v card, and I thought I was too old to get one

**Kratos** · 08-20-2009, 10:40 AM

I'm 30, my gf is 24
she told me last night she never had sex with anyone else

I guess she was in love with this guy in college she calls her best friend. Well he had a gf all through college but he cheated on his gf frequently. So anyway they hooked up all the time but she never let him hit it. But she was all about him and went to stay at his house after college, she was ready and willing to have sex, they were in the same bed...he said to her "I'll bang you if you want." I guess those weren't the words she was looking for.

Then she dated a couple other guys in grad school but it never amounted to anything/ she wasn't that into them.

It's kinda good in a way cause now I don't have to picture all the dudes she's thrown her legs in the air for...but it makes the seriousness of our relationship much more clear.

I could tell she was in-experienced in bed or maybe just wasn't very good at sex. But that was kinda a shock to hear when she told me last night.

We started dating on and off around december and seriously since about 3 or 4 months after that. I hit it about a month into dating.

Thoughts?

**energizer bunny** · 08-20-2009, 11:05 AM

mmmmmmmm...how well do you know her...im not saying she is a liar but not having sex for 24 years then giving it up after a month???

**Kratos** · 08-20-2009, 11:15 AM

Originally Posted by energizer bunny

mmmmmmmm...how well do you know her...im not saying she is a liar but not having sex for 24 years then giving it up after a month???

I'm 100% positive she's telling the truth
not that she hasn't done anything sexual with a guy
just she hasn't had penis in vagina

She explained to me in detail how she was hung up on this douche all though college. Now they don't even speak to each other.

She said felt trust with me even from the first date.
No reason for her to make it up, and she didn't really want to tell me. I could tell she wanted to tell me something and I just kept pestering her until she told me what it was.

**energizer bunny** · 08-20-2009, 11:20 AM

ok.....what i think now is........youve hit the jack pot....she definately is not a slut....she obviously loves and trusts you more then any other guy shes met.....so youve got the best pos start for a great relationship......congrats......

and i bet youve banged loads of women in your 30 old years LOL........best of both worlds mate.

**Deltasaurus** · 08-20-2009, 11:22 AM

Originally Posted by energizer bunny

mmmmmmmm...how well do you know her...im not saying she is a liar but not having sex for 24 years then giving it up after a month???

i kinda have to agree with him, and wouldnt you have known the frist time?

like virgins are like. Ouch ouch. stop stop..wait ouch.. and then there teh cherry

**CHAP** · 08-20-2009, 11:24 AM

Thats grreat. You just better keep this girl happy .

**Kratos** · 08-20-2009, 11:51 AM

Originally Posted by A2thej2008

i kinda have to agree with him, and wouldnt you have known the frist time?

like virgins are like. Ouch ouch. stop stop..wait ouch.. and then there teh cherry

dude I'm 100% sure
she wouldn't have any reason to bring it up otherwise

only like 20% of women experience bleeding on their first time
a lot of hymens don't make it until the first time having sex
she's used tampons for years

http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question...2080005AAtVyfM

I don't know about all the ouch ouch stop stuff, but it didn't happen. It in no way has to be painful the first time for any reason. This would be my first virgin as far as I know so I'm no first hand expert. I doubt there are very many such experts out there.

**Deltasaurus** · 08-20-2009, 11:54 AM

i like that Kratos u put down your souce lol good stuff, sounds like u got a legit wife

best of luck

**Kratos** · 08-20-2009, 11:57 AM

Originally Posted by energizer bunny

ok.....what i think now is........youve hit the jack pot....she definately is not a slut....she obviously loves and trusts you more then any other guy shes met.....so youve got the best pos start for a great relationship......congrats......

and i bet youve banged loads of women in your 30 old years LOL........best of both worlds mate.

I've had my share, kinda feel bad about having experience with other girls, but whatever.

I like it honestly, makes me feel like I got more of a catch.

and although she was very inexperienced at first (even though I didn't know quite how inexperienced)...she enjoys the dick with a passion and sex gets better and better and more frequent. We have sex a lot and she loves it.

**Dukkit** · 08-20-2009, 11:57 AM

i believe her. girls dont lie about that

plus from talkin to you since youve met her she seems legit

this is the squirter right?

**Dukkit** · 08-20-2009, 11:59 AM

Originally Posted by Kratos

dude I'm 100% sure
she wouldn't have any reason to bring it up otherwise

only like 20% of women experience bleeding on their first time
a lot of hymens don't make it until the first time having sex
she's used tampons for years

http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question...2080005AAtVyfM

I don't know about all the ouch ouch stop stuff, but it didn't happen. It in no way has to be painful the first time for any reason. This would be my first virgin as far as I know so I'm no first hand expert. I doubt there are very many such experts out there.

ive been able to take a few V cards
only a couple of them bled
none really made them hurt. other then usual soreness from doing something theyve never done before

so your reasoning is sound

**Dukkit** · 08-20-2009, 12:00 PM

but let me tell you

if you guys ever break up

oh boy, your in for a world of shit

girls take that V card and throw it in your face

and use it as a means to get what they want

also they automatically get attached for life. lol

trust me. it can get ugly

**Juturna** · 08-20-2009, 12:48 PM

That V-Card is only as good as Day 1. Who here doesn't like virgin p u s s y? Well, DSM maybe... But still - after you hit it - your as good as dead for about 5 months post-break up.

She'll be sleeping in her car outside your house, sewing voodoo dolls, sending flowers to your work... Oh god. The list goes on.

^ Not from personal experience or anything.

**Kratos** · 08-20-2009, 12:53 PM

^well, for now I love her though, and if our relationship lasts, maybe that will make it stronger?^

**Hazard** · 08-20-2009, 01:07 PM

congrats krato's! Sounds like a keeper to me..... i've also snatched a few v-cards. A couple of them bled..... none hurt tho.

If dukki is right about this one being a squirter..... i'm a bit jealous LOL. Ihad one of them once..... that was a lot of fun LOL.

~Haz~

**DSM4Life** · 08-20-2009, 04:52 PM

You want my V card ?

**strength_addict14** · 08-20-2009, 05:03 PM

Hold on to her... doubt you will find another one.

**Bryan2** · 08-20-2009, 07:43 PM

Ive never been with a serious squirter, more of a leaker

Trust me they suck ass!!! your bed gets Fed up every dam time

**DSM4Life** · 08-20-2009, 07:49 PM

Originally Posted by Bryan2

Ive never been with a serious squirter, more of a leaker

Trust me they suck ass!!! your bed gets Fed up every dam time

Yup. Might be one of those things that sound cool and first but quickly turns into a hassle.

"Honeyyy, where did you put your plastic sheets ?"

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