Sweep her off her feet... Advice

[solid-d]

Ok, so Im dating/talking to this nice girl. Cute girl that I like and could see myself with her for a long time. Well the 2 of us are hanging out New years eve. Going into town for a show, then prob to a resturant to watch the ball drop.. I still get the butterfly feelings and with a somewhat shy personality, how or what can i do to sweep her off her feet. Any advice, im not too much of a romantic but Im sure I can swing with the punches. She is expecting me to 'wow' her. Any advice. Thanks for the input.

[redz]

Be yourself, have fun dont drink too much. Sounds like you already have a fun night planed. Seriously if you try to hard it shows, just have fun.

[D7M]

Be honest with her about your occupation

[jbm]

Be honest with her about your occupation

agreed! lol...

Good Luck bro!

[ranging1]

Be honest with her about your occupation

lol that to

i always found if your honest with girls ull go great, however dont be completely honest, theirs some things u shouldnt be to open about, e.g u use drugs recreationaly or steroids, not something to bring up

also stories about yourself when you were young always seems to get them giggling, but tell them embaressing ones

if their very talkative it always helps make life easier, just keep asking them questions or telling them your intesested to know something and theyll talk away and keep you from having to say to much

if their shy again i found telling them embarressing or cute stories helps

also dont act like a cheap scate when your out, e.g NEVER say 'naa this place is to expensive' or 'i wouldnt spend that sort of money on that'

unless it obviously overpriced e.g a million dollars lol

obviously compliment her, e.g when u first see her be like 'wow didnt think u could get better looking'

or randomly during the night tell her she reallys looks beautiful

theirs endless lists of what you can do, i sure u can think of your own aswell

their one obvious thing to do though

DRESS NICELY, dont wear track suite pants, dont wear runners, dont wear clothing that makes u look like 50 cent or g-unit lol, shirt with collar, nice set of pants and simple nice dress shoes

and for gods sake dont wear pants that are to short

or black shoes with white socks

or worse both of them together lol

obviously ur going to drink alcohol, just make sure u dont get more smashed then what she is, coz ull just look like an idiot

also when u start drinking best advice is wear something light, dont wear a heavy jacket becuase ur gonna ebd up sweating everywhere and most people dont like seeing a sweating drunk man

chuck on some anti persperant if your overally concerned

dont forget the after shave, every women loves a good smelling man

BEST OF LUCK, but dw its new years so ull do fine

[Friend]

Tell her you are a marine.

[DSM4Life]

Ok, so Im dating/talking to this nice girl. Cute girl that I like and could see myself with her for a long time. Well the 2 of us are hanging out New years eve. Going into town for a show, then prob to a resturant to watch the ball drop.. I still get the butterfly feelings and with a somewhat shy personality, how or what can i do to sweep her off her feet. Any advice, im not too much of a romantic but Im sure I can swing with the punches. She is expecting me to 'wow' her. Any advice. Thanks for the input.

While your having sex with her doggie style, slip it in her balloon knot. That always seems to "wow" the ladies.

[FranciscoG]

Just don´t drop the L word to fast, tiger. LOL

[Mooseman33]

Tell her you are a marine.

beat me to it..

it worked so well for you the first time, give it another shot..........

[Hazard]

lol that to

i always found if your honest with girls ull go great, however dont be completely honest, theirs some things u shouldnt be to open about, e.g u use drugs recreationaly or steroids, not something to bring up

also stories about yourself when you were young always seems to get them giggling, but tell them embaressing ones

if their very talkative it always helps make life easier, just keep asking them questions or telling them your intesested to know something and theyll talk away and keep you from having to say to much

if their shy again i found telling them embarressing or cute stories helps

also dont act like a cheap scate when your out, e.g NEVER say 'naa this place is to expensive' or 'i wouldnt spend that sort of money on that'

unless it obviously overpriced e.g a million dollars lol

obviously compliment her, e.g when u first see her be like 'wow didnt think u could get better looking'

