Anyone here good with law? (english)

**MaNiCC** · 12-06-2009, 12:59 PM

This girl i know getting loads of abuse of her ex, he's threatening her and so is his step mum, girl was with him for six years and has a baby with him which makes it more complicated, she called cops for an injunction but they said they cant do anything until he does something, fvkin pathetic, any ideas on what to do?

Any help appreciated,

MaNiCC

**drdeath613** · 12-06-2009, 01:18 PM

get a ppo on him u can get a ppo on just about anyone u dont have to wait for the other person to harm u sounds like they just dont wanna do there paper work

**marcus300** · 12-06-2009, 01:20 PM

Tell her to ring the police and say he as threatened to kill her, its an offence

**marcus300** · 12-06-2009, 01:22 PM

Originally Posted by drdeath613

get a ppo on him u can get a ppo on just about anyone u dont have to wait for the other person to harm u sounds like they just dont wanna do there paper work

In the UK a PPO is potential prolific offender,,,,what do you mean by PPO?

**drdeath613** · 12-06-2009, 01:26 PM

if she needs proof have a friend punch her in the eye and then go do it yea its a lie but females shouldnt need to prove to them there mate or ex mates are trying to harm them

but nothing shocks me anymore seeing how there are so many reports on ex being killed by crazy ex boyfriends and cops did nothing to stop it just cause she didnt have proof

**drdeath613** · 12-06-2009, 01:27 PM

lol its police protection order here i guess its differnt depend where u live never knew that thanks

**MaNiCC** · 12-06-2009, 01:32 PM

Originally Posted by marcus300

Tell her to ring the police and say he as threatened to kill her, its an offence

Interesting

any others?

**marcus300** · 12-06-2009, 01:33 PM

Originally Posted by drdeath613

lol its police protection order here i guess its differnt depend where u live never knew that thanks

Thats a restraining order here...

**drdeath613** · 12-06-2009, 01:35 PM

In 1991, the Legislature found and declared that domestic violence is a serious crime against society. It found that thousands of persons in this State were regularly beaten, tortured and in some cases killed by their spouses or cohabitants; that a significant number of women were assaulted while pregnant; that victims of domestic violence came from all social and economic backgrounds; that there is a positive correlation between spousal abuse and child abuse and, that children, even if they are not themselves physically assaulted, suffer deep and lasting emotional effects from exposure to domestic violence. The Legislature further found that some of its most vulnerable citizens, the elderly and disabled, are victims of domestic violence as well.

The Legislature also found that although many of the existing criminal statutes were applicable to acts of domestic violence, societal attitudes concerning domestic violence have affected the response of the law enforcement and judicial systems resulting that these acts received different treatment from similar crimes when they occur in a domestic violence context. The Legislature additionally identified the training needs of police and judicial personnel in the procedure and enforcement of this act.

The New Jersey Domestic Violence Act provides for two forms of relief to a victim of domestic violence: Civil relief, which is in the form of obtaining a restraining order, and criminal relief, which allows a victim to file criminal complaints against the batterer.

The Judiciary of New Jersey continues to be committed to responding to the needs of victims of domestic violence and their families and continues to make strides in effectuating the legislative mandates as set forth in the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act. This Website identifies current process and procedure.

**marcus300** · 12-06-2009, 01:35 PM

Originally Posted by MaNiCC

Interesting

any others?

She doesnt need any others, next time he rings her, ring the police straight away and say he as just threantened to kill her, the police should arrest him and then you should have some evidence to get a restraining order, just make sure someone else is there at the time of the call or better still listening to the phone call, 2 statements are better than one!

**drdeath613** · 12-06-2009, 01:41 PM

you should check your laws where she is to find out what can be done if her state says as it dose above u can get a ppo without proof

id never doing anything over the phone when it comes to cops go there and if there refuse and turn u away ask for the person in charge as this is a pasted law stating they have to help

**marcus300** · 12-06-2009, 01:51 PM

You in the UK or States?

**MaNiCC** · 12-06-2009, 01:58 PM

(the English)

in brackets gives it away marcus son

**marcus300** · 12-06-2009, 02:00 PM

Originally Posted by MaNiCC

(the English)

in brackets gives it away marcus son

You mean the UK, not the English

**marcus300** · 12-06-2009, 02:17 PM

You can also go for a civil injunction, this will help http://www.womensaid.org.uk/domestic...08000100330002

**lovbyts** · 12-06-2009, 10:47 PM

Agreed, go to the police to have it done, not over the phone. If anyone starts to tell you that you need to wait until??? or anything ask for their name, badge number and name of supervisor in a nice polite way. Watch them go get the papers to get things started....

**MaNiCC** · 12-07-2009, 04:26 PM

Originally Posted by marcus300

You in the UK or States?

says english in the title smart arse

**marcus300** · 12-07-2009, 04:29 PM

Originally Posted by MaNiCC

says english in the title smart arse

what does english mean dumbo?

you mean the UK, english isnt a place

jeez thats why i asked

**MaNiCC** · 12-07-2009, 04:34 PM

i ment english law surly even you can work that out lol

**marcus300** · 12-07-2009, 04:37 PM

I asked you were you came from UK or the states, you said english!!

I can see your girlfriend as a wise one with you advicing her, best of luck, good job your from english lol

never mind tut

**Nooomoto** · 12-07-2009, 05:11 PM

Tell her to buy a gun and have her take classes on how to use it, if the police won't protect her, she needs to protect herself.

A couple slugs to the chest will get her point across to the guy.

**MaNiCC** · 12-07-2009, 05:14 PM

Originally Posted by marcus300

I asked you were you came from UK or the states, you said english!!

I can see your girlfriend as a wise one with you advicing her, best of luck, good job your from english lol

never mind tut

I miss read my bad

just to let you know nobody likes a smart arse

**Booz** · 12-07-2009, 05:48 PM

fvck the cops they are useless with this shit..........
fvck it if hes an asshole id get the fvcker to disapeer if you know wat i mean.................

**MaNiCC** · 12-07-2009, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by Booz

fvck the cops they are useless with this shit..........
fvck it if hes an asshole id get the fvcker to disapeer if you know wat i mean.................

i here you man but she got a kid with him, not that i care about him but its still the two year olds dad

**TITANIUM** · 12-07-2009, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by Booz

fvck the cops they are useless with this shit..........
fvck it if hes an asshole id get the fvcker to disapeer if you know wat i mean.................

Tell her to PM me and I'll give her my going rate.

J/K-(or am I?)

Best

T

**TITANIUM** · 12-07-2009, 06:31 PM

In this state, they will give a women a restraining order over the phone,(just call 911, and the cops HAVE to issue an emergency one). Then they will serve him asap. She can also go to the court house and the judge, HAS to issue it. No proof needed.

Now, this is good because it protects the women from potential harm.

It's bad, because if you have a fight or something, she can get your arse in trouble big time.

If you give me the state, I can find out.

But she can find out by calling the on line domestic abuse phone number.(if there is one in her state)

Best

T