Girl left her facebook logged in.......

[RyanRoss]

I thought I was on my page, but it was actually hers. This caught me really off guard and I don't even know how to approach it.

There was a conversation between her and this guy....He asked about what she did last night.

She said she stayed in with some friends, watched a movie...then went to bed. (She was with me, watching a movie, then left at 10PM...)

What bothers me about this is there is 1 of 2 possibilities here:

1. She didn't go home when she left my house like she told me...so she basically lied to me.

2. She doesn't want this guy to think she has a boyfriend.....

I'm pretty upset, but I don't know how to approach this....Should I bet upset? Honestly I'm pissed. Either outcome with this is total bullshit.

[Big]

hmmm, awkward. she told me she didn't have a boy friend. it's cool bro, I'll back off....

[D7M]

Sorry to hear that bro, but she's hiding the fact that she has a boyfriend for a reason.

Kick her to the curb.

[RyanRoss]

Sorry to hear that bro, but she's hiding the fact that she has a boyfriend for a reason.

Kick her to the curb.

Yeah, doesn't make sense to me because she has it public on the page that she does....Confusing.

[RANA]

Does her FB say she is single or in a relationship

[RyanRoss]

Does her FB say she is single or in a relationship

in a relationship with me, that's what is confusing.

[RyanRoss]

hmmm, awkward. she told me she didn't have a boy friend. it's cool bro, I'll back off....

I appreciate the humor bro. I'll look back on this and laugh when i'm not so damn mad.

[D7M]

hmmm, awkward. she told me she didn't have a boy friend. it's cool bro, I'll back off....

[Dont wanna be old]

Sit back and relax friend .

If you hold a butterfly in your hand and squeeze , you have a dead butterfly .

You hold a butterfly in a open hand , you have something beautiful that wants to be with you .

Of coarse she doesn't want him to know she is with someone .
But she's with you , Theirs always going to be guys trying to make talk with your girl when she's hot .

You wanna be happy the rest of your life ?
Make a ugly women your wife !

[RyanRoss]

Sorry to hear that bro, but she's hiding the fact that she has a boyfriend for a reason.

Kick her to the curb.

In the process of this right now.

[RANA]

I have learned that FB can cause numerous issues with a relationship. I would confront her, not sure if I could stay with her.

[RyanRoss]

I have learned that FB can cause numerous issues with a relationship. I would confront her, not sure if I could stay with her.

She just tried telling me that it was her MOM on her account.....that would even make sense but for some reason I'm not buying it at all.

[RyanRoss]

Dumped. To hell with this. This has just motivated me to come out stronger from college. I'm going to do a cycle--yeah, that's right. I'm going to cycle, and plow into every freaking slut I can from now on and kick them all to the curb. I'm too mad to even be upset or hurt now.

[PT]

she is bs'ing you. she dosnt want the guy to think your in a serious relationship. you can leave her but if you do she will be banging the other guy within 2 weeks

[RyanRoss]

she is bs'ing you. she dosnt want the guy to think your in a serious relationship. you can leave her but if you do she will be banging the other guy within 2 weeks

I'll be banging her mom within 2 hours.

[RANA]

I'll be banging her mom within 2 hours.

Dont forget pics...lol
Good luck

[spywizard]

dude, i've had a vasectomy... I suggest you get one too..

What i want to know is if she was at your house til 10pm.. why the hell did she not get to mine til 11:45???

Is she running an add on craigslist or what??

Jk man... kick that to the curb... dating is dating, you aren't married..

[yannick35]

Dumb her after all if you cannot thrust her at the start of a relation what will it be in a few months.

Plenty of other good women out there don't worry

[RyanRoss]

Dont forget pics...lol
Good luck

Her moms outta the question, if it was possible I'd do it. I'm just going to plow sluts as much as possible. I was in a serious relationship for 4 years and that one really messed me up. This one won't be as bad.

[spywizard]

she is bs'ing you. she dosnt want the guy to think your in a serious relationship. you can leave her but if you do she will be banging the other guy within 2 weeks

2 weeks my ass, she showed up here with a apple pie...

good for you man.. hit it and quit it..

[Charlie6]

dude i know how ya feel, FB is ****ed up and creates stress and anxiety...that's why I actually ballsed up and deactivated mine (yea...that's right, I got rid of it).

And also, girls in general are a ****ing hassle - after my last relationship that was just twisted and created lots of anxiety for me, i'm flyin single and gettin ***** only.

don't get back together with her.

[RyanRoss]

dude i know how ya feel, FB is ****ed up and creates stress and anxiety...that's why I actually ballsed up and deactivated mine (yea...that's right, I got rid of it).

And also, girls in general are a ****ing hassle - after my last relationship that was just twisted and created lots of anxiety for me, i'm flyin single and gettin ***** only.

don't get back together with her.

Trust me I won't. She's trying to tell me that it was her mom talking to this guy (just found out hes a boy of mine from the gym!!!)