or randomly during the night tell her she reallys looks beautiful

theirs endless lists of what you can do, i sure u can think of your own aswell

their one obvious thing to do though

DRESS NICELY, dont wear track suite pants, dont wear runners, dont wear clothing that makes u look like 50 cent or g-unit lol, shirt with collar, nice set of pants and simple nice dress shoes

and for gods sake dont wear pants that are to short

or black shoes with white socks

or worse both of them together lol

obviously ur going to drink alcohol, just make sure u dont get more smashed then what she is, coz ull just look like an idiot

also when u start drinking best advice is wear something light, dont wear a heavy jacket becuase ur gonna ebd up sweating everywhere and most people dont like seeing a sweating drunk man

chuck on some anti persperant if your overally concerned

dont forget the after shave, every women loves a good smelling man

BEST OF LUCK, but dw its new years so ull do fine

Solid advice..... LOL

If you are going out to dinner..... tip well. If you go out to a bar/club for new years...... order a drink for you and her.... slip the bartender a 20 and tell em to remember you guys - Then tip them well the rest of the night. They'll make her drinks nice and strong..... she'll see you dropping some cash on her - but not toooo much.

I always try and keep the upper hand..... keep control of the conversation..... let her talk, laugh, joke but keep control of where the conversation goes. Be polite, outgoing, and generous...... and as Ranging said..... don't be cheap. She shouldn't be looking for you to be loaded...... but your going to pay for everything. If shes a good girl..... she'll tell you that shes going to buy you a drink. I only say to pay for everything because this is more of a date - you've got her. This doesn't apply to women you JUST met in the bar.....

~Haz~

[dangerous dan]

Be yourself, because if your not its hard work keeping it up weeks later.

Watch your language, smile be polite, dont let her pay unless she absoultly insists on paying for somthing. (after 1st date drop that one).

Lynx bullet ...pocket pulling power ....good luck, if it goes well at the end of the night she waint mind if you tell her you real occupation, her ''why did you lie'' solid d says'' because your fakin gawjus''....jobs a good un

[solid-d]

lol that to

i always found if your honest with girls ull go great, however dont be completely honest, theirs some things u shouldnt be to open about, e.g u use drugs recreationaly or steroids, not something to bring up

also stories about yourself when you were young always seems to get them giggling, but tell them embaressing ones

if their very talkative it always helps make life easier, just keep asking them questions or telling them your intesested to know something and theyll talk away and keep you from having to say to much

if their shy again i found telling them embarressing or cute stories helps

also dont act like a cheap scate when your out, e.g NEVER say 'naa this place is to expensive' or 'i wouldnt spend that sort of money on that'

unless it obviously overpriced e.g a million dollars lol

obviously compliment her, e.g when u first see her be like 'wow didnt think u could get better looking'

or randomly during the night tell her she reallys looks beautiful

theirs endless lists of what you can do, i sure u can think of your own aswell

their one obvious thing to do though

DRESS NICELY, dont wear track suite pants, dont wear runners, dont wear clothing that makes u look like 50 cent or g-unit lol, shirt with collar, nice set of pants and simple nice dress shoes

and for gods sake dont wear pants that are to short

or black shoes with white socks

or worse both of them together lol

obviously ur going to drink alcohol, just make sure u dont get more smashed then what she is, coz ull just look like an idiot

also when u start drinking best advice is wear something light, dont wear a heavy jacket becuase ur gonna ebd up sweating everywhere and most people dont like seeing a sweating drunk man

chuck on some anti persperant if your overally concerned

dont forget the after shave, every women loves a good smelling man

BEST OF LUCK, but dw its new years so ull do fine

Thanks, very good reply...

[solid-d]

beat me to it..

it worked so well for you the first time, give it another shot..........

LOL, yea... I deserved that one...

