tough situation

[number twelve]

would appreciate some input here. for starters im not gonna personally get involved, its more about advising my girl on what to do.

in as few words possible...Basically, her roommate is this really sweet innocent girl, she has been dating this guy for 5 years, he has cheated on her in the past, he even had another girl friend for a year at the same time. im pretty sure he is still cheating on her regularly. normally, i would think this is all kinda hilarious but i find myself feeling pretty bad for her since i have gotten to know her and see how she is in such denial about everything, and im not really friends with the guy. my girl has always been there for her friend but she always took a passive approach when dealing with her roommate and her boyfriend, and just supported her no matter what. the plot has thickened in that she is planning on transferring schools just to be closer to him and is gonna be jeopardizing her whole future. he definitely doesn't want this to happen, im not doubting that he cares about her but he definitely likes having his shenanigans. its very obvious to an outsider that this decisions is a mistake but as you all know its impossible to speak rationally to someone when their own heart is involved.

what should my girl do? i have told her she is in a tough spot cause if her friend doesn't wanna believe it, she is going to resent my girl for saying anything...on the other hand, how can she stand by and let her best friend make a huge mistake?


thanks

[stack_it]

All your girl can do is sit back and let her roomie live and learn. Sounds like your gf has already tried and her friend won't listen. Girls like that could see it with their own eyes and still not believe it.

[lovbyts]

I think some people need intervention and a heads up even if they already know sometimes it helps hearing it from someone else and may save her future. Doing nothing is not a good idea. What you you want someone to do?

[number twelve]

I think some people need intervention and a heads up even if they already know sometimes it helps hearing it from someone else and may save her future. Doing nothing is not a good idea. What you you want someone to do?

if it was me i would want someone to tell me, but if i was being delusional then i might take out my anger on the person trying to help.

i agree something needs to be done. i just dont know what...i cant see just flat out saying to her "yo wake up your bf if clearly cheating on you" working

[elpropiotorvic]

Live and let live

[chuckt12345]

best friend or rooomate? if shes her best friend wtf hasnt she tole her yet,, if shes just a roomate,, who cares.

[Kratos]

you should stay out, tell your girl just to do what ever she feels is right

women create enough drama without encouragement, she'll stick her beak in, don't you worry

women have a way of sucking you into the votex also

[number twelve]

you should stay out, tell your girl just to do what ever she feels is right

women create enough drama without encouragement, she'll stick her beak in, don't you worry

women have a way of sucking you into the votex also

haha true yeah im trying to stay out of it.

[NC600cbr]

Have a threesome with them Both.

[number twelve]

Have a threesome with them Both.

that would definitely solve a lot of problems