Rock stand up about all this years ago?

**ni4ni** · 08-01-2009, 03:27 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

5 and a half years and i have gotten 5 minutes tops of oral.

HD, 5 min of oral in 5yrs? REALLY, poor guy. I've got your fix:
DSM WHERE ARE YOU

**higherdesire** · 08-01-2009, 04:58 PM

ni4ni, dont start no shit wont be no shit. LOL. I have a a very narrow view of those things. Great tolerance though.

Pappi is checking out of this one. i am buying a ranch nest week and moving out there with just me and my daughter.

**lovbyts** · 08-01-2009, 08:05 PM

Do you guys really let your women treat you like that? Wow. I would get divorced in a hear beat for far less and I'm serious. Both my wifes (now deceased) use to give me head 4+ x a week and I got sex whenever I wanted and more

I helped with everything but I was NEVER told to or at least when they did TRY to start to make demands it came to an immediate stop.

Women are like kids, they want to test their boundaries and the more you let them run the further they will go. You have to put a stop to the foolishness NOW.

**CMonkey** · 08-01-2009, 08:32 PM

I would get a move on too. The band was Extreme.

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 04:06 AM

Originally Posted by CMonkey

I would get a move on too. The band was Extreme.

Wrong. It was REO Speedwagon, at the begining of the spanky was talking to alfalfa about darla. She doesn't like the tough guys was the song.

BUY, we did establish dialogue last night that I am ready to seperate. Now let's see how today goes. I am making the break.

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 07:51 AM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

ni4ni, dont start no shit wont be no shit. LOL. I have a a very narrow view of those things. Great tolerance though.

Pappi is checking out of this one. i am buying a ranch nest week and moving out there with just me and my daughter.

do you really think id start shit....ummm? lmao

So you've decided to pack it up and move? Does she know yet?

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 08:39 AM

we talked last night. awkward getting ready for church this morning. we need further talks. i am leaving her the house and everything in it. There is about 175k in equity in the house. A lot is yet to be done and said and seen. It isn;t easy by any means. I care and love her but don't want to spend my life with her based off of the fact that I don't think we will ever be that unit that is one flesh. We really don't know each other that well after almost 6 years. I am not her knight either so it is not just me, although she will take this much harder than I. I really hate it.

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 09:00 AM

it does suck bro- ive been in and out several times only finding myself being stuck w/ another female that has more issues or baggage.
good luck my friend!!

**CMonkey** · 08-02-2009, 09:08 AM

I believe you are doing the right thing. I, myself, would not give her the house, but it is not my decision.

You are correct about REO Speedwagon, however I think that I deserve partial credit. Extreme had a song named Heman Woman Hater on their album Pornograffiti.

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 11:53 AM

k C you get a partial! I am cool on the house. i will redo things my way.

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 11:55 AM

back from church?
Hope you said a prayer for the rest of us

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 11:59 AM

picture of the house

edited pic out

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 12:00 PM

NO comments about the gold mercedes in the driveway either!!

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 12:02 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

NO comments about the gold mercedes in the driveway either!!

ever get it fixed?
btw, nice crib

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 12:05 PM

Insurance totaled it. Bad deal. I was upside down according to the value. Now I have to ahve my attorney get involved and send demand letters to Lowes, the lady, and her insurance co. Oh the the roads we must travel!

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 12:13 PM

sorry to hear bro.
attorney's, i can't stand those fvckers.
so your just gonna pack up and leave that nice home huh?

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 12:15 PM

yes. Is is close to being paid off so good luck to her with it. I wish her no ill will. There are lovely parting gifts on this show.

**CBGB** · 08-02-2009, 12:32 PM

I am very sorry to hear about this brother. Even if it's for the best, it's still a tough road. You have a clear head on your shoulders, and I have no doubt that you are doing the right thing. Keep your chin up.

Let me know if you need help moving, I'll hike down and give you a hand. Or you can just go to Lowes, and pick up some help there....lol

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 12:43 PM

Originally Posted by CBGB

you can just go to Lowes, and pick up some help there....lol

ain't that the truth...experienced that on saturday

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 01:58 PM

Originally Posted by CBGB

I am very sorry to hear about this brother. Even if it's for the best, it's still a tough road. You have a clear head on your shoulders, and I have no doubt that you are doing the right thing. Keep your chin up.

Let me know if you need help moving, I'll hike down and give you a hand. Or you can just go to Lowes, and pick up some help there....lol

Yous guys! That right there is funny shiite. I will not be taking anything at all with me axcept mine and my duaghters clothes and personal items. SHe can have it all, she will need it and can't replace it as readily as I can.

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 01:59 PM

Originally Posted by CBGB

I am very sorry to hear about this brother. Even if it's for the best, it's still a tough road. You have a clear head on your shoulders, and I have no doubt that you are doing the right thing. Keep your chin up.

Let me know if you need help moving, I'll hike down and give you a hand. Or you can just go to Lowes, and pick up some help there....lol

Originally Posted by ni4ni

ain't that the truth...experienced that on saturday

I think that went by you ni, my car just got smashed at lowes, it was a dig by the jackass cb! lol

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 02:11 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

I think that went by you ni, my car just got smashed at lowes, it was a dig by the jackass cb! lol

oopps, lmao. I remember that now that you mentioned it.
MY B...HD!!

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 02:25 PM

How funny, we are all goign to start spelling "bad" "bHD" now huh? lmfao

**ni4ni** · 08-02-2009, 02:32 PM

hell yeah, and ill be thinking of you each and everytime I spell.

**CMonkey** · 08-02-2009, 04:01 PM

You are a standup guy for leaving her set up in a house like that. Hope all works out for ya.

Thanks for the partial.

**CBGB** · 08-02-2009, 06:47 PM

Company, always on the run
Destiny, oooh, and the rising sun
I was born, six gun in my hand
Behind the gun, I make my final stand
That's why they call me

Bhd company
Oh, I can't deny
Bhd, Bhd company
Till the day I die......................

AAAAAAHHHHHHHHhahahahahahahahaha

**higherdesire** · 08-02-2009, 07:21 PM

Bhd company and I can;t deny eye eye eye
all these towns they all seem the same
six gun sound is my claim to fame

ahhh the kareoke fam I get from that one! What can I say I am bhhhhhd

**TITANIUM** · 08-02-2009, 09:59 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

Fist things first, if you know what song that is you are a winner in my book, and I know how important that is to most of you...

Now for my question:

WTF is it with women that once you get into a committed relationship, they change to where they want you to do more and more of the things they used to do when you first got together, and it is never ever enough?

First its the dishes. Then its dinner and the dishes. then it is dinner the dishes, and tuck the kids in. then it is dinner , dishes, tuck the kids in, get the kids up. the it is all that plus get them to school. Oh and can you start picking them up because I am so ****ing busy? Really? Doing what?

Is it just me or is the relationship code between friend much different than it is between spouses? Please know I am quite serious about getting to the bottom of this!!

Sounds like my current relationship.Been married twice.I have kids from my first marriage.A daughter, 16, and a son 14.
Bro, you know the answer to this question you poised.

Your doing the right thing.Part as friends.And walk away.
Your new house is beautiful, by the way.

I have 4 more years of child support.It's a F'D-up situation.That's why I don't have alot of cash.But I due it because that is my responsibility.I don't have any probs with that.

Good luck.Your a really smart guy, and I respect what you have to say.Solid information and advice.

What kind of car are you getting?