[ReX357]

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lol that to

i always found if your honest with girls ull go great, however dont be completely honest, theirs some things u shouldnt be to open about, e.g u use drugs recreationaly or steroids, not something to bring up

true.

also stories about yourself when you were young always seems to get them giggling, but tell them embaressing ones

make sure you have the right attitude to pull that off.

if their very talkative it always helps make life easier, just keep asking them questions or telling them your intesested to know something and theyll talk away and keep you from having to say to much

yep.

if their shy again i found telling them embarressing or cute stories helps

don't be too cute and don't embarass yourself too much.

also dont act like a cheap scate when your out, e.g never say 'naa this place is to expensive' or 'i wouldnt spend that sort of money on that'

unless it obviously overpriced e.g a million dollars lol

still doing good here.

obviously compliment her, e.g when u first see her be like 'wow didnt think u could get better looking'

false. Don't you dare ****ing complimenting her. Every other loser does that. Unless you can tell she has low self esteem. And then don't over do it. One compliment at most. Follow it up by something that makes you look confident in yourself. You wanna be in control at all times.

or randomly during the night tell her she reallys looks beautiful

fail. Don't ****ing do that.

theirs endless lists of what you can do, i sure u can think of your own aswell

their one obvious thing to do though

dress nicely, dont wear track suite pants, dont wear runners, dont wear clothing that makes u look like 50 cent or g-unit lol, shirt with collar, nice set of pants and simple nice dress shoes

and for gods sake dont wear pants that are to short

or black shoes with white socks

or worse both of them together lol

all good advice in this part. Feeling like a million bucks will give you the confidence you need to sweep any woman off her feet.

obviously ur going to drink alcohol, just make sure u dont get more smashed then what she is, coz ull just look like an idiot

also when u start drinking best advice is wear something light, dont wear a heavy jacket becuase ur gonna ebd up sweating everywhere and most people dont like seeing a sweating drunk man

chuck on some anti persperant if your overally concerned

dont forget the after shave, every women loves a good smelling man

best of luck, but dw its new years so ull do fine

yep

My extra advice: Make sure you have your million dollar smile on at all times. If you look like you're having a good time and having fun, women want to be with you.

What's the million dollar smile on you ask? Just imagine you had a million dollars in your pockets right now. YEP! THAT smile!

[laduem88]

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My extra advice: Make sure you have your million dollar smile on at all times. If you look like you're having a good time and having fun, women want to be with you.

What's the million dollar smile on you ask? Just imagine you had a million dollars in your pockets right now. YEP! THAT smile!

i like that. good advice!

[dangerous dan]

How it go then Solid??

[solid-d]

It went good. We got along well, the energy was real strong, then not strong, then real strong, then weak again. Few awarkward moments of silence, but lots of laughts. Cant read her energy at all. I mean she seems really interested, but then when with her, she is shy. And I feed off her energy and body lauguage. So if she is super shy, im not making the moves.. I think that, she is not sure if she is 100% interested. Can she pretty much knows I am

[dangerous dan]

Hmmm so mixed , sounds a good night, you think a 2nd date will happen??

I think shy ones are okay, once they come out of there skin once there comftable with you, there usually the best sort.

[solid-d]

oh yea, it wasnt our first date.. We dated before. The question isnt if I will get another date.. The question is if she really wants to be with me. If I ask her out and she says yes, thats one thing, but I dont wanna just be another guy.. I want to be 'that guy' if not, well then im not sure if I can do it..

[dangerous dan]

We seem to be in very similar situations mate, im learning to not fuss over it to much.

Explain that youd want to be that guy....i hate beeting around the bush.

[...aydn...]

worst thing you can do is make out your something your not.. then when she finally realises what your like when use are together and then you end up breaking up and being left heartbroken...
just be urself bro, its not bad to go in a bit nervous etc, it shows you actually care about the situation and she will pick up on that..

if you need to beat around the bush for a bit then do so, this shit takes time.. you are not brad pitt so she doesn't know if she totally digs you just yet. Dont be impatient my friend. good things come in time.