The funny thing is, supposedly at 9:40 when her 'mom' was talking to tommy, was the exact same time her 'mom' was talking to me. WOWWWWWWW. UNREAL.

[stack_it]

Isn't she pregnant with your baby?

[Nicotine]

Yeah, doesn't make sense to me because she has it public on the page that she does....Confusing.

either he hasnt looked in her info tab

OR

he doesnt care, cuz he's banging your gf.

ditch the slut to the curb...and go on her facebook page logged in as her, and change all her likes and interests to "fisting" "watersports" "Scat" etc etc.

at least have fun with it!

[pjpogz]

A better idea would be to stay with her and bang OTHER chicks on the side. Why not have your cake and eat it too?

The best revenge is to bang a few chicks and she's on the assumption that you're being a loyal BF lol. A bit cold hearted but it should clear up your issues of jealousy.

[Dont wanna be old]

Didn't you have a post last month wanting people to call a guy in Florida that was stalking your girl ?

Or is this a new girl ?

Take my advice and get a ugly women , you'll never have a problem .

[Nicotine]

Didn't you have a post last month wanting people to call a guy in Florida that was stalking your girl ?

Or is this a new girl ?

Take my advice and get a ugly women , you'll never have a problem .

like looks matter.

beauty is only a light switch away.

[RyanRoss]

Dumped.....Not gonna lie, it hurts. This was the sweetest girl I have ever been with in my life and she was very good to me, but, I won't tolerate lies.....I am mad, angry, upset, all at the same time because we really had something good. I thought I had someone good...This girl did everything for me, and she can so easily lie to my face at the same time....I'll never understand.....

[Nicotine]

it's the "best ones" and "sweetest ones" you often have to worry about.

either way - sorry to hear....at the same time: better now than later (being a child, or live in relationship, or marriage)

[RyanRoss]

it's the "best ones" and "sweetest ones" you often have to worry about.

either way - sorry to hear....at the same time: better now than later (being a child, or live in relationship, or marriage)

I'm glad it happened now. She was about to move in with me!!!!!

[Nicotine]

then be happy it happened this way.

you'll find another, no worries.

[DSM4Life]

You invaded her privacy. The excuse that you just "stumbled" upon her FB page os BS. How did you "stumble" into reading her conversations. Your jealousy just shinned through.

[apython]

A better idea would be to stay with her and bang OTHER chicks on the side. Why not have your cake and eat it too?

The best revenge is to bang a few chicks and she's on the assumption that you're being a loyal BF lol. A bit cold hearted but it should clear up your issues of jealousy.

That's what I would do.

[RyanRoss]

You invaded her privacy. The excuse that you just "stumbled" upon her FB page os BS. How did you "stumble" into reading her conversations. Your jealousy just shinned through.

She left it logged in when she left and she kept the conversations from this morning open. Yeah a guys IM caught my eye, of course I'm going to look.

[spywizard]

Dumped.....Not gonna lie, it hurts. This was the sweetest girl I have ever been with in my life and she was very good to me, but, I won't tolerate lies.....I am mad, angry, upset, all at the same time because we really had something good. I thought I had someone good...This girl did everything for me, and she can so easily lie to my face at the same time....I'll never understand.....

All kidding aside, ending a relationship is just like a death, there are stages that you go through, remorse and all but in the end, time heals all..

Good luck..

[amcon]

damn it im caught again... damn im good at getting the girls over but alway get caught?

dont tell my wife or call here either ... shoot!!!

lol lol lol jk

[RyanRoss]

So I just found out this girl was telling the total and complete truth. If anyone wants me to actually post how I know this let me know, because there were a couple of strange coincidences but everything added up from the get go....I was just too mad to even listen to her try to explain.

God I am a FAIL at relationships!!

Screw it, I'll just post how.

This girls family are conservative Catholics, and she goes to a private school for girls only. She respects her family's wishes and doesn't stay the night with me (they believe its best to wait til married...and all that, I respect it).

She stayed the night with me Saturday for the first time ever, and lied to her family and told them she was staying at her friends in order to stay with me. So when I saw this conversation where her mom was actually on her facebook, she said 'I stayed at a friends'. that's what the reference was to. The catch .22 is that in order for the truth to be proven, she had to call her mom and tell her that she stayed with me, and explained the situation. Her mother calls and says, "Ryan.......that was me on her chat. She lied to me, and so did you!! You are a bad influence on my daughter. *click* " So not only did I lose the girl, I feel like the biggest asshole on the planet. This has just been a hell of a ride for me. Next thing you know I'll date some girl and end up shitting in her shower and trying to clean it out with a boner.

[amcon]

bro dont blame your self... where there is smoke there is fire - she could have messaged him then deleted it... her fam would have never known

in stead the dude not thinks she is not attached to you and he can run his game... keep your eyes wide open

good luck

[RANA]

Dude sorry to hear

[CBGB]

It is what it is





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