[MayTryIt]

All good advice here. Also the best way is to research the subject. I highly recommend the "Mystery Method" its a pick up book. Its nearly all factual info. Mystery, the name of the guy who wrote the book is a freaky lookin dude...dont judge him. He is a ninja.

[NVR2BIG1]

Dont even bring up "if you two are an issue or not" Treat her like she already is, assume she already is. Anytime you have an idea to go someplace or do something just call her up and put it like this "Hey, I was thinking about going to get some coffee at Starbucks, do you want to go with me?" If she says yes, then dont say "Do you want to meet me there or do you want me to pick you up?" ASSUME your picking her up, TAKE CHARGE, "Cool, I'll be over in 20 minutes k?" You tell her what time you'll be over there, let her tell you if its ok or not. If the answer is no, here is your answer "Oh ok, thats fine, well I'm going to be there in about 30 minutes if you wanna stop out there, I just thought to see what you were doing" This shows that your following through with your plan anyways, if she wants something to do with it then its up to her, BUT YOUR DOING IT ANYWAYS, AND THERE MAY BE OTHER CHICKS, AND SHE BETTER GET HER ASS TO STARBUCKS BEFORE YOU SNAG A DIFFERENT ONE!! If she doesnt show up to Starbucks, she's chomping at the bit to call you the next day, because you almost got away when you went to Starbucks anyways even though she couldn't go. My .02, your welcome in advance

[MayTryIt]

Dont even bring up "if you two are an issue or not" Treat her like she already is, assume she already is. Anytime you have an idea to go someplace or do something just call her up and put it like this "Hey, I was thinking about going to get some coffee at Starbucks, do you want to go with me?" If she says yes, then dont say "Do you want to meet me there or do you want me to pick you up?" ASSUME your picking her up, TAKE CHARGE, "Cool, I'll be over in 20 minutes k?" You tell her what time you'll be over there, let her tell you if its ok or not. If the answer is no, here is your answer "Oh ok, thats fine, well I'm going to be there in about 30 minutes if you wanna stop out there, I just thought to see what you were doing" This shows that your following through with your plan anyways, if she wants something to do with it then its up to her, BUT YOUR DOING IT ANYWAYS, AND THERE MAY BE OTHER CHICKS, AND SHE BETTER GET HER ASS TO STARBUCKS BEFORE YOU SNAG A DIFFERENT ONE!! If she doesnt show up to Starbucks, she's chomping at the bit to call you the next day, because you almost got away when you went to Starbucks anyways even though she couldn't go. My .02, your welcome in advance

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[solid-d]

Dont even bring up "if you two are an issue or not" Treat her like she already is, assume she already is. Anytime you have an idea to go someplace or do something just call her up and put it like this "Hey, I was thinking about going to get some coffee at Starbucks, do you want to go with me?" If she says yes, then dont say "Do you want to meet me there or do you want me to pick you up?" ASSUME your picking her up, TAKE CHARGE, "Cool, I'll be over in 20 minutes k?" You tell her what time you'll be over there, let her tell you if its ok or not. If the answer is no, here is your answer "Oh ok, thats fine, well I'm going to be there in about 30 minutes if you wanna stop out there, I just thought to see what you were doing" This shows that your following through with your plan anyways, if she wants something to do with it then its up to her, BUT YOUR DOING IT ANYWAYS, AND THERE MAY BE OTHER CHICKS, AND SHE BETTER GET HER ASS TO STARBUCKS BEFORE YOU SNAG A DIFFERENT ONE!! If she doesnt show up to Starbucks, she's chomping at the bit to call you the next day, because you almost got away when you went to Starbucks anyways even though she couldn't go. My .02, your welcome in advance

Damn, that was the best post I read in a while that I can actually use in real life... Thanks pal

[Art Vandelay]

lol that to

i always found if your honest with girls ull go great, however dont be completely honest, theirs some things u shouldnt be to open about, e.g u use drugs recreationaly or steroids, not something to bring up

also stories about yourself when you were young always seems to get them giggling, but tell them embaressing ones

if their very talkative it always helps make life easier, just keep asking them questions or telling them your intesested to know something and theyll talk away and keep you from having to say to much

if their shy again i found telling them embarressing or cute stories helps

also dont act like a cheap scate when your out, e.g NEVER say 'naa this place is to expensive' or 'i wouldnt spend that sort of money on that'

unless it obviously overpriced e.g a million dollars lol

obviously compliment her, e.g when u first see her be like 'wow didnt think u could get better looking'

or randomly during the night tell her she reallys looks beautiful

theirs endless lists of what you can do, i sure u can think of your own aswell

their one obvious thing to do though

DRESS NICELY, dont wear track suite pants, dont wear runners, dont wear clothing that makes u look like 50 cent or g-unit lol, shirt with collar, nice set of pants and simple nice dress shoes

and for gods sake dont wear pants that are to short

or black shoes with white socks

or worse both of them together lol

obviously ur going to drink alcohol, just make sure u dont get more smashed then what she is, coz ull just look like an idiot

also when u start drinking best advice is wear something light, dont wear a heavy jacket becuase ur gonna ebd up sweating everywhere and most people dont like seeing a sweating drunk man

chuck on some anti persperant if your overally concerned

dont forget the after shave, every women loves a good smelling man

BEST OF LUCK, but dw its new years so ull do fine

"and for gods sake dont wear pants that are to short"

Damn dude, that made me laugh. All great advice but in context with the whole list it made me picture a pissy ass dad like Lewis Black saying all of it..

Good sh*it

[Art Vandelay]

Solid advice..... LOL

If you are going out to dinner..... tip well. If you go out to a bar/club for new years...... order a drink for you and her.... slip the bartender a 20 and tell em to remember you guys - Then tip them well the rest of the night. They'll make her drinks nice and strong..... she'll see you dropping some cash on her - but not toooo much.

I always try and keep the upper hand..... keep control of the conversation..... let her talk, laugh, joke but keep control of where the conversation goes. Be polite, outgoing, and generous...... and as Ranging said..... don't be cheap. She shouldn't be looking for you to be loaded...... but your going to pay for everything. If shes a good girl..... she'll tell you that shes going to buy you a drink. I only say to pay for everything because this is more of a date - you've got her. This doesn't apply to women you JUST met in the bar.....

~Haz~

Well done sir

[Art Vandelay]

Just don´t drop the L word to fast, tiger. LOL

I know right?

To orig poster... From the sound of your post man, it sounds like you haven't been seein her for that long. If that's the case, I'm not sure that sweepin her off her feet would be the way to go lol... But then again ,you didn't say either way.

If you like her and wanna her to be yours, just take control like people have said.

Don't let there be instances of "awkward" silence... They're brutal.. Don't get it twisted though... There IS gonna be silince, of course. Just don't let it get awkward, ya know? Don't be insecure and think it's bad. Silence is golden sometimes... And there's ALWAYS stuff to talk about... Sh'it, if ya have to talk about the silence and how people think it HAS to be awkward lol.


You seem like a cool cat, just have confidence. Girls, (well everyone) eats it up! Walk around with a little swagger.... lol, but not some pimp limpin, double dippin swag. Us whiteboys can do it right too. Our own way.


You got it bro. Just make it happen captain...

[boz]

While your having sex with her doggie style, slip it in her balloon knot. That always seems to "wow" the ladies.

and far out ranging aka Mr.Elaborate

Just be yourself mate, and remember to enjoy yourself and always try to make her laugh but not to much.

[ArmedHammerd]

just be yourself and if she asks if you like to watch porn tell her the truth lol